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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

Any comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me, in hope X

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Oh regular.. the fun is only getting started after the first meet..

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We like a bit of both, have some grate frinds we love to play with. But do like to meet new people aswell

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Got enough regular meets , so any new meets will be one-off or every now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either is cool with me

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

A hot meet that leads to regular fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular are better as the banter gets better and more to talk about the more regular you meet someone. I am looking for a regular lady or couple after lockdown has ended.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

No interest in one offs unless at a club

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Regular one-offs would certainly have an appeal!

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Regular is good, but one offs at a party are cheeky

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

both

s&r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be great . Though just getting a hi out of some people can be hard work. Lock down I understand , but we all can still speak .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, that way it gets better and better, trust, connection etc everything is built but that takes time and that's why regular is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about 50/50 regulars and one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah like other had said we prefer a mixture of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy one offs immensely, something very sexual and arousing about it I find .. well for fab meets anyway ..

With proper meets outside of swinging I would build up over time to socialize and hangout with..

For me fab/swinging is just a play area that is something i like to switch off and on ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs or maybe a few times at most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like variety. So I actively search out new people. However if I meet a previous conquest at a club or sauna I'm happy to oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs are fun but we are still looking for a bi-femcouple for irregular meets. Had a few regulars in the past but life changes things swiftly in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer mostly one offs. But a FWB or two is nice as well xx

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By *eteinhantsMan
over a year ago

Southsea

I have been very lucky and had both, the regular was for some 8 months with a really nice couple from here. It got better and better and some of the fun was very hot, i have a video i was sent i keep mean to post it when i can blank out faces.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Regular for us. We find as you get to know people better the fun gets better and more relaxed. One offs are good at clubs for us, but we rarely find anyone within our boundaries at clubs. But in all fairness it’s also getting harder on sites too.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Honestly would it be great to have a regular liaison but I would like to see how it goes

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Both have there plus sides, and are usually context driven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's tastes are different. One offs would do nothing for me. I don't get a variety thrill / rush. Life and experience teaches us what suits us. I like connecting with and getting to know the person first... it builds the chemistry for me. Without that it would feel like mechanical sex with a body instead of intimate sex with a woman I admire and like. Probably why clubs and casual one night stands lost appeal for me years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always one offs until I find the one to be regular with. No way of telling for sure until a meeting of bodies.

You can click mentally. Meet. Have shit sex. Then what?

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Would love regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

There’s a lot to be said for regular fun with friends, it can be fun making new ones though too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular but one offs look like the new way to go

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Mix of both

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

Regular for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular for us but it's all about matching times when both parties are free to meet if you work or have a wife or girlfriend or boyfriend or husband at home its not that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, dont entertain 1 offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regulars x (tho I make one offs for the really fit ones)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for us!! Second/third time is always much better than the first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 off unless exceptional then maybe a return visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Regular would be great . Though just getting a hi out of some people can be hard work. Lock down I understand , but we all can still speak . "

No reply to a message means no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like a couple of ‘long term repeats’, not necessarily going as far as ‘regular’; but mostly I’d be looking for one-offs.

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By *ick and janeCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

Had a few one off meets but definitely going for a long term regular guy once we are out of this

There has surly then has to be more chance to progress on things that way

Next problem is finding one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Any comments?"

Yes, you've picked the wrong profile type on Fab. It says you're a single man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be regular things only get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like a mixture of both. Love the thrill of a social, love getting to know somebody’s habits x

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I agree with above, regular gets better and better once you get to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't know don't get either

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Regular

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

One off if I wanted permanent I would just fuck hubby and not be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular exciting meeting and gets better when know each other exploring everything

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Personally I’d much rather a regular/FWB setup.

But unfortunately I don’t think the swinging scene is as vibrant down my way as in more built up areas, and less swingers means less opportunities for finding regular playmates

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By *akey2somCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

We like to use clubs to meet new people, but prefer to take regular meets back to ours for regular fun. Hard meeting singles that are up for regular fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like the fun of new people, but prefere to meet old friends, sex gets better the more you know someone

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By *akey2somCouple
over a year ago

wakefield


"we like the fun of new people, but prefere to meet old friends, sex gets better the more you know someone"

Agree, better and naughtier

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"we like the fun of new people, but prefere to meet old friends, sex gets better the more you know someone"

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By *uffymayfairCouple
over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

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By *uffymayfairCouple
over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

Nothing like fun with someone we've never met before and never will again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Regulars but one offs at parties or clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be regular. I'm not interested in one offs, I need to have a connection with the people I have sex with.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Regular of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular. Good to spend the time exploring each other's fantasies and needs and how to meet them. Never get bored; so much to try and enjoy in a friendly atmosphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, one offs only at clubs or parties

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Regular, one offs only at clubs or parties "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had some excellent one offs that have perfectly suited our needs at that time. Equally we have had some utterly fantastic experiences with regular play partners.

So both have their merits and benefits in their own way.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Definitely regular, get to explore so much more once the initial nervousness is out of the way and start delving into real fun.

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Bit both but a reg is great fun as you learn all the good bits of wot they like

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Bit both but a reg is great fun as you learn all the good bits of wot they like "

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We enjoy both. What does annoy me is when single guys on here ask if they can be a regular when they haven't even met us. Like I'm going to say YES when I Don't even know if we would click !

Makes no sense and sounds desperate.

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy one offs immensely, something very sexual and arousing about it I find .. well for fab meets anyway ..

With proper meets outside of swinging I would build up over time to socialize and hangout with..

Totally agree

For me fab/swinging is just a play area that is something i like to switch off and on .. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been too long whatever the choice.

Ideal long term regular.

One offs at clubs

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"We enjoy both. What does annoy me is when single guys on here ask if they can be a regular when they haven't even met us. Like I'm going to say YES when I Don't even know if we would click !

Makes no sense and sounds desperate.

Mrs N"

Indeed mrs nN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars! The sex gets better each time

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we would love to meet a local Regular couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs are fun but a regular would be a dream come true

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Regular would be more fun

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

Definitely prefer having regular friends we can have fun with xx

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

I have a regular guy.

I just want a regular woman

Like chuffing gold dust blowing in hurricane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets one offs

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"we would love to meet a local Regular couple. "

Good luck

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Like both, it depends on the occasion

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We definitely prefer long term over one offs

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"We definitely prefer long term over one offs"

Ty for sharing

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Got enough regular meets , so any new meets will be one-off or every now and again "

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Depends on the day

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Both, if they are great then they become regulars.

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Regular for sure if the chemistry is there !

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Both, if they are great then they become regulars."

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Regular for us...the first meet is getting to know each other bodies and how to get the best out of them...

K

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By *mart_andyMan
over a year ago

Kent

We've had some amazing 1 off meets, but the relaxed atmosphere of repeat meets can't be beaten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any comments?"

Ideally regular and most of my partners agree, though happy for one-offs to meet new people and try them out. Hope they become regulars too.

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By *idewillyMan
over a year ago

jersey

Both i love the fun and laughter with regular fun and the friendships and love the spontaneity and unknown pleasures of a first meet but most of all love the pleasure giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular ofc

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Regular for myself is the best fun as you can build towards what you all like.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer regular meets as you get to know each other better the more you meet .

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

I love my older friends but I'm ok with making new friends but I hate the process of getting a new friend especially if you are in to it and it looks like it is going to happen but you get played in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like having regular one offs!

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I like a little bit of both, regular is good cos you learn what each other likes. But a little bit of change is good too

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Regular for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both works with me.

Be happy for either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of both

One offs can be a real thrill

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I prefer regular meets as you get to know each other better the more you meet ."

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

One offs for me as I don't need anymore baggage

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Any meets would be nice right now ??

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"One offs for me as I don't need anymore baggage "

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By *esifuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

london

We prefer regular as real kinky fun starts when there is a good connection

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By *lenn FairlightMan
over a year ago

East Kent

I think both can be amazing, for me it is all about the chemistry. Chemistry can be instantaneously smoking hot or evolve with mutual understanding and exploration over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular, always better.

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By *illon-UKMan
over a year ago

Hull


"We prefer regular as real kinky fun starts when there is a good connection"

Got to agree with that especially when you start to understand what makes the lady tick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We prefer regular as real kinky fun starts when there is a good connection"

Oh yes, definitely regular sparckle with mischievous steanger Hotel meet ups.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Both

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

True fully it this point I would just be happy with Iver

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Regular

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Regular "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular definitely just hard to find thou

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Regular for sure

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Regular for sure"

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

definitely regular, always going to get hotter and better

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"definitely regular, always going to get hotter and better"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m defo in the minority wanting one offs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for regular

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By *rancis6Couple
over a year ago

sale

Oh regular.. the fun is only getting started....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.

Hope springs eternal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer regular one off's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.

Hope springs eternal. "

This is our answer too perfectly put x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either would be good! Can't wait for us to have our jabs! M

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.

Hope springs eternal.

This is our answer too perfectly put x"

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Looking for regular "

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Oh regular.. the fun is only getting started.... "

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By *uriousMe2018Couple
over a year ago

Aldershot

Definitely regular!

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

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