FabSwingers.com forum: How to spot a swinger?

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Walking in or out of a Swingers club? Other than that they're probably every day people, so you can't tell. Who would have thought we may swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to tour local park and see who is sat on the swings and bingo you found a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at their bulge, it’s the only way to tell

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Go to tour local park and see who is sat on the swings and bingo you found a swinger

Risky game that!.. I'm pretty sure there's a register for people who do that

haha x

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By *aucy sausageMan
over a year ago

Gentleshaw

Careful maintained pampas grass patch?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

People who are attending a swinging social event are a good starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've got their arse hanging outside their car door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've got their arse hanging outside their car door

xx"
thats just u Jessica lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've got their arse hanging outside their car door

xx thats just u Jessica lol

I'm more of a bonnet girl

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By *xhibitionistbenMan
over a year ago

Ware / Kings Cross

They have their cock in your wife...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wear a badge of honour

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

The say they don't like sex but their conversation is mostly about sex and are always in the flirt mood/gear

, the body language when one mention some words used by all of us like Fab or Fabs, when you recognise them from a site like Fabs or others

... i know nothing about

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

They are usually smiling

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"They have their cock in your wife...

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classy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

If someone gets asked at a checkout "Do you have a Nectar card?" and they say "Yes". That is how you know.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Heard they walk around everywhere carrying a bunch of pampas grass while wearing an ankle chain and a packet of condoms sticking out their pocket

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Not really, it surprised us when we first started swinging a meeting other people that some you wouldn’t imagine would be swingers in 1000 years

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Not really, it surprised us when we first started swinging a meeting other people that some you wouldn’t imagine would be swingers in 1000 years "

It shows that we all some idea wrogly or rightly about the scene. It is diverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Can we all agree an easy way.

How about we start with a Fab wristband

(Proceeds go to Singles in Need)

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"They've got their arse hanging outside their car door

xx thats just u Jessica lol

I'm more of a bonnet girl

xx"

Beetle???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pampas grass

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A guy approaches you in the bar and asks "Hey, do you want to fuck my wife while I watch?"

LvM

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"A guy approaches you in the bar and asks "Hey, do you want to fuck my wife while I watch?"

LvM"

Love it!!

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I deliver to hundreds of people a week and always wonder who the swingers are.

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

They wear socks with saddles!

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By *ragaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Its the little chrome fish symbol on the back of the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's when they are both openly checking you out!

On my very first meet with a M/F couple (Tasmin) I was chatting to a couple and the bar lady was chatting the woman up at the same time.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

They don't wear knickers to Asda.

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Wonderful

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

If your naked on our bed it’s a fairly good guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this while shopping. Who looks like they might be a swinger or who we would like to meet in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms

Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for parked cars flashing their lights........or is that doggers lol

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

They are usually the happy married ones x

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"They are usually the happy married ones x"

I agree totally

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

They keep going to the park to play on the swings

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.

Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Fish symbol on the back of their car

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Fish symbol on the back of their car"

Damn,thought they were fishermen.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Since discretion is an essential prequisite for success within a swinging lifestyle, the most successful swingers are those who are discreet, secretive, confidential, and thus the most trustworthy.

Myself and my former partner had a longstanding arrangement with another couple whom we trusted; the relationship developed to the point where we regularly met for BB DVP (usually reverse cowgirl) that we all enjoyed.

No-one outside the two couples were ever aware of this successful swinging relationship.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Since discretion is an essential prequisite for success within a swinging lifestyle, the most successful swingers are those who are discreet, secretive, confidential, and thus the most trustworthy.

No-one outside the two couples were ever aware of this successful swinging relationship."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms

Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club...

Haha that happened to us when we first went to Chams. We got the taxi to drop us off at a pub close by. Licky was dressed up and short tight black dress and stockings, it must have been so obvs where we were going!!

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By *ltcouple941Couple
over a year ago

Hell

"They don't wear knickers to Asda."

I used to go commando a lot. Once I went to Asda and didn’t realise my buttons had popped open; my cock flopped out in the chilled aisle.

I definitely wear boxers to Asda now.

-Mr

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Lots of swingers work in takeaways....you know them by the phrase "do you want to go large"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Fish symbol on the back of their car"

Does that mean the ones with dogs are doggers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Stem of Pampas grass behind their right ear

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The say they don't like sex but their conversation is mostly about sex and are always in the flirt mood/gear

, the body language when one mention some words used by all of us like Fab or Fabs, when you recognise them from a site like Fabs or others

... i know nothing about

There are those wives/girlfriends that always turn the conversation to sex after a few drinks and are really flirty , you just know they secretly want a threesome or foursome but it’s only going to happen when drink removes inhibitions and you would regret it. But these generally aren’t swingers , swingers I know are much more discreet

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Stem of Pampas grass behind their right ear "

Love it

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Absolutely impossible which is why I love people with a naughty side so much.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"The say they don't like sex but their conversation is mostly about sex and are always in the flirt mood/gear

, the body language when one mention some words used by all of us like Fab or Fabs, when you recognise them from a site like Fabs or others

... i know nothing about

You are moving in different circles to me. Lol.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Need to stop fantasising about what guy's and girls are up to and live in the moment you can not tell if the person is not will to put the themselves on display...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms

Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club...

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Think the Asda has big weekend alcohol sales due to chams! Should have a swingers alcohol savers pass

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

the lapel pin.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

The seat is going back and forth and the ropes are going : “ greeerk squick “ ?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"The seat is going back and forth and the ropes are going : “ greeerk squick “ ? "

Greerk squick? Must be a Welsh swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.

Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer.

what does H W stand for?

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

No chance! Clubs are best ways to spot them!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?

Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.

Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer.

what does H W stand for? "

Hot water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Upsidedown pineapple in their shopping trolley

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Upsidedown pineapple in their shopping trolley"

Love this one....

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Swingers are the naked people, fucking, sucking, licking, stroking and squeezing in, on and around a great big, red velvet sheeted, heart shaped bed. You can't miss em.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"A guy approaches you in the bar and asks "Hey, do you want to fuck my wife while I watch?"

LvM"

Pity the pubs are closed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I went through a period of looking for ankle chains and then when I saw one I’d try to see if it had ‘Hotwife’ on it or something but ended up with a crick in my neck and none of them ever did say anything anyway.

I’ve got one - it’s leather not a chain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the little chrome fish symbol on the back of the car

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this made me laugh xx

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Its the little chrome fish symbol on the back of the car

this made me laugh xx"

It is funny.. I just saw it

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think you detect a spidey sense for it over time. Sometimes even for the swingers who don't know they're swingers yet (in our experience).

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Wife wearing a sausage earring in one ear and a can of cider earring in the other denotes she loves sausage in cider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there faviourite song, I’m the king of the swingers from jungle book. Other than that, not really.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Wife wearing a sausage earring in one ear and a can of cider earring in the other denotes she loves sausage in cider."

made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gb sign on back of the motorhome

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

visiting Glasgow

They have a profile on Fabs

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"They have a profile on Fabs "

True

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

In a park, playing on a swing

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"In a park, playing on a swing

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Look at the people around you in a supermarket, the swingers are probably the ones that you least suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"

Yes, if you look on fab you can spot loads of them

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Velcro Clothes. Gimp face masks. Often spotted waggling baguette suggestively in Waitrose.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Velcro Clothes. Gimp face masks. Often spotted waggling baguette suggestively in Waitrose.

Wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several years ago we purchased Chams Chameleon lapel badges to wear on introduction meets to make sure the other couples knew how to positively identify us.

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I usually find local swingers by knocking on any house that has Pampas Grass in the garden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The walk about carrying a pineapple

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By *andy and DannyCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"The walk about carrying a pineapple "

I assume with a suitable protective glove on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The walk about carrying a pineapple "

In their fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see a middle aged couple talking to each other in a friendly way and not screeching at each other, then I know they are Swingers.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Whenever I see a middle aged couple talking to each other in a friendly way and not screeching at each other, then I know they are Swingers.

This is correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The walk about carrying a pineapple

I assume with a suitable protective glove on?"

Of course always use protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The walk about carrying a pineapple

In their fanny

That sound a little uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some wear a tacky bracelet around the ankle but as its common knowledge its not as popular as it once was as the discretion has gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the woods late at night and if someone has a cock in their mouth they just might be a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

"Upsidedown pineapple in their shopping trolley"

But only if shopping at Asda without panties.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

sdc used to send you a little badge then they changed their name

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"They've got their arse hanging outside their car door

xx"

made me chuckle

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"The walk about carrying a pineapple

In their fanny

That sound a little uncomfortable

Very

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

I did some work for a couple who had a few chameleon fridge magnets from different places in Spain.

Did make me wonder

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I did some work for a couple who had a few chameleon fridge magnets from different places in Spain.

Did make me wonder

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I've met folks who just dropped the word "Chams" into the middle of their vanilla conversation.

Most of the other folks they were talking to were totally oblivious, but one couple started smiling which was the give away to me!

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

And this was in a bar group chat in the middle of a busy pub in Leeds city!

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I've met folks who just dropped the word "Chams" into the middle of their vanilla conversation.

Most of the other folks they were talking to were totally oblivious, but one couple started smiling which was the give away to me!"

That is clever

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Greerk squick? Must be a Welsh swing. "

Probably not, there are no letters K or Q in the Welsh alphabet. Unless of course it's a Welsh swing speaking English!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your missing the point ...you cant ..but that adds to the excitement ,

If we all could then Fab and other sites wouldnt be here ..

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Think your missing the point ...you cant ..but that adds to the excitement ,

If we all could then Fab and other sites wouldnt be here .."

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Dunno about swinger

But the eyes and cheeky smile normally a give away for a wild sexual experience think would be room to fill the gap to mention it to explore further

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

Keep you ‘see who’s near on’ when out and play the spot a swinger game. May not be accurate but it sure is fun

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Keep you ‘see who’s near on’ when out and play the spot a swinger game. May not be accurate but it sure is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touch their bumps

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Touch their bumps

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually have a cock in each hole

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Usually have a cock in each hole"

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By *artyanna16200TV/TS
over a year ago

leeds

That glass bowl they display on the living room table never seems to contain anything when you call round, their driveway is full of a friday evening , but your never asked round?

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"That glass bowl they display on the living room table never seems to contain anything when you call round, their driveway is full of a friday evening , but your never asked round? "

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