FabSwingers.com forum: What are these 'Clubs' or 'Groups' that some people are trying to start?

By *jandmc OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancs

We messaged a single girl recently and got a reply!! Saying she only plays and organises 'meets' through and with 'the club' and to contact XXX for more details!

Had a look at this guys profile and hes organising parties etc etc, for under 40's, attractive etc etc.

And whilst we know that organisations like Belle Baise exist, "for beautiful people", do you think its suitable for a website like this?

It does sound a bit like pimping!

Any thoughts?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"We messaged a single girl recently and got a reply!! Saying she only plays and organises 'meets' through and with 'the club' and to contact XXX for more details!

Had a look at this guys profile and hes organising parties etc etc, for under 40's, attractive etc etc.

And whilst we know that organisations like Belle Baise exist, "for beautiful people", do you think its suitable for a website like this?

It does sound a bit like pimping!

Any thoughts?"
No i dont consider it to be like pimping at all, you meet ppl, get on with them, small circles form naturally, it becomes comfortable and a guranteed laugh and good time, nothing wrong with having a small circle of friends, that meet up and paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaartaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose its each to their own really isnt it? everyone wants to play with beautiful people but my question is define beautiful? the glossy mags push in your face every day that women are supposed to look a certain way, i dont look anything like any of the bloody women in any of them magazines so does that make me ugly? should i just pack up now cause no buggers going to want me? no course it dont, beauties in the eye isnt it? while some men will find me ugly, noones for everyone after all, not all men will see me as unatractive just cause i dont look like Victoria bloody Beckham or whoevers on the front of this weeks mag lol, some of these groups for so called good looking women could be full of BBWs because not all men view whats 'classically beautiful' as beautiful, none of them are really pimping tho, unless they making money out of it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes what is beautiful?

i have met and played with women all shapes and sizes.I couldnt care less if they got large or small tits,hips,thighs etc.

If i enjoy their company and we get on nothing else really matters to me.

Normal everyday people are honest and most do care about the people they play with to a degree and i like that.

ok its nsa but you also strike up good friendships and when you meet up you always have something to chat and laugh about.plus you get to know what you all enjoy.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"We messaged a single girl recently and got a reply!! Saying she only plays and organises 'meets' through and with 'the club' and to contact XXX for more details!

Had a look at this guys profile and hes organising parties etc etc, for under 40's, attractive etc etc.

And whilst we know that organisations like Belle Baise exist, "for beautiful people", do you think its suitable for a website like this?

It does sound a bit like pimping!

Any thoughts?"

I'm not sure it quite counts as pimping but when demand and supply (too many men looking for free sex and not enough obliging ladies) there's always the possibility that someone will try to make some money out of the situation.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Forget about the pimping, what I think the OP was trying to get across is.... Is it right for a member to be advertising to meet people. Then when you make contact they tell you they will only meet if you are on an 'approved' list started by a third party.

The question to ask is, why is a third party using a contact site to form their own 'closed group'? Morally its wrong, they are using a free service to basically 'run' their own contact 'little black book'.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

It doesn't so much seem to be an 'approved' list as a list of those willing to pay "£70 per couple

£30 per single woman". Like I've said, once money creeps in ..........

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"We messaged a single girl recently and got a reply!! Saying she only plays and organises 'meets' through and with 'the club' and to contact XXX for more details!

Had a look at this guys profile and hes organising parties etc etc, for under 40's, attractive etc etc.

And whilst we know that organisations like Belle Baise exist, "for beautiful people", do you think its suitable for a website like this?

It does sound a bit like pimping!

Any thoughts?"

do not the site rules forbid this kind of thing ? if so then anyone sending out mails via the site should be reported and they should be resticked from site, and i also see it as a kind of pimping as they are asking you to pay for a service they are supplying and i've heard that when they can't arrange sufficent single females they arn't ashamed to actually bring in hired help

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

my mummy said im beautiful dose that count??????????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone promoting other sites should get reported its up to us members to make sure fab members dont advertise other sites it aint fair to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got invited to a group for ugly buggers once

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't so much seem to be an 'approved' list as a list of those willing to pay "£70 per couple

£30 per single woman". Like I've said, once money creeps in ..........

£70 a couple and £30 a single female for someone to tell others your beatuiful enough to meet

bugger that lol

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"not all men will see me as unatractive just cause i dont look like Victoria bloody Beckham "

I for one think Victoria Beckham is one of the least attractive celebrities out there. I certainly wouldn't rate her as beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not all men will see me as unatractive just cause i dont look like Victoria bloody Beckham

I for one think Victoria Beckham is one of the least attractive celebrities out there. I certainly wouldn't rate her as beautiful. "

thats ok then, fancy a shag?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"anyone promoting other sites should get reported its up to us members to make sure fab members dont advertise other sites it aint fair to fab"

I'm not sure that's the rule. If it were, wouldn't most of the places advertising in 'Events' fall foul of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got invited to a group for ugly buggers once

Tony

I got told by them -

Even we as an Ugly Buggers group aren't that desperate.

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By *jandmc OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancs

"Forget about the pimping, what I think the OP was trying to get across is.... Is it right for a member to be advertising to meet people. Then when you make contact they tell you they will only meet if you are on an 'approved' list started by a third party.

Thanks guys, yes, the above is what we were trying to refer too..

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