FabSwingers.com forum: What's the first thing you look at on a profile?

By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Age and marital status I presume?

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Pics usually - being brutally honest.

Then the words and what they have to say about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tits and cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tits and cock

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lol

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

A full, coherent sentence!

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Verifications, only really interested in people who we can be sure actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have verifications / ticks first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance, if there all the way in Scotland worth dropping a message

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"A full, coherent sentence!"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Distance first, then whether they can accommodate because i can't. Then i read the profile. If it's a couple of sentences I'll just pass. But if it's a great profile i will then look at pics. If they are all just cock pics or action pics i will again pass but usually interesting profiles will have a good variety of pics.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

A nice profile pic is an eye catcher but then at least a short paragragh of non text speak to judge if you are likely to get at least a pleasnt no thanks if you send a message.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Pictures and height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications, pics, distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how close they are to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic first normal draw in and then distance looking for etc and bio details etc do like well written humour

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

In order. Ages, sexuality, pics, write up, interests, veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics,bio distance

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Pics...always.

Can tell a lot more from pics than words

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Pictures, they often tell me all I need to know.

If they're ok it's profile next, if we're obviously not what they're looking for I read no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics definitely. As can’t read profiles some are way to long

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Scan the text first to see if it chimes with us (coherent sentences are a start, similar outlook next)

Look for verified next

Location and what they are looking for after that

Then have a look at photos

Is it any wonder we don’t find many profiles to message!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can they accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal lol

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Age, Pictures, Location and Interests.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Always pictures first, then whether we match their preferences and finally their verifications.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Pure lovely nakedness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tits and cock

tits and cock ....... and tits again if their big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance, accommodate, profile blurb then pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read the bio. Doesn't matter how good someone looks, for us, their bio let's us know what type of people they are.

If it's only a few words, or just a list of demands, not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm really interested, their profile to see if we match. And their "what we are looking for section" to check if there is any interest in single guys. If we don't I will likely click away.

If their profile pic has caught my eye I will check out their gallery, fab anything that catches my eye and move on

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Do they smoke?

No point going further if they do.

Then it’s bio, then pics, then verifications.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

First for us is the age preference of the profile we are looking at as we are outwith most peoples age range, then it will be the bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics and if they don’t have any then I look at “body type”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age and to check they're a non-smoker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age. Big barrier to get over

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

If there are pics and then read the profile to know what they are after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location then pictures.

If I like the pictures i will then look at height and age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then verifications.. the amount and who they are from.

If they have verifications from certain people then I won’t meet.

It’s a wonder how I ever meet anyone lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I first read the profile , after i see the verifications and before leaving, i get noisy in the pictures section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tits and cock

LOL ????????

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

How long they are on the site and age then bio then pics.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

location and if I'm attracted to their photos

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Location then pictures.

If I like the pictures i will then look at height and age. "

you sound like me in the way I filter through men... it's probably quite common for women to think this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics usually - being brutally honest.

Then the words and what they have to say about themselves."

Yup...me too

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Arse pics. If arse looks like a bag of hammers, then it's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they know how to write using any form of decent English and then distance/photos and what they’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they are looking for, then pics, text and distance.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Quickly scroll through the pics looking fir fanny batter then hit back button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick scan of the bio to see if where on the same wave length. Then pics and verifications

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

On the assumption that you mean someone who has messaged me instead of someone on the forums, it goes like this. First the bit at the top with their age, location, and avatar (if they have one). Then I scroll down to the info bit to see if they’re a smoker, then I read the profile text (if there is any). Then I scroll back up to look at their photos, then if they’re local, their veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A full, coherent sentence!"

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Location , there veris and I always check to see if they verified the person back ,profile and picture

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Age, where they are and what they've written about themselves

If I don't like that, I don't even look at pics usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics usually - being brutally honest.

Then the words and what they have to say about themselves."

Same. Although I look at verifications too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age range and “will/won’t meet smokers”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Location then pictures.

If I like the pictures i will then look at height and age.

you sound like me in the way I filter through men... it's probably quite common for women to think this way.

So hard to get all those stars aligned too haha

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By *ungleTemptressWoman
over a year ago

The Jungle

Height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics then bio.

If they can't string an intelligent sentence together, I am out of there!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Pictures first...no point going any further if I'm not attracted to them

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Smoker/non smoker.

It's a pretty hard point for us.

after that the list of red flags begins! :D

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Verifications is the first thing we check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smoker/non smoker.

It's a pretty hard point for us.

after that the list of red flags begins! :D"

I know what you mean

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By *unichMan
over a year ago

I look instantly for those little symbols for verification, supporter etc.

The more of them there are, the more credible I am likely to find the profile, and the more interested I might possibly be.

If it's just a mobile phone symbol, then I'll just move onwards, no matter how enticing the pictures or wording might be....

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Pictures, spot how fake they are, distance and if we both approve xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, verifications, distance, spelling and grammar xx

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Verifications

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Verified, face and location.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Sexuality/cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they want to meet TV's

Where they are

Profile text

Can they accomodate

Pictures

Normally that order ish

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Humour and verifications.

Profile names that contain the word fun get my attention as do clever statuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any pics?

Verifications?

How long on site ?

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Nicely written profile distance, ability to accommodate and decent pictures

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By *ricoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

In order:

Their age pretence

Sexuality bi or straight

Body type

Bio

Pictures

Verifications

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Pretty much - Age preference (could be wasting my time) then bio to see what they’re into. I could be the complete opposite of what they’re looking.

Then pictures, veris.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.

Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Age and marital status I presume?"

We look for how much effort has been put into it. Is it yet another lazy cock shot filled one liner with all the default tick box options selected or has the subject actually bothered to tell us something worth knowing.

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

Smoker non smoker

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Their age preference, distance, then actually read the profile (if they’ve bothered putting one), then pics and vids

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.

Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate. "

Oh, we all know that’s the first thing men look at. The problem is that it’s usually also the last thing they look at, as they never make it to the text before messaging.

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

"Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.

Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate.

Oh, we all know that’s the first thing men look at. The problem is that it’s usually also the last thing they look at, as they never make it to the text before messaging."

And 99% of people on here are guilty as charged of that. Absolutely agree.

Always baffles me as many profiles make great reading. As well as giving vital clues as to potentially suitability of course. Anyway, that's their loss!

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Smoker or not, then distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile picture

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Age, Pictures, Location and Interests."

and fresh breath ie nonsmokers.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Time on site, are they verified, pics, read what they have to say. Normally in that order.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

All depends, but pics and what they are into for the most part

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Pics get me interested. Preferably a face pic.

Then it's smoker or not (won't meet smokers).

Then distance.

Then bio for being able toconstruct a coherent sentence.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Profile pic, then pics (we need a physical attraction) the bio

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

if they are a bi guy

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics then there sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green tick or flag

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

If they refer to 420, chem or other drug words, then it is a short trip to blocksville.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally look at interests first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics then words. I’m very visual ...

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

1)Recent face piccy

So i can see who i am talking to

Apart from toalkin with a dickjead if thry msg me with jusr dick piccys up

2)Then distance see of they are close by as i dont have a car

3)ALWAYS WILL CHECK THST THEY ARE SINGLE ONLY

If they say they are married or have a partner

Then state they are lookin for discreet sorry its a block

4)If they state they cannot accommodate

Just see who they say they live with

5) see how many veris they have

If they hsve a good fair few and the dates are close together-

Block, shows how sad n desperste they are just lookin to shag anyone n anything

6) Check the photos

7) read profile- see what interests u to msg them

The turnoffs

Are the ones who say they have been on before n left

But then come back on n stste if u had met them b4 askin thrm to leave a veri agsin

Dont get that they fucked someone them fucked off probably cos they met someone

Then come back on askin them to leave them a veri from when they had met prob 2 yrs ago

FUCK THAT

They left to stsrt seein someone so why shud u just leave them a veri wen they co.e back with a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile description, to get idea of their personality, and see if im excluded in some way

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

The distance

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

Close by

Their interests and comment section to see if we match with similar things before making a fool

Of myself

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

If they're smokers.. and if any are shorter than me.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance see of they are close as I dont drive and may guys message me from Wales as I keep coming up as being 30 miles away were I can be over 170 miles away.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"1)Recent face piccy

So i can see who i am talking to

Apart from toalkin with a dickjead if thry msg me with jusr dick piccys up

2)Then distance see of they are close by as i dont have a car

3)ALWAYS WILL CHECK THST THEY ARE SINGLE ONLY

If they say they are married or have a partner

Then state they are lookin for discreet sorry its a block

4)If they state they cannot accommodate

Just see who they say they live with

5) see how many veris they have

If they hsve a good fair few and the dates are close together-

Block, shows how sad n desperste they are just lookin to shag anyone n anything

6) Check the photos

7) read profile- see what interests u to msg them

The turnoffs

Are the ones who say they have been on before n left

But then come back on n stste if u had met them b4 askin thrm to leave a veri agsin

Dont get that they fucked someone them fucked off probably cos they met someone

Then come back on askin them to leave them a veri from when they had met prob 2 yrs ago

FUCK THAT

They left to stsrt seein someone so why shud u just leave them a veri wen they co.e back with a new profile

"
see what their grammar is like! ??

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

Pics

Profile text

Location

Verifications

It doesn’t fail, just clockwork.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sexuality xxher

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Profile pic and name...

Location

Public pics

Profile text

Interests

Verifications

But in honesty, all have to add uo to a complete package.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

First photos.

Second verification ticks.

Third : who they're looking for.

Fourth : Friends list.

Fifth : Verification summary.

If interested, then I'll look at location and read the profile.

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone

Pics

Distance

Interests

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Profile pic

Location

Bio

Pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile name

Location

Pics

Age

Smoker/non smoker

Interests

Bio

Not necessarily in that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Description of what they are looking for and photos. There has to be a connection on a physical and mental side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures.

No pictures I don't go any further.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes age beyond a profile pic at least

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

Cock of course then build and height, accommodate or not.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Age, pictures because that’s literally the first thing I see when I click on the profile. But the actually profile description is just as important as pictures. We’ll turn down a hot pic if we wasn’t on board with the description.

Haven’t really taken much notice of verification

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

age but most say 18 to 99 they dont mean it

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We always look at the profile write up first to see if we tick their boxes and visa versa. Then look at their pictures, as there is no point getting excited looking out a members pictures to find out they don’t meet smokers etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A full, coherent sentence!"

I second that, and replies that read 'How's you'

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Pics and if they accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance first as I have no intention of meeting anyone from stupid far away, then if they smoke or not as I dislike meeting people who smoke then once I know there are no deal breakers I'll check out the profile and pictures to see if the person interests me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are Fab verified, and their pic for us. No point in engaging in a conversation if we don't think they are for us.

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

Lips

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By *ifi and dunkieCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Distance and if bi-fem couple or bi lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the pictures first and then if I like those I read what they're looking for. I look at their veris next to see what type of people they are attracted to. A well written bio is always good and shows they have a bit of something about themselves instead of the will fill in later brigade

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