FabSwingers.com forum: Age difference does it matter when swinging.

By *955vintage OP Man
over a year ago

itchen stoke

I believe there have been similar posts.

My question is if you are only meeting others for purely sexual gratification (you dont want to marry them) does age difference matter. Providing all are over the age of consent.

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I think it does matter to some it doesn't to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some it will do especially if they have kids of a similar age. I can understand why.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t get any “sexual gratification” from having sex with people I’m not attracted to, and I’m not attracted to significantly older people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people will let if matter if the connection doesn’t feel right

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

To me is not about age is about the connection , chemestry and atraction

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

To us it doesn't matter that much but we tend to draw a line with people who are similar age or younger than our kids.

We don't knowingly go below mid 30's. Although in a club we don't ask for birth certificates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I am probably more likely to be compatible and feel comfortable with people closer to my age than someone in their 40s or above.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

For us there is no upper age limit really. As long as the guy can get up and stay up. In fact my wife quite likes being the younger one (and being around 50 our options are diminishing!) she struggles to get her head around why she would be attractive to, let’s say a 23 year old. She often asks, why is he even on here? She has said she draws the line when they are the same age, or younger than our kids.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

For me sex isn't simply about self gratification, it has more meaning to me which the people I talk to know. So age is a factor in this as I need that connection with someone which, I don't get with someone who is a lot younger, I'm also not attracted to youger people on a physical level and struggle on a mental level, I'm not saying younger people are less mature but, I find it hard to connect on that level.

Each to there own so long as all are consenting adults.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It matters to us and that's all that matters.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It certainly matters to me, I have absolutely no inclination to get intimate with anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. I also won't have sex with anyone I don't like enough to enjoy spending time with in a non sexual way.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I will never meet anyone who is less than 10 years older than my eldest so currently that limit is 39. Upper age limit is less rigid but it would depend on the person.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It matters to me,

I like to meet people I get on well with and have things in common with,

It's v rare I'd have that with anyone too young, id never go below 32 ish

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

It matters .... in my experience younger men lack the finesse and that certain something needed to leave me weak at the knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like it matters here lol

I seem too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we don't mind as long as we both find them attractive (and of legal age that goes without saying)

Her x

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

For me as long as there is a connection, age has nothing to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters, the same as any other sexual preference.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"It matters to us and that's all that matters. "

This

There's also a huge difference for me in playing at clubs and on a 1 on 1 . I wouldn't necessarily ask for proof of age in a club or at a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way do we want to play with people the same age as our kids, just doesn't sit right. But that's our personal preference other people will feel differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn't exactly and issue to us, more importantly is a connection, and the ability to hold an intellectual conversation.

Do agree with other posters who have said we wouldn't want to play with people who are our kids ages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if the person is right, but some age groups lower the chances of that person being compatible. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il always look for older women as I’m generally more attracted to them so for me age is important in that sense.

But overall they have to have the right personality to click it’s not just about the sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe there have been similar posts.

My question is if you are only meeting others for purely sexual gratification (you dont want to marry them) does age difference matter. Providing all are over the age of consent."

Personally I’ve no interest in meeting any women/couples but my wife only meets much younger than us which is one of my kinks so it works for me.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It certainly matters to me, I have absolutely no inclination to get intimate with anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. I also won't have sex with anyone I don't like enough to enjoy spending time with in a non sexual way.

this to an extent for me - 100% agree in terms of arranging meets from the site and chatting before / during/ after meets - i’m a stimulate my mind aswell as my body kinda gal ,

also what others have said about physical attraction - i don’t find people just out their teens or people that look ages with my parents and above attractive (caveat that with anymore and yet - as i get older my tastes obviously track upward with me)

i would be less worried about it during a club meet because that would be more likely to be about just meeting there and then , just that once for only sex - unless they said y in conversation that made me uncomfortable and put me off, chances are on a club meet its all about physical attraction

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Of course it matters. Why do some people think it is just sex? Jesus, you still have to fancy the other people. The only circumstances we could foresee where it might not be an issue is in a glory hole scenario or blindfold situation but if it was us, we would still want to vet who was participating. It really isn't a free for all!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Its about the attraction to the person/people not their age

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"To some it will do especially if they have kids of a similar age. I can understand why.

Exactly! I don’t want them to be closer to my children’s ages or my parents ages than they are mine. There are plenty of people outside our age ranges who are attractive and our age limits aren’t set in stone but we would feel more comfortable with people closer to our ages.

Lou x

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