FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you go......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No.... not in a sexual way, but in distance.

We love our weekend breaks in nice country retreat hotels, so for us travelling for a meet is not really a problem. I'd go so far to say that we'd probably travel a fair distance for the right meet.

How many other people are willing to travel some distance for a meet, and what's the furthest you've travelled? More to the point was it worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not far for normal meets given that I’ve found a lot of people disappear very quickly when things get real.

I think we would travel long distance to go to a new club maybe, and get a hotel and make a weekend of it x

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I have traveled 240 miles each way before. It was worth it.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Furthest I've travelled is 2 hours. Four hour round trip. Prefer a bit more local these days, so quite happy to travel for an hour for the right couple/girl.

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

In normal times we travel 3hrs each way often to visit our favourite club.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

I went from Lobdon to Bolton on the train...guess what....a no show

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

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By *orthAngusCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Angus

It's all adds to the adventure if make a trip away out of it xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

An hour away at most. My free time is limited so wouldn't want to spend more time travelling than actually at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest i’ve travelled is about an hour. Although a woman took a 3hr train ride to meet me once, I was blown away that she came so far but it sure was worth it x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Always been happy to travel distance for a quality meeting

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By *rancis6Couple
over a year ago

sale

we usualy travel about 45 mins and thats it

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By *ockatwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

79 mile and definitely worth it.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My Feb lives about an hour from me so I'd say an HR unless it's something special

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I went to Wales once after chatting to a couple the last was a sub they said I could stay the weekend I remember driving down thinking I bet it a waste of time lucky it weren’t this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd go as far as the Scottish Borders.........

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"No.... not in a sexual way, but in distance.

We love our weekend breaks in nice country retreat hotels, so for us travelling for a meet is not really a problem. I'd go so far to say that we'd probably travel a fair distance for the right meet.

How many other people are willing to travel some distance for a meet, and what's the furthest you've travelled? More to the point was it worth it?

Once Travelled to Devon from the Northeast, yes it was worth it, I'd been chatting to her for a while, she bought the train tickets posted them both to me, open return. I was to refund her once there or we'd go halves.

I stayed at hers all weekend. It was well worth it.

Locally 30 odd miles, yes most of them, been let down couple of times too though.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Maybe fab needs an add on to show how far your willing to travel as some's idea of travel is the next street while others is other side of country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 hours....it was worth it and had several return trips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to travel from London to Southend by train to meet a guy, but that's when I could be bothered (and he was worth it of course). These days I prefer local meets. But if a guy is prerpared to collect me and drop me back home then distance usnt a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.... not in a sexual way, but in distance.

We love our weekend breaks in nice country retreat hotels, so for us travelling for a meet is not really a problem. I'd go so far to say that we'd probably travel a fair distance for the right meet.

How many other people are willing to travel some distance for a meet, and what's the furthest you've travelled? More to the point was it worth it?

I oils to mind travelling 1000 miles for the right people and worse case it’s an excuse just to get away for a few nights xx love exploring new places xx

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

No objection to traveling any distance, love to travel to New places and have fun while I'm there

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We once traveled 180 miles (each way) to meet another couple & yes it was worth it.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I'd happily travel to meet the right person, but if it were more than a short trip I'd be sure to have a back-up plan of sightseeing or something, just in case!

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By *exytwo4funCouple
over a year ago

Scotland, Liverpool, Manchester, London

We are more than happy to travel as far as needed to meet the right people as we tend to make a weekend away of it. The furthest we travelled was down to Cornwall which was about a 16 hours round trip.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Distant not an issue for us. If the conversation develops and it all feels good then we’d happily travel to meet genuine decent people. Local is always a bonus but we don’t dismiss due to distance.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s hard to imagine life without some people, certain friends, lovers etc even the ones you maybe only get see once or twice a year so if I thought a new person may be worth it I’d travel any distance. Have travelled to Dubai with a friend to meet a couple once and in the UK SW & SE fairly often. If you only look local you will miss the best opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy travelling, so I don’t mind going anywhere. However, I don’t think I’d travel purely for a meet. I’d probably fit it in around another reason to visit (work, a break away, seeing friends etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found in the past the further person travel has to travel more likely a no show. So now it's local meets only so an hour drive at the most.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We can't travel far and don't expect anyone we meet to do so. Distance just increases the hassle factor so we'd much rather meet someone who's staying in a hotel close to us and enjoy a stress free time.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Maybe for people we have met before not sure we would travel that far for a first meet would be to worried about getting stood up or ghosted

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By *nottygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgowshire

I'm happy to travel as I enjoy travelling and so would encompass a meet with a break and that way if the meet wasn't good I'd have had an enjoyable break ??

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It wasnt a FAB meet, but in the past Ive travelled regularly over a 100 miles for a meet as a sub, so wasnt even a meet for sex and it was worth it

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

All the way. I'm not gonna turn around at the halfway point am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 hour round trip regularly. It was very worth it.

For some people I wouldn't travel to the end of the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it depends, I'm looking for a reg playmate so him being too far would be unhelpful.

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By *lectra69TV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkish

To the Moon and back for the right person or couple - lol

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I wouldn’t travel any distance for a complete stranger so social in my hometown first .

Going forward post COVID restrictions I’m going to add meet at a club or even at an organised social , so if things don’t “pan out” ... it will still be a good night ,

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As we enjoy traveling to visit clubs, we don’t mind travelling for meets.

Furthest so far has been over 2 hours each way, some for over nighters and others for a few hours socialising.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Chicago from the U.K. is probably the furthest we went for a meet. We did know the lady before though and she invited us to a party she was throwing so thought why not. Made a long weekend of it.

As for first time meets, no real limit, as long as it looks like an interesting place we’re fine with it. Worst case we have each other and have seen somewhere new. Best case we have each other, a new friend and have seen somewhere new.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've went from Milton Keynes to a meet in hartlepool and back again in same night. Left mine at 6pm got there around 9pm. Was there for 3 hours and drove home at midnight. This was a few years ago mind but driving home was a killer as I was so shattered but luckily the motorway was quiet. In the end I pulled up into a service and had an hour sleep. Not sure I wanna repeat that experience lol but saying that, this one time, I met up with a lady at a public park and things got heated and it was around 9pm wanted to take her home when realised they lock the car park at 8pm so she took a taxi and I slept in my car overnight. The things I do

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"No.... not in a sexual way, but in distance.

We love our weekend breaks in nice country retreat hotels, so for us travelling for a meet is not really a problem. I'd go so far to say that we'd probably travel a fair distance for the right meet.

How many other people are willing to travel some distance for a meet, and what's the furthest you've travelled? More to the point was it worth it?

I'd travel anywhere if I thought it was worth it but I'd have a back up plan of places to visit in case I was ghosted with a no show.

Love travel and visiting new places anyway

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

As far as Edinburgh but this also gave me time to catch up with old friends as well from when I used to live in Scotland so very much worth it as a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind a road trip at all, quite enjoy the adventure of it all. By the time I got somewhere it would either be an event or I’d know a person well enough to at least have a good time in any context.

But I suppose I am very infrequent within this world so the above is more possible etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

return trip of 270 miles for 1 hour of fun, many times X

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By *argoyleMan
over a year ago

dudley

About an hour/50 miles for a "new" meet. Further if I knew the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 700 miles, including 2 flights each way, to spend a few hours with a woman I met online (not fab) in the certain knowledge that sex would not be the outcome.

And hell yes it was worth it. Most intimate night of my life.

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By *LKBBWMILFWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yorkshire and London, but I prefer very local now x

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

An hour usually.

But I am planning on going to Wales and making a weekend of it. Around a 5 hour journey for me to get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

went to italy and got a no show but did have a great time now i travel 2.5 hrs to see my fuck buddy

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By *ainbowCheesecakeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

When this is all over we dont really mind travelling anywhere. We dont get much kid free time so when we do we would probably use it as an excuse to take a couple nights away and see a new area while also having a meet as part of it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest I've travelled is from Birmingham to Newport, was a weekend meet what fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre covid we happy travel the length of the country for a nice couple / person if we had been chatting a bit or previously met in a club etc. We always did enjoy making a weekend out of a night away lol

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I will travel far and wide for events, weekends away and clubs.

For one off meets 45 minutes max. The reason is because it generally takes me two hours to get ready for a meeting than add on an hour and a half driving there and back and that's almost a whole evening gone and I haven't even had sex yet. Sometimes the sex only lasts 20 minutes so that's quite a lot of effort on my part just for a guy unload.

I prefer to accommodate so I have more time to get ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to Essex which is 4 hours away from me, for a meet once. Totally worth it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only travel about 7 miles to my local club. I arrange to meet guys there. However if the guy lives more than 30 miles from the club then i won't arrange to meet them as they rarely turn up.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The furthest I’ve travelled for a private meet was 90 miles each way, and it was a fantastic 121

The furthest I’ve travelled for a club visit was 105 miles each way. I’ll not be doing that again

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"We are more than happy to travel as far as needed to meet the right people as we tend to make a weekend away of it. The furthest we travelled was down to Cornwall which was about a 16 hours round trip."

Is same as me , i myself done the same 10h driving to St Austell in Cornwall and surprise mine this lovely couple friend of mine they sold me a classic guitar that i have been looking for years and years but never founded because so rare they are

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

If it's for the right venue or people then any distance really. We'll just book a nice hotel, take the bikes (cycling) and make a weekend of it. Regularly drive over to Holland for Fun4Two.

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