FabSwingers.com forum: Single women that meet couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn? "

It’s a myth , but does happen in a club environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to couples xx

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

"Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn?

It’s a myth , but does happen in a club environment "

We have never found single females in clubs, we have had more than our fair share of single females, however most have not been off here. As we are quite open about our lifestyle we get propositioned quite often!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.

It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would meet couples if the female was straight and would let me fuck her husband whilst she watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet couples.

But bad experience and dynamic weirdness put me off

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

We are allways looking for nice single ladies, no such luck yet though.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

As mentioned earlier, clubs are your friend here.

It’s great how often things develop beyond the clubs.

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

"We are allways looking for nice single ladies, no such luck yet though."

Likewise, thought it was a myth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here. We've met single girls in a club, but still to find a girl on here who is also looking for the social side of things, which due to the dynamics we can totally appreciate.

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

I love meeting with couples

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It very much depends on whether I feel an attraction/connection with both members of the couple & what they can offer me. A lot of couples are very focused on what they want & forget that the single female isn't just there for their entertainment.

I prefer to meet couples in real life and get a feel for how their relationship works before I will consider getting involved.

Pre pandemic I had 2 couples who I would meet regularly. The first I met at a club & they then introduced me to the other couple.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have some single friends that we play (pre covid) with quite regularly, and usually meet others either out and about or at clubs.

We’ve met a few from here but the vast majority not. We like to have a good connection and first and foremost be friends, think it can be a little tough on here. But they’re definitely out there, as long as you don’t treat them as a plaything to your relationship but a friend and actual human themselves you’d be surprised how many are up for playing with couples.

Our one friend said it’s less complicated, she knows neither of us are going to get weird or catch feels, although we care about her, and she doesn’t have any obligation to keep us entertained 9-5, so it works great for her life.

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By *hite_peonyWoman
over a year ago

South East

I’m open to playing with couples.

It’s just very off putting when you’re basically treated as their plaything and it’s only about their wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus is looking for a single woman to join her. Although I’ll be watching, I wouldn’t touch.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m open to meeting couples, but it’s hard to find ones where I’m attracted to both, and I don’t feel like it’s all about their wants.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

We've met several single ladies and played with the female of couples too.

It's about the connection but mostly about trust.

There must be a balance of needs, we always ask what she would like out of it. Preferences pop a cherry her for something she'd like to try or a wild fantasy

. We've done only one fantasy so far, but would love to do more.

We're also a kinked couple (Bi-Domme and a Bi-switch) so can introduce her to being a sub or Mr R can switch down to show her how to be a Domme. So, the girl if she's a newbie or an experience sub we have all her kinky bases covered. Come hither sweet lady, let us corrupt you even more xxx

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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago

Crewkerne

As a couple we have met a few single ladies and had return visits but i was also a single once and frequently played with couples

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"I’m open to playing with couples.

It’s just very off putting when you’re basically treated as their plaything and it’s only about their wants

Agree, we get soo many request from the male of the couple to meet her on her own, use words like wanting to share her!!

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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago

Crewkerne

"I’m open to meeting couples, but it’s hard to find ones where I’m attracted to both, and I don’t feel like it’s all about their wants."

We always try to make it about the single person joining us. They have put their trust in us so make sure they go away smiling with shaky legs

that way you're sure of a rematch.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Hi all we have met a some singles in clubs and at organised socials, and the odd party but never off fab. We like too make it so everyone gets what they want out of any meets we have, it's never just about us, we do like to wine and dine before we 69 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love meeting couples but the dynamic has to be right, and that can be a challenge to find on here. Clubs tend to be easier to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but im really fussy who I meet after having a bad experience. If the couple has plenty experience then great makes things easier otherwise everything is on their terms and I feel like the invader

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet a couple on a regular basis x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We exist. It can be challenging

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

I think they meet cpls more than single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We exist. It can be challenging"

Not if all 3 of you get on x

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"I think they meet cpls more than single men."

Yer we agree, the ones we know like couples,

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

To many bad experience with couples, they tend to make it about wot they want , they have to many rules which doesn’t suit me , I am on here for my enjoyment, not to entertain them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd like to meet more couples - I think I'd find it easier than single men. The only thing that would make me a bit hesitant would be not wanting any weird dynamics, trying to find a couple where we all are attracted to each other.... yeah. It's not that easy sadly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We exist. It can be challenging

Not if all 3 of you get on x "

Sure. That's one of the issues

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I think they meet cpls more than single men."

That's certainly true here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I've met a few couples.

Takes a bit of sorting and a social meet first but generally only meet if we all play but have been to a couples house where the girls play and the husband watches or films.

Great fun

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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago

Streatham

Have met some women but as one poster said the dynamics can be weird to be frank when we want a woman to join us we just hire one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're are yet to meet a single lady, we have been offered put we werent all in agreement on the attraction we all have to be on the same wavelength!

And its amazing how many couples message just trying to meet the fem by herself, its a couples account for a reason?

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

its a fact that the more people involved the dynamics get harder weve always found three easy but four nearly impossible

its so hard with four not to just become two couples shagging next to each other with three every one is involved all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet a wonderful single lady for fun as a couple, plus my boyfriend has had a solo meet with her and they have Skype and play for each other as I watch them both...which I love. She has turned up as a surprise birthday treat for my boyfriend...and I enjoyed that too.

I would also play solo with her and we are planning a couples meet with her and her FWB when safe to do so. We tried to arrange a gangbang for her and I and one day we will go to a club with her... she has become a fantastic friend and playmate.

Her x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I have had amazing experiences with couples. But I have to be in the mood and incredibly attracted to both. That doesn’t always happen.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

The Mrs is open to meeting couples solo, but only when those couples are also happy with their lady meeting couples solo too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IV met couples before

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By *S2LOOKCouple
over a year ago

Near Cardiff

We're looking for single females but they do seem to be rare, despite the amount saying they're looking for a couple. Though, to be fair we haven't look very much with covid and all.

From reading some replies here I'm glad we discussed it with each other and agreed any female that we meet with takes more of a priority to make sure they're happy, comfortable and don't feel like a spare wheel or used in some way during a meet. At the end of the day hopefully were all looking for fun and that's what everyone will have experienced after any meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been open to meeting couples, but I agree with the issues that others have raised. Couples generally have too many rules, or they bring drama, or I am only allowed to play with one member, or they want me to be a sex toy for their amusement, or I am only attracted to one and not the other.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes if could find a genuine couple who don't want me to jump through crazy hoops. I have had only bad interactions so far. So I'm afraid they have given you a bad name at far as i am concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We exist. It can be challenging

Not if all 3 of you get on x

Sure. That's one of the issues"

I guess its hard to find one person to click with so two is harder.

I'm lucky I get on with them both.

Oh and they both get on with me lol x

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Only twice in ten years have we managed to find single women to join us , at that was at house partys , never have at the club , well not yet anyway , have managed alone twice just private meets , but more fun when wife with me ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found a lovely lady on here that wants to join us when it's safe to do so of course.

It's a shame as I think, like it's been mentioned some couples can be pushy, only use them as their play thing or have too many rules.

Shame some couples ruin it for other genuine couples though.

Her x

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By *rMrs322Couple
over a year ago

Sandy

We like to understand what the other lady wants and how we can help her too. The most important thing is maintaining the open communication to ensure we all know what eachother wants, likes, dislikes and how we can grow together. We like to get to know them on a social basis individually and as a couple so that they know our dynamic and can feel safe, secure and not feel like a third wheel for us to use. X

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I meet couples and i have two friends (cis) they also meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm open to couples xx"

Damn, I'm not a couple

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

There is a difficulty for some couple and have seen this quite a few time. I have no interest in looking further than my own partner, she is the one who enjoys the FF side.

Lot of solo females are more interested in the both or the male while their female partner watches. Very few are interested in FF only even if the F is part of the couple.

Seen this come up a few times in the forums saying "only if both are interested", what if both aren't?

Conundrum

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.

It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.

This.

I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.

Just my experience, but I found the wives 'exploring their bi side' very sexually lazy, and the men terrified of upsetting them. It usually ended up with them lying back and being spoiled by both people.

Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while.

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By *rMrs322Couple
over a year ago

Sandy

"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.

It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.

This.

I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.

Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while."

Thats a huge shame, we would both enjoy getting to know you and seeing if we all clicked.

Its nice learning peoples opinions on what did or didn't work. Allows for us to become more aware x

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

"Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn?

It’s a myth , but does happen in a club environment "
Yes we once had a very hot club meet with a single lady

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By *issmeteasemeCouple
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Our 1st meet after covid is already planned with a Lovely Lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any are welcome to message us ....lol x

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

East Riding

We both love single ladies!

No putting on a show just lots of fun!

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We have meet a few but not really our cuppa tea. We like even numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met single ladies, I like to watch A and join in too, they are few and far between but there are some amazing ladies out there

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have a few single ladies we meet as a couple and at our parties, it is a trust and safe setting thing.

Also quite a few fake single lady profiles exist

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.

It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.

How very true! I have had a negative answer to this question up to very recently as I heard too many stories from my friends about couples mistreating sigle women.

Recently I decided that I would like to find out for myself rather than relying on what I've heard but I am rather cautious bearing in mind the inherent power imbalance.

After thinking about it quite a lot I realised that I can see a way how this might be possible for me, providing I could find a couple who would be a match.

It is a bit specific as the scenario I can see working for me would rely on the woman being in the lead, being the one who is very clearly attracted to me and who is happy to make me the centre of attention (hers alone or both, as she wishes) and a pet to play with - but a well treated and treasured pet who has to be impressed and seduced first. In any situation with a couple I just don't see myself prioritising a man, a woman's comfort is the most important thing for me so of course, if I feel any sort of weird dynamics where I am not sure if the woman is truly attracted to me or that she might be doing this to please the man I will just walk away.

I also see this as a potentially safer option than meeting men on their own and also a way to explore my potential bisexuality without hurting another woman as I don't want to be a "tourist" so to speak.

Just like anything we really want - it all requires time, effort and luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would meet couples if the female was straight and would let me fuck her husband whilst she watched."

I would not just watch I would film it

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We have meet few single Ladies, usually it’s us girls that can make this happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We exist. It can be challenging

Not if all 3 of you get on x "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.

It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.

This.

I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.

Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while."

Totally get this but we are a FWBS couple and not exclusive. There isn’t any drama with us just great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to meet couples as a couple and as just me but i got fed up with all the emotional crap that came with it so ill only play with couples in a club now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and 3 way attraction is really hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet couples when the dynamic is right between all three of us. Ive met though fab and in clubs. Ive had good and bad experiences so im not as excited about as i once was but im certainly still open to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples off here

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

They are some about but personally Not found any on here that D is into as final decision is hers!

Only single girls we've met are a couple of Ds friends from Uni and one from a hot tub group on Facebook lol

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

I'm open to meeting couples, as long as I'm not just expected to play with the woman for the man's entertainment. I'd want everyone to be fully involved, and obviously need to feel attracted to both parties.

The experience I've had with couples has been very hot...going down on her while he fucks me, and vice versa, him cumming on our faces we kiss...so many erotic possibilities!

V x

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I guess we must be doing something wrong. We have been unable to attract a single lady to join us and to build up s friendship.

To be honest we have stopped looking, as we find it very frustrating chatting to single ladies for them then stop chatting.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’ve met more single women than couples and guys. It helps being fully bisexual, I think maybe being genuine and not pushy remember the ladies feelings. Takes a bit of guts for girl to go meet two people.

Also helps if you just genuinely like a right good laugh.

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