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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never new that !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never new that !!"

You're joking now...... Well there ya go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

I didn't know that either.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

I didn't know that either. "

Well I kinda did but what if its one straight and one bi guy?? And bi women? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

I didn't know that either.

Well I kinda did but what if its one straight and one bi guy?? And bi women? Lol "

Bahahahaha... It's still MFM...as in the straight guy won't play with the Bi guy... Not Unless He's `Fab Staight`

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

what do you prefer? MMFor MFM?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?"

Like This...

F-F-F=M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?

Like This...

F-F-F=M"

And that's a minus sign and an equals sign

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males. "

Who says?

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By *earl1knit1Couple
over a year ago

east midlands


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?"

POINTLESS

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

I've had an mmf and neither of the guys were bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as long as I have all the attention. Xxxxxxx We always check that it is a straight guy xxxx

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

I'd be happy in either lol

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Who says?"

For example: https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/889mbj/mmf_vs_mfm/

Described there by Molokev99

MMF vs MFM

This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

As a bi guy, I prefer MMF over MFM, although I do MFM on occasion with certain couples (Obviously the ones where the other guy is totally straight) and because I know that ahead of time, there's no problem.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

(Realistically I would never do that because I have pretty extensive discussions before getting naked, specifically to avoid this kind of thing.)

I just want to help make sure that when you're looking for a group thing that you know how to ask for what you want.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

Logically MMMMMF doesn't necessarily mean all the dudes are doing each other too, it probably means straight gangbang, but that's a whole other conversation...

tldr; MMF= 2 Bi dudes + 1 girl, MFM= 2 straight dudes +1 girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Who says?

For example: https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/889mbj/mmf_vs_mfm/

Described there by Molokev99

MMF vs MFM

This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

As a bi guy, I prefer MMF over MFM, although I do MFM on occasion with certain couples (Obviously the ones where the other guy is totally straight) and because I know that ahead of time, there's no problem.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

(Realistically I would never do that because I have pretty extensive discussions before getting naked, specifically to avoid this kind of thing.)

I just want to help make sure that when you're looking for a group thing that you know how to ask for what you want.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

Logically MMMMMF doesn't necessarily mean all the dudes are doing each other too, it probably means straight gangbang, but that's a whole other conversation...

tldr; MMF= 2 Bi dudes + 1 girl, MFM= 2 straight dudes +1 girl

"

Thanks... ^^^^^^^^ This is exactly what I am trying to explain.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I didn't know this either so i guess i haven't had a mmf but mfm and mmf is still on my bucket list. Thanks for the education.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Labels and pedants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Labels and pedants"

Nothing To Do With Labels. Get A Grip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't know this either so i guess i haven't had a mmf but mfm and mmf is still on my bucket list. Thanks for the education."

So now ya know

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

I didn't know that either.

Well I kinda did but what if its one straight and one bi guy?? And bi women? Lol "

I think that’s a free for all lol

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Yeah I only knew that recently too. I've been relaying the wrong message to people lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

No it's not. That is something that has been made up recently.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?"

FMF

..F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

No it's not. That is something that has been made up recently."

Not made up at all...

It's just not in the Oxford Dictionary yet of abbreviations

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Would limits and expectations be sorted prior to any meets.

And or in any profiles?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

FMF for me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FMF for me please "

MFM for me

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

Not that hoary old Fab myth yet again. I have enjoyed plenty of MMF, MMMF, MMMMF and MMMMMFFs in which all the guys play absolutely straight. If your 'fact' was correct how would you write a straight MMMF and beyond? Whether play is straight or bi depends upon what the participants agree, not the order of the letters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I only knew that recently too. I've been relaying the wrong message to people lol"

Snap, as in this minute recently, will definitely need to watch our messages more carefully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 09:43:38]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

i just call it lovely sexy fun but i do understand what you mean.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 11/03/21 09:59:07]"

I'm just best to stay quietly now. Because I'll speak my mind too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't appreciated the difference between MFM and MMF and have used interchangeably, but will only be using MDM from now on!

Thanks for clarifying..

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

That has always been my understanding too, that the arrangement of the letters is indicative of the interaction involved, but I have been caught up in similar debates on here in the past & some people seem to have awfully strong opinions on the subject for some reason

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

MFM is clearer on a threesome

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would say that a jumble of letters are a jumble of letters. Communication before any play meet and also communication on a play meet should have set boundaries so letter mixing doesn't really come into it. Lack of communication equals disaster. Its like all this political correctness, be sure not to get anything wrong or you will be chastised

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We like a mfm then

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"FMF for me please "

Not FFM or MFF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you learn something new everyday didn't know it mattered what order it went in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"
fair enough.. well im up for either

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"We would say that a jumble of letters are a jumble of letters. Communication before any play meet and also communication on a play meet should have set boundaries so letter mixing doesn't really come into it. Lack of communication equals disaster. Its like all this political correctness, be sure not to get anything wrong or you will be chastised "

+1

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"FMF for me please

Not FFM or MFF?"

FFM means that two females and may let the male join in or just tie him to a chair. MFF is guy tied to the chair but not allowed to join in

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Makes no difference what order their in to me I like both, having a meet like this isn’t always easy to arrange so I would of thought lots of communication would of taken place to discuss the dynamics

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By *oxychick35Couple
over a year ago

thornaby


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"
never knew also lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

I knew it... so I have had MMF...MFM never worked out

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

i'm defo up for mmf everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

Oh wow, never knew that.

Definitely mmf for me

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"
. On a similar thread just over 6 months ago was when I discovered that MMF is with bi males and MFM is with straight males I know this may sound stupid or naive but I didn’t know that they meant different things. I do now but to be on the safe side I will make it clear that I am straight guy and not interested in any play with the male part of the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf....always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to try both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

Never realised that, oh well done no harm so far

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Like any combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter aslong as everybody involved knows if there are any boundaries!

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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago

Clapham


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?"

No I don't think it matters as the on here as "fab straight" only apply to males females are exempt for some reson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Not that hoary old Fab myth yet again. I have enjoyed plenty of MMF, MMMF, MMMMF and MMMMMFFs in which all the guys play absolutely straight. If your 'fact' was correct how would you write a straight MMMF and beyond? Whether play is straight or bi depends upon what the participants agree, not the order of the letters."

They’re just gangbangs with straight guys.

Abs you can’t write the ones down you mention without at least two Ms being together. You’re just being twisty for the sake of it.

Go draw a diagram and you’d easily keep the Ms apart. Happy? Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would say that a jumble of letters are a jumble of letters. Communication before any play meet and also communication on a play meet should have set boundaries so letter mixing doesn't really come into it. Lack of communication equals disaster. Its like all this political correctness, be sure not to get anything wrong or you will be chastised "

Well the distinction between MMF and MFM is surely handy as a starting message. It’s literally one sentence and isn’t that difficult or harmful? Seems like you don’t like being challenged yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was aware of this...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Reminds me I need to get some tins of spaghetti alphabet shapes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t know this!

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

Yep so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was aware of this..."

Nice one Rodders (Dave)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like the time when i went benidorm and i asked the guy behind the bar how to ask for the biggest chicken on the spit and he told me its "grande pollo"

Next night i came back and told him the guys were laughing at me like a bunch of cunts while i was ordering and he turned and said sorry couldnt resist, its "grande poya not pollo" you asked them for a giant cock instead hahaha

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We would say that a jumble of letters are a jumble of letters. Communication before any play meet and also communication on a play meet should have set boundaries so letter mixing doesn't really come into it. Lack of communication equals disaster. Its like all this political correctness, be sure not to get anything wrong or you will be chastised

Well the distinction between MMF and MFM is surely handy as a starting message. It’s literally one sentence and isn’t that difficult or harmful? Seems like you don’t like being challenged yourself? "

Funny that as we knew what it meant anyway. Not sure how you come to the assumption we don't like being challenged though. Strange thing to say

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be nice !!

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By *eandshe123Couple
over a year ago

Ashby

We have even saying this wrong for a long time

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

As long as you have been doing it right!lol

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Up for MFM anyone hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never new that! You learn something new every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Up for MFM anyone hehe. "

If we find a lady

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By *reemyspiritawakenmysoulWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't most helpful and informative thank you hunny

understandd why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Who says?

For example: https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/889mbj/mmf_vs_mfm/

Described there by Molokev99

MMF vs MFM

This is not intended to be snarky or anything like that, although I'm certain that someone around here will take it as such....

This is more educational than anything because I know that not everyone is aware that there is a huge difference between MMF and MFM. Some of you are going "DUH?" right now, but it is definitely not clear to many.

Obviously it means a threesome with two guys and one girl. The confusion seems to be where many list as looking for MMF when they don't realize that MMF is a threesome with Male/Male contact included. Hence, the two M's touching each other in the descriptor.

MFM is the designation for a threesome with two guys and a girl where there is NO Male/Male contact (aside from the incidental stuff that happens on occasion) and where none is wanted.

As a bi guy, I prefer MMF over MFM, although I do MFM on occasion with certain couples (Obviously the ones where the other guy is totally straight) and because I know that ahead of time, there's no problem.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

(Realistically I would never do that because I have pretty extensive discussions before getting naked, specifically to avoid this kind of thing.)

I just want to help make sure that when you're looking for a group thing that you know how to ask for what you want.

However, if you ask me to join you as a couple for a MMF encounter, then it would be assumed that he's going to be cool with me blowing him, etc.

Logically MMMMMF doesn't necessarily mean all the dudes are doing each other too, it probably means straight gangbang, but that's a whole other conversation...

tldr; MMF= 2 Bi dudes + 1 girl, MFM= 2 straight dudes +1 girl

Thanks... ^^^^^^^^ This is exactly what I am trying to explain. "

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Because depending on what you are trying to convey it is easier to type the M or F part twice instead of having to go back to it.

Out of interest how would you write MFFF where the 3 females do not interact with each other; FMF F ?"

Have to say thats how we've seen it (male) Our profile says it clearly no bi males if in doubt that really means Straight.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Hi,

There's lots of equations of sexual group play/activity.

But I still don't understand why some peeps call any 3sum with 2Males and 1Female an MMF.

MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Just so some of ye know.

Yep, MMF is with Bi-Males and MFM is with straight Males.

Who says?"

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Just as long as I have all the attention. Xxxxxxx We always check that it is a straight guy xxxx "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"what do you prefer? MMFor MFM? "

What is the difference between MMF and FMM ?

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle

MMF for me but I would play MFM if asked(not happened recently)

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We will continue to enjoy the threesum plus play meets and continue to state clearly NO Bi guys, in our invites so as to avoid any confusion. A gumble of letters seems to be to conveniently easy to be misunderstood.

Its been interesting read though ty OP.

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Irrespective the correct label. The key is, the lady must be the centre of attention.

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Irrespective the correct label. The key is, the lady must be the centre of attention. "

Totally incorrect.

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Have been involved in both MMF and MFM both are amazing.

But would have always presumed an MMF would have some bi play.

TBH if ye get to the stage where ye are playing and somebody has misunderstood,then communication isn't great between ye all and in my opinion communication is key to a good or even a great meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the difference between MMF and FMM ?"

MMF is where two bi-guys play with a female.

FMM is where the guys are straight but the Femdom makes them suck each other off anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FMM or MMF? It’s just letters. A threesome is a threesome. And they are hot.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Or TV(S) MF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We will continue to enjoy the threesum plus play meets and continue to state clearly NO Bi guys, in our invites so as to avoid any confusion. A gumble of letters seems to be to conveniently easy to be misunderstood.

Its been interesting read though ty OP."

Thanks

Jeez some are complaining they don't wanna type MFM even though it's what they're looking for and that it's easier to write MMF omg like lazy or what. Lazy in one way lazy in many. Says alot about him.

Others saying they're just letters, yes BUT letters that have a serious meaning. It's handy to know if peeps wanna write in there bio or status update what they're looking for. Don't we want to convey and communicate exactly what we are seeking or looking for and not be misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*Their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will continue to enjoy the threesum plus play meets and continue to state clearly NO Bi guys, in our invites so as to avoid any confusion. A gumble of letters seems to be to conveniently easy to be misunderstood.

Its been interesting read though ty OP.

Thanks

Jeez some are complaining they don't wanna type MFM even though it's what they're looking for and that it's easier to write MMF omg like lazy or what. Lazy in one way lazy in many. Says alot about him.

Others saying they're just letters, yes BUT letters that have a serious meaning. It's handy to know if peeps wanna write in there bio or status update what they're looking for. Don't we want to convey and communicate exactly what we are seeking or looking for and not be misinterpreted"

I've suddenly got the urge for an MMK

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Then whats a mmmf?

Confused now arent you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then whats a mmmf?

Confused now arent you."

You had a minus - or a plus + between letters minus - meaning straight plus + meaning bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*ADD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then whats a mmmf?

Confused now arent you.

You had a minus - or a plus + between letters minus - meaning straight plus + meaning bi "

This system seems very confusing, I think early communication is the most important thing. I’ve just looked at profiles of some profiles who love threesomes judging by pictures and they have various ways around, that conflict with all this. I suppose no assumptions is the best way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually knew that and I usually know fook all!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Then whats a mmmf?

Confused now arent you.

You had a minus - or a plus + between letters minus - meaning straight plus + meaning bi "
funny not a single person on here writes it like that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then whats a mmmf?

Confused now arent you.

You had a minus - or a plus + between letters minus - meaning straight plus + meaning bi funny not a single person on here writes it like that..."

M+m - m+f (tv) = The computer says no.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

Okkkkk

I kinda get that...

But then but the same token isn't it;

FMF if the girls are hetero?

And FFM if bi?

TBH I've always just typed MMF cos it's easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okkkkk

I kinda get that...

But then but the same token isn't it;

FMF if the girls are hetero?

And FFM if bi?

TBH I've always just typed MMF cos it's easier "

Men prefer to believe that all women are bi so it's just FFM

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde


"

Men prefer to believe that all women are bi so it's just FFM "

Bahahahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Men prefer to believe that all women are bi so it's just FFM

Bahahahahah"

The usual response to a stupid comment like mine would be to say that the women will play together after the men have... but on here that wouldn't help you much.

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

I dont particularly think of myself as "bi" but when I'm in a threesum and I look at the other guys cock I do have the urge to admire it, touch it, and give it oral!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well either is good for us.. Mmf mfm ffm fmf.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Love of both mmf and mfm... I have had some start as mfm then the hubby went for it and it turned to a mmf which was a pleasant surprise. mmmmmmm

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I thought that they were the noises people made during sex.

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

I really dont give a damn if it IS MMF, MFM, FMM ....I read the profile which will ordinarily state if any of the participants are straight, bi or bi curious etc.

If others are going to be involved, it makes common sense to be up front on your profile.

It isnt rocket science.

I fancy MMMMFMMMM.....go figure

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

I almost ended up in a MDF situation on a meet with a lady and her eager dog. I really don’t get why people don’t put their dog in another room when having fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I almost ended up in a MDF situation on a meet with a lady and her eager dog. I really don’t get why people don’t put their dog in another room when having fun "

Ssssssssssstooopppppp........ Too Funny

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I almost ended up in a MDF situation on a meet with a lady and her eager dog. I really don’t get why people don’t put their dog in another room when having fun "

Mdf? Theres a joke in there somewhere about fake wood...

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I really dont give a damn if it IS MMF, MFM, FMM ....I read the profile which will ordinarily state if any of the participants are straight, bi or bi curious etc.

If others are going to be involved, it makes common sense to be up front on your profile.

It isnt rocket science.

I fancy MMMMFMMMM.....go figure "

In over 15yrs of swinging not really ever got hung up on MMF vs MFM but yep they are different strictly speaking. However, would be nice if folks read profile and saw whether the male in couple lists themselves as Bi/Bi-curious/Straight as that is the biggest clue!

Also these labels fall down with MMMF etc if guys straight should it be MFMM (but does that mean two guys are bi?)

Also as Mrs B is bi then any threesome we have had with other women is a FFM but would two straight women be FMF? Not sure I ever see that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in.

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