FabSwingers.com forum: Double Standards

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Silence speaks a thousand words.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

Cock size and body size are completely different issues . There is just as many woman here more than happy with guys with smaller cocks as I’m sure there’s guys here no more than happy with bigger woman . Your thread only suggest you have insecurities about yourself a lot of people are not so shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?"

Think the guys in love with his own cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

unusually I haven't asked for that but think it

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. "
and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

I can't say I've noticed any threads where women ask for men with over 8 inch cocks only to reply. A thread asking for women under size 10 only to respond would not go down well at all and I think you know that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

There are plenty. There’s one active now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever started a thread that isnt really a way of writing about your cock?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

There are plenty. There’s one active now."

Ok, I stand corrected there's one.

I think you'll find a very different reaction of you start a thread asking for only very slender women to respond

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever started a thread that isnt really a way of writing about your cock?

This wasn’t

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

Everyone has a toolbox, some are large, some small, some old and worn and others pristine and rarely used etc. However, it’s what’s in the box that matters and making sure that you use the correct tool for the job and you know how to use the tool correctly, that is most important

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You could start a thread for vagina min 8’ deep? Anatomy preferences is different to body shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever started a thread that isnt really a way of writing about your cock?

This wasn’t "

I think it is ....somehow you managed to crowbar mentioning it into your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own, please like what they like, its an open forum so what gets posted gets posted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could start a thread for vagina min 8’ deep? Anatomy preferences is different to body shaming "

It isn’t

Weight can be controlled. Cock size cannot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

You can't compare cock size to body size

They're not comparable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its 2 different things. Cock size can’t be helped, body size can. I do agree that its a bit off that some women don’t like guys with a certain size cock considering it’s something guys can’t change. But as someone who has a bit of a dad bod when i see a profile that says gym fit bodies only I just move on, its my own doing that I have the body that I do, and I am able to change that. I think the real comparison here shouldn’t be cock size, but should be the issue of women can ask for guys to have a certain body type, but men are frowned upon if they only want women a certain size.

Whichever way you look at it it comes down to 2 things either insecurity or thinks highly of self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are regularly threads here appreciating bigger women, and threads appreciating slim women. I think this place tries to appreciate all shapes and sizes in general. I guess it must be frustrating if you've got a big cock but no one to use it on? I guess for a lot of women it's more about personality than penis size...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

There are some judgemental a$$holes here ,just ignore them.

Some profiles mentions dick size is not important but when you read their veris left for other ...lol you will be surprised how many times they mentioned the size of the cock . Funny people.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold? "

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on. "

cant tell you how gutted we are about that, we had pinned all of our hopes on meeting nobody but you

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I wouldn't meet you. Arrogant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet you. Arrogant"

Yeh... I’m not heartbroken about that

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Silence speaks a thousand words."

So does a picture

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Generally on here, people express their preferences and some people are put-out by it whilst others don't care... however it is not unusual for people to "not like" being excluded in any way.

It is "VERY" common for men to post slim/BBW/curvy ladies appreciation threads, or big/small/average breast appreciation threads and they rarely cause a stir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?"

How is it shallow for having a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet you. Arrogant

Yeh... I’m not heartbroken about that

Hahaha

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

If people are really honest with themselves, oh course we have preferences as all we got to go by online is photos and videos. So oh course, we going to seek the ideal body to play with. I know us ladies have more of a luxury in choosing the ideal body than men... I know what I like from experiences with men

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Everybody has a preference in wot they like and don’t like , it would be a sad world if everybody likes the same thing

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

How is it shallow for having a preference?"

I have preferences to that said I don’t choose to voice them on fab and berate people . Also people need a personality no good being beautiful on the outside of your ugly on the inside

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?

Think the guys in love with his own cock

There are quite a few of them

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?

Think the guys in love with his own cock

There are quite a few of them

Sorry but I find his “look at my cock” attention seeking threads rather sad obviously thinks a lot of himself which is very unattractive. I’d choose a gentleman with a nice personality all day over someone who thinks being superior is having a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on. "

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is loads of threads for skinny girls and they are met with no abuse same as threads for bbw ECT everyone has a type.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?

Think the guys in love with his own cock

There are quite a few of them

I honestly agree with you being fully honest in my opinion being more of a gentleman and have a modicum of decrorum is a far better quality. All the constant look at my cock type posts has put the Op in a certain box for most on the forums. The question is are you well you or are you just your cock?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Kind of agree but I guess those with less than 8" clicks haven't had vile abuse thrown at them because of it. Those who aren't the body perfect usually have and any thread about body shape often turns personal.

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

First messages from men which contain a pic of there cock saying I've got 8 inch+ dick just gets deleted. Im not interested in how big it is. Those advertising it are only interested themselves.

I've seen men's profiles saying only interested in slim woman and really doesn't bother me, it's there preference and saves time for the bigger ladies messaging them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages."

Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.

You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.

You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome."

But you need a larger sample size to get a more accurate result. Small sample sizes always have a margin of error.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.

You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome.

But you need a larger sample size to get a more accurate result. Small sample sizes always have a margin of error. "

Larger samples also prove Hypothetical assumptions more easily,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol boasts about his cock but doesn’t actually have any pics on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it shallow for having a preference?"

I thought exactly the same thing.

How does it make someone shallow if they state in a polite way they like slimmer women ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone would care... Wanna start a thread looking for big dicks, big boobs, dad bods, red heads, blonds, bbw, smaller lady's... I don't think anyone would care as long as it wasn't worded in an offecive way, we are all grown ups, we all have our own preferences and realise everyone els had theres

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I can't decide if this thread was just to inflame argument or not....

Let's face it .... weight is an emotive subject. Bar crazy circumstances it is also something WE can change. To gain or lose weight. It's OUR fault what weight we are. And that's why people get prickly about it. As someone is stating they don't fancy someone due to something they choose . And yes I mean choose .... we all choose what food goes in our mouth (again pre empting any random but rare cases)

Cock size isn't controllable ..... (and in my experience the bigger ain't always the better)

We are all allowed personal preference... to state what we find attractive .

It's HOW we do that which matters..... quite simply ... you can choose to be an asshole about it or not. Also can you choose to be offended by others preferences... but imagine living life so sensitive.

I think this site is good at recognising we all like a huge variety though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "

There's only one way to find out OP! Let's see the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold? "

Small Harold haha

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Motion of the ocean and all . I mean, I've never had any complaints from my well girthed thunder torpedo

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By *inky MagpieMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Point being missed spectacularly here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Point being missed spectacularly here "

Can you clarify what your point is then because I thought it was that it's funny a post looking for big cocks was received in good humour but if you made a post for thin lady's it wouldent be? And my point remains that I think it would be... There are threads all the time asking to see big cocks, blonds, red heads, hairy pussy, shaven pussy, bbw, athletic figures... As long as its not worded in an offecive way no one would view it as such, everyone is entitled to there preferances and we are all grown up enough to realise we are not to everyone's tase

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Lol boasts about his cock but doesn’t actually have any pics on his profile "

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"Lol boasts about his cock but doesn’t actually have any pics on his profile

Yeah...but isn't that a good thing?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. "

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread. "

Me neither

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread. "

Same until today

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.

Me neither

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558"

Fair enough!

Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.

Me neither

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558

Fair enough!

Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too. "

I assume OP is body shaming and trying to make larger women feel undesirable but does not realise women use the forums as a filtering system. There is no double standards. Some men have big cocks, some women are slimmer. No comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.

I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.

Me neither

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558

Fair enough!

Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too.

I think he's also using it as a look at me I've got an 8 inch cock advert.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.

Rather keep my sexual health intact

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.

Rather keep my sexual health intact"

Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.

Rather keep my sexual health intact

Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health

Was just about to say the same I go to clubs and have a clean sexual health. The op’s statement there is so backhanded unless you go to clubs and know for certain you can’t make any assumptions

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.

Rather keep my sexual health intact"

That’s a sweeping statement. A sexual disease can be caught anywhere. How I’m laughing now!

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future

Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.

Rather keep my sexual health intact

Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health

Quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think think the 2 are compatible.

Body shape/weight/build is different to cock size. Women could ask for cocks over 8” and men could ask for women with tits a particular size, maybe. But size of person overall isn’t the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your dreams

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

This post prods together a few popular questions

"when does a preference become a prejudice"

and

"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.

In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.

Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!

And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

^^^^^

Great response

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"This post prods together a few popular questions

"when does a preference become a prejudice"

and

"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.

In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.

And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.

That’s absolutely brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This post prods together a few popular questions

"when does a preference become a prejudice"

and

"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.

In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.

And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.

I do extremely well

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This post prods together a few popular questions

"when does a preference become a prejudice"

and

"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.

In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.

And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.

I do extremely well

Yeah right....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This post prods together a few popular questions

"when does a preference become a prejudice"

and

"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.

In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.

And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.

I do extremely well

Yeah right...."

Hilarious youd even debate that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.

Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?

do you never get bored of yourself small harold?

Harold is bigger than me. I agree.

When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.

I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.

I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..

As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..

So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...

I'm going on Google scholar to find it

Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.

Rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are just a preference, as long as not rude either way what is the issue we all are on here to live out our fantasies and kinks. For some they want monster cocks others want to humiliate cucks and some just want to make friends and explore.

As long as polite nothing is offensive if a person won’t meet a particular ethnicity or size or what ever that’s there choice just like it’s yours to choose who you want to me.

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?"

You have mentioned that before

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke a thousand words. ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I spoke a thousand words. ^"

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I spoke a thousand words. ^

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

I laughed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's just a case of each tobthere own likings, if you font like what you read on there profile just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I spoke a thousand words. ^

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

I laughed

You have my sympathy my man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spoke a thousand words. ^

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

As Martin luther King said "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy".

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Op it's like if they say will meet only good-looking men or must be a spark it's their preferences u can't alter it

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I spoke a thousand words. ^

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

you say that but cockiness and negativity are quite close to the least attractive personality traits a person can have. also being close-minded, unkindness and having selective hearing. If his comment was was from chronic sarcasm it would be a different situation and also you didn't even have to make that comment in the first place.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I spoke a thousand words. ^

Oh Jim.

I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.

I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.

You are not funny though.

There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.

Also actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah Joel. Cmon now. Let’s grab a pint and calm down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be wrong with that? It’s your preference.

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By *tsaNewdawnWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Absolutely right. If you don’t like the preferences block the person don’t complain about it. I’m a big woman and over 50. I’d rather know preferences, makes it easier to avoid embarrassment

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Absolutely right. If you don’t like the preferences block the person don’t complain about it. I’m a big woman and over 50. I’d rather know preferences, makes it easier to avoid embarrassment "

Very true

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