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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Done it and love doing it, not just with my cock.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Has happened by accident and the surprise wasn't appreciated

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "

Yes and he got a punch cause he hurt me

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Anal is a power play position?

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thoughts?

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Everyone loves anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is a very controlling sex sometimes

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Anal is a very controlling sex sometimes "

I was not referring to male gay sex

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Anal is a power play position? "

Not if it's done properly.

As in, a conversation in advance and preparation.

It can often be initiated by the lady or the guy. Not necessarily by one in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal is a very controlling sex sometimes

I was not referring to male gay sex"
I know male on female can be dominant and control

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Maybe try some dp this week

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Maybe try some dp this week "

Your photos are pure filth x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry "

Understand and agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry

Understand and agree "

Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry

Understand and agree

Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect "

Yogurt is a very good friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry

Understand and agree

Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect

Yogurt is a very good friend "

Not what SLimmers world Tells me

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

If discussed beforehand can be very sexy but to just it ? Not all the ladies on here want or like a cock in there!

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Anal is like marmite some lady love it some hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone loves anal "

I know I've not met _everyone_ but I'm definitely sure this assertion is very wrong.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

If it the male half talking here then ask yourself that question..how would you feel if your partner just decided to put a dildo in your ass without warning or consent.and not suggesting that this is something you do however there are men out there think just because its there they have the god given right to have it......just a different way of looking at it from a womans perspective...we always decide before any play happens between us weather we are in the mood for that..xx

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"If it the male half talking here then ask yourself that question..how would you feel if your partner just decided to put a dildo in your ass without warning or consent.and not suggesting that this is something you do however there are men out there think just because its there they have the god given right to have it......just a different way of looking at it from a womans perspective...we always decide before any play happens between us weather we are in the mood for that..xx "

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "

Thats not dominance, thats not permissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there."

Oh..think you missed the question.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I would of thought just sticking it in there without any warning would be rather uncomfortable. One woman I was with sticked her finger inside me without warning me first and I jumped I don't think I was prepared for it..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.

It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.

It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink. "

So, to be sure, no anal

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.

It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink.

So, to be sure, no anal "

Not with someone who has no respect for the person they are with no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but it's polite to ask first! Can hurt when you're not ready xx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The only anal advantage is showing you are talking out of your arse.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

So lng as it is somethiing you have discussed first, like anything else it is down to cummunication.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"Yes, but it's polite to ask first! Can hurt when you're not ready xx"

Don't you just say fuck off if someone tries and you don't want it?

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.

It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink.

So, to be sure, no anal

Not with someone who has no respect for the person they are with no. "

Well that's fair enough...all in the communication...I always try and understand the do's and dont's before I meet anyone

Normal one's are stay away from my ass or my toes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "

No it hasn't and if a guy did it he'd be out the door quick smart. It's not dominance.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Just "going for it" anally without any preparation or warning can be an incredibly painful experience, so would have to ask why on earth anyone would think that's the right thing to do never mind a pleasurable one.

Anal is something you need to prepare for and relax into and that can only come with prior warning and preparation for most people.

Has nothing to do with dominance in a sexual way (although it may form part of a dominant roleplay that has been pre agreed, but then the dominance comes from the roleplay and not the act as such) either but everything to do with dominance in an abusive bullying way.

As a bisexual guy, anyone attempting to penetrate me and "go for it" without warning and my agreement, would get short shrift at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there.

Oh..think you missed the question."

It's the reverse of the question, anal wasn't discussed and I wasn't expecting the lady to receive it.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "

Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?

Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."

Correct. I really do not mind as long as he asks and puts on another condom.

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I've suggested anal and been offered anal....I love giving anal but not in a rough...just go for it way.

Time, respect and tons of lube. Love it!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?

Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."

This. Any male who tried this would regret it.

K

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?

Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."

Glad I'm not the only one thinking this.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

No.....pull your cock out and tongue her arse. You'll know when you can "go for it" then......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?

Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?

Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone ever did this to me without asking, I'd probably report them to the police.

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I've thought about it but I wouldn't do it unless it was absolutely understood that is what she wanted.

You cannot assume that just cos a lady wants a cock in her pussy that you can stick it anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy anal sometimes, but without the right mindset and preparation it can 1) hurt a lot and 2) trigger my PTSD. I only do it with people I really trust.

It is something that should be discussed beforehand. It's not okay to just stick it in and go for it without obtaining consent first.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Bit risky just assuming consent, I like to be asked or at least hint and hope for the invite.

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