FabSwingers.com forum: Does age matter?

By *issysbee69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

ok so Im a 51f and married to a 53m. but when I look for "fwb" I want younger guys. Preference... guys in their 30s...

(Plus I think they keep up with me better)

Is there a age preference with yall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. 20-35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have an age preference but I seem to be attracted or attract guys mainly in their 30’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a guy thats not young enough to be our son, just doesn't sit right but everyone has their own preferences

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

as long as they are legal and within a reasonable gap then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer a guy thats not young enough to be our son, just doesn't sit right but everyone has their own preferences "

I’m the same, my eldest is 20 and any age near that is a no

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By *issysbee69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

I must say that I wont go younger than 32. My son will be 31 (in 3 days) and Im not trying to have a mommy relationship in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as their attractive, can hold a conversation and have a laugh with us, age doesn't matter

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does Not Matter At All...

Just would need to generally get on and have an attraction. Helps if can have a laugh about things. That's a decent start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say as long as they legal, it’s consensual then have at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And of course goes without saying of legal age!

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

I definitely prefer women 35+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people my age or older in all aspectsof my life.... men I prefer much older, bonus points if a silver fox ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my limitations as I've got older, and prefer to meet people around my own age

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My eldest is 29 so I won't meet anyone within 10 years of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28 and dont care what age a women is but I like a man a bit older, 40s

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Don't have an age preference as such it's more how I connect with them, I however seem to attract guys in their 20's and 30's

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

For us the spark needs to be there. That tends to be people 30 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really mind about age. Unless they made it weird, but asides from that not really

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Fem won’t go under 25 because of being a mum. Personally I can separate the two

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'm attracted men in their 30s but I'm so sick of the selfish attitude of most of them. I am not very demanding, but that doesn't mean I don't want or need some attention!!

I won't see anyone in their early 30s from now on. Hopefully I can find someone who appreciates giving as well as receiving

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

No age preference, plays have been mainly at clubs so I won't go looking for a neet who less than half my age

That said older guys do it for me . Don't do dad bods or those that can't see there own cock over a belly

I'm 45 and fucked a guy in his 70s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have a preference.

I’m 27 & I prefer men 35+.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I had a message from a 20 year old, I thanked her for the message and then told her I was old enough to be her grandad never thought I would say, but she got a thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm... I’m up and down. Depends about the connection and mood

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"My eldest is 29 so I won't meet anyone within 10 years of that. "

Probably my flaw, but I don't understand this logic, what if you had a brother or sister aged 40 would you not meet anyone with in 10 years of that either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd there is chemistry absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are hot all their lives other get better with age.

I'm not attracted to women under 30 which is probably a good thing as they are probably not attracted to me.

Hot is just hot it hasn't really got an age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer guys my age or a little older. I seem to attract younger guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not worried about the age (legal obviously) it's all about how they make me feel. Hubby loves seeing me with all ages also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally both me and the FB prefer folks no younger than thirty and much prefer our own age group or around 45-55 but I think it's much more complicated than that and this is one of those threads that can be grouped with how you find a physical and mental connection with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have an age preference really, if there is an attraction and chemistry age doesn't come into it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so Im a 51f and married to a 53m. but when I look for "fwb" I want younger guys. Preference... guys in their 30s...

(Plus I think they keep up with me better)

Is there a age preference with yall?"

Same for my wife.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’m 46, my preference varies as I’ve had some great sex with people 18 years younger than me and also people older...

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes. We prefer nearer our age as we may have body issues playing with younger gym fit people plus we cant keep up as you say. Feels wrong with people our off springs age plus they might know them as well. Lots of reasons and issues but our preference is near our own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 41 and A is 56...but when looking for single males prefer younger. 23 ish is about my limit

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes it does for us as we're just nit attracted to older folks. What I mean by older is closer to 60 than 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does for us as we're just nit attracted to older folks. What I mean by older is closer to 60 than 30."

40 is perfect then x gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to go for older meets. Xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love younger, love older. Im not Ageist so don't discriminate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so Im a 51f and married to a 53m. but when I look for "fwb" I want younger guys. Preference... guys in their 30s...

(Plus I think they keep up with me better)

Is there a age preference with yall?"

Eww

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yep we like to meet couples and females around our age, however we’ve had some amazing fun with younger couples too.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't care. Legal, hot and enthusiastically consenting. I've been lucky enough to go over a decade in both directions.

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

I prefer men and women over 35.. mentality of people older just seems to be more for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as for age its nice to have somebody around your own age group. I just think inviting a 18YO male (for example) would be a disaster, not much experience and also literally just gagging for a shag without caring.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Nope.. I don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of those I have met have been 25 to 40. I won't meet younger than my kids, but age is largely irrelevant.

I genuinely think that men and women, if they had skills to start with, get better with age. I certainly feel I am now than in my 20s, in some ways.

And to me a woman is either sexy or not. Age has little to do with it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t get the age thing.

Are they friendly fun....are they hot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No age preferences at all, age has nothing to do with if I find you attractive or not. Age can relate to confidence or experience but not always, so I don’t let it worry me.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Wife likes guys in there 30s

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I like women in their late 20's and 30's. Mainly because I think they have worked out who they are and what they want. I'm sure younger probably have and I like older women. It's just my perception, whether right or wrong.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

I adore a younger man, I love being a cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person and the attraction, you meet someone who was your age and not like them but see someone who’s 10 years younger or older and fancy the ass off them and just get on like a house on fire so all depends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer our age or younger but if the attitude is right older isn't a problem

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Wouldn't consider anyone under 55 far too young!!!

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By *corpio 50Man
over a year ago

waterlooville

Hi hello well age is just a number has I was told many times and us older people still gave great sex and very reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello from the opposite end of the spectrum

I’m happy to meet people my age but I much prefer meeting women and couples older than me, I’ve had some great experiences with a neighbour in her 50s when I was 18-19 and it’s really made me appreciate an older woman, much more fun and there’s more chemistry

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

yeh i prefer much older men, im 19 but prefer men in their 40/50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference really,as long as they have their own teeth

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Younger guys 28ish to 35ish is our range it seems. Didn't think it would be an issue but when early twenties especially females show an interest to meet it really throws us, just feels too young.

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By *ountrylad19Man
over a year ago

travel all over with work x

To me no! Aslong as you’re attracted physically and respect each other !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of people saying age doesn’t matter who have age filters on!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

She put of if there old than her bad lol but I will fuck all age's there are some really hot 60s on here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so Im a 51f and married to a 53m. but when I look for "fwb" I want younger guys. Preference... guys in their 30s...

(Plus I think they keep up with me better)

Is there a age preference with yall?"

Yes I normally have guys in their 40’s as fwb’s. All down to energy and stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer my age or older

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Not at all, we don’t use age as a deciding factor however we have tended to find couples in their late forties or older work for us but we are bout put off by older or younger.

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By *nottygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgowshire

When I was younger I was attracted to older men. Now I'm attracted to younger guys. I'm attracted to women of any age who are sexy, good figure, educated to a certain degree, decent standards.

I do wonder what people think when they read my age on here?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sort of, not really

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By *oungturkishMan
over a year ago

Bodrum

prefer older

especially 40 to 48

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I prefer similar age or older for relationships, as I find it much easier to connect on cognitive and emotional levels.

Having said that I'm not averse to a kinky fling with someone significantly younger or older if there is a spark and good connection.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm attracted to younger than me, but still would go older too

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Always preferred older than me

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

A preference yes but there’s flexibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 26 but prefer women 40+.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

39m here...tend to go for same age or older f.

A lot younger would make me feel uncomfortable

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Like experience, does that have an age level?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm 44, so 30+ generally, unless there's a real spark. Definitely no under 25s and not over 50's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me age is just a number (obvs 18+), people’s maturity is more important imo

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

It does to us

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

In our experience it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so Im a 51f and married to a 53m. but when I look for "fwb" I want younger guys. Preference... guys in their 30s...

(Plus I think they keep up with me better)

Is there a age preference with yall?"

I prefer younger or same age but neither matters if they can’t engage my mind. I get bored very quickly with the daily check-in of “hi how’s you”

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By *UNISHR23Man
over a year ago

heathrow

I’ve been between the range of 18-70 lol.

testing the waters ! Must say I do love a 40+ woman who likes to act in control

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By *corpio 50Man
over a year ago

waterlooville

Older man here just 70 love getting messages and meets when we can again .think us older men have a lot to offer

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

In terms of what?????

Wine Is a yes

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