FabSwingers.com forum: single men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Would you say that swinging is for couples rather than singles?

I’m not a swinger so just asking out of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Well...we are only here to meet single men so that wouldn't work well for us!!

That said some of the messages we get do induce despair at times, but then you get a good one and it's all worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

Would you say that swinging is for couples rather than singles?

I’m not a swinger so just asking out of interest

Not at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

I'm a single man n have always turned up for meets with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought swinging was whatever you decide to make it. No pressure. No judgement. A chance for people to be whoever they want to be and have fun with other amazing people.

I don’t think it’s fair to lump “single men” into a generalisation of “what’s the point?”.

Each to their own!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

I agree in part but why do us single men always get the blame for everything. Its no picknic being a single guy. Its hard work and sometimes depressing. A bit of support wouldnt hurt instead of pulling us down when we are just trying to enjoy some fun or happiness for ourselves. A lot of women on here are timewasters who have no intention of meeting. Maybe if they didnt waste time is single men wouldnt take all the blame

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

Yep, singles are such a burden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean OP put “awaiting the abuse”.

So we’ve all fallen for the bait haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

always thought swinginging was about couples exploring, but happy to be educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

Yep, singles are such a burden."

Once again another judgemental stereotype comment that gives us single men who are decent a bad name. I always polite and respectful and some of the fantasist women could learn a thing or too about politeness.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Thought swinging was whatever you decide to make it. No pressure. No judgement. A chance for people to be whoever they want to be and have fun with other amazing people.

I don’t think it’s fair to lump “single men” into a generalisation of “what’s the point?”.

Each to their own! "
Hear hear

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Can I suggest if you don't want single men and women to message you, you should use filters to stop them messaging you. That way you can use the site as you wish to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always thought swinginging was about couples exploring, but happy to be educated"

You could be right. I’ve had a few experiences but would still class myself as a novice so I’m always open for education haha

I have the opinion that I don’t think things should be given a set label or be boxed off from anyone regardless of characteristics like relationship status.

I await the abuse haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean there are message filters for a reason...if people dont want to hear from single guys then turn them off!

It will get them to our profile quicker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I suggest if you don't want single men and women to message you, you should use filters to stop them messaging you. That way you can use the site as you wish to."

Sorry I was typing as you posted

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"always thought swinginging was about couples exploring, but happy to be educated"

Just hang about a bit longer and you will certainly get an “education” on how the forum trolls work, the meaning of life (42) and everything!

But I applaud a successful fishing trip by anyone!! Good job!!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Everyone is looking for something different though aren't they? As a single guy.. I get that the chances of me meeting anyone is probably lower than say if I was a couple or a single lady but I read people's profiles and if they specify no single males, then I don't bother as there would be no point but unfortunately from what I've gathered.. some dont follow the same principles. There some of us decent single guys on here too. Just saying

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

Yep, singles are such a burden.

It was a joke, humour can be a form of respect... oh and politeness.

It was response to a woman.

Projection from your values on to others, isn’t politeness.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man and would always turn up to planned meet, this is all about everyone having fun.

However there is alot of single men on here and I bet couples and single women get a ridiculous amount of messages.

Let's just hope we can all have some good times when safe to do so again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is looking for something different though aren't they? As a single guy.. I get that the chances of me meeting anyone is probably lower than say if I was a couple or a single lady but I read people's profiles and if they specify no single males, then I don't bother as there would be no point but unfortunately from what I've gathered.. some dont follow the same principles. There some of us decent single guys on here too. Just saying "

Thats the whole issue we face. Us decent single guys are never given a look in because of the bad ones yet at least we actually want to meet. A large section of women are timewasters who have no intention of meeting anyone. At least men actually want to meet.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Part of the reason we are here is for us to experience mfm so we need the single guys. Every guy we have met so far has been great. We've never had any bother off single men and find most of them polite and respectful. Sure we get the messages with no effort or just a cock pic but we just delete. No issue here

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Speaking for my self, I don't bother on here. I occasionally check out the forums, keep in touch with some of my friends and check out what's happening where when it was happening. So one less guy you have to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the main thing is not to generalise and try and take each person/couple as they are.

Just because a single guy doesn’t turn up doesn’t mean they’ll all bail.

Just because one woman doesn’t want to meet doesn’t mean they all don’t want to meet.

Take each person/couple on their own merit and you can’t go wrong!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Considering the OP's 2 veries are from single guys , they must have found some single guys to their tatste

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

Ha ha, some single men are always welcome.

Hope Covid lockdown is not too arduous my friend.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The only issue we have with single guys is that a lot don't bother to read profiles. We just don't understand why.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Swinging can take many forms from being watched to feeling comfortable in your own skin. Yes it originally was something couples started but it ultimately evolved so everyone could feel included.

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

Iv been on here a long time single and never been approached by any one. By that I mean women and couples always men single gay men I’m not interested in men from an honest perspective I was put on to this site by a good friend he is on here with his gf and they meet people every day of the week. I thought it was me but it’s not people ain’t interested in single men. I’d love to find a girl single partner up and swing go clubs become friends with friends and make more of the advantage of being single and mingle lol

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I havent been on here for that long so I can't say to be fair but I don't think they are timewasters though.. some may just have cold feet or what thought to be a good idea then suddenly realised its not for them. Call me naive.. but I like to think that there has to be another explanation too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering the OP's 2 veries are from single guys , they must have found some single guys to their tatste

Haha well spotted!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Iv been on here a long time single and never been approached by any one. By that I mean women and couples always men single gay men I’m not interested in men from an honest perspective I was put on to this site by a good friend he is on here with his gf and they meet people every day of the week. I thought it was me but it’s not people ain’t interested in single men. I’d love to find a girl single partner up and swing go clubs become friends with friends and make more of the advantage of being single and mingle lol "

Have you tried clubs before?.. I heard its a good way to meet people.. prior to lockdown I meant. I went once ages ago and it was quite chilled. If you do go.. just go with the mentality that not to expect something will happen. Just meet, talk and who knows

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"The only issue we have with single guys is that a lot don't bother to read profiles. We just don't understand why."

To that’s it’s because some men are lazy and can’t be bothered to read I know this from some of the messages I’ve had from men. But it’s not just men that do it though.

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

Iv always wanted to go to a club but Iv never been so don’t know what to expect any way was planning to go but lock down happened and I have just got on with my life

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Iv always wanted to go to a club but Iv never been so don’t know what to expect any way was planning to go but lock down happened and I have just got on with my life "

Go in with no expectations and you’ll do fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just dont realise how hard it is being a single guy. I have been singke years and feel life is passing by. I want to find someone to enjoy all the good things sex has to offer but its really difficult to find someone genuine and then start dateing etc and before you know it you have been single for years. Im on here because i want to enjoy these things as i dont have a GF to enjoy them with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women and couples look for single guys...

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

They seem to have passed me by in this 6 years of being on her lol

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

That's harsh OP, tarring us all with the same brush. I fully understand there are ones here treating Fab like a knockin shop but there are actually ones who are here to explore and meet new people and test their own boundaries. I've been here over two years and have attended club events and made many new friends in couples and singles alike, I'm respectful and understanding my verifications prove that.

We aren't all the same and it's about giving the right ones a chance to prove that.

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

I read a lot of profiles message but never get any reply’s they read delete or just read and don’t reply what do people want I am very open and interested in peoples wants etc I’m open and honest but it’s never enough single on a swingers site is like being at the pool seeing every one having fun but your mum didn’t pack your trunks....

Some times life passes us by and before we know it we waisted are time just watching every one else have a good time.... Facebook is a prime example lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"They seem to have passed me by in this 6 years of being on her lol "

Was it Newton’s third law that said. “Every equilibrium every force has an equal and opposite force”?

Efforts put in and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Swinging is a loose term that encompasses many gender and relationship styles and has changed over time.

Those who don't find their selection of others to meet is successful, would probably do well to review their strategy and to adjust it.

If it's online recruitment of single men, you'll invariably get a lot of men who are not single but claim to be, so you need to counter this. Meet at clubs or via friends who vouch for them.

You can totally ignore anyone who is single, the site doesn't force contact from or meets with singles. Use filters

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

When you put the effort in and you get nothing every time is a little disheartening at the least lol some people don’t struggle to get messages and others do it’s the equilibrium of the forces lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you put the effort in and you get nothing every time is a little disheartening at the least lol some people don’t struggle to get messages and others do it’s the equilibrium of the forces lol"

If you really want to find a good couple or woman for regular meetings, you have to keep going mate, and it will happen. You can't give up on what you want.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t walk down the same path, go to a club, when open.

Do it, you will have fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've need been stood up by a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t walk down the same path, go to a club, when open.

Do it, you will have fun."

Exactly.

As Einstein said “definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result” ... or something like that anyway.

Mix it up , try new things! The journey is just as important as the destination.

Wonder how many cliches we can throw in here? Haha

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

I have always tried to develop my tack ticks but it’s like reinventing the wheel every time I just try to be my self with a hint of interest to there profile or simply be myself no one likes you to be your self it’s to much or not enough over confident or not enough. It’s like a double edged blade for the single man dive in and crack your head open in the shallows or dip your toe in and drown whilst being eaten by a shark lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We've need been stood up by a single guy."

Never that should say

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t walk down the same path, go to a club, when open.

Do it, you will have fun.

Exactly.

As Einstein said “definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result” ... or something like that anyway.

Mix it up , try new things! The journey is just as important as the destination.

Wonder how many cliches we can throw in here? Haha "

Journey of a hundred miles begins with a single step (just make sure it’s in the right direction)?

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

Well I’m just a single guy looking for the right step night beautiful people stay safe stay happy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t walk down the same path, go to a club, when open.

Do it, you will have fun.

Exactly.

As Einstein said “definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result” ... or something like that anyway.

Mix it up , try new things! The journey is just as important as the destination.

Wonder how many cliches we can throw in here? Haha

Journey of a hundred miles begins with a single step (just make sure it’s in the right direction)?"

Hope the journey is on flat ground otherwise it’ll be a uphill battle.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t walk down the same path, go to a club, when open.

Do it, you will have fun.

Exactly.

As Einstein said “definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result” ... or something like that anyway.

Mix it up , try new things! The journey is just as important as the destination.

Wonder how many cliches we can throw in here? Haha

Journey of a hundred miles begins with a single step (just make sure it’s in the right direction)?

Hope the journey is on flat ground otherwise it’ll be a uphill battle."

Who would want things to go down hill?

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"
if your not interested in men you can adjust your settings so you don’t get messages from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is a couples only game is bullshit ... lets get real without single men there would not be a scene at all...

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

Here here

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By *014shadowCouple
over a year ago

Fresno

I beg to differ we have enjoyed playing with several single guys. I truly enjoy watching the wife get pleasured. It's not easy but it's worth the effort for us.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have had almost 100% good interactions with single males. They also have the hardest time here so it's amazing how lovely and unjaded the ones i interact with. Stay with it guys as there are genuine single girls here for you.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Some valid points made above but my tolerance and patience and need for sleep got the better of me so I skipped some. Sorry.

In general. Pants. Single men AND women can do what they like. As can couples. Judge me not for wanting to have the lifestyle I have chosen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard work trying to brake on to the scene not having a clue plus this virus. I would love to end up a couple on here.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We are looking forward to meeting lots when we can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully we all can sooner rather than later

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We are looking forward to meeting lots when we can x "

“Lots” like in an auction?

That’s been fun at socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this post is kind of what i ment, why not go out and meet people, every girlfriend ive ever met has been through friends, not on a website

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and es we do meet single guys, but we find the guys we want to meet

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Reading the posts on this thread looks as though there is still a place for us single guys on here, just so happens every playing cpl are miles away

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I do alright on the "scene" as a single dude. Cuckold, gangbang, bukkake and orgies are all part of one's repertoire. I just don't swap partners.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Single men make up the m in mmf. They also make up the numbers for a gangbang, and greedy girl nights. Impossible without them. Banning them as they are single or widowed would be a discrimination. Block single men on your profile if your that bothered.

Ps, couples let you down just as much as singles. But your learn that over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this post is kind of what i ment, why not go out and meet people, every girlfriend ive ever met has been through friends, not on a website"

Times have changed unfortunately. I agree it's easier to meet people face to face. Being a man on here must be soul destroying for many.

Some men don't have the social skills to meet anyone in person. Can tell from their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your inbox is "full of them",block single men from contacting you.

If the odd one slips through,ignore it,it's not rude,it's on your profile you aren't seeking single guys.

Easy.

Now for many others, including ourselves,we do meet single guys,and fabswingers is here to find and meet them.

Saying single men shouldn't be on here,equals single women shouldn't be here either,would you want that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are after single guys

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I only discovered swinging a few years ago and have thoroughly enjoyed fab..it can be hard work and there are rude people, singles or couples.But some gems as well.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Had it been a little while since someone preached what this site is for or what swinging really is???

I ONLY date single guys from here so I’m very glad for all my friends I’ve met here and all the very fun times I’ve had with them. Here’s to many more.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Had it been a little while since someone preached what this site is for or what swinging really is???

I ONLY date single guys from here so I’m very glad for all my friends I’ve met here and all the very fun times I’ve had with them. Here’s to many more.

Hear hear

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We always play with single guys, that’s why we get annoyed that most clubs are couples only on a Saturday night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv always wanted to go to a club but Iv never been so don’t know what to expect any way was planning to go but lock down happened and I have just got on with my life

Go in with no expectations and you’ll do fine"

We go to have a laugh with each other and if it progresses to more great and if not we still have a giggle! We know it must be nerve wracking to go alone (Laura does go alone sometimes!) so we have taken a few single guys with us to clubs so they can break the ice easier. Turning up as a 3 always causes a mini stir as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always play with single guys, that’s why we get annoyed that most clubs are couples only on a Saturday night. "

Ah not just us who find that frustrating then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good fishing expedition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men aren't the problem, as far as we can see the problem is the people that think others will instantly fuck them, that attraction or engaging someone mentally isn't important.

Then there are the fantasists just looking for endless chat and pictures and of course the people that are cheating on a partner.

Had all of these from couples, single men and women. Liberal use of the filters and the block button would be our recommendation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so many people missing the point of my post its un real, try reading before you post please

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

How about flipping it to single women?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"so many people missing the point of my post its un real, try reading before you post please"

Are you saying single men shouldn't be allowed on Fab as they don't turn up to meets ?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Of you don't think singles shouldn't be swinging and if you say males you should also include females why are you arranging to meet them anyhow?

And swinging is whatever someone wants it to be . There is no hard or fast rule .

And in here filters are there for you to use of you don't want to interact with them .

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The only issue we have with single guys is that a lot don't bother to read profiles. We just don't understand why."

Am a single man and they do it to me too

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I think the main explanation being that the lady says no to a the guy so gets labelled a time waster, when she may have been perfectly happy to meet someone else. Maybe the guy is the time waster for messaging someone who isn't interested in them.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I think swinging is changed a lot since the 70s and there is room for everyone. Plenty of people on here are looking for threesomes, so single people are appreciated in that respect.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

Yep and the couples plenty of time wasters there too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I mean there are message filters for a reason...if people dont want to hear from single guys then turn them off!

It will get them to our profile quicker!

But that would prevent the single bi males from contacting them, and apparently single bi men are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males on Fab - Totally untrustworthy individuals quite often fantasists. Usually socially inadequate and liars. Quite often married and cheating liars. Totally unreliable with unrealistic expectations. Oh and did I say they tend to be liars.

Single females on Fab - Absolute credit to the site all lovely warm friendly people. Honest reliable and such great fun.

Couples on Fab - See single females above.

Just a bit of fun stay safe and happy swinging to everyone.

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By *tstillworksMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuseif your not interested in men you can adjust your settings so you don’t get messages from them "

I was thinking the same Nicola.

I just checked my filters on messages and all my filters are still in place.

It was the first thing I did when I joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is just gatekeeping. If you want to start with that then...

Married couples, why do they bother?

Marriage is about commitment to one person. If they want to sleep with other people just stay single.

The solution is just relax and let people do what they want to do

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Single men are our bread and butter.We wouldn't be on Fab without them!

M and M

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I don't think there's an accepted definition of swinging, and single guys are definitely part of the scene.

I don't understand though, and there's been a few similar posts from men and women recently concerning dating, how singles can KNOW that what they want in a new partner is swinging.

I get that often people want something casual, "not heavy", but if feelings creep in then that all goes out the window anyway. And that's not a bad thing.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

I beg to differ, I have been on here for over 13 years and met some great couples that have enjoyed my company, and I have certainly enjoyed my time with them.

I agree it’s certainly changed on here, I think they should make the site supporter option compulsory, let’s be honest if a single guy won’t spend £5 for 90 days silver membership ( I think )!

Then what’s the chance of him driving 50 miles to have fun with a couple. ( petrol, road tax, tyre wear )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

There will always room for you

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By *dx69Man
over a year ago

London

"Thought swinging was whatever you decide to make it. No pressure. No judgement. A chance for people to be whoever they want to be and have fun with other amazing people.

I don’t think it’s fair to lump “single men” into a generalisation of “what’s the point?”.

Each to their own! "

Well said!

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

The Op wants to be glad his father wasn't lumped into the "single men" category and treated accordingly, which is with contempt. Otherwise the Op would not be here looking down his nose. Holier than thou.

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By *assey265Man
over a year ago

carlow

Sorry to be a burden on society

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By *areass2017Man
over a year ago

east coast

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

I’d certainly make room

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"That is just gatekeeping. If you want to start with that then...

Married couples, why do they bother?

Marriage is about commitment to one person. If they want to sleep with other people just stay single.

The solution is just relax and let people do what they want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VERY strange comment seeing as you have males in friends list & had 2 meets with men listed in your profile!!!, confused to say the least!!!. j

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Can I suggest if you don't want single men and women to message you, you should use filters to stop them messaging you. That way you can use the site as you wish to."

Brilliant! And so simple.

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By *ranny hunterMan
over a year ago

Durham

I always turn up .

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Because they have the right to.

If anyone doesn't want to be contacted by single males then apply an email filter. You have that right too.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Maybe....just maybe, you need to read your own profile. You actually say i you bio you are looking for Couples and men, ?

So actually what do you want

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

"Considering the OP's 2 veries are from single guys , they must have found some single guys to their tatste

I have just read OP profile and it states they are looking for couples, men and women. It is a bit hypocritical of your opinion about single men using fab, when obviously your looking for single females and males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well just to prove how stupid this post is ive been blocked by this couple because i sent them a direct text!, they said i should have used forum which i also did a while back but they didnt check that!, all in all an abusive couple who have a downer on being contacted by guys. but as lots of you have pointed out they should be using the filters!. think they just getting off on being abusive! but top marks for stupidity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well just to prove how stupid this post is ive been blocked by this couple because i sent them a direct text!, they said i should have used forum which i also did a while back but they didnt check that!, all in all an abusive couple who have a downer on being contacted by guys. but as lots of you have pointed out they should be using the filters!. think they just getting off on being abusive! but top marks for stupidity."

Block and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both technically single but I can assure you we swing like fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering the OP's 2 veries are from single guys , they must have found some single guys to their tatste

Im looking forward to the response from this from the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are both technically single but I can assure you we swing like fuck

Why not just become a proper couple?

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

You got a reply though, so chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

I think someone got stood up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi, well a reply of sorts, cant believe how people winge when what they find wrong is down to stupidity they show.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Love single men and very welcome in my eyes. Without them i would not be here. Met some lovely men over the years.x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"hi, well a reply of sorts, cant believe how people winge when what they find wrong is down to stupidity they show."

Strictly speaking, the OP is a pair of singles......

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Threesomes don't work without 3 people.

Weird that

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Threesomes don't work without 3 people.

Weird that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

I'm not going to reply with abuse. Doing so would serve no purpose.

Bit of a generalisation.

Are you implying the the ladies for Fab are the same?

Being no shows are not exclusively a trait of single men.

Not all are some are genuine.

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By *014shadowCouple
over a year ago

Fresno

thank you we have had great times with single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of single female looking for single guys here to ... not every one here is group sexing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Bit of a generalisation. I’ve had at least three couples send me abuse and block me for not replying fast enough (during working hours) since I started this profile.

There’s good and bad people in all categories x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always thought swinginging was about couples exploring, but happy to be educated"

Really? Why are you looking for single women on your profile then?

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Because some of us are looking to meet them

On a couple profile also. 3sums and gangbangs are swinging not just couple swap.

Noticed it's not all singles you're against, just males. You consider single females as swingers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree, we are looking for a single buddy, although we are somewhat fussy to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another thread moaning about single men. Just ignore them rather than moaning about them.

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Disagree, we are looking for a single buddy, although we are somewhat fussy to be fair

Looking at your profile

Beautiful... I should be so lucky....

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By *hooter40Man
over a year ago

Durham

I am a single man on here and I do find it hard to meet on this site, but I have met people and will / wld allways turn up and ofcourse be respectful to thair wishes.

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Single man here !!! Arhhh based on comments delete account lol

Got to be in it to win it

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By *ewforestguyMan
over a year ago

England

Surely this post is a joke??? You're moaning about single men being on here, but your 2 meets are single men.

You couldn't make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single man really is depressing at times and hard work in general life. Single women have it so much easier when it comes to looking for a new relationship.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Swinging is a scene of many facets, makes up a community. All those years ago people found acceptance in the swinging community, what ever their reasons for being there.

Opinion: Swinging has become very single and narrow minded over the past few decades, certainly one would have thought the opposite but unfortunately not - forums and chat here are prime examples, saying no more on that.

The couple aspect "wife swapping" is just one facet.

The old expression "Swinging is dominated by couples, ruled by women" is long since past.

I see the scene far less accepting than it used to be, across all groups and facets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both singles and we met each other on here. How great is that ?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Got invited to a gangbang once with a stunning hot wife.

Was meant to be me and 8 other guys.

I was the only one that showed up.

So keep it up single guys. I had that lovely hot wife all to myself.

The genuine will prevail and swinging is for everyone

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

Yep, singles are such a burden.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Being a single man really is depressing at times and hard work in general life. Single women have it so much easier when it comes to looking for a new relationship."

Yes, they're spoilt for choice

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Being a single man really is depressing at times and hard work in general life. Single women have it so much easier when it comes to looking for a new relationship.

Yes, they're spoilt for choice

That's not true on pof or tinder or out in real life...I think...there are loads of ladies in the 35 plus age range looking for guys. I meet loads and im no spring chicken.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Got invited to a gangbang once with a stunning hot wife.

Was meant to be me and 8 other guys.

I was the only one that showed up.

So keep it up single guys. I had that lovely hot wife all to myself.

The genuine will prevail and swinging is for everyone "

Likewise here; I was the only who showed one out of 3 guys invited to a couple's home one night. She was blindfolded and had no idea how many had turned up until we were finished. She was genuinely surprised there was only me there.....

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Got invited to a gangbang once with a stunning hot wife.

Was meant to be me and 8 other guys.

I was the only one that showed up.

So keep it up single guys. I had that lovely hot wife all to myself.

The genuine will prevail and swinging is for everyone

Ha ha see what you did there. Very subtle.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Being a single man really is depressing at times and hard work in general life. Single women have it so much easier when it comes to looking for a new relationship."

Do they? How?

My life is well easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought swinging was whatever you decide to make it. No pressure. No judgement. A chance for people to be whoever they want to be and have fun with other amazing people.

I don’t think it’s fair to lump “single men” into a generalisation of “what’s the point?”.

Each to their own! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so it's hard for single guys, it's always been that way,

what we have to offer there's an unlimited supply and a shortage of what we want.

on fab it is difficult but not impossible and I like a challenge.

every problem has a solution maybe chop ya knob off that's the easy option

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Guys that arrange meets and dont show piss me off as it ruins the site for legit single men, like myself.

what are your thoughts on single women, is that real swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single man really is depressing at times and hard work in general life. Single women have it so much easier when it comes to looking for a new relationship."

Do we? No one told me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

What about single women of that's the case? I'm not a swinger so I'm guessing I shouldn't be here following your logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I suggest if you don't want single men and women to message you, you should use filters to stop them messaging you. That way you can use the site as you wish to."

But what would they moan about then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

I think someone got stood up....

Or rejected

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Got invited to a gangbang once with a stunning hot wife.

Was meant to be me and 8 other guys.

I was the only one that showed up.

So keep it up single guys. I had that lovely hot wife all to myself.

The genuine will prevail and swinging is for everyone

Likewise here; I was the only one who showed out of 3 guys invited to a couple's home one night. She was blindfolded and had no idea how many had turned up until we were finished. She was genuinely surprised there was only me there.....

Ha ha see what you did there. Very subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've give up now and just read the forums and speak to the few friends ive made,few of my messages get read and those that do rarely reply,considering the amount of fit young hung guys theres no point in an old fart like me trying so why waste my time it is what it is

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By *ickychef1Man
over a year ago

Greenford

Just single men...what about single others

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By *ornygezzaMan
over a year ago

west mids

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

Some couples look for single males to join them MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse"

By the same token, all the single women should do one too then?

The thing about threads like this is the air of smug that usually over rides

Let's face it, if there was a relationship breakdown, how would the husbands of these couples respond?

Well, after they tried to run a single males profile off an old couples account, they'd probably set up their own single males account, one where they made out they were different from the rest because they were 'once part of a couple' and fail, because without the wifes shirt tails to cling onto you'd probably drown too

It is time that some accepted that swinging isn't what it was - the sleuce gates are open, the internet has seen to that

If the site isn't for these couples, maybe it is they that should leave, to concentrate on existing contacts or to attend clubs and private parties, or maybe they could adjust and adapt?

I happen to believe that the definition of swinging has changed, that there is room for single males and that single males have a place here

Just as with (most) clubs, it would be commercial suicide for Fab to exclude single males

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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago

worcester weekend in exmouth

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

Plenty of room for you

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Because I'm a single female looking for a single man. It's not all about couples.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Not all singles are time wasters, day dreamers and wannabes. Check their verifications if don't want to be let down. In my experience, a two or three selected single guys are usually welcome at parties because, every intelligent person knows that a a great deal of women are multi orgasmic, and men are less so, needing time to recover before getting hard again, so a couple of single guys to keep the party in full swing, excuse the pun, should not be overlooked.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

What about single women of that's the case? I'm not a swinger so I'm guessing I shouldn't be here following your logic. "

Their profile says they are looking to meet single women , so their argument is wasted. Their whole profile is very contradictory, they have not meeting til after covid yet their status says they want a meet tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

well we have had 3 no shows recently, all women, make of that what you will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

What about single women of that's the case? I'm not a swinger so I'm guessing I shouldn't be here following your logic.

where does it say we are looking to meet? and if you dont like our profile, thats fine, meet someone else, and hope you enjoy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

well we have had 3 no shows recently, all women, make of that what you will"

Where did you arrange to meet them ?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As has been mentioned on previous posts regarding no shows, life outside fab gets in the way, nothing is truly set in stone

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

well we have had 3 no shows recently, all women, make of that what you will"
recently had no show from three woman , thought we are in lockdown

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

As a cuckolding cpl we definitely need single "men" to be on this site ..we all have our kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single man on here is fine. If I cant get some sexy fun in vanilla life I ain't going to get any here.

My approach however was to advertise for a lovely lady on here, and now (juicy888) and I are an item. We will get around I guess to putting a couple's profile on here but we're happy enough as singles for the time being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always thought swinginging was about couples exploring, but happy to be educated"

Me too. I've always seen swinging as a committed couples pursuit, your milage may vary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single man on here is fine. If I cant get some sexy fun in vanilla life I ain't going to get any here.

congratulations, nice to here a sucess story, do i need to get a hat???

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?

well we have had 3 no shows recently, all women, make of that what you will"

I don't have to make anything of it , your thread states that there's no place for single men in swinging and that they "don't show up" yet your veries are from single guys and in a replie you say that you do meet single men ... you've now added that 3 single women didn't show up , implying that single women are time wasters.

There's litterally thousands of single profiles ( both genders) with multiple verifications so they do meet and there's obviously a demand for singles ... I've never had a no show and never not showed up myself . I have however changed my mind about meeting someone and people have cancelled meeting me .

I also feel that people that "suffer" repeat no shows are possibly not doing their "homework" in selecting their possible playmates ....

Oh and it's also a well known fact that no couple has ever not showed up , ever

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

"why do they bother on here, single men isnt really what swinging is about, our inbox is full of them, and if you say yes to one they dont turn up, so why bother, awaitintg the abuse

So no room for us single ladies either I presume ?"

Ah shit, that's me buggered then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes me laugh this ''only couples are swingers'' lol if there was no singles on the scene swinging would be dead ... its the same as the couples who moan about singles at the clubs ...some couples are on mighty power trips its our scene mentality but sorry its not its everybody scene always have been always will be ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me laugh this ''only couples are swingers'' lol if there was no singles on the scene swinging would be dead ... its the same as the couples who moan about singles at the clubs ...some couples are on mighty power trips its our scene mentality but sorry its not its everybody scene always have been always will be .."

Well said xxx

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I think it comes down to 'homework'. If you are trying to meet after one or two messages then you are more likely to have your time wasted. If you spend time then it's less likely.

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By *incsfun42Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

That is tarring us all with the same brush and judging all single men

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m the third person that makes up a 3sum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it comes down to 'homework'. If you are trying to meet after one or two messages then you are more likely to have your time wasted. If you spend time then it's less likely."

thats not really true ive rarely got let down by a spontaneous meet yet alot of those lets talk are 50/50 at best

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