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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"

Everyone has a different pont if view, but passionate kiss for us and maybe her with a female partner (different dynamics). Passionate kisses between us confirm our feelings for each other and thus kept for us. Everyone is different

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By *assunach and CuimreachCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I struggle with a no kissing rule. I love kissing and Ive missed kissing women especially during lockdown. I have no problem seeing C kiss others and find it really hot. But that’s just me. We have played with a couple who didn’t do kissing. It just have to remind myself not to try.

Sass x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We think the same. K has kissed other women but we both thought if she's about to have an orgasm, it's better to have the freedom to kiss otherwise it would be hard to let go. We like the idea too of course but at the same time she thinks it would be weird watching me kiss another man's wife and vice versa! We will find out soon enough lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've played with a couple with kissing included and without it, we did prefer with kissing involved as it just flowed better in our opinion and we both enjoyed it, as long as their not just sat there snogging the face off one another and have play involved then fair enough.

We'll happily do either and respect the other couples choice that being said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was it like the 1st time you watched each other snog someone from the opposite sex?

Totally agree btw we wouldn't be happy watching each other having a private snogging session!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% of couples I’ve met were well into kissing, to me it would t feel right if not.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"

For us it’s always been a must, we both feel it would be more awkward without kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"

We don't and never have kissed our casual partners passionately on the mouth so can't tell what it's like to see your partner do it. As with everything on swinging other people's experiences are interesting to read but only you will know how it feels when you experience.

If other threads about kissing are anything to go by this will fill up with people saying kisding is essential etc which doesn't really answer your question.

I would say try it, if you don't like it you don't have to do it again but never let anyone tell you that the way you do things is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"

It's a massive turn on when we watch each other kissing another person. It's like sharing that intimacy with people.

No jealous factor there infact we both enjoy it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was it like the 1st time you watched each other snog someone from the opposite sex?

Totally agree btw we wouldn't be happy watching each other having a private snogging session!"

We enjoyed it and it turned us both on, I'd say give it a try and if you don't like it just speak up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself & my former partner didn’t have a kissing rule, I just presumed we wouldn’t. I was wrong , on our first meet the first thing she did was kiss the guy.

At first my stomach churned until I realised how much she enjoyed it. Then I was turned on.

I’m the sort of guy that gets turned on watching my partner enjoying themselves.

Unfortunately the guys phone kept ringing, he kept answering it . So we ended up getting dressed & walking out.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We insist on kissing, love the intimacy, great to see my wife passionately kissing, such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"

It’s was so hot.. we did have the same rule at the beginning but then we met a really hot couple and they wanted to kiss.. for us it was a no brainer and added to the moment.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We don't have a kissing rule as such, but I discovered early on that whilst I have no problem seeing M kiss the other women in a group situation, & I will happily kiss other women myself, I generally have had no desire to kiss the other men involved. There's nothing set in stone though so if in future kissing feels like something I want to do then that's fine too.

I'd say just try it and see how you feel & then discuss it together afterwards. I think it's about finding out what you are both comfortable with and not feeling pressured into doing anything just to please others.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone some food for thought there! Xx

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

East Riding

We love kissing it’s a must for us it’s so passionate and sets the scene I can’t imagine having sex with someone without kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and K originally had a no kiss (Male to female) rule but recently decided against it. We both think we would be jealous but turned on with a kiss (weirdly we were fine with other more intimate acts!). What's it like seeing yout partner share a passionate kiss with the opposite sex the first time? X"
we had the same rule. But lived it when it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could remove kissing from swinging, I absolutely would.

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