FabSwingers.com forum: Your longest time with FWB

By *ondonexplorer OP Man
over a year ago

Ascot

FWB/Fuck Buddies - what's the longest you've maintained such a relationship?

Most of mine have been a few months, and longest was 2 years.

Has anyone maintained one for a very long time or are they, by their very nature, only a brief pleasure?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

3 years.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

18 months so far, but quite a bit of that has been pandemic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero, but hoping to change that post lockdown

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I used to see a couple pre fab days that I saw regularly, although in the end it was mainly her on her own, that was over 8 years.

On fab, three years with another couple, still in touch with and a year with a single female.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Met my current fb in august 2019. We did have 6 months without seeing each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FWB/Fuck Buddies - what's the longest you've maintained such a relationship?

Most of mine have been a few months, and longest was 2 years.

Has anyone maintained one for a very long time or are they, by their very nature, only a brief pleasure?"

Over 4 years...

was fun while lasted

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

10yrs

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I don't see him often, but 24 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 years. Can’t wait until lockdown is over

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

4 year lovely time with her

Love the passion and going to see her and with in 5 min getting there being in bed

Would love to have a fuck buddy now

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Ours has been for the last 3 years but lockdown has meant it's been nearly a year since we had some naughtiness in person

although getting naughty on cam with each other is good it kind of makes the situation worse

can't wait until we can kick back with some drinks and have a fantastically flithy night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years for us before re-location.

Looking for a replacement, but finding it impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years. Purely out of circumstance.

All the rest have been only a few months, by then they want to find a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year longest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was around a year! She was v naughty in the bed hahah

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

10 years

Long story but I wouldn't repeat the last couple of years if you paid me! Lol

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Just over 3 years, including through the time when I broke my knee, badly, and was in hospital for nearly a month.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

30 years.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

About 2 years, other fb have come and gone but he's my old faithful... X

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

2 yrs but a year of that has been in lockdown

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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Bergerac, France

Around 20 years in total, the last 10 as friends but without the benefits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one, but interested.

The whole having a hotwife/boyfriend thing is something we’ve discussed but it’s the ‘developed relationship’ part that hubby is not sure he’s comfortable with. That’s not to say never, just something we need to get our heads around together x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Around 6 months x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

13 years for my first one

2 years for my current ones

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

A couple of months at best. I'm usually out of there when they get too serious.

I did once fuck an ex after a 5 year break up. That was just chemistry though.

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By *adlad65Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Longest was just over 18 months. There was some non sexual common ground so plenty to talk about over a meal etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 yrs

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

6 years hot wife! Does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 years hot wife! Does that count ?"

Yes yes it does.

*just my opinion

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

7 years. Our ways parted in Jan. I will miss him for a long time.

V x

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The woman in my two earliest pics was a hotwife who I visited for three years - varying from once a week for a few months at a time to once a month or so...

....previously, there was a divorcee who I would spend a night with once or twice a month - that went on for around a year...

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Current one 2yrs

Previous 5yrs x

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

7 years and ongoing, although lockdown has temporarily stalled things. However, we spoke this morning and hopefully there will be a summer reunion.

I think if you have a connection and the inclination to keep in touch, a FWB doesn't need to be a temporary thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 2 years. Ended recently

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Four years, was one of the best at what she did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly a year and won’t be having one that lasts that long again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months or so.

We both knew we were also looking for relationships so knew it wasn't a permanent thing.

He found a girldfriend and I'm still searching for another suitable FwB.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"5 months or so.

We both knew we were also looking for relationships so knew it wasn't a permanent thing.

He found a girldfriend and I'm still searching for another suitable FwB. "

My FWBs are relationships .... it’s odd how differently we translate FWB. To me.. it’s the same as a boyfriend.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 solid years every week ...damn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Current one 2yrs

Previous 5yrs x"
lucky guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 months or so.

We both knew we were also looking for relationships so knew it wasn't a permanent thing.

He found a girldfriend and I'm still searching for another suitable FwB.

My FWBs are relationships .... it’s odd how differently we translate FWB. To me.. it’s the same as a boyfriend.

V x "

It’s nothing like a boyfriend for me. I wouldn’t discuss anything personal and I’d hardly touch upon anything in my normal day to day life except basic info like ‘been to the shops to get XYZ’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 months or so.

We both knew we were also looking for relationships so knew it wasn't a permanent thing.

He found a girldfriend and I'm still searching for another suitable FwB.

My FWBs are relationships .... it’s odd how differently we translate FWB. To me.. it’s the same as a boyfriend.

V x "

It was odd really, we hit it off in the bedroom but wasn't each others type relationship wise but we were still good friends outside of the bedroom too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 fuck buddies that I have been meet for over 9 years. Another two coming up to 5 years.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

3 years! He turned out to be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 3 fuck buddies that I have been meet for over 9 years. Another two coming up to 5 years. "

That must keep you busy lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years! He turned out to be a dick "
didn't you clock that earlier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years but he was deployed on and off through the whole time!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

5 years and he taught me a lot about myself. I think of him fondly and try and resist the siren call of his penis when I'm horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years and he taught me a lot about myself. I think of him fondly and try and resist the siren call of his penis when I'm horny.

Siren call?? Haha! Brilliant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 18 months, had a few that lasted that long. After which time they've always fallen in love. Whereas I'm a robot with no feelings lol

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"3 years! He turned out to be a dick didn't you clock that earlier lol "

Well he didn’t show his dick-ness till near the end

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My longest was around 9 years, which was really going to it and helpful being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years! He turned out to be a dick didn't you clock that earlier lol

Well he didn’t show his dick-ness till near the end

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his loss ... your super sexy lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife had a fuck buddy since 2012 and it looks like it has just ended as he has moved far away is that a record lol

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By *uby Tuesday 55Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

For me there is a difference between someone who is a FWB and someone who is a FB.

My FWB 11yrs and still going.

FB's I have a couple who I see when it suits. (Prior to Lockdown restrictions)

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By *ouchstoneMan
over a year ago

Worcester

To say I am a very lucky guy is an understatement. One lasted 12 years before the couple moved to France the 2nd is a delicious 15yrs... sadly, being sensible, we've not played since September.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

One was 4 years on and off. Although we tried something serious for the last few months and it didn’t work out.

Most naturally fizzle out with around a year.

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By *neamigoMan
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

Known a couple for three years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one for 14 years, another for 8.5 years but 3 years is the most common for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one for 14 years, another for 8.5 years but 3 years is the most common for me "

Should add all FWB the longest ones aren't from Fab as they're more the real life FWB rather than the Fab more BWF type

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By *attooCTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow /Swansea

5 year a lassie aff here stopped meeting for a bit cause she had a bf. Meetin again after lockdown . Long time n theres feelings there 4 both of us which is a bit of a head fuck but it wouldn’t work out right how I work away n only come up where she is twice a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years was the longest!

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Longest was about 6 years, was always a good fuck and I loved that he didn’t care if I’ve already had sex with someone but needed more straight away.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

3 years so far. Very good friend (with the "relationship" that entails) plus sex. I like that with anyone I sleep with, ideally, but he's special.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

11 years and still going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 yrs with the 1, and 2 years with the other 2

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

4 years with someone I met every week, 9 years with someone I only met every few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brother had one 14 yrs and wife never knew ... she moved abroad in the end ... funny he saw the lass every day too

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

My last was nearly a year.. unfortunately he got too controlling and didn't like my lifestyle. Basically he wanted me all to himself

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"My last was nearly a year.. unfortunately he got too controlling and didn't like my lifestyle. Basically he wanted me all to himself "

Don't think I'll be going down that path again of an fwb

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