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is bi actually bi or an excuse for gay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we went to bi night at abfab last monday, hoping for bi action where both of us would be involved with men and women, and each other, at the same time. There were lots of people there but all the action was limited to men giving other men blow jobs. No man went near a woman all night. Very disappointing. What have other people found? Are there better places for genuine bi action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its an excuse for being gay, i do think tho, more so men than woman, when they go to bi nights they take the chance to play with guys more than women as they can play with women any night in a club but have to make the effort to go on bi nights to play with men in club so thats probably why they seem to be more interested in men

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"we went to bi night at abfab last monday, hoping for bi action where both of us would be involved with men and women, and each other, at the same time. There were lots of people there but all the action was limited to men giving other men blow jobs. No man went near a woman all night. Very disappointing. What have other people found? Are there better places for genuine bi action?"

not even your man?? i'd have words if i was you lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I dont think its an excuse for being gay, i do think tho, more so men than woman, when they go to bi nights they take the chance to play with guys more than women as they can play with women any night in a club but have to make the effort to go on bi nights to play with men in club so thats probably why they seem to be more interested in men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i have the name of the club you went to i want to see all these men giving blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think its an excuse for being gay, i do think tho, more so men than woman, when they go to bi nights they take the chance to play with guys more than women as they can play with women any night in a club but have to make the effort to go on bi nights to play with men in club so thats probably why they seem to be more interested in men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the guys were all hot and the women we...best stop..

tarrrrraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..whoosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i have the name of the club you went to i want to see all these men giving blow job "

Abfabs and it's brill

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By *hyguy 43Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Well im bi but dont play with men only. I only play with couples so i got the best of both worlds xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i have the name of the club you went to i want to see all these men giving blow job

Abfabs and it's brill "

oh yeah 3rd word in and i still missed it lol

My mind was else where thinking of these blow jobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it was abfabs. Always find it good on fridays and saturdays, so this monday was disappointing. Perhaps there should be a bi night one saturday a month when there are loads of couples. As 'no' means 'no' ot shouldn't be a problem if a straight man doesn't want to join in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i have the name of the club you went to i want to see all these men giving blow job

Abfabs and it's brill

oh yeah 3rd word in and i still missed it lol

My mind was else where thinking of these blow jobs "

as is mine and I'm now looking to see when my next Monday off is so I can go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the blow jobs were very sexy to watch but mike wanted some action with women as well and then get involved with a man once he was warmed up. The men there didn't notice the women at all

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By *ss2011Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford

For quite a few people I know, and most gay people I've met too, say that, "Being bi is just 'in denial' of actually being gay."

Strange saying really, but I've heard it countless times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if moodycow and naughty nymphs go to abfab on a monday, let us know as we reckon you'd make it a much better evening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was abfabs. Always find it good on fridays and saturdays, so this monday was disappointing. Perhaps there should be a bi night one saturday a month when there are loads of couples. As 'no' means 'no' ot shouldn't be a problem if a straight man doesn't want to join in?"

if its a bi night there shouldnt be any straight guys there

I doubt you will find a club that will do a bi night on a weekend, the number of couples with straight men greatly out weight the ones with bi so they will make more money doing a bi night on a quiet night and leave saturdays for couples night as 95% of couples with straighht men wouldnt go on a bi night even if they didnt have to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if moodycow and naughty nymphs go to abfab on a monday, let us know as we reckon you'd make it a much better evening x"

its to far away from me as i dont drive so would have no way of getting home after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to a couple of clubs on bi nights tho and always have a good time, i like to watch men playing together for a while then wait till im invited to join

Ive never had any problems getting men to want to play with me with other guys, ive had sone great bi 3sums+ in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'm sure you could stay with us nymphs. Think you're right about drop in income at weekends. Shame cos there must be many men who are looking to try for first time and are more likely to amidst lots of hetero action on a saturday. If they'd been there that monday, they'd never go back.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

we went to a couple of clubs up north two weeks ago on their bi nights and were shocked to see no bi action at all we are used to chams on a monday where its mainly male male fun but im rarely left out and there was nothing some clubs are more bi friendly than others it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

which clubs naughty nymphs? Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if moodycow and naughty nymphs go to abfab on a monday, let us know as we reckon you'd make it a much better evening x

its to far away from me as i dont drive so would have no way of getting home after"

Honest and true reply you can stay at mine no problem

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By *ncMan
over a year ago

Dudley


"For quite a few people I know, and most gay people I've met too, say that, "Being bi is just 'in denial' of actually being gay."

Strange saying really, but I've heard it countless times!"

Just because it's said a lot doesn't make it any less bollocks If you're straight or gay you aren't interested in the opposite sex sexually. If you're bi you are interested in both sexes at least to some degree. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if moodycow and naughty nymphs go to abfab on a monday, let us know as we reckon you'd make it a much better evening x

its to far away from me as i dont drive so would have no way of getting home after

Honest and true reply you can stay at mine no problem "

aww your to kind lol

its not so much having somewhere to stay, i could get a hotel tho if i did go staying with a friend would be prefered, but i have an 11 year old and id need to be back to get her ready for school as he dad works days so he wouldnt be able to have her at his over night and get her ready foer school before going to work, over night meets in the week just arnt any good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For quite a few people I know, and most gay people I've met too, say that, "Being bi is just 'in denial' of actually being gay."

Strange saying really, but I've heard it countless times!"

so does that mean all the bi women on here went thro a shot gun marrage and are actually covering the fact they are gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if moodycow and naughty nymphs go to abfab on a monday, let us know as we reckon you'd make it a much better evening x

its to far away from me as i dont drive so would have no way of getting home after

Honest and true reply you can stay at mine no problem

aww your to kind lol

its not so much having somewhere to stay, i could get a hotel tho if i did go staying with a friend would be prefered, but i have an 11 year old and id need to be back to get her ready for school as he dad works days so he wouldnt be able to have her at his over night and get her ready foer school before going to work, over night meets in the week just arnt any good for me "

what a shame but kids come first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point nymphos. It seems men get turned on when they see us do girl girl stuff at clubs but they don't think we might want to see them do some male stuff too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"which clubs naughty nymphs? Sounds good"

ive been to the bi night at chameleons and r3tro, both are good night

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By *xonswingersCouple
over a year ago

Close to Oxford

Did you approach any of these guys to see if they would play with you or did you just wait to be approached and became disappointed at the lack of interest? We were there on Monday and we played with a couple of guys, but we approached them.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"For quite a few people I know, and most gay people I've met too, say that, "Being bi is just 'in denial' of actually being gay.""

I hope you correct them when they say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always work it as

bi- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner partner of the opposite sex

gay- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner of the same sex

however they can still have sex with..er...I've confused myself.....er...ahhhh..

with whoever they fucking like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always work it as

bi- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner partner of the opposite sex

gay- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner of the same sex

however they can still have sex with..er...I've confused myself.....er...ahhhh..

with whoever they fucking like!"

whores the lot of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always work it as

bi- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner partner of the opposite sex

gay- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner of the same sex

however they can still have sex with..er...I've confused myself.....er...ahhhh..

with whoever they fucking like!

whores the lot of them "

lol NN...dont even bring in the hetros- have of them dont have a clue what they fucking want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always work it as

bi- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner partner of the opposite sex

gay- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner of the same sex

however they can still have sex with..er...I've confused myself.....er...ahhhh..

with whoever they fucking like!

whores the lot of them

lol NN...dont even bring in the hetros- have of them dont have a clue what they fucking want!"

sounds a bit like me lol

im still not sure what my sexuality is lol

but but but who cares, if it feels good do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of _iew it isn't anexcuse for anything. I class myself as bi but not gay.

If the mood takes me I'll play/suck/wank a cock but bottom line is this - I fancy women and never walk along the street looking at a guys ass and say 'I fancy him' so I'm not gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

altho... I would say, I know there are married gays of opposite sexes...perhaps thats where platonic love and physical love seperates?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple answer for the OP, bi is bi and is not an excuse for being gay. Nothing more to say

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A simple answer for the OP, bi is bi and is not an excuse for being gay. Nothing more to say "

Yep. I am bi, but would miss cock far too much to become gay.

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

I couldn't just have cock I'd miss pussy too much,sumtimes I like cock usually I like pussy and if the cocks been in a pussy even better.does that make me gay? I'm confused now

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I couldn't just have cock I'd miss pussy too much,sumtimes I like cock usually I like pussy and if the cocks been in a pussy even better.does that make me gay? I'm confused now "

Nope; makes you normal, like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"which clubs naughty nymphs? Sounds good

ive been to the bi night at chameleons and r3tro, both are good night "

Glad you said that as we've always enjoyed Dave playing at Chams. Thought you might not have been lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And Dave does play with girls too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we went to bi night at abfab last monday, hoping for bi action where both of us would be involved with men and women, and each other, at the same time. There were lots of people there but all the action was limited to men giving other men blow jobs. No man went near a woman all night. Very disappointing. What have other people found? Are there better places for genuine bi action?"

made me smile this topic - As a Bisexual man who has both male and female/couples has friends first and foremost and we happen to meet for sex as a bonus - id say we are just plain and simply greedy buggers and cant get enough sex - as for meeting a couple in a club environment; as i understand it; couples run a mile at sight of a Bi man enjoying himeself and even more so if he then approaches them ... or is that a wrong a miss guided _iew ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always work it as

bi- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner partner of the opposite sex

gay- of either sex will have a lifelong/fulltime partner of the same sex

however they can still have sex with..er...I've confused myself.....er...ahhhh..

with whoever they fucking like!"

so what does that make me ?

mrs bus for 17 yrs now (eek)

mr fb bus for 6 years

just fkin greedy i guess

or fkin mad for opting for double trouble

bussy can't help it, he's just got a lot of love to give

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By *ristol_greeneyesMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Sexuality is not black or white. It's a spectrum and we all sit somewhere on it. For me, I'd say I'm 15% in from straight. I'm not sure I could do one on one with a guy (tried it, not really my thing), but I'd love to experience some cock with a couple. Especially if she was guiding me through what he likes.

Life would be boring if we all liked the same things wouldn't it?

If so many men think they're "straight", why are so many of us wanking off to TV/TS/TG pics on here and vids on tube sites? Oh it's just a video, you're not *really* bi? Yeah right.

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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Liberty Elite have started a bi night on Sundays now for anyone who can't get to Abfabs or Chams.

Males, females and couples all welcome.

K & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as an aside - many years back as a group leader/senior moderator off anohter adult site - on of the many "group meetings" i organised was in a barn near sheffield - it was planned for a Bi only meeting and all had to be Bi - there was 5 men and 4 women attending so the MMMMMFFFF went something like this;

One girl was so nervous i actually sent here away

now: MMMMMFFF

After couple of drinks i undressed and so did two other guys and two girls - the two others guys - dropped there trousers and was watching action and both just shot thier load and buggered off;

now:

MMMFFF (balanced so you think)

Quietly and undetected one of girls just buggered off whispering something like " i think that gut in corner is my _ncle" lol and another guy was so smashed after just 45 mins im sure he was on something so i escorted him away

now:

MMFF (starting to feel empty in this barn)

The last guy, was sick in corner and dult left leaving me / me FB at the time (she is Bisexual to) and this other girl - who's attempt at giving me a blow job, nearly ended up with me in casualty cuz she bit my dick - she left

now:

MF (me and my FB only in empty barn with food and booze)

NOT one throught this debarcle of a orgy did anyone to touch anyone else in a Bi way - yet all had expressed/acknowledge and try demonstrated tat they where Bi - so just goes to show you the even ona planned Bi meeting it gets screwed up

pete x

ps: that was last time i ran a Bi meeting - to much like hard work lol

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't think fancying someone of the same sex makes you gay. Gay is when you are exclusively attracted to your own sex and I believe therefore that very few of us are either gay or straight.

Nearly all of us are in between to one degree or another. Even if you fantasise about both sexes and never actually do anything about it, that makes you bi.

Personally, I have rarely seen a guy I would say I fancy and am not really into kissing men. However, I love sucking cock and, as long as the guy isn't big, sometimes enjoy being fucked too.

I haven't been at a bi night at any club, not even here in Scotland, but hope to go soon, especially as my partner has discovered her own bi side and loves to see me with other guys too...

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