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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London

I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?"

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits "

Exactly!! Do you do socials before hand? Or would you just meet the other part at the hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits

Exactly!! Do you do socials before hand? Or would you just meet the other part at the hotel?"

No I don't usually meet beforehand as I've chatted to them for a while prior to meeting. I've only met two guys who turned into long term fbs so it worked for me. What about you, what's your preference?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Prefer my home or theirs. Only time I did hotel meets was when my children or/and theirs were home from uni.

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Hotels just add to the fun

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits

Exactly!! Do you do socials before hand? Or would you just meet the other part at the hotel?

No I don't usually meet beforehand as I've chatted to them for a while prior to meeting. I've only met two guys who turned into long term fbs so it worked for me. What about you, what's your preference?

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I’m mostly the same, I chat to people for quite a while before hand to get to know them and make sure we all click! Then once we’re happy and comfortable to meet up we go for it!

I’d prefer hotel meets as I think it’s just easier in general!

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"Prefer my home or theirs. Only time I did hotel meets was when my children or/and theirs were home from uni."

What makes you prefer homes rather than hotels?

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits "

I've forgotten what a night like that is like

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By *avid1Man
over a year ago

Dubai

Done both, but more often than not, hotels as l travel a lot for work.

Had some amazing meets in the UAE as some of the hotels are pretty amazing.

Private pools and the likes of. One of which is in my public photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like hotel meets, or his place. Not as keen on car or outside xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like hotel meets when I've already had a few meets with the person.

Otherwise it feels a bit prositutey

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Hotels are better, just in case it goes horribly wrong... But it is nice to be invited.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Hotel meets are good fun.

Or at theirs

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

Hotels? Oh... yeah... I remember them now... LOL

We find hotels easier. Especially for our kinds of meets. Neutral ground, somewhere to park, less awkward if anything goes 'wrong' (hey it can do... we are but human after all) and also it can add a 'je ne sais quoi' of naughtiness to the proceedings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always surprised how willing ladies in particular are to invite strangers to their homes; don’t get me wrong I’ve enjoyed being invited and I know I’m not a nutcase; but there are nutters on here.

Many moons ago I had a bad experience with a meet at mine; so I’d always opt for neutral ground or their place first.

Hotels are awesome, have your fun and go your separate ways and no tidying up to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels or the blokes house.

I never invite to mine.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Hyderabad India


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?"

Hotels

That way if something goes wrong, the CCTV has captured who last walked into the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best meets I have had have been meet in a town neither of us are from go out for a few drinks then back to a hotel nothing more fun than hotel sex must add only done this with people I have previously met at mine or there's hotel on a first meet is a bit presumptuous that sex is happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like meeting in hotels. A social meet first to see if everyone is comfortable, then head to the room if so.

I also find the anonymity of hotels a bit of a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels all the way, I like to arrive earlier and get ready with a bottle of wine, maybe watch a bit of of porn to get in the mood before the main event.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Definitely like hotels 99% of our meets have been this way, almost changed our user name to hotelsRus at one point having had so many.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel every time, our private life / home is totally separate to Swinging . Anyhow how unpredictable grown up siblings are wouldn’t want them turning up unannounced

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Hotel every time, our private life / home is totally separate to Swinging . Anyhow how unpredictable grown up siblings are wouldn’t want them turning up unannounced "

100% Agree

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Hotels? Oh... yeah... I remember them now... LOL

We find hotels easier. Especially for our kinds of meets. Neutral ground, somewhere to park, less awkward if anything goes 'wrong' (hey it can do... we are but human after all) and also it can add a 'je ne sais quoi' of naughtiness to the proceedings! "
In normal times we prefer club meets to anything else but if someone who wants to meet us is club shy then these are good reasons why hotels work for us too

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We prefer hotels, social first, adds to the occasion. Regulars sometimes come to ours

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

And aren't hotels just horny places anyway? They are for me!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would never bring a meet home.

Hotels for people I know or clubs for me.

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

Probably daft question but aren't hotels a no go still until lockdown unwinds??

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Probably daft question but aren't hotels a no go still until lockdown unwinds?? "
Yes they are but in our post we were referring to normal times

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"Probably daft question but aren't hotels a no go still until lockdown unwinds?? "

Yeah, I was referring to normal times! Just seeing what people’s opinions are!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have enjoyed both

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I don’t mind either way.

I prefer to meet socially on the first meet. Most people have then felt comfortable enough to come to mine on the second meet for food and ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are my preferred meeting place. Couple of drinks at the bar then up to the room for fun.

And its easier to leave if necessary.

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London


"Probably daft question but aren't hotels a no go still until lockdown unwinds??

Yeah, I was referring to normal times! Just seeing what people’s opinions are!"

Wasn't trying to be a lockdown bore was wondering what the current situation was would like to meet a FWB in a hotel but believed current rules would prohibit it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a fab meet it would always be a hotel.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

I do like a hotel meet. Social meet in the bar then ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably daft question but aren't hotels a no go still until lockdown unwinds??

Yeah, I was referring to normal times! Just seeing what people’s opinions are!

Wasn't trying to be a lockdown bore was wondering what the current situation was would like to meet a FWB in a hotel but believed current rules would prohibit it..."

If you have a legitimate reason to book a hotel room then it's quite possible

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Have had both and can't say I favour one over the other tbh both are good. Hotel meet is poss safer for a first meet as then the axe murderer or bunny boiler don't know where ya live lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Love a day use hotel.Much prefer a hotel for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met two women in a hotel room for a fmf (see my pics if you don't believe this) and we had the hotel staff banging on the door because they'd received complaints about the noise so there are downsides to hotel meets.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hotels or their house. We always do a social first so as long as everyone is comfortable we will arrange a 2nd at their home. With the meets we have had I have found it more relaxed when it has been at their home x

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Hotel day rooms are wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels for the first few meets certainly

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Day use hotels are fun, weekend hotel meets even better

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

.......Hotels

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

I never meet at mine. Hotels all the way. Something sexy about relaxing in a bubble bath, pouring a drink, getting dressed to the nines then fucking like rabbits "

We never meet at ours anymore in due to a lot of nasty business which happened. Always hotels unless they are old friends which we know a trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I live alone so my pay for a hotel if you can just come round mine. Not staying at hotel can't be fun as well though......

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hotels all the way, I like to arrive earlier and get ready with a bottle of wine, maybe watch a bit of of porn to get in the mood before the main event. "

I like your style ... i do the same whenever i get the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are a neutral venue so no one is a guest, everyone more relaxed as a result

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

Hotels

That way if something goes wrong, the CCTV has captured who last walked into the room "

Most hotels don't have cameras on floor hallways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant wait to book a room even if it's just me away for a night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels can be fun but do a social before heading to the room x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to meet at home.

Kids are grown up and highly unlikely to turn up on a weekend evening.

We can relax in familiar surroundings and have everything we need to hand.

However, if we’ve been to a club and were staying overnight in a hotel then we wouldn’t rule out a spur of the moment play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m wondering what people thoughts are on hotel meets? Are they preferred or do people prefer meeting at their own homes?

Hotels

That way if something goes wrong, the CCTV has captured who last walked into the room "

Exactly!

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