FabSwingers.com forum: Non-feminine crossdressers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are peoples thoughts on non-feminine cross dressers?

I’ve recently started cross dressing. I certainly can make my physique and figure appear feminine, and may be submissive for the right person.

However, at over 6ft with broad shoulders, there’s no denying I’m a man, even when dressed. Though I’d like to think I’m a good looking one.

I also don’t have any underlying urge to be a woman. It’s purely a sexual role play thing. I like the fact I’m a man that secretly dresses in woman’s clothing, acting feminine purely for sex.

Are there people into that ?

I’m keen to know peoples thoughts, as I think it’s quite a separate thing to being a trans and I don’t really see it mentioned (feel free to message if too shy to say it in public).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be truthful most crossdressers you will find on sites like this and fabguys are not that feminine looking really. Even when made up its still obvious they are men. Big fat hands are a dead giveaway. However there is an illusion of femininity and with rare exceptions crossdressers are bottoms and dressing indicates they want to get fucked in the arse... Surely, that's why they dress to clearly indicate to other guys that they are into taking anal. And I for one have obliged hundreds.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You are what you are. My personal opinion is that doing something that makes you feel good, gives you pleasure and does nobody any harm can only be a good thing. I don't think you need to look like a woman in the accepted sense to feel feminine.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Been out on the scene for many years and seen all sorts of Tgirls from Thai Ladyboys to guys with beards in dresses. In fact some guys with very masculine features, can look really attractive with the right makeup, wig and clothes. Strutting down canal street with high heels and looking 7ft tall these girls can really turn heads.

I like to crossdress without makeup and wigs, find a partner who’d just play with me as a guy in lingerie, but the majority want the feminine illusion.

However it’s always about confidence and being happy within yourself, so enjoy the feminine side to your personality and sod to those who disagree

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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

I have lots of tgirl and crossdressing friends some are very femine some aren't. Just dress as you want, go out enjoy yourself and have a good time x

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

Just enjoy the the time you get to dress without worrying what anyone else thinks, I know some men like to know a crossdresser is a man. I like to look and act feminine and absolutely love the time I spend as a girl, doing my makeup and fixing my hair, I can be a little obsessive about how I look but enjoy every minute of getting ready.

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Every one can be fit if they try too.. feminie should be inside..

Sadly I have nothing feminie..not feminie voice.. still I'm so bad in makeup after years.. but I dress and try to look okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are what you are. My personal opinion is that doing something that makes you feel good, gives you pleasure and does nobody any harm can only be a good thing. I don't think you need to look like a woman in the accepted sense to feel feminine. "

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By *ickylouiseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

For me convincing or not it's all about the effort.

You can be 6ft 6 a builder with a chiseled jaw but glam up and make an effert and to me you'll look sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. I don’t want to feel feminine. That’s the thing I was trying to explain

I’m undoubtedly still a man, but I enjoy the idea of role playing and being a sl*t behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all of your feedback everyone. It’s really interesting and helpful. Especially the comment that says making the effort is the main thing. That helped a lot.

I’m wondering what do men think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear for me.

I love the feel and the look

Iam NOT a woman, nor do I want to try and pass myself off as one.

It's purely sexual arousal for me.

If people like this GREAT, if they don't then no worries.

Iam not in anyway camp just because I X dress.

Alpha male all the way

Except with stockings tights and heels on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hid my guilty secret all through marriage number 1.. on meeting my next partner who is now my wife I revealed the other side of me eventually and she grew to love c I say both sides of me equally to the point we now glam up together and shop for clothes undies etc together. or she will throw me a nightie before we jump in bed and say I wanna snuggle up to you in this tonite.. each to their own this is our way and we continue to grow likw this as the years pass.. Good luck OP on your quest.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's everyones right to be able to express themselves physically as they wish to. Likewise, the sex that you have with consensual partners is your choice too.

That you aren't fully as physically 'right' to crossdress, in some others' or your own opinion, because you think you're a bit wrong for it, isn't an issue unless you make it one. If it's right for you, that's what counts.

Perhaps you doing this also has to do with not being in the right relationship, as you're wanting to cheat, or are cheating. Are you getting a thrill from breaking the trust your partner has with you? Could you look to communicate better, so that the needs of both of you are met? Many straight and bi crossdressers are in relationships where they dress and have sexual openness.

Otherwise, there's room for everyone in the world to be themselves. You'd perhaps not be surprised at the number of very masculine men who enjoy feminine clothing on themselves

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I realise I will never look as feminine as I would like with ‘what God gave me’ but try to work with what I’ve got and make the best of it.

Despite size etc you can ‘fit in’ to some extent, I go out dressed in the day and don’t seem to attract tooo much attention - but I do try to look as feminine as I can .,. It does take time, practice and more practice,but you can do it xx

R xx

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By *aige_TurningTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I do try to look as fem as a 100kg builder can. That said I dont dress to go out in public, only naughty places on an evening lol.

For me the dressing is about how it makes me feel (submissive) and how my persona changes. From alpha male to submissive slut in the time it takes to pull on a pair of stockings. The feeling of pleasuring a dom man when dressed and feeling humiliated and used is why I chose to dress. All be it very late in life. Each to their own. Xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It all depends what you want from dressing, to enjoy the feel of the fabrics and clothes on you, to adding bits and pieces like make, etc.

For me personally I enjoy just wearing underwear under my clothes, other times being fully dressed up but with no make or wig, then being dressed with make up and wig.

There will be loads of people try to label you a CD, TV, etc. As long as you are enjoying it, does it really matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all good, do what feels good for you. Men look sexy in dresses too not to mention how great it feels. I'm never going to look slim and fem again, that boat sailed in my twenties. Still love dressing and feeling sexy.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

"I do try to look as fem as a 100kg builder can. That said I dont dress to go out in public, only naughty places on an evening lol.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can pull it off and look passable as a women then theres no harm but some folk clearly look like a bloke in a frock and thats just awkward in my opinion as it looks silly.

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By *dtanyaTV/TS
over a year ago

gallowayshire

I just luv dressing and being used as a dirty cum slut

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By *exy-schoolieTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

I love the feel of the lingerie especially when I have had a full body shave don't do make up and wig bit would love to try sometime for me it's just the sexy feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ealAndTurquoiseMan
over a year ago

North Yorks

hello I’m male and I love all Crossdressers, I was born in wrong body for sure, I’m fem, and I’m happy in my own body so u should be, I know a lot of men hide it from there partners etc, but we are who we are, and in todays world we are accepting more than say like 10 years ago

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"To be truthful most crossdressers you will find on sites like this and fabguys are not that feminine looking really. Even when made up its still obvious they are men. Big fat hands are a dead giveaway. However there is an illusion of femininity and with rare exceptions crossdressers are bottoms and dressing indicates they want to get fucked in the arse... Surely, that's why they dress to clearly indicate to other guys that they are into taking anal. And I for one have obliged hundreds. "

I'm a larger "lady", only consider myself bi when dressed which sounds weird but I couldn't meet a guy unless dressed.

I'm totally bottom, and although I'm obviously a man in bra, panties and stockings do my best to give my lovers a girlfriend experience and being dressed makes it completely natural to take a man inside me, just like real women do!

I like being treated like a woman, seduced and told I'm loved by my regular b/f who also really gets off on this scenario as he gives me his cum.

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I like to dress and will never be feminine looking as have a full beard

Find sexy lingerie and stockings a big turn on

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm not more turned on when I'm dressed but rather I actually feel comfortable and confident and sexy and happy. These are all things I don't feel when I'm in my male presenting everyday life.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

I also fit the bill here lol

It's hot horny fun, we enjoy it and if it turns you on, why not lol

Will keep on posting the pics too as some folks like seeing them

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Surely, that's why they dress to clearly indicate to other guys that they are into taking anal."

Erm..... no.

I mean, some do. And that's cool. But the way a person dresses or presents does not necessarily reflect their sexuality. It's perfectly acceptable for anyone to crossdress and still be straight.

Assumptions like this are dangerous and can lead to some dark places, not just for the dressing community. It resonates so much with "the way she was dressed she was begging for it" defence of some rapists. Not cool.

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By *ometomepleaseMan
over a year ago

doncaster

for me its about how they smell and how they dress. i just love girls who dress well and smell good.

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)

I hate this thread!!! Lol. There's loads of "girls" in this thread who look amazing yet claim they'll never look fem.

If that's the case, I'm definitely a guy-in-a-frock (but don't care as I feels good!!!!l

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I hate this thread!!! Lol. There's loads of "girls" in this thread who look amazing yet claim they'll never look fem.

If that's the case, I'm definitely a guy-in-a-frock (but don't care as I feels good!!!!l"

lol, don't worry you look Fab

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I put this elsewhere but it's relevant here too:

I don't feel more feminine when i dress up, i just feel more sexual and naughty.

Then again as i'm getting older i'm caring less and less about genders and what society thinks, i'm me, i want to have fun and enjoy my life, you are you and doing the same.

Who cares what gender you sleep with, what you wear and how you do it (within reason obviously).

We're all one wonderful mess of humanity and sex and i just want to enjoy it.

So OP just do you, who cares what anyone thinks if you feel good and you feel sexy and you like it then do it.

Ultimately feeling sexy and confident in yourself makes you more attractive to others, and i can promise you there's someone out there for everyone (and more than one in many cases).

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)

"I hate this thread!!! Lol. There's loads of "girls" in this thread who look amazing yet claim they'll never look fem.

If that's the case, I'm definitely a guy-in-a-frock (but don't care as I feels good!!!!l

lol, don't worry you look Fab

Thank you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also fit the bill here lol

It's hot horny fun, we enjoy it and if it turns you on, why not lol

Will keep on posting the pics too as some folks like seeing them

We certainly like seeing them

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress up in underwear but I am not feminine in any way. For me it’s just the feel of the underwear really turns me on it’s not about wanting to be a woman.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I also fit the bill here lol

It's hot horny fun, we enjoy it and if it turns you on, why not lol

Will keep on posting the pics too as some folks like seeing them

We certainly like seeing them

Viv"

Thanks very much

It was kind of you to say so, you guys are an inspiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks very much

It was kind of you to say so, you guys are an inspiration

What a lovely compliment, thank you.

I hope our paths cross one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are peoples thoughts on non-feminine cross dressers?

I’ve recently started cross dressing. I certainly can make my physique and figure appear feminine, and may be submissive for the right person.

However, at over 6ft with broad shoulders, there’s no denying I’m a man, even when dressed. Though I’d like to think I’m a good looking one.

I also don’t have any underlying urge to be a woman. It’s purely a sexual role play thing. I like the fact I’m a man that secretly dresses in woman’s clothing, acting feminine purely for sex.

Are there people into that ?

I’m keen to know peoples thoughts, as I think it’s quite a separate thing to being a trans and I don’t really see it mentioned (feel free to message if too shy to say it in public). "

I’m shortish, curvy, small hands, small shoulders and found trying to get the “passing” look easy when I was younger. Somewhere on the way to now I just stopped caring. I tick the tv/ts box on here cause it seems appropriate in the lexicon of the site. But I’ve no interest in being female, and I don’t much bother to question how people want to define me. Life is too short and fragile. For every tv or ts bemoaning being tall and stocky and not feeling feminine there is someone like me who would love being able to walk into a pub without feeling at risk. Nothing is perfect just embrace how you are.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I always go out of my way to be ultra feminine when I'm dressed and out and about and if anyone thinks I'm not .. I'll punch there fukin lights out..

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

"I always go out of my way to be ultra feminine when I'm dressed and out and about and if anyone thinks I'm not .. I'll punch there fukin lights out..

That's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always go out of my way to be ultra feminine when I'm dressed and out and about and if anyone thinks I'm not .. I'll punch there fukin lights out..

You look great and you’re lovely too.

Not that you’ll admit to it of course!

Viv

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Love wearing lingerie but definitely not fem looking!

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By *heahireladMan
over a year ago

crewe

I love wearing too but also not fem xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like just dressing, but also not feminine at all, I'm not smooth all over and I'm bearded too. Would u ever know? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are peoples thoughts on non-feminine cross dressers?

I’ve recently started cross dressing. I certainly can make my physique and figure appear feminine, and may be submissive for the right person.

However, at over 6ft with broad shoulders, there’s no denying I’m a man, even when dressed. Though I’d like to think I’m a good looking one.

I also don’t have any underlying urge to be a woman. It’s purely a sexual role play thing. I like the fact I’m a man that secretly dresses in woman’s clothing, acting feminine purely for sex.

Are there people into that ?

I’m keen to know peoples thoughts, as I think it’s quite a separate thing to being a trans and I don’t really see it mentioned (feel free to message if too shy to say it in public). "
non feminine cross dresser...... Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a hairy guy who likes to wear nylons. Never dress fully except maybe in some tight leggings and the odd set of shoes but usually in male mode but with nylons on. Love seeing other guys wearing in male mode too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing knickers & nylons occasionally

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I always go out of my way to be ultra feminine when I'm dressed and out and about and if anyone thinks I'm not .. I'll punch there fukin lights out..

You look great and you’re lovely too.

Not that you’ll admit to it of course!

Viv"

Robyn always cums up with a good quote

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Will be trying on my new lingerie this weekend!

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By *ealAndTurquoiseMan
over a year ago

North Yorks

I beg to differ I’m a male and I’m fem as fuck,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always go out of my way to be ultra feminine when I'm dressed and out and about and if anyone thinks I'm not .. I'll punch there fukin lights out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few quite easily outdo cis women

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By *atin savantTV/TS
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I agree with all of this completely. Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love hot fit crossdressers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define hot and fit, everyone has differing opinions. I try to dress as convincing as I can...but my idea of convincing may differ to others.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Well said this is my view too.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Define hot and fit, everyone has differing opinions. I try to dress as convincing as I can...but my idea of convincing may differ to others."

Have a look in a mirror and you'll see the very definition of hot and fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define hot and fit, everyone has differing opinions. I try to dress as convincing as I can...but my idea of convincing may differ to others.

Have a look in a mirror and you'll see the very definition of hot and fit

Why thank you, your making me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are all beautiful! Happy Saturday

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