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Who has the higher sex drive?

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By *r Sensual OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Men or women? Keen to hear people’s views and the reason for their answer

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It's down to the individual not their gender lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (male) have a higher Sex drive than my partner (woman).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had higher than most of my partners

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

My Mrs definitely.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Definitely myself Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has always had a higher sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine and mels are very high all the time

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I don't think the question should be who has a higher sex drive. As in both sexes you'd find people with lower sex drive and higher sex drive. Throughout the centuries, it was always men, however, who were portrayed as having higher sex drive or at least having more sexual partners than women. First, because they had much less stigma from having multiple partners - there is no physical way of finding out whether a man is still a virgin or not. A woman who was no longer a virgin before getting married was treated as "damaged goods". Some still are to this day.

Secondly, the consequences of having sex were (and are) much more serious for women than men as men can't get pregnant.

Wider use of condoms and the invention of the Pill certainly revolutionized the world of sex, where now both genders can enjoy multiple sexual partners without (too many) consequences. Still, though, women who had many sexual partners are called all the bad names whereas men are "stags", "players" etc. Only very recently the term "man whore" has been introduced, but is not yet used as widely as the female equivalent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's research that men feel most horny in their late teens early 20s and women in their mid thirties and women get sexually adventurous in their 40 50s and up.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

We both equal with extremely high sex drive, and possibly why we have so much love and fun together xx

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"There's research that men feel most horny in their late teens early 20s and women in their mid thirties and women get sexually adventurous in their 40 50s and up."
I must mentally still be in my early twenties then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need help - My G/F has a surfiet of testosterone and that makes her horny as hell 24x7. Sometimes difficult to keep up with her voracious sexual appetite during lockdown. Trying my best though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a higher one than my husband

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

My fella thought he thought about sex morning noon and night. Then he met me. . They say opersits attract, us we just try and out sex each other. Makes for an interesting life.

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Iam very shocked, thought it was me as a horny filthy male, or actually a male who just loves sex from a teenager,

It's not just me then women as well fantastic

Hopefully I will find an honest and loyal woman who wants a partner and loves great fun sex

Apply within

Will answer all messages

Mark

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"My fella thought he thought about sex morning noon and night. Then he met me. . They say opersits attract, us we just try and out sex each other. Makes for an interesting life. "

Same with me, I think about sex/Women things to do with Women etc all day but when It comes to sex she wins with the endurance and wanting it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys obviously

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By *nt1Man
over a year ago

Allington

Ive got rocks in my garden with a higher sex drive than my partner

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Probably even i am always wet and he is always good to go lol

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

I (Mr) have always had a decent sex drive. However I had a girlfriend a few years ago that wanted sex at least 3 times a day, everyday, more at weekends. She couldn’t hold onto a long term boyfriend, to be honest it was just too much. In our marriage my wife definitely has the higher sex drive, that’s why she has 3 fuck buddies on the go at the moment. As she gets older her sex drive increases almost daily ! Not sure if any other women are affected by the moon but when there is a full moon she is totally insatiable.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My (mrs) sex drive has been steadily increasing as I age. It's almost at a point now if I'm not having sex I've got my hand in my panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a higher sex drive than mrs , I like both straight and bi sex , have always had a very high sex drive and doesn't seem to have lessened with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always had a high sex drive since being sexually active. Multiple times a day. Where as my husband has always had a low sex drive, he was a once a month man

I'm going through a marital breakdown atm and even though it's pretty rough, I can still be pretty horny. It took a massive nose dive when my mum was poorly and I was nursing her til she died at Christmas. It's coming gradually. I just need to meet that person/persons when we can that can help me with reviving my actual sex drive again

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

kinda both of us in own way.

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By *rMrsB.Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It used to be Mr B... but since turning 30 there’s no satisfying me for long xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It used to be Mr B... but since turning 30 there’s no satisfying me for long xx"

Yet to find someone that can keep up

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

My findings, as I’ve been around a while..

Men will fuck anything, especially desperate men or those not getting it at home ..

For me my sex drive isn’t what it was 10 years ago.. so I don’t meet that often anymore..

But chatting for years to many many wonderful ladies, I’ve discovered once over 35 ish their sex drive gets higher and higher every year ..

So as men’s settle out, ladies are sky rocketing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partners are both high..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between the wife and me I'd say the wife's is higher... just.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Men or women? Keen to hear people’s views and the reason for their answer "

I'm single at the moment but I have always had a higher sex drive than previous boy friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think men have the higher sex drive, judging by their statuses as well. I can't speak for other women but I can control how I feel and because I've not met anyone since early last year I've not been missing sex, more just having the company and a cuddle x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'd say we're about equal, both ragingly off the scale horny and serve to encourage each other til we both drop

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By *ubbyHedgehogCouple
over a year ago

colchester


"Men or women? Keen to hear people’s views and the reason for their answer

I'm single at the moment but I have always had a higher sex drive than previous boy friends.. "

Same. I find it’s quite common for men to think they have a ‘high’ sex drive and then they can’t keep up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was but I’ve met my match with my mrs she’s sure got a very strong sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs defo has a higher secondary drive

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over a year ago

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Still, though, women who had many sexual partners are called all the bad names whereas men are "stags", "players" etc. Only very recently the term "man whore" has been introduced, but is not yet used as widely as the female equivalent. "

While I would fully agree that the disparity in names attached to promiscuous men and women is wrong, wouldn't it be more fun (and thus, to my mind at least, better) if equality came through ditching the negative words, connotations and concepts thrown at women rather than inventing new insults for men?

I'd rather be equal through us all being equally happy than equally sad.

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