FabSwingers.com forum: Giver or Taker?

By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Simple question are you a giver or a taker when it comes to sex. In other words you prefer to please or be pleased?

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I like to please but always nice to be rewarded afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver

Get a kick out of pleasuring

Although sometimes it would be nice to meet someone who gets a kick out of pleasuring you. But yeah, mostly Giver!

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By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"Giver

Get a kick out of pleasuring

Although sometimes it would be nice to meet someone who gets a kick out of pleasuring you. But yeah, mostly Giver!

Yes think as a giver myself it can be hard to allow myself almost switch off and allow another person give of that makes sense.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Simple question are you a giver or a taker when it comes to sex. In other words you prefer to please or be pleased?"

I would hope for both..but as long as she enjoys herself I'm more then satisfied.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

There's no need to choose, you can be both and have it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally makes sense. Can get use to certain things.

I think me i suppose im down for being the one one who's pleasured but i just naturally want to be the giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for sure. Your right. I just lean more towards being a giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver. I love giving my partner pleasure. It turns me on so much. I guess you could say I’m a taker too if i get from giving

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Definitely a giver. I get most of my pleasure from seeing a partner satisfied. Happy to meet and just give if that’s your fab fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giver 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no need to choose, you can be both and have it all

Exactly, no need to be greedy

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have assertive tendencies, definitely a giver.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We're both givers and recivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very much a pleaser, I can quite happily give and expect nothing in return but get huge amounts of pleasure from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always up for giving... I love to be pleased but definitely a giver. Although my fwb always makes sure that I'm more than satisfied

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

A pleaser here...

It all comes around ...please her and you'll be really pleased in return

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

I'm a giver and shes the taker

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

A mix of both, but definitely more of a giver / doer in bed. Giving her pleasure / turning her on is the biggest turn-on / most fun for me.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about both of you getting what you want, not being a giver or taker, both should be givers.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Variety is the spice of life! We take it in turns giving massages and pleasure, but always get pleasure back

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would say i am a giver.x

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

She gets orgasms by the dozen, I am lucky to get one.

I do have magic fingers though, hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to provide pleasure to the other person... but there are many ways to do that. It depends on what turns on the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say i am a giver.x"

Not on the 11th of March bee,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about both of you getting what you want, not being a giver or taker, both should be givers."

Taking can be so much fun. Everyone should have a chance to be selfish now and then. It's also a turn on to be used by someone you care about and know they are *taking* pleasure from you.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I probably give more most of the time. Only because the men have been lazy and don't give as much as they receive.

It's nice when I meet someone who gives as much as he gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple question are you a giver or a taker when it comes to sex. In other words you prefer to please or be pleased?"

Both. I think after a good sex session all involved should be feeling sexually satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies. I like to receive boobie massages, but I prefer to give oral... And I'll happily take a good pounding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a giver ... I’m nice like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of the time prefer the giving, do enjoy being on the receiving end of a sexy lady pleasuring me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a giver ... I’m nice like that

I don't think giving facials counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much a giver. Love being able to make someone orgasm. Really turns me on. Maybe I've a narcissistic streak when it comes to sex lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Simple question are you a giver or a taker when it comes to sex. In other words you prefer to please or be pleased?"
I prefer to give x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a taker and I’m happy to see so many generous givers in here

I’m not selfish in bed, but I do get lost in being touched and caressed and mmmmmmm

Xxxx

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Simple question are you a giver or a taker when it comes to sex. In other words you prefer to please or be pleased? I prefer to give x"
I love receiving but enjoy giving oral even more i LOVE could stay down there for ages and I would definitely give you the best licking u have ever had x you are stunning x

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’m a taker and I’m happy to see so many generous givers in here

I’m not selfish in bed, but I do get lost in being touched and caressed and mmmmmmm

Xxxx "
Mmmmm I would touch and caress you from head to toe all over your beautiful body x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but i think that i prefer to give

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By *anther81 OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"I’m a taker and I’m happy to see so many generous givers in here

I’m not selfish in bed, but I do get lost in being touched and caressed and mmmmmmm

Xxxx "

Fair play assume we all can’t be givers. I don’t think it is selfish. I think I would like to get better at taking and not feeling like I should be doing all the pleasing.

Hot pics and profile btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a taker and I’m happy to see so many generous givers in here

I’m not selfish in bed, but I do get lost in being touched and caressed and mmmmmmm

Xxxx "

Brilliant comment x

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