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Ladies Profiles - subtle or blatant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I read through single ladies profiles on here what do people prefer?

Subtle hints and thought provoking lines that whwt your appetite for more?

Or blatant requests for taking it up the arse and gobbling as many cocks as possible?

Ladies and gents, you have the floor.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman I find the slightly more subtle approach more attractive. But you boys can be a bit dim sometimes so perhaps spelling it out to start with is the way

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing more subtle than a pair of tits on an av

Tbh anything quirky that catches my eye.

I am not typical most men need it drilled into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a woman I find the slightly more subtle approach more attractive. But you boys can be a bit dim sometimes so perhaps spelling it out to start with is the way "

In most cases it doesn't matter what you write, many of them will see what they want to!

Outside age group? Maybe they're flexible. Message and ask.

Says no smokers and they smoke. Message on the off-chance.

Doesn't mention anal? Probably up for it.

Says no anal? Can probably be persuaded, after all, they haven't tried you yet and maybe previous guys did it wrong.

Says athletic guys please and you're a bit rounder than that? Your stunning personality and 50 blurry cock photos are bound to override that requirement!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Every day talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more subtle than a pair of tits on an av

Tbh anything quirky that catches my eye.

I am not typical most men need it drilled into them"

Excuse me...my avatar is art not porn

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

And I love you for your art!

and much more besides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find a lot of female profiles include a bit of SHOUTING or aggression must do's and don't.

when i see that i think to myself that they must have been buggered about or had a bad meet at some point.

maybe they are aggressive so only get the ones they want.

but for me aggression isnt what its about.

enjoyment and having a good time is so if they got more chips than Mccain we are not going to get along.

its just fun people, lets keep it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it matters what you write on your profile to be honest,not many read it or choose to ignore what you have written anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it matters what you write on your profile to be honest,not many read it or choose to ignore what you have written anyway lol "

Hear hear!

As I can't meet at the mo. I've decided to give something back and offer a profile advice service.

I think It's quite blatant on my profile that I can't meet. Feel free to have a peek and see if you agree. Hasn't stopped about 25% of my messages being some varient of "fancy a shag".

Sigh.

I reakon you could put up a pic of Queen Elizabeth the First as she looks now along with the random mashings of a chimp on lsd for the profile text and you'd still get 100's of messages asking for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it matters what you write on your profile to be honest,not many read it or choose to ignore what you have written anyway lol

Hear hear!

As I can't meet at the mo. I've decided to give something back and offer a profile advice service.

I think It's quite blatant on my profile that I can't meet. Feel free to have a peek and see if you agree. Hasn't stopped about 25% of my messages being some varient of "fancy a shag".

Sigh.

I reakon you could put up a pic of Queen Elizabeth the First as she looks now along with the random mashings of a chimp on lsd for the profile text and you'd still get 100's of messages asking for a shag.

"
Haha defo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put whatever I like on mine. Very few people read it anyway. No point putting what I'm looking for as I don't know till I see it.

I prefer subtle profiles when I'm looking. Anything too lairy puts me off.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm neither subtle nor blatant. I just put on what I am after and what I am not after. And guys still don't read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subtle and tasteful I hope.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"As a woman I find the slightly more subtle approach more attractive. But you boys can be a bit dim sometimes so perhaps spelling it out to start with is the way

In most cases it doesn't matter what you write, many of them will see what they want to!

Outside age group? Maybe they're flexible. Message and ask.

Says no smokers and they smoke. Message on the off-chance.

Doesn't mention anal? Probably up for it.

Says no anal? Can probably be persuaded, after all, they haven't tried you yet and maybe previous guys did it wrong.

Says athletic guys please and you're a bit rounder than that? Your stunning personality and 50 blurry cock photos are bound to override that requirement!

"

LMAO Thats so funny.

Maybe that's where I go wrong on FAB, in that I do read ladies/couples profiles and don't send a message if I'm out of the age group, even by one year....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it make any difference? you could put " bag lady with saggy tits, no teeth and on " and 50 guys will say she is the mst beautiful thing going and they want to shag her

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I just put whatever I like on mine. Very few people read it anyway. No point putting what I'm looking for as I don't know till I see it.

I prefer subtle profiles when I'm looking. Anything too lairy puts me off. "

Will have you know I memorised your profile the other day. Bit harder now you have filled it with veris from my friends

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"As I read through single ladies profiles on here what do people prefer?

Subtle hints and thought provoking lines that whwt your appetite for more?

Or blatant requests for taking it up the arse and gobbling as many cocks as possible?

Ladies and gents, you have the floor....."

Prefer the more subtle profiles in general but not always as it really depends on how it is worded.

One thing that does put me off is SHOUTY and really demanding profiles that expect you to jump through hoops whether they belong to single ladies, men or couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just put whatever I like on mine. Very few people read it anyway. No point putting what I'm looking for as I don't know till I see it.

I prefer subtle profiles when I'm looking. Anything too lairy puts me off.

Will have you know I memorised your profile the other day. Bit harder now you have filled it with veris from my friends "

There's always room for another veri....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I just put whatever I like on mine. Very few people read it anyway. No point putting what I'm looking for as I don't know till I see it.

I prefer subtle profiles when I'm looking. Anything too lairy puts me off.

Will have you know I memorised your profile the other day. Bit harder now you have filled it with veris from my friends

There's always room for another veri.... "

Not while your black and white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and read my profile and let me know what you think of it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like it to be upfront as we are ourselves. But that seems to scare some off and a large proportion either can't read, choose not to understand, or are simply too desperate and reckon that if they ask 1000 for a shag one will eventually say yes. Which is probably true but it won't be us!

Subtle is good in novels but not for finding a good meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to see a bit of originality and quirkiness in a profile, and definitely not a list of demands.

As for pics, well, each to their own, and I definitely prefer tasteful pics than action pics that leave nothing to the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines subtle about sex. I hate profiles who state they 'want your spunk dripping out of my every hole' yadda yadda yadda. Tacky.

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