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Sharing your GF/Wife - is it an older couples fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so first of all let me state that i am not calling people old or young directly, but being my age it doesnt seem many 20s couples are into cuckold or hotwife/watching their partner but seems most of the profiles i see thag are/ or comment on forums about it seem to be 40s/50s ? Again no offence absolutely nothing against this age group im just intrigued if its something that if me and my partner got into would we be mixing fantasies with people much older than us, typically.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I know this is a giant, sweeping generalisation, but I think a lot of it has to do with younger people being more uptight and worried about expressing themselves and their desires, and being more constrained by exterior pressures and expectations from society, etc. Whereas couples who are a bit older and more experienced in life are more comfortable and confident in their skin/themselves and can let loose and have more fun without caring about what people might think.

What's the saying; youth is wasted on the young?

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I'm in my mid 20s, husbands a few years older. Been doing this for a few years now, and I know we aren't the only ones either. We are one of the few that are actually married though.

Many people I know aren't in long term relationships in their 20s, so that might contribute?

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be, but wven still doesnt seem much of the fantasy even as "gf" being the wife in younger couples. Seems mostly 40s plus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a hotwife in my 20s xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find that most with the same fantasy are much older? Do you find men knowing your 20s just want to meet a younger 20s female?

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

You are writing this OP from a single guy's perspective.

What do you think swinging is? We share each other with other couples. We do this whatever age we start swinging. Age has nothing to do with it.

Perhaps you are talking about about a completely different scenario where a single guy is introduced. You mentioned hotwifing and cuckolding, which we know nothing about as this is not our bag.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I know this is a giant, sweeping generalisation, but I think a lot of it has to do with younger people being more uptight and worried about expressing themselves and their desires, and being more constrained by exterior pressures and expectations from society, etc. Whereas couples who are a bit older and more experienced in life are more comfortable and confident in their skin/themselves and can let loose and have more fun without caring about what people might think.

What's the saying; youth is wasted on the young? "

Think there is a caveat to this.

Would be much more wasted on the old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re 30’s

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I know this is a giant, sweeping generalisation, but I think a lot of it has to do with younger people being more uptight and worried about expressing themselves and their desires, and being more constrained by exterior pressures and expectations from society, etc. Whereas couples who are a bit older and more experienced in life are more comfortable and confident in their skin/themselves and can let loose and have more fun without caring about what people might think.

What's the saying; youth is wasted on the young? "

I think so, when we were younger straight people our age were generally into relationships and swinging at our age was more for gay and bi adventurous types. We went clubbing in Auckland in our late 20s and experienced it for the first time just in regular gay clubs , straight young people were welcome and swinging secretly. Had a few experiences but the ‘scene’ was seen as old and weird, something your parents did....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I know this is a giant, sweeping generalisation, but I think a lot of it has to do with younger people being more uptight and worried about expressing themselves and their desires, and being more constrained by exterior pressures and expectations from society, etc. Whereas couples who are a bit older and more experienced in life are more comfortable and confident in their skin/themselves and can let loose and have more fun without caring about what people might think.

What's the saying; youth is wasted on the young?

I think so, when we were younger straight people our age were generally into relationships and swinging at our age was more for gay and bi adventurous types. We went clubbing in Auckland in our late 20s and experienced it for the first time just in regular gay clubs , straight young people were welcome and swinging secretly. Had a few experiences but the ‘scene’ was seen as old and weird, something your parents did.... "

Then that is projection, not reality.

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