FabSwingers.com forum: Stunning woman.

By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

Would a absolutely beautiful stunning lady. ( Obviously it'd have to be in the eye of the beholder ). Have sex with a average looking male, to help him live out his fantasy..? I know this is a bizzare question because of others preferences. I think I'd have sex with a woman I didn't particularly fancy if she fancied me, to make her happy.

I see some ladies on here an I don't even bother to message them ( unless it's to compliment them ). Because I think to myself " she's way out of my league " an I don't stand a chance, but I've got a brilliant sense of humour and wit that I can't express in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Not really sure what you’re asking.

My guess is someone will have sex with someone else they like and want to have sex with.

There’s a gazillion combinations of attraction.

Would someone have sex with someone they didn’t like much? Also possible and there’s a gazillion combinations of attraction or just what’s happening at that moment (or not) that make it happen.

As for leagues. They exist only in our heads. And as for “stunning”.... says who?

It’s not leagues that lead us to the people we like.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would a absolutely beautiful stunning lady. ( Obviously it'd have to be in the eye of the beholder ). Have sex with a average looking male, to help him live out his fantasy..? I know this is a bizzare question because of others preferences. I think I'd have sex with a woman I didn't particularly fancy if she fancied me, to make her happy.

I'm sure she'll feel special when she finds out you'd have sex with a woman you didn't fancy, just to make her happy. Hero!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

You hve two great reviews, and you are a great kisser as well, acording to the veris.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

question because of others preferences. I think I'd have sex with a woman I didn't particularly fancy if she fancied me, to make her happy.

I'm sure she'll feel special when she finds out you'd have sex with a woman you didn't fancy, just to make her happy. Hero!"

You've blown that way out of context. Watch my Cape....gotta fly. X

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

You never know who is attracted to what.

Just give it a go and see what happens.

I wouldn’t want a guy to shag me to make me feel better though. Mutual attraction for me.

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By *oris888Woman
over a year ago

Suffolk

Attraction isn't all about looks

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"You never know who is attracted to what.

Just give it a go and see what happens.

I wouldn’t want a guy to shag me to make me feel better though. Mutual attraction for me. "

That's what I mean. You're not really attracted to him but you get on, so the attraction builds. On here it's send a picture and that's all they've got to go on. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You never know who is attracted to what.

Just give it a go and see what happens.

I wouldn’t want a guy to shag me to make me feel better though. Mutual attraction for me.

That's what I mean. You're not really attracted to him but you get on, so the attraction builds. On here it's send a picture and that's all they've got to go on. X"

Lots of people ask for socials first to see if there's more to a person than their looks.

The nature of the net is that first impressions are about looks but I'm not convinced that doesn't apply in life anyway

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Basically your asking for a pity Shag from an absolute stunner?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's interesting also that you're wanting sex based on looks but don't want the other person to.

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford

Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

"Attraction isn't all about looks"

So true!

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try. "

I think I'm out your league.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try.

I think I'm out your league."

You'd get it

I'm such a charmer, form an orderly queue ladies.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try.

I think I'm out your league."
I would definitely be punching well above my weight with you! You are absolutely stunning x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try.

I think I'm out your league. I would definitely be punching well above my weight with you! You are absolutely stunning x"

Charmer !

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"No one is out of anyones league, just message them, you never know.

Worst that can happen is they say no and block you.

Never know if you don't try.

I think I'm out your league. I would definitely be punching well above my weight with you! You are absolutely stunning x

Charmer ! "

There lot them on here

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

Apologies to the judgemental idiots that have replied. In no circumstances have I asked for a shag off anyone, I do ok. I'm more than happy with my sex life and life in general. Should of known certain people up their own arsed.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Apologies to the judgemental idiots that have replied. In no circumstances have I asked for a shag off anyone, I do ok. I'm more than happy with my sex life and life in general. Should of known certain people up their own arsed. "

Ahhh this is where all those that replied went wrong. OP was asking it as a hypothetical question not because he wanted pity sex from a stunner

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

their own arsed.

Ahhh this is where all those that replied went wrong. OP was asking it as a hypothetical question not because he wanted pity sex from a stunner

Pity sex...? Grow up.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

If you don't ask you dont get! Don't forget your manners too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this quite creepy... why would anyone want to shag anyone to help them live out their fantasy sex is based on MUTUAL attraction not I feel sorry for you let me help you....

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"I find this quite creepy... why would anyone want to shag anyone to help them live out their fantasy sex is based on MUTUAL attraction not I feel sorry for you let me help you...."

Why does the I feel sorry for you come into it..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the way it reads you are asking if a women hm would fuck a man for his fantasy? Women aren’t toys to be played with we have autonomy and deserve to get off on the interaction as much as the man does.... not to “help him live out his fantasy” like I said.... creepy!

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"That’s the way it reads you are asking if a women hm would fuck a man for his fantasy? Women aren’t toys to be played with we have autonomy and deserve to get off on the interaction as much as the man does.... not

to “help him live out his fantasy” like I said.... creepy!"

What's wrong with living out someone's fantasy..? I'm guessing but I know I'm right hundreds of people have lived out there fantasies due to this site, that's what it's for. Fair play to them. I'm simply trying to imply I don't message woman that look absolutely stunning to me because they see my picture and straight away think nope. As I've said my personality which I've been told is great, is impossible to transfer in a message. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey...no one is ever "out of your league "...

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to “help him live out his fantasy” like I said.... creepy!

I’m sure people have lived out their fantasies on this site.... I hope they both got off on it not just to help someone else out!

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm not a 'stunner' (although who is would be entirely down to individual preferences) & I certainly wouldn't say I'm out of anyone's league, but regardless of that, I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't find attractive just to make them happy or to fulfil their fantasy. Sex is, in my opinion, about mutual attraction and satisfaction. Attraction is about so much more than just physical looks, but I do still need to find them visually appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a 'stunner' (although who is would be entirely down to individual preferences) & I certainly wouldn't say I'm out of anyone's league, but regardless of that, I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't find attractive just to make them happy or to fulfil their fantasy. Sex is, in my opinion, about mutual attraction and satisfaction. Attraction is about so much more than just physical looks, but I do still need to find them visually appealing. "

I agree with you in part and even tho like you i wouldnt say im out of anyones league i have never been judgemental over looks as i would rather someone be a genuine person as that is worth more than fake liers or horrible people who may have good looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of sexual leagues like football leagues.

How do you rise to the top?

Splash the cash!

Money.

Either (a) have lots of it : it’s surprising how many unattractive, arrogant, unpleasant millionaires have very attractive wives;

or (b) pay for it. Find yourself an attractive Escort and take your pick.

Otherwise, keep trying and hope for the best that eventually you’ll find some 9 or 10 out of 10’er that will find you attractive too.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP what would be the actual fantasy the absolutely beautiful stunning lady would be living out for the average looking male? Can you explain please?

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Think of sexual leagues like football leagues.

How do you rise to the top?

Splash the cash!

Money.

Either (a) have lots of it : it’s surprising how many

unattractive, arrogant, unpleasant millionaires have very attractive wives;

or (b) pay for it. Find yourself an attractive Escort and take your pick.

Otherwise, keep trying and hope for the best that

eventually you’ll find some 9 or 10 out of 10’er that will find you attractive too."

Finally someone who gets what I mean.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Hey...no one is ever "out of your league "...

xxx"

You are......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as leagues it's a mental construct to try to protect yourself from rejection but the simple fact is your no more or less likely to have your advances accepted or rejected by somone based on what level of beauty YOU attribute to them, anyone and everyone has insecuritys and I don't know a single person who looks in the mirror and says God I'm such a 10 and I won't settle for anything other than perfection so chances are whoever your looking at thinking God she's out my league is sat there thinking God I wish i was prettier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is any league attractiveness is viewed on different things

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"There is no such thing as leagues it's a mental construct to try to protect yourself from rejection but the simple fact is your no more or less likely to have your advances accepted or rejected by somone based on what level of beauty YOU attribute to them, anyone and everyone has insecuritys and I don't know a single person who looks in the mirror and says God I'm such a 10 and I won't settle for anything other than perfection so chances are whoever your looking at thinking God she's out my league is sat there thinking God I wish i was prettier "

See, you're my perfect example, absolutely beautiful, stunning and way out of my league in my opinion. I'd never be what I expect would be your taste, a ripped bronzed Adonis. I can't put across my personality in words so that puts me back. All you'd have to go on is a picture of me, which isn't great..... Fuck I wish I knew how to explain what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont think there is such a thing as leagues based on looks. Attractiveness takes many forms I personally think. Wit & charm is also attractive.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing "

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"I really dont think there is such a thing as leagues based on looks. Attractiveness takes many forms I personally think. Wit & charm is also attractive. "

How do you get wit and charm across in a message..? All people ask for in this site is..... Must add a picture..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex with who I am attracted to and expect the same back.

I think all people are like that are they not?

As for leagues, I dont think they exist, just stick to someones preferences and give it a shot

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post. "

Perhaps if you then made your post more cognisant ?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I really dont think there is such a thing as leagues based on looks. Attractiveness takes many forms I personally think. Wit & charm is also attractive.

How do you get wit and charm across in a message..? All people ask for in this site is..... Must add a picture.."

Wit and charm have nothing to do with a picture.

You said it yourself further up the thread that you've been told you have a great personality and that is in a greater part a out the things you say and the way you say it.

Its not difficult to put those same words from your sparkling personality onto a screen and there are even emojis to help you convey your meaning behind those words, plenty on here do it therefor so can you.

If you think that fantasy shag is down to looks alone, try being one of those bronzed adonis's but with the personality of a slug and you'll find they don't get laid either.

P.s. moaning about it is going to crush what chance you do have too.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

Perhaps if you then made your post more cognisant ?"

More knowledgeable? , it's something that came from the mind. Please don't use words you don't understand.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post. "

Because you said that you'd have sex with a woman you didn't find attractive, purely because she fancied you, it's implied that the "absolute stunner" would do the same for you, and let you live out your fantasies. It's not that great an assumption, really

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

Perhaps if you then made your post more cognisant ?

More knowledgeable? , it's something that came from the mind. Please don't use words you don't understand.

Nice.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

I'm a nice person, I'd go out of my way to make someone happy, sexual or none sexual, it's just the kind of guy I am. If I see someone in distress I try to help, it's backfired on me many a time but it doesn't deter me.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

Perhaps if you then made your post more cognisant ?

More knowledgeable? , it's something that came from the mind. Please don't use words you don't understand.

Maybe this is where you should understand the word you're trying to pull up the writer of it for too.

The grammar for the word cognisant in this instance is correct, you need to be more cognisant of it's use, here in this sentence it means understanding and in the previous sentence it means understandable.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

Perhaps if you then made your post more cognisant ?

More knowledgeable? , it's something that came from the mind. Please don't use words you don't understand.

As you clearly don’t it seems , cognisant does not mean knowledgeable

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Who’s going to jump up and down and say : “ me, me , I’m hot and stunning and I’m up for sympathy shagging anything “

I think both elements of that are pretty unrealistic . Sod

it , I’m contacting Zak Enron’s agent If this is a thing

Sympathy shag..? Yet again Someone who doesn't understand the post.

That's as may be. But no one wants to know they've been "sympathy shagged".

How has helping someone in distress backfired on you? Were they not grateful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

Knowledgeable, clearer, granted my first post wasn't very clear..... It's got nothing to do with, desperation, sympathy or anything else it's been dragged through or I've been accused of on this thread. Seriously I do ok, it's about looks at first site, all people like myself ( average looking ) not great with text or wording things have, a picture. I can't express my sense of humour or my personality in text on this site. The only way to catch someone eye is my picture, as all woman TV TS say, must add a picture with first message ( and rightly so ). Not everyone is with there partner through looks, personalities play a huge part yet it's difficult to express that in a one off text.

I've seen plenty of overweight, bald men with drop dead gorgeous woman and the first thing that comes to mind is, he must be absolutely minted, or she's a escort. No what if he's just a really nice guy..? I hope this makes it CLEARER.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

All of human evolution is about looks and attraction at first sight. It’s an evolutionary predisposition to look and assess and err towards similarity and compatibility.

It’s only evolution and condition that slowly lead humans away from this in its turn

And beauty is fleeting

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Conditioning not condition . Poxy predictive

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve never fucked anyone just because they’re “nice” (and what a meaningless, milquetoast word that’s become). I need to be attracted to them, and first of all that means I need to like their face. I don’t want to lie there looking up at a face that I find repulsive. It doesn’t mean they have to be “a bronzed Adonis” - I rarely like that type anyway. It just means there has to be something about their appearance that appeals to me.

Personality absolutely can be conveyed using the written word, and OP you are conveying yours right here on this thread. I’ll leave it to you to read back over your posts and decide if you like how you’re representing yourself. But I can quite easily get a feel for someone’s personality and whether we’re a good fit just from messaging them. There’s someone I started chatting with shortly after the start of the first lockdown, and we get on like a house on fire, but haven’t been able to even have a social yet. Believe me, if his personality didn’t come across well in messages, we wouldn’t still be talking. There are other people I’ve talked to who I’ve found attractive, but they’ve been unable to sustain a conversation for more than a few messages; or I’ve gone off them after seeing their forum posts. There have also been some extremely attractive people who’ve messaged me, but because their messages were little more than “hi” and their profiles said “fill in later”, I haven’t even bothered to reply.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I've been incredibly lucky in the past. I'm average at best and somewhat world worn but have been very lucky to have had relationships in the past with what I've considered stunning women! My approach is usually polite, hopefully considered and am very happy to receive replies. I'm relatively amusing so perhaps that's helped?

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"I’ve never fucked anyone just because they’re “nice” (and what a meaningless, milquetoast word that’s become). I need to be attracted to them, and first of all that means I need to like their face. I don’t want to lie there looking up at a face that I find repulsive. It doesn’t mean they have to be “a bronzed Adonis” - I rarely like that type anyway. It just means there has to be something about their appearance that appeals to me.

This is exactly what I'm saying, attraction is the first light, yet you say a repulsive face. What if that person has the most beautiful, amazing personality that you find yourself infatuated with..? As you say and it's true looks are important on this site and in other walks of life, I've sent messages to females ( in the past ) which I thought I've really tried with that one, it's been a long message explaining what I like about said female and about myself, because I'm average looking,( an don't get me wrong when I was younger I was very good looking and had a great body) the message gets dismissed and deleted. It seems it doesn't matter what you write it's the picture that's the be all and end all.

I've sat in groups in the pub and after a while when my confidence builds I feel the look of a females eye starting to warm to me because of my personality and character, I can't express that in a message.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

So what do you actually expect ?

What do you think is your due entitlement ?

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"So what do you actually expect ?

What do you think is your due entitlement ? "

What!! You think I'm one of the pathetic losers that think because they paid to be on this site it entitles them to sex...? No, not me far from it thanks.

Same as the single males that pay to enter a club and think they're guaranteed sex..? Don't label me along with them thankyou.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wouldn’t become “infatuated” with someone I found physically unattractive, however much I liked them as a person. They might become a friend, but they would never become a lover. And on this site, I’m only interested in people I can see myself having sex with at some point, so physical attraction is absolutely essential. If I don’t like their personality after getting to know them, I stop finding them attractive and no longer want to meet them. But no amount of getting to know someone I find unattractive is going to make me want to have sex with them, regardless of how much I like them as a person.

And just to be clear - if I don’t find someone attractive (whether because they’re objectively unattractive, or simply not attractive to me), I would absolutely not have sex with them to “fulfil their fantasy” (by the way, you haven’t said what fantasy that is - is it just the fantasy of being with a woman you perceive as a 10/10, or is there more to it?). And I would be deeply offended if I discovered that someone I found attractive didn’t actually fancy me, but slept with me to “make me happy”. I’m not interested in receiving a pity shag, and I wouldn’t give one either.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

This is exactly what I'm saying, attraction is the first light, yet you say a repulsive face. What if that person has the most beautiful, amazing personality that you find

yourself infatuated with..? As you say and it's true looks are important on this site and in other walks of life, I've sent messages to females ( in the past ) which I thought I've really tried with that one, it's been a

long message explaining what I like about said female and about myself, because I'm average looking,( an don't get me wrong when I was younger I was very good looking and had a great body) the message gets dismissed

and deleted. It seems it doesn't matter what you write it's the picture that's the be all and end all.

I've sat in groups in the pub and after a while when my confidence builds I feel the

look of a females eye starting to warm to me because of my personality and character, I can't express that in a message.

I wouldn’t become “infatuated” with someone I

found physically unattractive, however much I liked them as a person. They might become a friend, but they would never become a lover. And on this site, I’m only interested in people I can see myself having sex

with at some point, so physical attraction is absolutely essential. If I don’t like their personality after getting to know them, I stop finding them attractive and no longer want to meet them. But no amount of

getting to know someone I find unattractive is going to make me want to have sex with them, regardless of how much I like them as a person.

And just to be clear - if I don’t find someone attractive

(whether because they’re objectively unattractive, or simply not attractive to me), I would absolutely not have sex with them to “fulfil their fantasy” (by the way, you haven’t said what fantasy that is - is it just the

fantasy of being with a woman you perceive as a 10/10, or is there more to it?). And I would be deeply offended if I discovered that someone I found attractive didn’t actually fancy me, but slept with me to “make me happy”.

I’m not interested in receiving a pity shag, and I wouldn’t give one either."

It's not my fantasy. An I refuse to reply to the pity shag suggestions anymore. It's getting tedious now.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wouldn’t become “infatuated” with someone I

getting to know someone I find unattractive is going to make me want to have sex with them, regardless of how much I like them as a person.

And just to be clear - if I don’t find someone attractive

I’m not interested in receiving a pity shag, and I wouldn’t give one either.

It's not my fantasy. An I refuse to reply to the pity shag suggestions anymore. It's getting tedious now. "

You’re the one who framed your original post in the first person - using “I” and “my league” and so on makes it sound as if you are talking about yourself. If you weren’t, you should have been clearer in your language. And even if it’s not “your fantasy”, you are the one who presented the scenario, so you must have some idea of what the fantasy is?

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

I wouldn’t become “infatuated” with someone I

found physically unattractive, however much I liked them as a person. They might become a friend, but they would never become a

lover. And on this site, I’m only interested in people I can see myself having sex

with at some point, so physical attraction is absolutely essential. If I don’t like their personality after getting to know them, I

stop finding them attractive and no longer want to meet them. But no amount of

getting to know someone I find unattractive is going to make me want to have sex with them, regardless of how much I like them as a person.

And just to be clear - if I don’t find someone attractive

(whether because they’re objectively unattractive, or simply not attractive to me), I would absolutely not have

sex with them to “fulfil their fantasy” (by the way, you haven’t said what fantasy that is - is it just the

fantasy of being with a woman you perceive as a 10/10, or is there more to it?). And I would be deeply offended if I

discovered that someone I found attractive didn’t actually fancy me, but slept with me to “make me happy”.

I’m not interested in receiving a pity shag, and I wouldn’t give one either.

It's not my fantasy. An I refuse to reply to the pity shag suggestions anymore. It's getting tedious now.

You’re the one who framed

your original post in the first person - using “I” and “my league” and so on makes it sound as if you are talking about yourself. If you weren’t, you should have been clearer in your language. And even if it’s

not “your fantasy”, you are the one who presented the scenario, so you must have some idea of what the fantasy is?"

The fantasy of sleeping with a stunningly beautiful woman, as an average man. Not meaning myself entirely. A man sits and watches mainstream porn, where the ladies are out of this world he's surely wishing he was the male in the porno. Fantasising.

I wrote the original post while sat waiting for my works van, it was rushed and I admit I ballzed up what I was trying to get at but I think I've explained it since.

Just to add, I hate mainstream porn, I prefer amateur, homemade it's less fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my point is to me I'm not stunning I'm very average, and you think your average but that doenst mean everyone els is looking at you thinking God he's average, its your view of yourself holding you back not how others view you. Some people may think I'm stunning and other think I'm pretty gross to fat to pale to ginger and that's fine we can't all be for everyone. As for my type being a ripped bronze addonis... I mean if I meat someone like that and we clicked I wouldent rule them out but if somone asked me to describe my ideal man looks wise I like hairy dad bods, bald heads and beards I don't particularly find ripped men appeal to me

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's not my fantasy. An I refuse to reply to the pity shag suggestions anymore. It's getting tedious now.

You’re the one who framed

not “your fantasy”, you are the one who presented the scenario, so you must have some idea of what the fantasy is?

I wrote the original post while sat waiting for my works van, it was rushed and I admit I ballzed up what I was trying to get at but I think I've explained it since.

Just to add, I hate mainstream porn, I prefer amateur, homemade it's less fake. "

Well, that hypothetical man, if he wants an extremely attractive woman to cater to his whims, should probably hire an escort. A good one will make him feel like she wants to be there.

But just to illustrate (again, as everyone has been saying) that attractiveness is highly subjective - personally I find the vast majority of porn actresses very dull. They might be conventionally attractive, but they’re not at all interesting to me. I wouldn’t consider any of the ones I’ve seen to be 10s, and wouldn’t be interested in having sex with them. One person’s 10 is another person’s 3-5, and vice versa.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

It's not my fantasy. An I refuse to reply to the pity shag suggestions anymore. It's getting tedious now.

You’re the one who framed

not “your fantasy”, you are the one who presented the scenario, so you must have some idea of what the fantasy is?

I wrote the original post while sat waiting for my works van, it was rushed and I admit I ballzed up what I was trying to get at but I think I've explained it since.

Just to add, I hate mainstream porn, I prefer amateur, homemade it's less fake.

Well, that hypothetical man, if he wants an extremely attractive woman to cater to his whims, should probably hire an escort. A good one will make him feel like she wants to be there.

I totally agree with that. If we were all the same it'd be a very boring life. Thanks for the comments. X

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"So what do you actually expect ?

What do you think is your due entitlement ?

What!! You think I'm one of the pathetic losers that think because they paid to be on this site it entitles them to sex...? No, not me far from it thanks.

Same as the single males that pay to enter a club and think they're guaranteed sex..? Don't label me along with them thankyou. "

You’ve really got some issues . My questions were perfectly simple and you’ve shot off on another “ I’m so lovely, I’m not like other men “ diatribe once again .

I don’t believe you’re very nice at all . My assessment is that you’re bitter , twisted and rather self entitled

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"So what do you actually expect ?

What do you think is your due entitlement ?

What!! You think I'm one of the pathetic losers that think because they paid to be on this site it entitles them to sex...? No, not me far from it thanks.

Same as the single males that pay to enter a club and think they're guaranteed sex..? Don't label me along with them thankyou.

You’ve really got some issues . My questions were perfectly simple and you’ve shot off on another “ I’m so lovely, I’m not like other men “ diatribe once again .

I don’t believe you’re very nice at all . My assessment is that you’re bitter , twisted and rather self entitled "

That's your opinion and your very welcome to it. Not sure why your choosing to attack me but, my life is good, in every aspect. Hope you find happiness soon. Xxxxx

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over a year ago

I think I understand what you are trying to ask OP. I sometimes look at profiles of extremely sexy young men and by their veris I can decipher that they are only into fit younger women, and not because I feel less or not good enough, but maybe just because getting rejected is not nice, I refrain myself from engaging in conversations with such men. But always wonder if men are up to have sex just to fulfill a woman's fantasy.

I read in another thread that a man had sex with certain woman even when he didn't fancy her. I personally could not do that. Nevertheless, in my case I wave a flag that says, "The way you look is of little consequence to me, I'm more attracted to the way you see"

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"I think I understand what you are trying to ask OP. I sometimes look at profiles of extremely sexy young men and by their veris I can decipher that they are only into fit younger women, and not because I feel less or not good enough, but maybe just because getting rejected is not nice, I refrain myself from engaging in conversations with such men. But always wonder if men are up to have sex just to fulfill a woman's fantasy.

That is one amazing quote. An it hits the nail on the head. There have been but a few that got what I was trying to say without trying to label me as all sorts, no bother to me I brushed it aside.

Anyway, mines a kind of fear of rejection, since joining this site where in general population I'm quite confident. Xxxxx

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox."

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox."

The fact that your message is so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child. "

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is

so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

I'm as layed back as a ironing board, but these posts are pathetic, sums up your personality.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is

so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

I'm as layed back as a ironing board, but these posts are pathetic, sums up your personality. "

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is

so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

I'm as layed back as a ironing board, but these posts are pathetic, sums up your personality. "

Your response to someone who was attempting to lighten things up a bit isn't exactly laid back. In fact I'm not sure this entire post has really shown you in the best light OP.

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By *UNISHR23Man
over a year ago

heathrow

Mate I’m an average bloke. I’ve been on here a good 8 years on an off and I tell you persistence pays off consistency is key!! Haha I’ve slept with some girls on here that I have to pinch myself to believe sometimes !

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is

so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

I'm as layed back as a ironing board, but these posts are pathetic, sums up your personality.

Your response to someone who was attempting to lighten things up a bit isn't exactly laid back. In fact I'm not sure this entire post has really shown you in the best light OP. "

It really hasn’t shown you up in the best light at all . Anyone who doesn’t understand your convoluted and illegible thought processes , you blow up at like a spoilt child . Anyone who offers an opinion contrary to you , you blow up at like a spoilt child , anyone who attempts mild humour, you blow up at like a spoilt child .

My assessment of you , is that you suffer from narcissism, but still bear a burden of extreme insecurity . You’re really not a very mature or “

Nice “ person at all, although you try to disguise this with extreme unction .

You feel entitled to be seen with a string of attractive, head turning women on your arm to boost your ego and standing in the eyes of others as a sop to your own personal inadequacies and failings .

However , you are a hater of women , particularly very attractive ones. You have no real respect for women . It’s all feigned to counter your feelings of dislike for the perceived slights you’ve received at female hands.

If you ever found such a “ stunning “ woman , you’d be cloying , jealous and possessive and never satisfied . When you drive her away , you’d be UTTERLY evil in so many ways .

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By *uck-Fuddy XxX OP Man
over a year ago

chester'ish

"Maybe if you stopped peering through her letterbox.

Or at the very least stopped peeing through her letterbox.

The fact that your message is

so unbelievably childish leaves me to absolutely nothing to say about you. Or maybe just grow up you pathetic child.

FFS, lighten up. It was funny

I'm as layed back as a ironing board, but these posts are pathetic, sums up your personality.

Your response to someone who was attempting to lighten things up a bit isn't exactly laid back. In fact I'm not sure this entire post has really shown you in the best light OP.

My assessment of you , is that you suffer from narcissism, but still bear a burden of extreme insecurity . You’re really not a very mature or “

Nice “ person at all, although you try to disguise this with extreme unction .

You feel entitled to be seen with a string of attractive, head turning women on your arm to boost your ego and standing in the eyes of others as a sop to your own personal inadequacies and failings .

If you ever found such a “ stunning “ woman , you’d be cloying , jealous and possessive and never satisfied . When you drive her away , you’d be UTTERLY evil in so many ways .

I think she fancied me.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Time to leave it there i think.

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