FabSwingers.com forum: Hot photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same members seem to be constantly on front pages ...how do they do it ? Do any fem members find it quite demoralizing?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you are interested in getting on the first page there is a bit of a game to it, getting people to add you to there hot list, accepting more friend invites... It all increases the reach of your pictures when you put them on, you can also ask for fabs or update you status to wanna see xyz then fab my new pic... Exabitionism is a kink and for some they like to see themselfs on the first page so put in the work to get there and fair play to them if it makes them happy and there having fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it exhibitionism or self promotion....I agree with you...as a social 'experiment ' I friend invite the top 15 tonight...4 had blocks age no photo etc....11 invites went through ...of which 8 have so far been accepted...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not demoralising at all. I've never cared about being on hot photos, and probably never will.

I only care about whether the men I'm attracted to like my photos, not a bunch of strangers on the Internet

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not demoralising at all. I've never cared about being on hot photos, and probably never will.

I only care about whether the men I'm attracted to like my photos, not a bunch of strangers on the Internet

Well said!

By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I’ve been on page one a number of times, (probably due to lipgloss and eyelashes), but I can confirm that I have a grand total of five Fab friends. I have never asked to be on someone’s Hotlist, not have I even mentioned Fabs or photos in my status or messages. It just happens.

One thing I will say; I’ve found that a nice face gets far more Fabs than a headless pic, regardless of how dirty it is. Just my personal experience.

However, the first time I ever got to the top spot, the number two photo featured a woman bent over with a marrow up her bottom. Not a courgette, a proper marrow. It convinced me that the whole Top Fabbed thing is best viewed in a lighthearted way, as it means very little.

Above all, it doesn’t mean someone is a nice person. I’ve been there a fair bit, and I’m an arsehat.