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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 5 years ago so about 11/12 years into our relationship.

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By *fdjngCouple
over a year ago

Morpeth

Must say about 2 years ago a m8 sayed one day I would fuck your lass I replied the same to him then the thoughts started rolling in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must say about 2 years ago a m8 sayed one day I would fuck your lass I replied the same to him then the thoughts started rolling in "

Im with your mate here would definitly fuck your lass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think I'd have anyone I know do it,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I finally and very nervously confessed to my hubby after 14 years married that I think about other men, his response was...

‘Jesus babes, I’ve lost count of the times I’ve thought about you fucking someone else when having a wank’

Needless to say, here we now are

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too"

I want to fuck her in those white knickers

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area


"At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too

I want to fuck her in those white knickers "

Wearing her white knickers!!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

year before we got married

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too

I want to fuck her in those white knickers

Wearing her white knickers!!?! "

Nice try, will go for the wife wearing them, I’ll just pull them to one side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."

For most blokes its either knowing everyone is enjoying what you own, or its that feeling worthless that she can get an amazing shag elsewhere

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

We haven't together yet. But lockdown is soon to be over! So much to try.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not something I'd ever considered with local guys but once the kids flew the nest and we began to travel ,drinks, hot weather and horny guys started turning her head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."

For me it is not the fact she that she is with someone else, it is the thought of watching her enjoy herself. I don’t know why but it just does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it was the planning of the meet the tap on the door knowing what was about to happen, watching them starting to play the look on the wife face watching is cock sliding into her knowing that when he gone you will be going in to her juicey pussy best feeling ever, sadly to old now she lost interest but I'm still rearing to go, yes married 51years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pillow talk at first then when the kids left home we took the plunge and have had nothing but great fun over the years.

The experience of watching her with other guys is something special and the reclaim sex is great.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I started to fantasise about it around three years ago. June thought I was weird lol

After a period of role play with toys and talking about it during sex she agreed to try it.

Thankfully we both loved it and haven’t looked back.

I always take part but watching her face and hearing her satisfaction is such a turn on.

Mark

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Seeing wifey turned on & moaning is my turn on, can't wait to start meeting again when safe to do so.

Hung young guys welcome to message wifey

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."

I can't say I have personal experience of this, but my take on it is that you have a gorgeous figure which he loves to watch anyway. As a man it feels good to see other men wanting your wife as it shows they want what you have! Then finally I'm sure it gives him great pleasure to see you being pleasured, not concentrating on giving you the pleasure allows him to step back and watch you enjoy yourself knowing you will be grateful to him for it and have great sex afterwards.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We all have fantasy of what we would like to try so swinging is the perfect answer your not cheating on eachother both get to enjoy the experience and does help everyone trusting eachother it’s nervous meeting a stranger and inviting him to fuck your wife but if done respectful it leads to new adventures in the swinging vworld

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a turn on to see your wife pleasured by somebody else love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, Mr, there was no point beforehand I felt like that.

Like a lot of couples, we were interested in the swinging scene, and eventually plucked up the courage to go to a club, our intentions were that we would just go and get a feel for the place, but probably wouldn't do anything.

I was insistent if anything happened, it would be with another couple, that way there would be no jealousy from either of us.

Fast forward a few hours, we're upstairs with a couple, I'm kissing the other girl, and out the corner of my eye, I see my Mrs giving the guy a BJ. I would never have believed how hot I found that, and we never looked back.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

we have been doing it for years, wouldnt change a thing, we love it

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

George here ... love it when I see Anne with another man or with multiple guys ... can't explain it fully. Very erotic, very sensual. Reclaim sex five minutes later or five hours later wonderful.

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By *portfuckerMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."

I've done a lot of gangbangs with the husband/partner watching and I would say we're paying him and his wife/partner a compliment by finding her attractive, striving to make her the centre of attention and deliver a thoroughly satisfying fuckfest.

When all our cocks are spent, she can then show her love for her partner with a reclaim fuck, either privately or watched by the gangbang squad.

This is an all-round life affirming experience which couples with strong, loving relationships can benefit from immensely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely something erotic and sexy watching my wife with another guy..not cuck though.. either looking across at her whilst I'm with his partner..reaching out and holding hands whilst we have sex with others or sharing her with a guy ..

So erotic .

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

For me I use to be a postman and would often get flashed by wife’s and gfs, so I said to wife why don’t she start wearing more revealing outfits .and she began to like the attention.and one night she got touched up by a guy she fancied .it gave me an instant hard on .can’t believe I’d gone from a very jealous person to wanting other guys to touch her .we started to watch a different kind of porn and talking about things ,I asked would she like to try something new .we discussed it and set up a meet with a guy after we had joined this site ,was supposed to be a social but she finished the meet by giving him a bj in front of me ,was so horny .our next meet was a soft swap with a couple ,she wasn’t sure she could fuck another guy in front of me and was nervous .so I said to her why not flirt with the guy who touched her up .well she did and she came home early hours , he had fucked her four times and she was still so horny we fucked all night ,the next we met a couple at party and all had fun .and I got to watch her get layed by another guy .she was extremely horny he could not believe his luck .her the guy who touched her up is now a fuck buddy and has been for ten years now ,we can’t get away from offspring much so play when we can ,swinging has added a spark to our sex life ,just wish we had started earlier

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Its a turn on to see your wife pleasured by somebody else love it."

Oh yes agree.

Also some other good explanations here.

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Best time was in a club where she was very greedy, even did dvp surrounded by guys watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve told my partner that I’d like to see her with other men. But she’s not up for it. The thought of another cock near her, makes her feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All started on Holiday a couple years ago. Young guy wanted to take her for a dance so I obliged. Turned me on watching them get close. That’s when I knew I would love to see her go all the way with him. Asked for her opinion and after some more drinking and persuading we went ahead with it lol. Unreal night

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."
Watching your wife play with other people is so sexxy...the reclaim the tease..the scene set with your loved one pleasured with her looking at you is a mind fuck lol...and talking about it all later such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh defo the talking about it for the days/weeks afterwards is amazing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh defo the talking about it for the days/weeks afterwards is amazing lol "

Not forgetting the anticipation before it if it's a planned meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh defo the talking about it for the days/weeks afterwards is amazing lol

Not forgetting the anticipation before it if it's a planned meet. "

Haven’t had a planned meet yet lol. Both times spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the responses,,, was just curious about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a total fantasy for me , would love to see her with someone else! I have said to her about it but unfortunately she's not into it

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ever since the first time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have only been watched but never has she been watched by me, we have had a few offers though

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I got chatting to my gf about her ex, the more detail she gave the more turned on we both got. Each conversation got more detailed and more daring, I encouraged her to play around, so she did

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I got chatting to my gf about her ex, the more detail she gave the more turned on we both got. Each conversation got more detailed and more daring, I encouraged her to play around, so she did "

Much like how it began for me with my wife but I had already had horny thoughts when seeing her admired by other men. She initially said never be reality of her being fucked by other men until she experienced it then enjoyed the variety of men and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're always doing it,

We both love it,

Watching her having stranger sex is amazing x

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London


"At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too"

As soon as we met. It was spoken about within the first week of meeting

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much."

People like watching porn right? So why would u not want to watch the most beautiful woman in ur life fuck? Live.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

It was natural progression for us. We went from straight forward bedroom sex, to experimenting with toys and items around the house, to outdoor play, to watching porn, then taking pics and playing on cam..... eventually adding players just seemed like the next thing we wanted to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was natural progression for us. We went from straight forward bedroom sex, to experimenting with toys and items around the house, to outdoor play, to watching porn, then taking pics and playing on cam..... eventually adding players just seemed like the next thing we wanted to try. "

This seems to be way we are going. Just hope she really means it like she says she does and the next step happens...

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By *ubbyandwifeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

About 5 years into our marriage that a friend of mine say she would fuck my wife if I let him, I had a long talk with the wife persuaded her to take him she finally agreed.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Seeing me with other men is the central feature of our play ... George loves it (and joins in most times) and I love it. x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she admitted that she had cheated on me, anger at first then realised I was turned on by it, never looked back since x

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Can any elaborate on why they like watching their wife with someone else? My husband enjoys it but can't elaborate on why. I'm all for it and of course I love the attention myself, but still can't get my head around why it turns him on so much.

People like watching porn right? So why would u not want to watch the most beautiful woman in ur life fuck? Live. "

Good direct quite accurate reason as was your other comment.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

After 30 yrs and a death in the family decided life was short and time to put wondering about it ,into reality...

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By *ilfMan
over a year ago

GLOUCESTER

With my ex when I began to notice guys looking at her, with my current girlfriend she already swings and I've got to see it a few times i love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After she sent me a picture of herself from tinder!!

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

Hes watching live and video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she and I noticed other guys looking at her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason it always appealed to me. It started when I was a Uni sharing a flat. We started swapping and sharing partners.

I got very turned on watching my gf flirt at parties and bring someone back for a 3sum or 4sum.

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By *roop69Man
over a year ago

St Columb Major

Several years ago she thought I wasn’t paying her much attention so she decided to talk about 3sums which I liked the idea but she said she would need time with the guys first and I’d join in I let her

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

After we had our second child, we wern't going to have any more and at the age of 32 we talked about fucking others

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"For me, Mr, there was no point beforehand I felt like that.

Like a lot of couples, we were interested in the swinging scene, and eventually plucked up the courage to go to a club, our intentions were that we would just go and get a feel for the place, but probably wouldn't do anything.

I was insistent if anything happened, it would be with another couple, that way there would be no jealousy from either of us.

Fast forward a few hours, we're upstairs with a couple, I'm kissing the other girl, and out the corner of my eye, I see my Mrs giving the guy a BJ. I would never have believed how hot I found that, and we never looked back. "
powerful reality (same for us really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I saw my Mrs being fucked by other men she was 3 months pregnant and went to swingers club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide love it. Nearly happened once in kos but sadly not. I keep telling her ide like it thow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point did you all want to see your wife or girlfriend being fucked by 1 or more other people,,, i gather that when you met or married them the thoughts were not there with most of you,,,,im curious cause I'm one of those guys who wants too"

After nearly 18 years post marriage

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By *ARcouple19Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Been with my wife for 15 years, married for the last 5. For me it was about 3-4 years ago. Got into watching 3sum porn and then went on to wife sharing stuff. Just thought it was sexy as f*ck, then it progressed into a major fantasy. Then we spoke about it and now here we are haha

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By *eachyPairCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Had been in a crap relationship, then got with Mrs P, always amazed me how hot she was and how I enjoyed the fact that my mates clearly fancied her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been a long time fantasy, pillow talk but never had the guts to proceed further . Finally when the kids grown up and had enough time with us to spend together, we thought let's give it a go.

First time we had very mixed feelings but later on found out that guys do fancy the Mrs.

No stopping since .

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