FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

How to last longer in bed

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips to help last longer in bed?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of the queen?

Do your shopping list in your head?

Tactical wank?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you think you are about to cum, change position, slow down or stop for a second. Let your 'thrill' calm down and then go again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of the queen?

Do your shopping list in your head?

Tactical wank?"

What if I find the queen attractive

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can stay in bed for ages...

Oh wait. That isn’t what you meant

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

DM me I figured out a method a long time ago that works for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Turn the alarm clock off?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change position and/or activity. Focus on her pleasure whilst your own weighted excitement dims a little.

I wouldn't think of shopping, the queen or baseball as people suggest, as it will detract from your own enjoyment and focus.

Communication is important - e.g., you could ask your partner what she would enjoy during 'down time'.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why the spell check changed heightened to weighted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Give each other massages, kiss and stroke each other. Not many people cum from foreplay alone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appyfazer600Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Age can be a factor. As you get older it can mean that a guy will take longer. So tip is to stay fit too that way you can have great stamina!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question.

I know it is not designed to help with this, but if I know its going to be a long session etc I try to use Viagra. I know its not medically for this use, but it must trigger something mentally for me that makes me last, well as long as I need to, and the hard on it gives you is insane!

On the opposite side, a tactical wank just doesn't do it for me! I just lose all sexual urges and its never the same to get them back. Of course it will be different for everybody!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of the queen?

Do your shopping list in your head?

Tactical wank?

What if I find the queen attractive "

Then think of Anne

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to be earlier

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Practice edging

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow it down, pull out, use your tongue for a bit, mix it up. If you really can't control yourself then all I can say is I hope you have an understanding partner, and that you can at least offer round 2 after popping.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

kick the wife out tell her to get breakfast cooked and bring it up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Stare at the cat looking at you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

I can't seem to find a happy medium at the min. It's either many hours or over really quickly, so frustrating.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appyfazer600Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Think about the missus... (joke!)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips to help last longer in bed?"

Don’t get up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

let the husband have a go

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It will vary by gender. Slow down, reduce contact volume and intensity, reduce whatever is most intensely stimulating. Change position and your physiology. Stand up, break all contact. Insert new mental content that is the opposite of arousing. Sharp squeeze of his nob glans. Move to a cold place. Advanced prep for the problem is better than blindly getting to the point of the problem. Lots more options,. Research

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

There a lot more to do than just penetration, slow down, stop and and just keep the mood going doing something else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you could verbalise that you’re getting too turned on and you want to fuck her : enjoy the moment for longer, so change position, or concentrate purely on her, or change the dynamic or mood slightly. I think that ownership would help come across as passionate, honest, share the fact she is turning you on, and help keep the mood or atmosphere very turned on.

Just an alternative to thinking of the Queen. Other royals are available.....Just not Harry or Meghan

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Practice edging "

That helps, also resisting the urge to contract the muscles in the lower abdominal and the groin area. It takes some training and practice, but if you can master that, you can more last much longer. Its a good idea to practice this procedure while masturbating

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top