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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone

We receive messages from single female profiles asking to join us as a single female. After chatting and swapping pics they start to introduce their husband/ fb/fwb or bf. So just wondering what’s the point of setting up a single girl profile when you don’t want to play alone!! Like really why some people do that?

Have you been in similar situations?!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

This does seem to be fairly common.

There's been a few threads for us ladies looking for othee ladies, and this is often mentioned.

I can't answer the why...maybe because as a single they'll get more attention?

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Always.

Single girl ISN'T a single girl and if you entertain the profile long enough you'll start to see messages inviting husband /bf/partner to play alone with full permission.

Classic fab.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Several times with couple profiles with the elusive wifes. Ed

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Sadly as you have found there are very few genuine single women on here.

Most are part of a couple that try to get their partner in. Or as I sadly have found are just want to scam money off gullible single guys.

The saying "If is too good to be true, it probably is". Particularly applies to this lifestyle.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have come across profiles listed as single females. Then when we have red the write up it say bf etc. So we don’t bother messaging.

Never had a single female introduce a Male during conversation but in all fairness we don’t get that lucky to chat to single females.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have come across profiles listed as single females. Then when we have red the write up it say bf etc. So we don’t bother messaging.

Never had a single female introduce a Male during conversation but in all fairness we don’t get that lucky to chat to single females. "

Yes, but what if you they texted you firy?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We saw the other version the other day. Couple looking for a couple to borrow just the female half. Then they promise to send their female over another time to return the favour. As if that will happen.

I do report the 'single female' profiles, who on write up say they only play as a couple. They should be just that, a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We saw the other version the other day. Couple looking for a couple to borrow just the female half. Then they promise to send their female over another time to return the favour. As if that will happen.

I do report the 'single female' profiles, who on write up say they only play as a couple. They should be just that, a couples profile.

"

Trying to scam people is really annoying. It happened with us too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This does seem to be fairly common.

There's been a few threads for us ladies looking for othee ladies, and this is often mentioned.

I can't answer the why...maybe because as a single they'll get more attention?"

This is true. However, instead they’ll get blocked rather than receiving attention. Usually genuine people know what they want and what they after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

Single girl ISN'T a single girl and if you entertain the profile long enough you'll start to see messages inviting husband /bf/partner to play alone with full permission.

Classic fab.

"

I’m single.

No partner in my life.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"Hey everyone

We receive messages from single female profiles asking to join us as a single female. After chatting and swapping pics they start to introduce their husband/ fb/fwb or bf. So just wondering what’s the point of setting up a single girl profile when you don’t want to play alone!! Like really why some people do that?

Have you been in similar situations?! "

It'll not be a single female, they'll introduce bf etc then if a meet can be arranged the f will be busy..

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Always.

Single girl ISN'T a single girl and if you entertain the profile long enough you'll start to see messages inviting husband /bf/partner to play alone with full permission.

Classic fab.

I’m single.

No partner in my life. "

Of course exceptions are made for legitimate single ladies such as yourself.

But very often the single female approach is used by men who play the long game and gradually introduce a male who has "permission" to play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have to look that little bit deeper for the true single ladies

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Report inappropriate behaviour and profiles to Admin. Couples can individually have their own single profiles but uf you find a dubious profile that may not be all it purports to be, report. Likewise anyone here to raise money vua links etc, it's not permitted. Thankfully the ban on meeting means there's time to flush out the fully inappropriate. Keep things light and defer great involvement anywhere, until it's legal and safe. If uncertain, keep at a great distance in every way.

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By *uffolksubWoman
over a year ago

Brandon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site not a singles site. Swinging women are very often going to be partnered. What's the issue with that?

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By *uffolksubWoman
over a year ago

Brandon


"Sadly as you have found there are very few genuine single women on here.

Most are part of a couple that try to get their partner in. Or as I sadly have found are just want to scam money off gullible single guys.

The saying "If is too good to be true, it probably is". Particularly applies to this lifestyle.

"

Well I’m genuinely single, and scamming money from men on here never even crossed my mind until you just said it....so I disagree. Too good to be true may often be the case, but those scenarios definitely don’t apply to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I’m single.

No partner in my life. "

Of course exceptions are made for legitimate single ladies such as yourself and that’s why we said some people. xx

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"This is a swingers site not a singles site. Swinging women are very often going to be partnered. What's the issue with that?"

Some aren't single women...they're single men pretending to be single women!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Well I’m genuinely single, and scamming money from men on here never even crossed my mind until you just said it....so I disagree. Too good to be true may often be the case, but those scenarios definitely don’t apply to me! "

Of course exceptions are made for legitimate single ladies such as yourself. xx

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Hey everyone

We receive messages from single female profiles asking to join us as a single female. After chatting and swapping pics they start to introduce their husband/ fb/fwb or bf. So just wondering what’s the point of setting up a single girl profile when you don’t want to play alone!! Like really why some people do that?

Have you been in similar situations?! "

We are a couple, have a couple profile which we very rarely use. She very rarely comes on the site because of how she was treated by others.

I am here on single male profile, because it is me that are actually talking or chatting to.

I could use the couples profile but to all intense and purposes I'd simply be a solo guy masquerading as a couple like so many here. I would assume that many females do it for the similar reasons

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I am single. I do have a few fwbs that i could call upon if a situation warranted it but almost always its just me. I have encountered several couples which are really just a guy so it goes both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site not a singles site. Swinging women are very often going to be partnered. What's the issue with that?"

Because the couple want to meet a single lady for FFM or FMF threesome play, that doesnt quite work if said single female on a single females profile starts wanting to introduce a male.

To the OP The issue is similar if you’re looking for FF play. It’ll say looking for FF play on profile but then on conversing the male half has to watch or be involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am single. I do have a few fwbs that i could call upon if a situation warranted it but almost always its just me. I have encountered several couples which are really just a guy so it goes both ways. "

There are hundreds here xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm single but I won't meet couples alone anymore.I have it written in my profile that I don't but I still get messages off couples who seem to think I should meet them alone and they get quite snotty when I say I won't .

If it isn't on a profile tho it should be mentioned in the first few messages .

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"We have come across profiles listed as single females. Then when we have red the write up it say bf etc. So we don’t bother messaging.

Never had a single female introduce a Male during conversation but in all fairness we don’t get that lucky to chat to single females.

Yes, but what if you they texted you firy? "

We always read the profiles before responding etc. So would politely say no thank you unless she was prepared to meet as a single female.

Since 2013 we have three single females contact us. Two were fake ( not this site) and the other sent two messages and then stopped. To be honest we have stopped looking for a single lady now.

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Yea a lot.. in my case couple profile msg me and find out it's only him.. using her pic and she not even knows about fab.. horny guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea a lot.. in my case couple profile msg me and find out it's only him.. using her pic and she not even knows about fab.. horny guys"

thanks for mentioning this too x yes so it’s a general issue x we totally forgot about it with the couple profiles xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly this is the main reason I deleted my solo profile.

It proved almost impossible to find another female who at some stage didn’t mention a bf/partner/husband wanting to watch or join in

V

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Probably similar reasons to why a lot of couples profiles are actually just a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly this is the main reason I deleted my solo profile.

It proved almost impossible to find another female who at some stage didn’t mention a bf/partner/husband wanting to watch or join in

V"

What is the big issue with a bf/hubby watching? If you dont want him to join the actual fun them i dont see the harm in him wanting to watch as it may also be security for his wife etc

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Sadly this is the main reason I deleted my solo profile.

It proved almost impossible to find another female who at some stage didn’t mention a bf/partner/husband wanting to watch or join in

V

What is the big issue with a bf/hubby watching? If you dont want him to join the actual fun them i dont see the harm in him wanting to watch as it may also be security for his wife etc"

Because some of us don’t want to put on a show for some bloke we’ve never spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We realise that genuine single ladies wanting to play with couples is very rare indeed..we can but dream...

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

it will be a bloke doing the messaging

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Sadly this is the main reason I deleted my solo profile.

It proved almost impossible to find another female who at some stage didn’t mention a bf/partner/husband wanting to watch or join in

V

What is the big issue with a bf/hubby watching? If you dont want him to join the actual fun them i dont see the harm in him wanting to watch as it may also be security for his wife etc"

It isn't a big deal, if that's what you have agreed with the couple in question via a couple's profile , but if it is a single female profile then it is reasonable not to expect a male partner to be involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So common here, we just explain we like to talk to cpls on cpl profiles, something pretty dishonest about it if you ask us.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Sadly in our experience, unverified single girl profiles aren't single girls.,,,.

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By *lleOfAGoodTimeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some unicorns are real!

Keep the faith!

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

We are very rare , but we are real honestly, so do keep looking xxxx

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

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And yes i have been verified as well lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a genuine single female.

However I get a bit fed up with couples messaging me because the female would like to experience her first f on f fun.

It is often because the m wants a 3 sum and it gets tedious being treated like an object for their satisfaction alone.

To join a couple for sex I would need to be interested in both of them and find them attractive and like their personality, this wouldn’t be an instant match.

It’s as insulting as the van drivers who message saying they are parked up in your area and want to know if you will meet now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a genuine single female.

However I get a bit fed up with couples messaging me because the female would like to experience her first f on f fun.

It is often because the m wants a 3 sum and it gets tedious being treated like an object for their satisfaction alone.

To join a couple for sex I would need to be interested in both of them and find them attractive and like their personality, this wouldn’t be an instant match.

It’s as insulting as the van drivers who message saying they are parked up in your area and want to know if you will meet now."

Good comment

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I've been chatting to a 'single' lady for weeks and was planning to meet when safe. Now she says her husband would like to suck my cock. WTF.

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Spot on Louise , i get that all the time as well , its all about what they want , theres no consideration on what us unicorns want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot on Louise , i get that all the time as well , its all about what they want , theres no consideration on what us unicorns want lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for a single guy. Some guys have got fake couples profiles too. They ask you questions like my wife would love you to join us for a 3 some or would you like to fuck my wife in front of me etc. The wife is always never there she is either sleeping or working. He always wants to see more pics or videos etc. Then you realise that he's just a guy with a couples profile. Has any other guys experienced this. I know that sometimes it's easy to spot a fake but sometimes it takes a few chats before the penny drops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single female and I only meet as such but it is crazy the amount of men approach me to convince me to message coues profiles with the intention of me like hooking the couple and then introducing him into the conversation... Also things like men contacting people who have verified me to try to get them to introduce them to me if that makes sense.... Never suporises me anymore the lengths people will go to to try to manipulate there way through fab

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Very true , it dose take a few chats to work them out , but when i do , i call there bluff lol

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"It's the same for a single guy. Some guys have got fake couples profiles too. They ask you questions like my wife would love you to join us for a 3 some or would you like to fuck my wife in front of me etc. The wife is always never there she is either sleeping or working. He always wants to see more pics or videos etc. Then you realise that he's just a guy with a couples profile. Has any other guys experienced this. I know that sometimes it's easy to spot a fake but sometimes it takes a few chats before the penny drops. "

Why I use this profile instead of our couples profile so you know who your chatting to. It as a common problem on this site.

Like me or loathe me at least I'm true to myself and others.

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

But at least you say you are married and with a partner , just being honest and up front is the important thing in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But at least you say you are married and with a partner , just being honest and up front is the important thing in my mind "

Excactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend chatted to a single female for ages.They skyped chatted an the phone and after time arranged to meet for a social in a local pub.

She turned up they got chatting and then a strange guy came over to there table and sat right next to my friend on the bench seat so she couldn't move away.

The woman them introduced him as her husband and my friend phoned her bf who came and errrmmmm sorting things out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend chatted to a single female for ages.They skyped chatted an the phone and after time arranged to meet for a social in a local pub.

She turned up they got chatting and then a strange guy came over to there table and sat right next to my friend on the bench seat so she couldn't move away.

The woman them introduced him as her husband and my friend phoned her bf who came and errrmmmm sorting things out x "

I don't understand why people do things like that x

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Omg , i hope she was ok

I dont why they think they have the right either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend chatted to a single female for ages.They skyped chatted an the phone and after time arranged to meet for a social in a local pub.

She turned up they got chatting and then a strange guy came over to there table and sat right next to my friend on the bench seat so she couldn't move away.

The woman them introduced him as her husband and my friend phoned her bf who came and errrmmmm sorting things out x

I don't understand why people do things like that x "

??? I haven't got a clue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg , i hope she was ok

I dont why they think they have the right either "

She was fine.

A bit angry about the lies but fine as lucky enough it was a public place and her bf lives close by x

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By *iceguy1980Man
over a year ago

staffordshire


"We have come across profiles listed as single females. Then when we have red the write up it say bf etc. So we don’t bother messaging.

Never had a single female introduce a Male during conversation but in all fairness we don’t get that lucky to chat to single females. "

Loads of this been happening more and more for ages. Don't get the number of messages on the couple's profile they want so then start a single female profile but basically says in description yeah I'm married/husband/boyfriend and we're looking for.....

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place

I think there are fakes in every aspect whether its a single male who is actually married or a female who is not single, or couples but the male only chats.

I have been told my profile looks fake but i am a true singleton. I prefer couples as it feels safer than meeting a single person. But its a minefield of just men with fake accounts or women trying to please the partner in letting him have his fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a genuine single female.

However I get a bit fed up with couples messaging me because the female would like to experience her first f on f fun.

It is often because the m wants a 3 sum and it gets tedious being treated like an object for their satisfaction alone.

To join a couple for sex I would need to be interested in both of them and find them attractive and like their personality, this wouldn’t be an instant match.

It’s as insulting as the van drivers who message saying they are parked up in your area and want to know if you will meet now."

Exactly this!

I removed my bi status about a year ago.

I don’t want to help anyone’s gf/mrs/fb try out their bicurious side and be used.

I hate the term Unicorn too... we’re not mythical, nor are we toys, we just get sick of being lied to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What is the big issue with a bf/hubby watching? If you dont want him to join the actual fun them i dont see the harm in him wanting to watch as it may also be security for his wife etc"

The big issue is I was looking solely for bi ff play. No males involved. If I’d have wanted that I’d have looked for a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single female and I only meet as such but it is crazy the amount of men approach me to convince me to message coues profiles with the intention of me like hooking the couple and then introducing him into the conversation... Also things like men contacting people who have verified me to try to get them to introduce them to me if that makes sense.... Never suporises me anymore the lengths people will go to to try to manipulate there way through fab"

I imagine a crazy number of men approach you because you’re crazy gorgeous.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Anyone else bristle slightly at the use of ‘girl’ ... believe me I’m all woman and I assume girls won’t be on here .....

People lie about all things in life and in my experience even moreso on here.

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By *arlot_CharlotteWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm single but I won't meet couples alone anymore.I have it written in my profile that I don't but I still get messages off couples who seem to think I should meet them alone and they get quite snotty when I say I won't .

If it isn't on a profile tho it should be mentioned in the first few messages ."

I get this all the time too and it winds me up While I have checked “MF” couples in my “Looking for” options, I’ve explained in my profile exactly why and what I’m looking for. Yet I get so many messages from peeps who simply don’t read

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By *arlot_CharlotteWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hey everyone

We receive messages from single female profiles asking to join us as a single female. After chatting and swapping pics they start to introduce their husband/ fb/fwb or bf. So just wondering what’s the point of setting up a single girl profile when you don’t want to play alone!! Like really why some people do that?

Have you been in similar situations?! "

I also had a couples profile and we experienced this all the time. We just dealt with it by pointing out that we didn’t wish to cause any offence but were only interested in meeting the lady herself - and never ended up meeting any of them as they’d stop chatting.

In fact, we must have chatted to hundreds on single F profiles and met less than 10 out of those 100s - an exhausting chase! I’m not looking forward to the search as a solo female and will probs just stick to those I’ve met already and see what happens at the occasional party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those who go to clubs etc hopefully once those reopen it’ll be easier to meet single women as you’ll see them in real life and can then decide to play there and then or at least talk properly about what you're looking for.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"My friend chatted to a single female for ages.They skyped chatted an the phone and after time arranged to meet for a social in a local pub.

She turned up they got chatting and then a strange guy came over to there table and sat right next to my friend on the bench seat so she couldn't move away.

The woman them introduced him as her husband and my friend phoned her bf who came and errrmmmm sorting things out x "

That sounds like it could have come across as very intimidating and unpleasant

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"For those who go to clubs etc hopefully once those reopen it’ll be easier to meet single women as you’ll see them in real life and can then decide to play there and then or at least talk properly about what you're looking for. "

I wish there was a fingers crossed emoji...

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By *extravagantWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Some single women might be worried about meeting someone new for the first time all by themselves. It’s a dangerous world out there...

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Some single women might be worried about meeting someone new for the first time all by themselves. It’s a dangerous world out there..."

I imagine that could be unpleasant if you didn't feel completely in control of the situation

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