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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else’s feel that on couples profiles the male half’s pics are just as important as the females (if your looking for mfmf thressomes)

It’s generally loads of pics of the wife.

Thoughts ??

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Yep, need to have both for us to be interested . I (boobs) do most of the browsing so my interest is mostly looking towards the male half. Very lacking on most profiles . And those that do appear are generally poor quality .

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I suspect it's due to solo female photos from a couple gather much more interest than solo male photos from said couple..

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does anyone else’s feel that on couples profiles the male half’s pics are just as important as the females (if your looking for mfmf thressomes)

It’s generally loads of pics of the wife.

Thoughts ??"

Yes, both are important for MFM meets & for any other types of meet-ups

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By *erts NNCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

MrHertsNN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%.

both equally important

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got a couple of pics and don't feel any more is necessary until you've gained our trust and friendship.

Then the dirty stuff comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is my profile lacking in pics ??? ... and what type of ones do women and men preferably like to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've got a couple of pics and don't feel any more is necessary until you've gained our trust and friendship.

Then the dirty stuff comes out."

Completely agree !

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We have both of us in the display pic as we think it’s important that couples profiles represent both people.

Since we have both of us as the display pic, we have lesser views than when it was just a picture of Kleo on her own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have loads more of me but a good representation of Mr. We just assume that if the guy isn't in the pictures he's not going to be involved so we know we're not going to be compatible. Experience has shown this to be true for us.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We find it's because you can do so much more with a female body in terms of outfits etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me. "

Exactly this. We always find it strange if a couples profile only has pictures of 1 half of the couple, kinda sets the alarm bells ringing straight off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, as a straight woman I'd only ever want to play with the man in a couple anyway and there's always very few pics of the men. But I guess it's more about who they're trying to attract.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree, as a straight woman I'd only ever want to play with the man in a couple anyway and there's always very few pics of the men. But I guess it's more about who they're trying to attract. "

We assume that now. Whatever the profile text says we assume of there are no pictures of the guy that he doesn't want to be involved. Our admittedly limited experience of this dynamic is that they want bisexual women.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We are a bit guilty of that though at least we do have some of Mr B on the profile (some have none!)

Main reasons are that Mr B takes a better photo and enjoys taking them and Mrs B is a better (more photogenic) model who can’t really be arsed to take a picture!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with this totally it’s difficult for guys to find decent sexy underwear other than the obvious CK’s xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me. "

Well it was there mistake you looks amazing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We come across this a lot, or even sometimes no pictures at all of the male half of the couple. I can't understand it

Her x

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't need to see "special" sexy underwear or poses ...fully clothes /naked/ clean underwear will do . I want to see who I potentially will be playing with , and without having to go through 74 pics of Mrs before stumbling upon a grainy photo of the Mr

It has been my experience that the lack of the male photos often means that he doesn't play , at all ! Just watch and in one case just chauffeurs her around and waits in the lounge

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me.

Well it was there mistake you looks amazing xxx"

Thanks.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We feel the same but fall into the same trap! I hate having my photo taken but love to take photos of M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazes me, especially when they're looking for a single lady!

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me. "

His loss. I'd definitely be interested, you look gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP. A couples profile should represent both in the couple if theyre wanting to meet other couples or single women or bi guys. That changes of course if its only the wife meeting or only the husband meeting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I find it quite insulting that anyone would expect me to meet when I'm the only one of the four who hasn't seen a picture of my prospective partner. If I'm that unimportant to them at the start god knows how I'd be treated on a meet. Actually I know how, we twice made the rookie error of meeting couples where they were very reluctant to send pictures of the man. Each time it was clear that he wasn't interested in me.

His loss. I'd definitely be interested, you look gorgeous x"

Thanks.

I'm a grown up, I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I don't like arriving at a meet to find that despite discussing things before, the other man in the couple just wants to watch his partner with my partner or with me (despite the fact that I'm straight) . Actually everyone loses because we all go home disappointed

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