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Men: We need to start holding the same standards women expect from us

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

I agree

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

As much as it might seem an appealing prospect, it seems to me that it’s rather demanding to ask that of others and potentially smacks of entitlement.

Why does it matter what others do with their profiles?

If you choose not to message a person, that’s your prerogative. If others do, then it’s not your business.

What would it matter if some women put more effort into their profiles? How would that help anything?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

You do realise that a lot of the profiles you describe are probably not actually women?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men

You do realise that a lot of the profiles you describe are probably not actually women? "

If you don’t message them, they won’t cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've deliberately kept my profile short. If people want to know more I'm always happy to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

lolol like that’s going to happen

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, it's free for all!

You snooze you lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop rolling out the red carpet for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no, it's free for all!

You snooze you lose "

I’m with you on this. I’ve quite often been someone’s first Fab meet when they’ve had no text and hardly any pics up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you do take the time to write a profile out it makes no difference, people don't read it. They don't seem to read ours at least. Keep scrolling until you fine some you do like OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Some men do appear a bit desperate and it's far from appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

Couldn't agree with you more mate but it's all about the ratio of numbers and until that changes the situation won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

Dude, you had me at ‘fill in soon’

I totally agree, I think that women also need to have standards if they expect us to have standards.

The most annoying then I had ever seen on a profile that confused was where she had stated ‘must be clean’ yet there is a picture of a beer bottle up her vagina.

The best approach is to be as picky as the women you want to talk to.

Come on guys, let’s have some standards.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If every bloke on fab didn't send any messages for a week, what would happen?

Would the hunter become the hunted?

Would the 3 word women up their game?

Us men have created this environment so for every featureless female profile there is, there will be 100 horndogs willing to take a punt and message anyway.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is a ridiculously high ratio Men:women site more than any dating sites so When or MF couples can put as much info as they like.

As another poster said - if you don't like it then don't message them, that's the only way to respond.

I know some women receive literally thousands of messages a week with just maybe one or two photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there should be some feature where if you have the option Single guys can only message you if you message them first.

Then the guys have the choice to either follow up of leave things be.

You know, like that particular app.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people self-select to not be compatible with you, be grateful as it's saved you effort, trying to find out.

Decide on your preferences and then find profiles and people that match them.

Anything different is a total waste of attention and energy. Create your own standards and preferences and then invest effort. With charm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What annoys me is a woman can create a profile made up with literally no photos and about 3 words in the way of ‘fill in soon’ and men will still bombard there inbox

Come on guys I know we are the minority but lets start respecting ourselves and ignore these profiles and encourage the women to put as much effort into there profiles as required for us men "

And then reading the profiles, not just looking at the pics, before considering messaging... Sorry, you forgot that bit

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Start a revolution. FAB guys matter lol. Thing is. I've spoke to do many.its ok for me as i work in the Middle east. The amount of time and effort ive put in. Arranged meets. Only to have wasted time and effort. However i will say lads. If you can go to s club. So much better. Resly nice people.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I agree women have to make a lot less effort to get messages on here. But that's the way fab is and has been for a long time.

What others do on their profiles makes no difference to me bar I may not reply to a profile that doesn't appeal to me but then I'm not over run with messages either as I keep my filters tight. So even if men stopped messaging first like some have suggested it really wouldn't make that much of a difference to me . I've no problem with messaging someone who's profile appeals to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't like thirsty guys.

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

I'm sorry have I not put enough effort into my profile

I agree more effort should be made with some profiles from men women and couples but also fabbers should also take time to read profiles so they know exactly what your looking for as to not waste time ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry have I not put enough effort into my profile

I agree more effort should be made with some profiles from men women and couples but also fabbers should also take time to read profiles so they know exactly what your looking for as to not waste time ... "

Yeah! What this cheeky wench said!

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"I'm sorry have I not put enough effort into my profile

I agree more effort should be made with some profiles from men women and couples but also fabbers should also take time to read profiles so they know exactly what your looking for as to not waste time ...

Yeah! What this cheeky wench said! "

Hello beautiful long time no see xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry have I not put enough effort into my profile

I agree more effort should be made with some profiles from men women and couples but also fabbers should also take time to read profiles so they know exactly what your looking for as to not waste time ...

Yeah! What this cheeky wench said!

Hello beautiful long time no see xxx "

How have you been, naughty pants?!?

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"I'm sorry have I not put enough effort into my profile

I agree more effort should be made with some profiles from men women and couples but also fabbers should also take time to read profiles so they know exactly what your looking for as to not waste time ...

Yeah! What this cheeky wench said!

Hello beautiful long time no see xxx

How have you been, naughty pants?!? "

Very nawty as if your an angel lol I sent you a freind request last week babe xx

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Women don't like thirsty guys.

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Well that depends on whether I need a piss or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely having standards, attraction or a looking for is a must even for us guys, a pulse isn’t enough for me but then maybe I’m too fussy with what I’m looking for.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Just list a bunch of demands expected and what you won't tolerate or do in an aggressive, ranty style and you'll have the standard womens profile. Fact!

Anyone for a round of jump through the hoop?

Obviously doesn't apply to the nice ladies of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't like thirsty guys.

Well that depends on whether I need a piss or not "

christ she did me!!

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By *nce upon a TomMan
over a year ago

cambridge

My biggest bugbear is when they stop messaging you but then 3 weeks later reply with "sorry mustve missed your message" or "been really busy" or some other bs when in reality i got blown out but now somethings changed and im expected to lap it up ?? if i wasnt good enough first time around, then you just blew it.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest bugbear is when they stop messaging you but then 3 weeks later reply with "sorry mustve missed your message" or "been really busy" or some other bs when in reality i got blown out but now somethings changed and im expected to lap it up ?? if i wasnt good enough first time around, then you just blew it.??"

Haha love this

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton


"I've deliberately kept my profile short. If people want to know more I'm always happy to chat. "

Apparently not, or so it would seem by leaving the site within 24 hours of the post!

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