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Bareback or condom

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By *aveieboy32 OP   Man
over a year ago

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What do you prefer bareback or condom ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condom with new partners always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bareback (honestly, I think most people do), but I won't do it with strangers or casual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Safe with anyone other than a long term partner but yes prefer skin on skin, don’t we all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me "

Clunge rot shall remember that one

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Only bare back with my partner, always condom with meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me

Clunge rot shall remember that one "

I hear its a terrible affliction but one I have gladly never experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom with new partners always"

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?"

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think. "

If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.

If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"

Whoa poor hypothetical girlfriend being damned for her fella being sensibly cautious

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.

If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"

It's not about "trustworthy" though is it? Some STIs have a window period of three months - so if someone barebacked with another partner just before you met them it would take that long to have a 100% clear test.

You might trust them completely, but would you, or they, trust every link in the chain prior that? Or wait for the test to confirm it? I know what I would do in that circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two answers

1 - bareback feels a lot better

2 - condom for new meets though

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me

Clunge rot shall remember that one "

We have a lot to thank the Inbetweeners for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preference is bareback. We appreciate it’s not for everyone but it is a preference for us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer bareback but always wear a condom....plus penetrative sex is only a small part of a sexual encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.

If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"

I'd assume and hope she would be as cautious as I, not really to do with trust though, more that I don't want STI's or an unexpected pregnancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bareback for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clunge Rot

This makes me smile

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By *EDandBREAKFASTMan
over a year ago

wexford

Most definitely prefer bareback

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Prefer bare but anyone new always a condom....its why i prefer a fwb

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Condom with new partners always

How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?

As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.

If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"

Erm, hang on a minute there! This is a swingers site, so unless you're talking about vanilla relationship, I would not expect anyone I meet on here to be exclusive.

And answering your question, OP: yes, like others, I do prefer bareback but, like others, I would not go bareback with any random meets. Long term partner (even if just swinging partner)- yes, with regular testing.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I dont like using condoms, but they are necessary to prevent spread of STIs. Do many women here use Femidoms? The condom for women. Ive never met anyone who uses them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done bareback and also protected since being on here. Bareback feels better but condoms are the safest option of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer bareback, there is no better feeling than feeling your partner gripping and also feeling the wetness, but always safe sex with new partners and encounters, I personally hate condoms, but totally get why we need to use them, but like somebody else said there is a lot more to a sexual encounter than just penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always play safe

Yes BB feels better

However I get too into my own head about BB and it messes up the play for me because I can’t stop the cycle of worry.

I only ever played BB with a “non long term partner” when I was around 20. Certainly enjoyed it but never have again after that. Not because I had a bad experience but just don’t want to take the risk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe always especially with new partners glove it before you love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me "

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By *lutwife12Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk... Not in Midlands!

Definitely has to be safe all the way for penetrative sex.. I do how ever give bjs with no condom after nearly choking to death on way on a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people prefer bareback fun just will never admit it here openly, only say that in private xx

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Bareback with Mr only of course and others are viewed through curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people prefer bareback fun just will never admit it here openly, only say that in private xx"

xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Doesn't everyone prefer it bare?? I do but only when in a long term relationship. Never, ever on a meet with anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms always. I don’t want anyone’s dirty STIs

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By *regnantCreampieMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Absolutely prefer bareback. REAL sex for the feel.

I'd still do protected though if needed.

Check me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I obviously prefer bare back but can't do it...safe sex all the way... But if in a relationship... He needs to get a full sti check with me with him... Untill results are clear

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

In our swinger dreams it's bareback every time.

In the real world absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bareback all the way

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By *loudF7Man
over a year ago

South East

Always condoms with new partners until we are both comfortable and get some sti tests done, then bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always safe I'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a partner without and non partner always with

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Ideally Bareback all the way.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

No babies for me so condom all the way.

Lily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer bareback but for swinging condoms are essential!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"What do you prefer bareback or condom ? "

Bit of a silly question really but condoms are absolutely necessary for safety

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only play bareback, we know the risks but it's our preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer bareback or condom ? "

Bareback with regular partner,obviously needs some sort of trust...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback with hubby always. Condom for new partners x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No protection absolutely no chance of fxxking me regardless of who you are new or old meet haha

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Always safe. If in doubt I will just do it myself

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"What do you prefer bareback or condom ? "
prefer.. bareback but that is just for a partner. So with swinging meets it's a condom.

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By *arlot_CharlotteWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m quite shocked at the amount of people who wouldn’t wear condoms as standard with anyone off Fab You can’t tell just from looking at someone what STIs they may have.

I was only happy with my long-term partner not using condoms - which, yes, feels nice - but still have regular tests as we played with different people.

We all indulge in a very high-risk activity, it’s not worth taking chances!

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By *rankyandbennyCouple
over a year ago

Belgium

Condom even with partner.

M

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