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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is your alternative lifestyle a 'secret' or do you openly tell people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people in my life know. I dont usually talk too much about it unless someone gives me too much alcohol....then I loose my filters

Why I should only drink with swingers

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

It’s a secret. Nobody needs to know about our sex life, especially not our parents, children or employers.

If our friends were to find out I doubt they’d be surprised but we have no intention of telling them.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people know xx

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We don't talk to anyone about swinging apart from Swingers. We don't even talk about our own sex life to anyone. In fact some think we're prudes!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No-one knows as it's none of their business.

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By *avenTinaCouple
over a year ago

Southport

We try to keep it quiet and don’t discuss outside of swinging circles however we have bumped into clients, colleagues and the guy from our local shop in our favourite swingers club and they seem all to happy to chat openly about our naughty pastime

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No one needs to know what I do. It’s staying that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my swinging a secret for years..... although I find that it is an addictive lifestyle and find that going back to life of vanilla sex to be a struggle as you will never forget the buzz of meets and clubs, even when it’s almost impossible to arrange such fun times.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't talk to anyone about swinging apart from Swingers. We don't even talk about our own sex life to anyone. In fact some think we're prudes!"

Same!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No-one knows as it's none of their business."

And this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people in my life know this is my lifestyle it’s no secret to me

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

No one knows, top secret! Just how we like it

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Oh we keep it a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it to myself

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Definitely top secret. It is my parallel universe life

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Nobody knows. My private life is exactly that......private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely top secret. It is my parallel universe life

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% secret. Haven't even told my best friend.

Those of you who are more open about it, how have the reactions been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on Laura's side know everything...No-one knows on Matts!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Some of my gf's and my BFF know, I couldn't keep a good thing secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to keep it secret ..we think a few have an idea but we debuff it..its our business thats how we want to to stay ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only told a couple of close friends about FAB. That's just for my own reasons, no one else need know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah its not something i shout about like, not long ago we were outed, thats social media for you. My bestie would ask about it but in a weird judgy way in the end i told her we took a break from it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother gays and lesbians who knows, why should it bother you, are you ashamed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many know I'm on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't know why you brought 'gays and lesbians' into like. And yes i am ashamed, thats why i use my sundays to wash away the sins

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My sisters and my bestest friends knows

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The kids once asked us where we were going, we said "out to have sex with random strangers"... they said "there's no need to be sarcastic".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Omg that is epic, i may try that one x

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"No-one knows as it's none of their business."

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"The kids once asked us where we were going, we said "out to have sex with random strangers"... they said "there's no need to be sarcastic".

I hosted a couple who had a 22 years old son still living at home ... To avoid questions the wife arrived in loungewear kinda clothes , with a sawing kit and mended her son's Jeans after dinner. They said they were having a chill out evening at friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a secret. Nobody needs to know about our sex life, especially not our parents, children or employers.

If our friends were to find out I doubt they’d be surprised but we have no intention of telling them.

Lou x "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a secret shhhhhh dont tell anyone

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My sister and best friends know x

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"No-one knows as it's none of their business.

And this too."
Fantasticly put, why would I go talking about my sex life with family or work collegues.

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

In our every day life we are like Clark Kent getting on with it........... a cog in the giant wheel of life. But to our selective friends, they get to see our super hero swinging powers...........

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

"We try to keep it quiet and don’t discuss outside of swinging circles however we have bumped into clients, colleagues and the guy from our local shop in our favourite swingers club and they seem all to happy to chat openly about our naughty pastime "

Why wouldn't they. You are kindred spirits and even if they are not secretive themselves, why do you assume indiscretion on their part

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"No-one knows as it's none of their business."

Same

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The problem is when people know they can do spiteful things to hurt because they don’t agree with the lifestyle.

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East

No its our secret, our close friends know we swapped with a couple 10 years ago, and still gets brought up on night outs now....if they knew we still did i would never stop getting questions!!

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Not a secret, just private...

We don't tell anyone what happens in our bedroom or sex life in general, so its the same with our swinging lifestyle, they are friends that we happen to have fun with.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Yeah not so much a secret as just private. Apart from those I know in the swinging and BDSM scenes, no one needs to know or hear about my sex life.

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By *nee trembler123Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Is your alternative lifestyle a 'secret' or do you openly tell people?"

It’s private, I think it makes it seem even more exciting, that it’s a secret

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We keep it very private, not something we’d want family or non-swinging friends to know about....

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Most people in my life know. I dont usually talk too much about it unless someone gives me too much alcohol....then I loose my filters

Why I should only drink with swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep it private.a few close calls led to more discretion in the past few years.. its our life and our secrets..

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By *ufia SnowbunnyTV/TS
over a year ago

Hastings

Thanks to the lager lurgy I'm technically still a carnival princess, so I definitely have to keep being on here quiet

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"We keep it very private, not something we’d want family or non-swinging friends to know about...."

We are the same, very few people know and 1 of them who does is Sean's married fwb

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By *idscouple13Couple
over a year ago

leicester

A few close friends know but it’s really no ones business but ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows about ours. It's our private sexy time so nobody needs to know other than our swinging friends x

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