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By *arly400 OP Woman
over a year ago

East Midlands

...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?

...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?

...How do you feel about keeping secrets?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?

We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.

Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and I trust my partner totally.

I always know who he's chatting with and him me and we always communicate about meets as a couple.

We met on here, so we were both already into swinging.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?

We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.

Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day."

How true is this??? MrKC buys fruit & nut to stop me eating his chocolate - I can't eat nuts (

) - thatsxa huge lack of trust right there but he's honest why he does it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single but i know a good few swinging partners x trust is the main thing in a swinging marriage. I know that some couples end up getting divorced because of the jealousy that sets in. Some people go behind their partners back and play with regulars . You can't let the green eyed monster get inside your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im half of a couple and i trust my wife and she trusts me.

She tells me when something new starts up and tells me when she is meeting someone and what happened and if i ever started to talk to someone i will tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't keep secrets not a good marriage or partnership if you do!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?

We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.

Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day.

How true is this??? MrKC buys fruit & nut to stop me eating his chocolate - I can't eat nuts (

) - thatsxa huge lack of trust right there but he's honest why he does it!! "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think anybody is going to come on here and say they aren't honest with their partner though

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By *ugarandspice9569Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We met on Fab, and now have a 'Fab' baby.

A couple that plays together (with others) stays together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both trust each other 100%.

We say do whatever you feel like in the moment and have no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both trust each other 1000% you need trust in any relationship otherwise in my eyes it don't work without it.

Never, ever keep secrets. Unless it's to suprise them with a nice gesture/gift obviously

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust my partner totally as he does me. No secrets what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no issue with trust here, we are open to each other about everything.

As regards trust, without it any relationship is not in a great place and you need honesty for there to be trust about what each want and need from the relationship. So we are spot on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without trust, honesty and communication between a couple in this lifestyle the wheels are going to come off fairly quickly.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

No secrets here. Which allows honesty and trust. You cannot have a relationship without trust.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well...I may lie to him about how much I spend on shoes and lingerie but when it comes to swinging I tell him everything. I trust him 100% as he has never given me any reason not to.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met as singles on here and so there was a transition of us breaking ties with others. We were honest about everything.

As a couple, we have complete trust in each other. We are on a couple of sites and we chat to different people, sometimes individually but always with a view to meeting together and we share everything.

The only time I don’t share if I’m arranging a sexy surprise guest for C...but again she trusts me implicitly that it’s going to be what she wants.

I wouldn’t trust C with my chocolate though

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't see how it would work without openness and trust? One of the epic things about a great relationship is being able to be totally open and totally yourself with fear of being being shunned by your partner. I understand openness can be very scary and comes with its own difficulties. I think its also important to have an adult mentality and to accept each other warts and all. But when you have that openness you never have to be alone again. It's liberating and makes you a pretty unstoppable team.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To add the above totally applies regardless of if your swingers or not.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

"We met on Fab, and now have a 'Fab' baby.

A couple that plays together (with others) stays together.

Awww I love these kinda stories.

We’re the same every is on the table and the only secrets I keep is birthday surprises (which drive him nuts but I enjoy the torture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always honest with each other if I ever go on a meet on my own she always wants a detailed account of what happened during our sex session when I get home seems to turn her on big time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?

...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?

...How do you feel about keeping secrets?

We don’t keep secrets, trust each other like life depends on it

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Our trust and our honesty has grown since we started swinging.

We have more to talk about, and both like to make sure the other is still in to what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We trust each other 100%.

Apart from Christmas or birthday presents. Truth is never revealed until the actual day.

We always felt before we started to swing that we trusted each other and were 100% honest that has been proved all the time we’ve been swinging, we tell each other everything good and bad.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Totally trust each other 100% and never keep any secrets. We wouldn't be in this lifestyle if we felt any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?

...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?

...How do you feel about keeping secrets?

Our experience here tells us that almost all married or long term cpls are honest with each other , can't be sure about fuckbuddies.

We have met a so called long term partnered cpls where the male was asking my wife's number in secret and wanted to meet her behind his partners back .

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Yes we trust each other ,if we didn’t we would not swing , we mainly play as a couple and any solo meets are allways agreed before hand , or soon after , I don’t think any couples without trust should ever contemplate swinging ,or any relationship for that matter

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've been watching Temptation Island. We're both 100% that we would leave the Island with each other. We'd have a flirt and fun, but always go back to each other. It's an in Joke in our house that Blackpool is doing a Temptation Island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we trust each other ,if we didn’t we would not swing , we mainly play as a couple and any solo meets are allways agreed before hand , or soon after , I don’t think any couples without trust should ever contemplate swinging ,or any relationship for that matter "

THIS!

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By *umptuous DuoCouple
over a year ago

Teesside

We trust each other implicitly, the mrs has been on holiday with a female friend and visited clubs every night whilst away, there’s no secrets between us, we tell each other everything that happens as for us it’s a turn on anyway, I have visited clubs on my own also with her blessing.

If there wasn’t trust then we wouldn’t and couldn’t be in this lifestyle.

We’ve had conversations with people who are curious about trying swinging and always our advice to them is communication is paramount, you must take your time and have frank discussions about each other’s expectations and there must be complete trust for it to work.

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?

...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?

...How do you feel about keeping secrets?

You can’t be on the swinging scene if your not honest with your partner. Things will just end badly. I am totally honest with my wife and she is with me. If your not honest don’t start swinging silly silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?

...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?

...How do you feel about keeping secrets?

Totally agree. Swinging is an erotic sexy lifestyle and trust goes with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met on here and we trust each other implicitly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full openness and honesty, only way it works as far as we are concerned

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?

We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.

Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day.[it's jafacakes I can't trust her with]

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