FabSwingers.com forum: would you take an ex back

By *rueGent28 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

is it right to take an ex back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. They are an ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

Nooooo

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't anyhow my ex's are that for a reason.

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By *adybuggjoWoman
over a year ago

yucca valley

Well it depends what he did

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

One the best peices of advice, never look backwards and never take an ex back.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Nope.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'd rather stick hot pokers in myself

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'd rather stick hot pokers in myself "

I feel this a LOT

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Nah but I'd fuck a few

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No. I venture on to pastures new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would rather drag my bare clit over broken glass-covered burning coals while rubbing onions into my eyeballs on the end of blunt needles.. All the while having bamboo shoots shoved under my nails and papercuts given between my toes.

No.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not my ex wife, but certainly an ex girlfriend, that I’m still in

with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All contextual isn’t it. Could be someone from your first adult relationship from decades ago or someone recently who was just no good for you. I’d never be bitter or emotionally informed from previous relationships, waste of mental and emotional space.

But I wouldn’t, in the vast majority of cases. I have no thoughts or desires particularly. Would you OP?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Yeah I'd take him back... Back towards the slimey hole he crawled out from... Then I'd petrol bomb the fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would rather drag my bare clit over broken glass-covered burning coals while rubbing onions into my eyeballs on the end of blunt needles.. All the while having bamboo shoots shoved under my nails and papercuts given between my toes.

No.

Px"

Can you stop sitting on the fence and just explain your thoughts either way?

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I'd take bk one of my exs but most of my exs I stayed friends with, unless it was a bad breakup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Would you take an ex back?"

I tried, but they wouldn't give me a refund

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the reasons the relationship ended first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Px"

So there is maybe a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say what you mean, stop beating about the bush. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for sex.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. There mostly dead

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I don't have one.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

It would depend on the specific circumstances of the break-up, and the intervening period; both parties would have moved on in the interim and reinstatement of the (new) relationship would require careful renegotiation.

Sometimes it can be case of "Better the devil you know..."

But the key requirement would be an elevated level of sexual chemistry, and she would still have to be keen on swinging with other (hot) couples!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I would prefer to rub my vagina with lighter fluid and set fire to it than get back with any of my ex’s. I really think it’s unwise to go backwards after moving on

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Ive never taken an ex back , once that trust has been broken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather stick pins in my eyes. I hope he reads this!

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

Yes......

But I wish the answer was no as that would mean I was over him

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I did once. Never again.

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg

Its a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Just so I get the chance to tell her I don't fancy her and I don't want to grow old with her. Then say I want a divorce.

See how SHE likes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes......

But I wish the answer was no as that would mean I was over him

Hugs.

Same. Xx

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes......

But I wish the answer was no as that would mean I was over him

You're being honest. Respects to you. X

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Hmmm actually my last ex... possibly. It wont happen, at least not in the near future but maybe.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends. Relationships and partners are best chosen on what's appropriate at the time. Whilst we may have had a period apart, it still doesn't mean that we'll ever be compatible.

Sometimes the harder choices are the right ones. And the lazy ones don't strengthen us

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Nopenever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather gouge my eyes out. I was to soft byt i aint that bloody stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not! Ofcourse easy said than in realty.

I would take back. Love and hate are two sides of coin. So when I come to know what is what I would take her back..

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Would take my ex back in a heartbeat

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Hell no!

It was the most stupid fucked up thing I ever did getting back with an ex so no, I would rather follow quacksplat than ever get back with an ex again.

Getting over them is far easier than the hell you will go through if you ever get back with an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, use each other!

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Did he upset you in some way ??

No.

Px"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one id like to try agsin with, see if we could make it work, it mostly failed as we were both busy with work and family, just not enough hours in the day.

But other than that, nope, not a chance.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Fuck no

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not... They are an ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take someone else's ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I would. No doubt

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

No . But I would fuck her in the back of the van.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it right to take an ex back?"

Not a chance, When you kiss or lick all you can taste is dick Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. That bridge did finally burn and I count my blessings... He is somebody else's problem now!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

No way, point of no return passed a long time ago

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

One in particular yes. We were never officially a couple, she lived in Germany I lived in the UK, but we would regularly meet up when I was visiting. Because we were never officially a couple we never broke up, life just got in the way. We still meet up from time to time for a coffee or dinner and chat about old times and what could have been. Still massive sparks between us but we know we just can't go there and that is after 30 years.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

"Yes......

But I wish the answer was no as that would mean I was over him

You're being honest. Respects to you. X"

Thanks.... it's a cluster fuck really.... he said he doesn't want a committed relationship and I know we're perfect together besides that one detail.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"is it right to take an ex back?"
I'm currently with my ex from when I was 18/19.

It's the best thing I've ever done. I also on and off had one of my exs for 20plus years till last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck my first Missus regular, we'd never have a committed relationship though as both of us agree it would never work.

We just enjoy good sex together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are an ex for a reason.. Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mine lied about a 19 year history of domestic abuse charges, definitely fucking not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Both my ex's NO! 2nd one has exclusions zones and no contact orders on.

Fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a fucking chance the only one i have a regret with is not fucking her sister after the breakup... damn she was fine and she literally threw herself at me. i guess i just couldnt do it though at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for all the money in the world x

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Depends on the ex, the reasons for splitting, how much growth you've both had since...

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Never never never.

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

None of them, was told that you should never go back at it never works second time around.

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

hooked up with ex bf in past (long time ago) but I would never touch my ex hubby ever again

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

No.

Px"

You still got a thing for him then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it right to take an ex back?"

Love Is Love....Down to yourself really. Can go either way. Can be multiple times. Also can be ulterior motives.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Depends on the person / people involved, and the circumstances. But I would assume, in most instances, they're an ex for a reason, so probably not a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The past only holds you back. Learn the lessons, grow, be a better person and find the next love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Not a chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one, absolutely yes. Assuming the situation has changed.

He is all I ever wanted and it was magical. Just sadly we met at the wrong time

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By *ssexhamptonMan
over a year ago

Rayleigh

No.

Px"

Put you down as a maybe then?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"is it right to take an ex back?"
no she was a miserable woman. And that was before she met me.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes I would.

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Depends on the reasons and terms you separated. Good terms and we split because our lives where taking a different path then yes

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Would I take an ex back? No chance, means taking the patio up......

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

No.

Px"

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Have done if we sorted stuff out between us and thought it had a chance of working.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends why you split up I guess. Sometimes you can be with the right person at the wrong time.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

No I learnt my lesson as taking back or getting back with an ex takes parts you that you can’t get back. I’m speaking mentally wise and I learned that the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND THRICE NO..not the one I’m thinking of anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

My daughters dad nope not no way

A guy from my 20s im still in touch with - in a heartbeat. Both totally different breakups obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! My partner broke up with me during lockdown last year and his true colours came out so he made it, eventually, quite easy for me to get over him. I could never go back to a man like like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it right to take an ex back?"

Absolutely not in my case. But others sure do.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Each to their own. Seen reconciliations work, even the ones I thought absolutely no chance but on they go so who bloody knows.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I guess it would depend on why they are an ex.

I'd rather have cancer again than take my ex husband back at least with cancer I'd a chance of making it out alive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm... I’ve always had the thought what if.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I remember my hubby’s ex trying to win him back... she even answered the door as her robe fell open, talk about desperate measures

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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Never ever in my long legged life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually there is one ex that I would take back no questions asked.

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By *ice and PeasCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Nope they are an ex for a reason

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"is it right to take an ex back?"

No! You can have sex with them. But no without a damn good reason why would you?

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