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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love to know how couple defin Soft swing / play?

Touch? Kiss? Oral?

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You are in the same room and bed next to the other couple but you only play with your partners.

No kissing, maybe spontaneous touching.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Anything except penetration I believe. Big fan of soft play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetween"
you decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetweenyou decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are. "

This... You go as far as your comfortable but I'd say soft swing is anything barring full on sex so abit of touching and oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s everything bar penetration with the opposite sex.

Abby will receive from a male and we both love pegging with all genders.

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s touching and oral only, no penetration . Just depends on everyone’s boundaries but this works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swapping partners but sex with own partner only. You can kiss, caress ,lick, suck the other partner, even finger but no penetration.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock


"Swapping partners but sex with own partner only. You can kiss, caress ,lick, suck the other partner, even finger but no penetration. "

This

And very enjoyable it is too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, now to put it to the test!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks for the advice, now to put it to the test! "

What time do you want me ?

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"Swapping partners but sex with own partner only. You can kiss, caress ,lick, suck the other partner, even finger but no penetration. "

That’s exactly how we do Soft Swing, everything up to full sex with the other couple, but we we did leave it open that if Mrs SW want to go to Full Swop it was ok with me and we’re both ok with the change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new and not done anything yet but we was thinking maybe soft swing was same room stuff touching and maybe if moods right oral x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Anything except penetration I believe. Big fan of soft play "

This is our understanding. I would definitely say kissing is in.

However, you shouldn't let terminology define what you can and can't do. If you like X and not Y, that's between you and whoever you are involved with. Don't let conventional understanding of words dictate what you look for or decide to get up to.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

We define Soft-Swing as voyeurism with mutual touch and oral if everyone agrees. We really enjoy just being in the same room with others and if the chemistry is right going a little further.

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket


"Thanks for the advice, now to put it to the test! "

Just make sure that your idea of soft is the same as theirs before you meet.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There are no set rules for any sort of swinging, it's down to the couple/person. For us it's (lots of) touching, oral, sucking. It's important to find out what people are into to ensure a good meet. Communication is the key! Communicate with others and each other. Have fun

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Just make sure that your idea of soft is the same as theirs before you meet."

Good advice. Even on this thread there are differing definitions of soft play.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We like soft swing and full swap ,happy to go along with what others want both are lovely

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We define soft swing as having sex with own partners and maybe a bit of touching if agreed with the other couple. We absolutely adore soft play. It has been some of our best meets x

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Anything except penetration I believe. Big fan of soft play "

That’s the same for us. We do find it difficult to find couples who soft swap.

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By *ohnsnowmanMan
over a year ago

Don't Go Back to Sexville

Isn't it those god awful places that smell of PVC and sick.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

For us it’s everything up to penetration.

We’re happy with full swap, but if meeting a couple for soft play we’ll play by their rules.

We’ve had some very sexy and intimate soft play meets.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Swapping partners but sex with own partner only. You can kiss, caress ,lick, suck the other partner, even finger but no penetration. "
That sounds sexxxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We understand it to be anything other than penetration with opposite partner.

We are soft only but state on our profile we are same room watch only.

Always good to agree ground rules first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it’s everything up to penetration.

We’re happy with full swap, but if meeting a couple for soft play we’ll play by their rules.

We’ve had some very sexy and intimate soft play meets. "

This is what we think of when we see soft swap or play. As we both love foreplay, it's still a win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres no one rule for anyone only your own rules stick to them

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh


"You are in the same room and bed next to the other couple but you only play with your partners.

No kissing, maybe spontaneous touching."

With our own partners, this would be our definition of parallel play. Mrs SW

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think the strictest definition is "no penetration" and then it's on a sliding scale depending on what your boundaries are.

We consider ourselves on the softer side of soft swap, where we don't actually swap but prefer everyone to be involved in one heap Mostly we just play alongside another couple with some occasional touching and kissing

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

weve done both but find soft swing more erotic sometimes you can start of as soft and then it progresses if everyone is comfortable with that its all about communication one thing we cant do is no kissing a good snog can be better than a bad shag

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the strictest definition is "no penetration" and then it's on a sliding scale depending on what your boundaries are.

We consider ourselves on the softer side of soft swap, where we don't actually swap but prefer everyone to be involved in one heap Mostly we just play alongside another couple with some occasional touching and kissing "

We hope to get to wales in the summer covid permitting.

We would love to meet up if you guy's fancy a meet.

Understand were outside your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk about soft swing, touching caressing each others partners and in reality we can do feck all.

Its so frustrating ??

But yeah everything that people are comfortable with bar penetration

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetweenyou decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are.

This... You go as far as your comfortable but I'd say soft swing is anything barring full on sex so abit of touching and oral "

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

* Bump*

Back to interesting threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your thoughts, we had soft play as sensual touching, massage, maybe a nice hand job

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By *im2203Couple
over a year ago

colchester

Very happy to swap partners same room fun but no penetration. Thats what we call soft swap and looking for couples to play with .

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