FabSwingers.com forum: So why gay guys pretending to be couple to get laid

By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

So odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mate. She’s just in the other room finishing off a jigsaw she’ll be through in a minute, I’ll start you off with a blowie. I can believe some might pretend on here for pics or chat but an actual meet wouldn’t that be a bit obvious and hard to fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I fell for this when I first started off here I wasn't to bothered as I'm bi but it's still really odd lol

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"This is a thing?

Yes happened to me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of single guys pretending to be a couple to get laid and also horrific stories... But we won't go there...

Can you elaborate OP pls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How very odd, not good at all and I'm bi...lol

If you can't be honest on Fabs you've no hope!

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Yes mate. She’s just in the other room finishing off a jigsaw she’ll be through in a minute, I’ll start you off with a blowie. I can believe some might pretend on here for pics or chat but an actual meet wouldn’t that be a bit obvious and hard to fake? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're relatively new on here, but when the time comes we can meet again, when it comes time for the meet, we'll insist on a phone call at least between the girls.

Don't know if it's single guys trying their luck, which is strange as we'll meet single guys on occasion, or just sad guys who get their kicks pretending to be the female side of the couple when messaging.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Presume you’re talking about single gay guys OP?

And not gay couples pretending to be couples... as that’s not pretending!

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We do often get messaged of guys who are in couples profile we do look for bi guys sometimes but we wouldn't prioritise guys in couples it doesn't come access as honest especially when you read there verifications they are always just the guy meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not gay guys. It’s bi men. I’m yet to hear from a couple that’s actually a male and a female. It’s always “oh she’s busy right now”. Even with verified accounts.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I don't think it is just gay guys who do this, plenty of women get message from single men pretending to be a couple as well.

For the reason why, who knows.

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I've heard of single guys pretending to be a couple to get laid and also horrific stories... But we won't go there...

Can you elaborate OP pls "

So we were taking to couple and after a long chat it turned out the guy is gay and lady in couple

Does not even play I did. Ask even he had seen her naked and he just avoided the question and only want to talk about getting fucked lol

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By *unichMan
over a year ago

In a early encounter of mine, I went through no little inconvenience to meet the "couple" in a pub.

He turned up, and told me that he would like me to join him in his car so he could inspect my cock before introducing me to his wife....

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think weve all had this happen and because we tend to tar all, with the same brush on here. Any excuse were the Female is never available to chat, just sends alarm bells. Even if they are a genuine couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard of single guys pretending to be a couple to get laid and also horrific stories... But we won't go there...

Can you elaborate OP pls

So we were taking to couple and after a long chat it turned out the guy is gay and lady in couple

Does not even play I did. Ask even he had seen her naked and he just avoided the question and only want to talk about getting fucked lol "

Oh dear...maybe the profile isn't a couple at all. I'm thinking it's just a guy if all he talks about is him getting fked and you want to play with the female and not him. Think it's time to stop chatting to him.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sadly it is a real thing..... Phantom partners that are too shy to chat on the phone or video and then are unable to make the meet because of some last minute emergency or suddenly I inexplicably, popped out to the shops before the arranged meet, and will "join in later" if we just get started. The most idiotic was a guy pretending to be the "wife" on the phone and sounding like a Monty Python character lol!

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

"Sadly it is a real thing..... Phantom partners that are too shy to chat on the phone or video and then are unable to make the meet because of some last minute emergency or suddenly I inexplicably, popped out to the shops before the arranged meet, and will "join in later" if we just get started. The most idiotic was a guy pretending to be the "wife" on the phone and sounding like a Monty Python character lol!"

Lol! How’d you respond to the “wife”?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

It is a common problem here, could be many reasons for it, some use it to get round filters. We on couples profile get lots of messages from guys that are pretending to be couples. Sometimes it is just to get access to private photos. Often they want to try and get her to meet them/him on her own. Couple of times over the years we have had females assuming off here to pretend they are their partners, seem to be unavailable when it comes to.the actual meet.

You learn very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really pisses me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is it's always one of those 10000 piece puzzles and she's never finished by the time he's bent me over and given me a seeing too. Only fair in return for the blowie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had lass message me asking if I was up for fun with her and her bi mate - turned out it was just the guy on both accounts after pics. Arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same sort of thing is I get guys messaging me saying how much they love my cock.2 things...1..my profile..I am not gay..and 2..you look at there profile and it says there straight.. infuriating!!

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Only happened once in the early days definitely wont happen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our biggest bugbear is single guys pretending to be bi and/or they have no mm experience.

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Some couples profiles are blatantly just single blokes. The female is always in work or away etc, male only meeting every time they put a status up. Quite sad really

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

I don't understand why anyone pretends to be anything other than themselves. If I get a meet I want the guy to stay not walk away as I've lied to him

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There a lot of couple profiles which I’m sure at one point we’re genuine. They’ve now split up and the guys still using it to get ....... god knows what?

I had a friend who went to meet on a couple at a hotel bar. Only the guy turned up. He went on to say they’d recently split up. It doesn’t matter though. What can I get you to drink.

The interesting this was that some time later another Fabber confirmed he’d met this couple. Who at that time were very real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats another reason I dont talk to couples on here as its highly likely that you'll be speaking to a guy anyways even with the genuine ones

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

Ive had a few messages of a "girl" with a bi mate and she wanted me to meet him haha, I suppose it never occured to him I might meet anyway, but the deception put me off.

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By *ringosampaioMan
over a year ago

London

The guy that actually introduced me to Fabswingers used to proudly tell me how he’d pretend to be a couple and then just show up to meets alone.

Found it very predatory tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve come across quite a few “couples” where it’s only ever the guy chatting and when I ask for meets she is suddenly unavailable but shall we anyway….not that shocking just another ploy to get laid!

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

"Yes mate. She’s just in the other room finishing off a jigsaw she’ll be through in a minute, I’ll start you off with a blowie. ... "

We wondered that - something like that...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"The guy that actually introduced me to Fabswingers used to proudly tell me how he’d pretend to be a couple and then just show up to meets alone.

Found it very predatory tbh"

I Have had this and I just walk off from the meet , then you learn to video chat everyone before meeting and it solves the problem

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By *ringosampaioMan
over a year ago

London

"The guy that actually introduced me to Fabswingers used to proudly tell me how he’d pretend to be a couple and then just show up to meets alone.

Found it very predatory tbh

I Have had this and I just walk off from the meet , then you learn to video chat everyone before meeting and it solves the problem

Same. Tbh I’m glad he was the one to show me Fabs as it made me VERY discerning before agreeing to meet know people do that. Was a bit too trusting prior to that!

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

You learn early on to meet socially and if no partner shows then its goodbye. I arranged a meet with a couole in leeds only male turned up, then its shes back at the house so I trustingly go, get to the house ohh shes just texted and gone to the shops she will be back in a minute, 10 mins later goodbye says I.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had it where it was a genuine couple and the lady set up the meet, but I was a present for her husband and to all intents and purposes I was meeting just the guy. That was a pain.

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