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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

Are you sure its a women? Not a guy faking it?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

You sure it's not a man pretending to be a woman?

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "
I don't blame them your pussy does look really tasty

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY


"A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!"

Yea agree with you on this

because 9 times out of 10 it is just a guy after some wanking material lol

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I agree sound like a man pretending to be a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say they're equally bad (men are still much worse in my experience) but it's amazing how many women and couples think ill respond to a one line message just because they're women...

Though I suspect most of them are just men pretending anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!"

I’d be very suspicious of anything quite so direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I wouldn't say they're equally bad (men are still much worse in my experience) but it's amazing how many women and couples think ill respond to a one line message just because they're women...

Though I suspect most of them are just men pretending anyway. "

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think couples can be bad aswell as men, they message assuming I'm bi, when I'm totally straight. It happenes on this profile and my couple profile.

I think there are people from all types who just don't read profiles, it's not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It wasn't quite as direct as I said, but still told I'm straight, we've sent a face pic and not one back, yet still messaging. Never thought about it being a bloke

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!"

This

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY


"It wasn't quite as direct as I said, but still told I'm straight, we've sent a face pic and not one back, yet still messaging. Never thought about it being a bloke "

Happens all to often now, got worse with everyone bored in lockdowns lol, it's the only way for them to get round couples who block single guys messaging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is correct some women can be rather pushy! Ive found more so when they want you to play with their husbands. Guys have told me women have been rather rude to them too on first contact ‘so how big is your cock then’ stuff like that.

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By *aytay987Man
over a year ago

MK


"OP is correct some women can be rather pushy! Ive found more so when they want you to play with their husbands. Guys have told me women have been rather rude to them too on first contact ‘so how big is your cock then’ stuff like that. "

Where are these pushy women?! I’ve never had one message... (act surprised)

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I wouldn't say they're equally bad (men are still much worse in my experience) but it's amazing how many women and couples think ill respond to a one line message just because they're women...

Though I suspect most of them are just men pretending anyway. "

I'm a woman pretending to be a man. Even had male genitals grafted on for a more realistic effect

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me "

Yea I've had that a few times but surprising how many woman willing to set me up with their husbands won't video call me to confirm it

Also if I had my way and you came round for his birthday he wouldn't even get a look in x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sounds very much like a man pretending to be a woman. Happens a lot unfortunately.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I agree sound like a man pretending to be a woman"

100%.

I don't like to generalise around gender, but...women just don't message things like that, not to strangers.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We find some couples to be just as bad... It clearly states on our bio what we are looking for but they will still message and become very rude like we owe them explanation as to why when we say no we try to be polite but sometimes a simple "piss off" has to be done I think some people a just rude regardless if they are male/female or a couple

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!"

Exactly this.

Any woman talking like that is likely a man pretending to be a woman.

Is the profile lacking in meet verifications, new, have 1 or 2 generic photos? Then yes likely a fake profile.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couples can be worse than men. They can be very pressurising. I’ve had to block lots of couples for thinking I’m a piece of meat!

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By *iss_taylorraeWoman
over a year ago

Here and there


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me "

This

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Women have a very different way of expressing themselves with words. You can tell with a few words if a profile or message has bee written by man or woman. That's always the give away, if people actually read a profile it can tell you more than you think, tell you more than even the writer thinks.

Wouldn't expect that from another woman

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man "

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times."

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said. "

Could well be but the choice of wording and experiences it is stacked towards probability it is a guy, that's all that people are saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

This "

I suspect that quite often, it'll be the husband asking

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Fab is a strange place? A sex site, with the expectation that sex is given at all costs, we all have our own expectations and wants from meets? Fab is also a place without many manners or politeness

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said. "

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

This

I suspect that quite often, it'll be the husband asking "

Probably. In my experience it very quickly turns into “I don’t want to be there, but I want him to meet you and take photos to show me later”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean! I get 100's of messages from women every day asking me to ride my cock, when my profile quite clearly states that I need plenty of sensuous pussy licking and fingering fun first! It's just not on

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you."

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man? "

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely guys after wank material.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending."

Totally get that,as a good looking woman you will no doubt have a lot of pushy men messaging you.my point has always been that the majority have said it’s probably a man,which could well be in some cases but not all. I don’t want to take up the whole thread arguing so let’s agree to have a difference of opinions on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending.

Totally get that,as a good looking woman you will no doubt have a lot of pushy men messaging you.my point has always been that the majority have said it’s probably a man,which could well be in some cases but not all. I don’t want to take up the whole thread arguing so let’s agree to have a difference of opinions on this "

How many women do you know in the real world who behave that way?

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending.

Totally get that,as a good looking woman you will no doubt have a lot of pushy men messaging you.my point has always been that the majority have said it’s probably a man,which could well be in some cases but not all. I don’t want to take up the whole thread arguing so let’s agree to have a difference of opinions on this

How many women do you know in the real world who behave that way? "

A few

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

Power corrupts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending.

Totally get that,as a good looking woman you will no doubt have a lot of pushy men messaging you.my point has always been that the majority have said it’s probably a man,which could well be in some cases but not all. I don’t want to take up the whole thread arguing so let’s agree to have a difference of opinions on this

How many women do you know in the real world who behave that way?

A few "

Okey dokey then

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I very rarely ever get a message from women, when I do they are usually polite and complimentary. It’s the guys who are pretending to be women that are blunt and crass

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It may not have been a man..

I went on a work do with a large number of us, there were a couple of gay ladies there. I have to say watching them they were worse than men! I worked closely with one of them and knew she was bad, but she really wouldn't take no for a answer. Even to the point of having to sit between her and a lady she was trying to touch up under the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message like that from a Woman would make us think it's actually a Man messaging!"

That's exactly what I would think too x there's too many fake couples profiles on here x I've been caught out before too. It's always the same when you ask where abouts his wife is she's always sleeping or working x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

This

I suspect that quite often, it'll be the husband asking "

It's allegedly a single woman's profile though, although her fb was distracting her from work. This was said after I posted this thread....

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

What woman is going to message that ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What woman is going to message that ????"

A woman with no pictures at all that doesn't send a face pic in return..... I'm supposed to be the new one to swinging not him! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me "

Had two of these messages lastnight. Not even a hello to start it off , just straight “I want my man to take your cock blah blah guinea bah “ Then kindly attached a pic of said guys hairy asshole spread open

I just delete them and get a follow up message calling me a stupid boy usually with more colourful terms

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

Had two of these messages lastnight. Not even a hello to start it off , just straight “I want my man to take your cock blah blah guinea bah “ Then kindly attached a pic of said guys hairy asshole spread open

I just delete them and get a follow up message calling me a stupid boy usually with more of

colourful terms "
oh wow you are stunning babe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

I totally agree with you 'op'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its a case of working out the genuine women, theres lots of fake female profiles on here ,chances are if a female messages you its fake ,not all are but if you have that in mind first youll probably wont get sucked into sending pics to a bloke pretending to be female x

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

That's called "equal society" women are becoming more like men and viceversa! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv only ever had one women message me from a single female profile.

She never said anything like that but just complimented me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No woman ever texted me to say that... poor me...

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Like most who have posted ..it's a male !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad

Are you sure its a women? Not a guy faking it?"

My thought as well.

However, I suspect that some women will be just as bad as men in the ways described (and others) just as some won't. It's what makes life so interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your on a swingers site...take the best and worse of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the fact that everyone is putting it down to it being a man

Because we’ve been here long enough to have experienced it plenty of times.

My point is it could actually be a woman sending them as people above have said.

What people above have said it could be a woman? I can’t see anywhere where someone has said that except you.

There’s a few couples and a lady that have said couples can be bad. So why should that mean it’s the man? Or a man?

No-one has said “yes, the comment about wanting to lick your pussy totally sounds like something a woman would say”. Some people have said women can be rude but that’s not the same thing. As for couples - remember there’s a man in most couples. In my experience, when a couple is pushy with me or being too sexual, it’s the man doing it. Also plenty of couple profiles are also just men pretending.

Totally get that,as a good looking woman you will no doubt have a lot of pushy men messaging you.my point has always been that the majority have said it’s probably a man,which could well be in some cases but not all. I don’t want to take up the whole thread arguing so let’s agree to have a difference of opinions on this

How many women do you know in the real world who behave that way? "

I know a couple of women who are that blunt and foul mouthed but I must agree it's most likely to be a man lol.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We witnessed an incredibly pushy couple constantly harassing a new young couple at a club years ago. It was the woman in the couple mainly, not the man. You don't need a dick to be one.

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

Man or woman they sound like selfish pillocks

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"It’s the women that ask me to be a plaything for their husbands birthday that get me

This

I suspect that quite often, it'll be the husband asking "

And guess what if you agreed the wife would be out...fake fake fake!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London


"That's called "equal society" women are becoming more like men and viceversa! lol"

honorary bloke with my strapon!

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"We witnessed an incredibly pushy couple constantly harassing a new young couple at a club years ago. It was the woman in the couple mainly, not the man. You don't need a dick to be one.

T x "

We experienced this too.

It was the young couples first visit to a club.

The other couple were much older and the fem who was pissed kept on and on at them to go back to their place.

They said no several times. Disgusting behaviour. No means No!

Back to the original Post.

Yeah it’s probably a bloke! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody to right they are. Then u blame us

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Had many experiences, one time some guy had convinced a woman off the site to pretend to be his partner on phone call. To covince us he was a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find that women are as bad as men on here? I am a straight woman, and our profile clearly states that, yet women still message saying they "want to eat my pussy" and whatever else. When told no, they still say things. OK there's been an occasion where Mr has carried on the conversation. It makes me feel uncomfortable! Men always get a bad name, but some women are just as bad "

I was harassed by only 1 woman my entire time here. My profile says I'm straight, I told her I'm straight, yet she continued. Shes meet and photo verified so shes a woman not a fake. I turned her down, put my phone down, and came back to 100s of messages of what she wanted to do followed up with vile abuse. I was shocked women could be so disgusting

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