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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. Now i know its not everybody's bag but seeing as we can't meet off fab. Who likes to get into imaginative. Wild,flirty and kinky conversation? I thought most would be up for it as it's safe and pressure free.

So far I'm the only one.

Just wondered if I was alone in my weirdness

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By *BW BlondeWoman
over a year ago

Castleford

Can't stand it. In my opinion. Makes me recoil

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't stand it. In my opinion. Makes me recoil "

That's fair enough. It's not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for it love a bit of dirty talk the imagination is a wonderful thing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty or naughty chat can be a good turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm up for it love a bit of dirty talk the imagination is a wonderful thing xxx"

Exactly. Better than porn because its interactive. Albeit remote lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nowt for me.. surely theres an 0898... number you can use

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By *ewbie swing coupleMan
over a year ago

mansfield

Dirty talk about things you’ve done or things you want to do ? Wats better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after

I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does nowt for me.. surely theres an 0898... number you can use"

Haha thanks. I'm not that desperate. In normal times I wouldn't meet anyone without a chat that lead to a flirt that led to a sharing of imaginations.

Got to be a connection.

I get that people think it's just a seedy way to get off but it's not the case for everyone.

Mental stimulation without any hassles. You click. You meet when able. Or not. Still fun letting the imagination fly?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

What else can we do at the moment we can’t meet up with anyone so it’s only just a bit of horny chat fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me. "

Totally understand that.

However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?

I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.

Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol.

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By *rs-sensual-meWoman
over a year ago

gwynedd

I'd do it all day long but only with someone I know.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.

Totally understand that.

However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?

I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.

Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."

How do I find meets? Conversation, often related to forum discussions & occasionally (but not very often) in response to a well thought out, interesting, message. That conversation will then sometimes result in enough of a spark to lead to a social meet, when the spark is still there in real life then things progress.

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By *attooCTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow /Swansea

It’s good before a meet but any other time waste of time it’s easier to just put on a porno

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Hi all. Now i know its not everybody's bag but seeing as we can't meet off fab. Who likes to get into imaginative. Wild,flirty and kinky conversation? I thought most would be up for it as it's safe and pressure free.

So far I'm the only one.

Just wondered if I was alone in my weirdness "

Mmmm love some filthy horny messaging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to sextext too. It's harmless horny fun

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I prefer a flirty convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.

Totally understand that.

However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?

I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.

Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."

I find it pointless indulging in "naughty chat" with someone I haven't met. I never know if I actually fancy someone until I've met them in person. So to indulge in sex chat, and then meet in person and not fancy them would be a bit awkward.

Obviously you can kinda tell from a pic if you're attracted to someone or not. Unfortunately, not everyone looks like their pics.

I guess we're all on here for different reasons and have our own boundaries. Personally, I save the flirting and sex talk for in person

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.

Totally understand that.

However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?

I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.

Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol.

I find it pointless indulging in "naughty chat" with someone I haven't met. I never know if I actually fancy someone until I've met them in person. So to indulge in sex chat, and then meet in person and not fancy them would be a bit awkward.

Obviously you can kinda tell from a pic if you're attracted to someone or not. Unfortunately, not everyone looks like their pics.

I guess we're all on here for different reasons and have our own boundaries. Personally, I save the flirting and sex talk for in person "

Totally agree.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after

I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth"

Aye same, have to have met them first and there be some sort of chemistry for me to do all that

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after

I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after

I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth"

Totally Agree ^^^^^^^

A complete stranger sending extremely sexually graphic detailed essay type 1st msgs is a complete Turn-Off. It's taking Perv to another level

Does absolutely nothing for me...a complete stranger like with no connection/chemistry whatsoever & no idea what they even look like & it happens quite often on here ... Yes True

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?

I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.

Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."

Its glaringly obvious that when messaging turns to sexting, its to aid the male have a wank and get off.

If the messaging doesn’t turn to sexting the male gets bored and buggers off.

It is possible to have conversations with people without resorting to filth, and in all honesty its better to have a social first before delving into sexual likes and dislikes in my opinion.

If you cannot hold a conversation or catch our imagination without resorting to filth, then it would be hard to find a connection and for us to want to spend time with you.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I find it boring does nothing for me. Hey ho each to their own.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I find it a total turn off and just fake n fantasy freeks.

All just full of talk n no sction

If ur thst obsessed with it thrn why not act them out instead of just talkin thr shit.

Also

Going on cam

Sittin thete watchin a complete stranger just wankin off whilst they ask u to sit infrom of s camera playin with your pussy.

Totally off putting sorry

If anything it will just be physically 1-2-1 in the flesh for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well. Interesting opinions.

Personally I like to have a good natter about most things but at the end of the day, fabs a sex site. If by the end of the conversation,(even if its after quite some time) I'm not mentally stimulated in a sexual way. No point trying to meet, even socially. If I wanted weeks and weeks of platonic conversations, I'd re join Facebook

Each to their own but I want to be

excited to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own indeed OP

My way of doing things has fared me well over the years, and I've had a LOT of fun in person (which is my preference).

Seems the majority of women on here aren't overy keen on sexting.

Do whatever works for you and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well. Interesting opinions.

Personally I like to have a good natter about most things but at the end of the day, fabs a sex site. If by the end of the conversation,(even if its after quite some time) I'm not mentally stimulated in a sexual way. No point trying to meet, even socially. If I wanted weeks and weeks of platonic conversations, I'd re join Facebook

Each to their own but I want to be

excited to meet someone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always love a bit if sexting. Good to fantasize until the real thing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does absolutely nothing for me, more likely to turn me off than on.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not with someone I don't know or have never met /chatted to for any length of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to seriously be a gender divide on this subject ... and (funnily enough) I'm in the ladies camp. Does absolutely nothing for me at all, if anything it bores me, but I don't have any sex chats on here as prefer to meet first and for that to happen there has to be some form of mental connection that comes from normal chatting. Actual sexual chemistry only happens in person for me so without knowing a person and having had physical relations first and knowing their (& them mine) signaling it's a definite no here

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I do enjoy it but only now with men I’ve met as my time on fab has taught me that the men that like to indulge are less likely to actually meet in person (when we could) so for me it’s a kind of screening as ‘meeters don't chat and chatters dont meet’

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

No interest in it at all, bores me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope it's not something I'm interested in either especially with people I haven't met. Like others said it tends to be guys who are horny when they message ask for it and seem shocked that sexting to get them off is not something I'm into.

With someone I meet it can be good up to a point .

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