FabSwingers.com forum: Slowly returning couple xx

By *FCouple11 OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

It’s been a few years since we last met on fab. Decided to try again but Covid got in the way.

As we are hopefully seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. Any suggestions on how we approach this lifestyle again? My wife is not the most confident although I tell her she’s amazing.

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By *heerymanMan
over a year ago

stoke

Tell her those photos confirm she is as does the previous verifications

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By *FCouple11 OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Thanks that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not confident in what way?

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By *FCouple11 OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

No matter how good I tell her she looks she is always very self critical of her body and is nervous about returning to the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter how good I tell her she looks she is always very self critical of her body and is nervous about returning to the lifestyle "

Maybe she should leave off fir a bit until she's feeling a bit better about herself

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'd recommend clubbing .

Pick a date and a club , "advertise" that you are going, inviting other couples also attending to get in touch, engage with those couples and arrange to meet/say hi on the night

No pressure to play and a good environment to dip your toes back in

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Does you wife know you're asking, does she want to swing, have you talked to her at length about her lack of confidence and what's caused it?

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By *FCouple11 OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Yes of course she knows it’s just been so long and we are looking for a comfortable way back to the lifestyle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes of course she knows it’s just been so long and we are looking for a comfortable way back to the lifestyle "

OK, so why is she feeling a lack of confidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you do meet, only meet for socials with no pressure to take it further. I still get nervous about meets and I have been doing it for 15yrs with two partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tasmin

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I would suggest a club visit, no pressure to play, drinks in communal area and get chatting to people or maybe a dip in the jacuzzi if there is one.

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