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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ask whether you need to have a specific type of condom when arranging a meet as I know some prefer one brand over an another and also latex or non latex?

Lockdown has got me thinking all sorts of things these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go without, of he wants to use one he should bring his own so should know what type xx

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We generally expect the guys to use a brand they are happy with as they know what works for them and doesn’t.

If they are happy and comfortable the meet is more fun.

I guess we’ve never considered issues with allergies because we have none, but suspect those with latex issues would say up-front when finalising meet details.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Do you ask whether you need to have a specific type of condom when arranging a meet as I know some prefer one brand over an another and also latex or non latex?

Lockdown has got me thinking all sorts of things these days!"

I have condoms ..... if they want or need specific I assume they’d bring them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*if

Sorry, autocorrect xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When we used to full swap we always took our own. I prefer non latex and we knew they were in date and not tampered with in any way. Also the number of single men who don't have condoms with them is startling.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not to turn them inside out as an economy measure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not to turn them inside out as an economy measure "

Does that include washing them and hanging out to dry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use skyns and they're latex free too. If they wanted me to use different ones, they would have to be the correct size

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand. "

Is this something you discuss before meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use skyns and they're latex free too. If they wanted me to use different ones, they would have to be the correct size "

I use these due to a latex allergy!

I always have some to hand so not fussed it he brings it up as I will anyway!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We always have a stash of differant brands sizes clours flavours ect. If they need latex free ect, we would exspect them to provide them.

Amazes us the amount that exspect to play dogging ect and don't go prepaired. Or pushing their luck for a bb.

All ours will be out of date before we get chance to use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand.

Is this something you discuss before meeting?"

Not generally, unless it comes up in conversation. A lot of my meets aren't set in stone. It's more just arranging to meet at a club and see how we get along.

Though the benefit of that is that the club provides free condoms in varying sizes, I always take my own with me, just in case. I'd just see it as a prepared and gentlemanly gesture if the man brought his own too.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I use skyns and they're latex free too. If they wanted me to use different ones, they would have to be the correct size "

Off topic, but my younare certainly not a FLD man are you?

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I still get a bit embarrassed buying them over the counter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own. Mainly because I need a specific size and fit which generally aren’t available off the shelf so to speak. The downside is there are no non-latex versions available (that I’ve found) so that’s potentially a limiting factor, coupled with having a small latex reaction myself when I use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have skyns I’ve found them really good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use skyns and they're latex free too. If they wanted me to use different ones, they would have to be the correct size

Off topic, but my younare certainly not a FLD man are you? "

FLD? Fluorescent detector ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still get a bit embarrassed buying them over the counter "

Haha I order mine from Amazon for this very reason

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"I always take my own. Mainly because I need a specific size and fit which generally aren’t available off the shelf so to speak. The downside is there are no non-latex versions available (that I’ve found) so that’s potentially a limiting factor, coupled with having a small latex reaction myself when I use them."

Always a bit embarrassing asking xxs condoms.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I always bring my own because a worrying number of men “forget” to. If someone I’m meeting has specific requirements - size, latex-free etc - I’d expect him to bring his own. If a man doesn’t bring his own and won’t or can’t use mine, the meet is off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always take my own. Mainly because I need a specific size and fit which generally aren’t available off the shelf so to speak. The downside is there are no non-latex versions available (that I’ve found) so that’s potentially a limiting factor, coupled with having a small latex reaction myself when I use them.

Always a bit embarrassing asking xxs condoms. "

I don’t wish to brag but...

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I still get a bit embarrassed buying them over the counter "

I used to do but now it's a secret thrill!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

be like a boy scout, always be prepared! Take your own, then at least you know you're covered

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I always have my own for him to use, as I am looking after my own health.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’d rather use my own and more often than not single men “have forgotten theirs” anyway but it’s not a deal breaker , whatever brand they prefer works for me

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Always prepared in case

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have a latex irritation rather than an allergy so generally have my own with me in both regular and large sizes

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand.

Is this something you discuss before meeting?

Not generally, unless it comes up in conversation. A lot of my meets aren't set in stone. It's more just arranging to meet at a club and see how we get along.

Though the benefit of that is that the club provides free condoms in varying sizes, I always take my own with me, just in case. I'd just see it as a prepared and gentlemanly gesture if the man brought his own too. "

The only time I’ve used club supplied condoms I got a bad reaction on my knob from it, so now only use Skyns, and always have them with me. Skyns are latex-free, and the best fit for my cock, and I always let a new meet know I will have them with me, or, if they prefer to supply their own, for their peace of mind/security, I ask them to buy Skyns. Some people have been known to tamper with condoms, so I appreciate the female wanting to feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop 1 on before you go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When playing we bring lelo hex condoms. Bit more expensive but they seem quite secure. So we bring our own. Stop any excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have whatever brand I picked up I don't go for a specific brand if he has a favorite or special requirements I'd expect him to bring it not just assume if have it... If I had special requirements I'd always make sure I had that available to me myself... However I do know some guys who will only use there own to make sure it's not been tampered with which begs the question what if the woman was unable to use the brand you brought and required her own for medical reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some in,if he likes a certain type he should bring them with him

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always use skyns and take them with me.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I always take my own. Although may now have to check the date!

Usually if someone has an allergy they will let you know beforehand or it might even be on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand. "

One? Fuck that

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I use skyns and they're latex free too. If they wanted me to use different ones, they would have to be the correct size

Off topic, but my younare certainly not a FLD man are you?

FLD? Fluorescent detector ?"

Forgot leg day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd expect the man to bring one, but that said I do prefer to use my own, because I like a specific non-latex brand.

Is this something you discuss before meeting?

Not generally, unless it comes up in conversation. A lot of my meets aren't set in stone. It's more just arranging to meet at a club and see how we get along.

Though the benefit of that is that the club provides free condoms in varying sizes, I always take my own with me, just in case. I'd just see it as a prepared and gentlemanly gesture if the man brought his own too.

The only time I’ve used club supplied condoms I got a bad reaction on my knob from it, so now only use Skyns, and always have them with me. Skyns are latex-free, and the best fit for my cock, and I always let a new meet know I will have them with me, or, if they prefer to supply their own, for their peace of mind/security, I ask them to buy Skyns. Some people have been known to tamper with condoms, so I appreciate the female wanting to feel safe "

I only use skyns, which is why I like to bring my own, latex seems to irritate me a bit. =)

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"Not to turn them inside out as an economy measure "

Pmsl... love it!

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