FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold relationships

By *rink Me xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire

These fascinate me because I dont really understand them. Seems cruel and I dont understand why somebody would want that. Would love to hear from cucks and their queens about what first attracted them to this sort of relationship and why they enjoy it

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"These fascinate me because I dont really understand them. Seems cruel and I dont understand why somebody would want that. Would love to hear from cucks and their queens about what first attracted them to this sort of relationship and why they enjoy it"
wow u look stunning in your pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my wife cuckolding me,I like seeing another man pleasure her and I like to serve them both as they do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the humiliation aspect of feeling inferior

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I first got into it reading stories in Forum adult magazine in the late 80's , never mentioned it to my then girlfriend then found out that she was having sexual fun with others, at first I was angry but once I'd calmed down realised I found it a turn on.

I Have being hooked ever since

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We are stag and vixen , if you called me a cuck I would break your nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us are a fan of that label. Humiliation toward either party would be an instant stop to preceedings.

Beyond that its just the enjoyment of seeing your other half get pleasured etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After op pics i suddenly really want a cupcake or two lol

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By *ristenloveCouple
over a year ago

London

"I love my wife cuckolding me,I like seeing another man pleasure her and I like to serve them both as they do so "
We would love that

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By *ristenloveCouple
over a year ago

London

"We are stag and vixen , if you called me a cuck I would break your nose

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What is the different!!

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By *ristenloveCouple
over a year ago

London

"I first got into it reading stories in Forum adult magazine in the late 80's , never mentioned it to my then girlfriend then found out that she was having sexual fun with others, at first I was angry but once I'd calmed down realised I found it a turn on.

I Have being hooked ever since

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Let's have some fun

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By *rink Me xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Interesting responses from the couples. Not much explanation as to why they like it from the single guys.

And sorry to anyone who finds the terms I used offensive

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By *uskymotoMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

I've been the 2nd guy in a couple of cuckold relationships. There was certainly no humiliation, degrading of the husband in any way. Nothing but mutual respect in every way. One arrangement worked well for 15 months until they moved 250 miles with a job promotion and closer to their elderly parents.

I liked it, it was regular, fun and we all got what we wanted. Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if cuckold really defines us although I love nothing more than seeing the Mrs enjoy herself and then reclaim her afterwards I'm definitely not up for any humiliation or degradation just want to see the wife get pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just because some dont like the humiliation side of cuckolding does not make it wrong ... humiliation is a major part of our play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you just enjoy your wife with another man then its hotwife fun not cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you just enjoy your wife with another man then its hotwife fun not cuckolding"

I quite agree everyone enjoys what they enjoy were not into the humiliation but some couples are and they enjoy that aspect of it that comes across as cruel to some people but if they enjoy it then is it really cruel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean some people would think it’s cruel that Sid ch*kes me... but I love it. If everyone’s safe and consenting I don’t think it’s cruel...Being humiliated isn’t my thing at all and I personally wouldn’t be comfortable humiliating anyone either... but I’m a massive believer in live and let live. As long as it’s all safe and consensual, who gives a shit really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a relationship with a couple for over a year and the husband loved watching his wife being pleasured,by me we all got on great and still do

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To me, it’s like any kink, if you don’t like it, don’t do it.

Some would say flogging an exposed clit hurtful.

If done right, like most kink, it can have a stunning effect.

It’s when thing are not agreed things are not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cruelty and humiliation is definitely part of it for us, couldn't tell you why its such an appeal but there really is no bigger rush for me (jay)

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

There are many different levels of cuckolding, all that cuckolding actually means in its very basic form is :- having sexual contact with someone other than your partner. Any humiliation or degradation etc is an broadening of its basic form.

You can't be in a relationship and be swingers without being cuckold in its basic and original meaning.

But don't worry about categories etc, as long as everyone is enjoying what they are doing at what ever level is all that matters.

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By *ifeTimeCouple
over a year ago

Grays

Its that complex I haven't worked out why so I'm not going to try to explain it. To hear Mrs tell a guy he has a bigger cock than me or to watch someone else take her to places I don't takes me to a different place entirely. Its incredible.

The bottom line is that we trust & love each other completely. As said above its a kink and having the most special person I've ever met let herself go completely with someone else is why we play.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Totally agree its major part our cuckold fun

"just because some dont like the humiliation side of cuckolding does not make it wrong ... humiliation is a major part of our play"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love my wife cuckolding me,I like seeing another man pleasure her and I like to serve them both as they do so "

Then, everyone’s happy, and no one’s being exploited, I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting responses from the couples. Not much explanation as to why they like it from the single guys.

And sorry to anyone who finds the terms I used offensive

Is it maybe a safe way of expressing peoples insecurities, by just experiencing them in a controlled way?. I dunno

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I thoroughly enjoy this as well as stag/vixen play

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

So not for everyone but one thing about humiliation is about not trying to be the best at everything. You can explore someone's insecurities and bring them to the for. You can break someone down only to rebuild them and still be there and still want someone. Someone can embrace all of themselves with you and not be afraid on not being enough. Bevause they have been all of there worries and you are still there.

If you are actually amplifying insecurity outside of play and someone is not feeling secure within themselves or your relationship then yes it can be cruel.

But vulnerability creates a bond unlike no other. Whether physical or emotional fragility in the moment it gives you opportunity to foster a stronger and closer bond

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Only cuckhold I’ve played was B/s.

I (sensually) abused her. He had to watch me flog his princess as i used her body for my pleasure.

It was the things I did , he dare not do the had him edge.

Great guy, stunning lady.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Speaking as a single male I really enjoy meeting cuckold couples. I don't feel a need to verbally humiliate a cuckold but I'm happy to go with the flow verbally if it feels natural.

I tend to shy away from the stag/vixen dynamic because I hate being told what to do.

Don't get me wrong I always take the time to get to know a couple so as to understand their bounddaries and what turns them on beforehand but scripted or directed play on the night kills my enthusiasm.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

we meet a cuck cpl and the husband loves the fact that his wife is having her fun with out cheating its the only thing that makes him hard that the fact some one is doing his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its that complex I haven't worked out why so I'm not going to try to explain it. To hear Mrs tell a guy he has a bigger cock than me or to watch someone else take her to places I don't takes me to a different place entirely. Its incredible.

The bottom line is that we trust & love each other completely. As said above its a kink and having the most special person I've ever met let herself go completely with someone else is why we play. "
well said and something that we like as well. X

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By *illetteG2Man
over a year ago

LEEDS

"Neither of us are a fan of that label. Humiliation toward either party would be an instant stop to preceedings.

Beyond that its just the enjoyment of seeing your other half get pleasured etc."

We agree I think its called Aplpha Cuck.

I love watching her being fucked but we have no intetion of me being humilated.I join in and Suck the guy etc but love just staying back for a while and watching.

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

As a single man who loves this dynamic but is very much NOT into the rude, crude, bullying behaviour that some guys (Bulls, I guess) think is appropriate. I prefer the term wifelover and, for me, it is all about breaking societal taboos. Society frowns on a man fucking another man's wife and assumes that it must be behind his back. When the man knows, society frowns further - when he knows and approves..... but when he knows, approves and gets off on it - unacceptable! He watches???!!!! Fuses blow... Which makes it irresistable...

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By *ootymilfCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

On our list to do but finding it hard to find a guy with experience in it and fairly good looking local to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single man who loves this dynamic but is very much NOT into the rude, crude, bullying behaviour that some guys (Bulls, I guess) think is appropriate. "

??? rude, crude, bullying behavior ?? its none of those things at all as those that want it consent it ... think its rude to think of others in that way if im honest ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and another misconception is that all cuckold couples want bulls ...i dont and most i know dont most just want assertive / confident guys ..guys who just understand the set up ...

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is exactly the same for us, it’s all about the pleasure for us. It turns us on seeing each other getting turned on, being pleasured, even if it’s someone else. We only do mmf ffm with select people and The humiliation side is not for us and definitely a big NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a cuck i can say i love the humiliation side of play for me its all part of being the cuck i want to be

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

We’ve been a very happy cuckold couple for most of our married life. As is always obvious in these discussions , there are many shades of cuckoldry, and , like many other couples, we have developed over the years , so that things which would once have put us off , have later become part of our enjoyment. It may not be for everyone , but I’m pretty sure we are far from unusual.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Yes. Many shades is a good description. I've been part of this only a few times, and when last approached to become part of another, I asked what they liked and expected. They promptly replied with "if you don't know then your not for us".... so, it would seem obvious they didn't either. In my experience it's been lost of trust and keep to the script.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife’s sex drive is through the roof. I can’t keep up . Love seeing her with other guys knowing she’s being satisfied in the ways I can’t . I simply get a kick from the humiliation of it all . Simple and works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a desire to try this with the lady I'm playing with now, but don't know how to go about asking, don't want her to freak out and run away lol. Any suggestions??

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Yes. Many shades is a good description. I've been part of this only a few times, and when last approached to become part of another, I asked what they liked and expected. They promptly replied with "if you don't know then your not for us".... so, it would seem obvious they didn't either. In my experience it's been lost of trust and keep to the script. "

Or maybe their profile explained exactly what they were looking for and you asking showed you hadn't bothered to read it .

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"We’ve been a very happy cuckold couple for most of our married life. As is always obvious in these discussions , there are many shades of cuckoldry, and , like many other couples, we have developed over the years , so that things which would once have put us off , have later become part of our enjoyment. It may not be for everyone , but I’m pretty sure we are far from unusual."

Well said and some other good comments on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a desire to try this with the lady I'm playing with now, but don't know how to go about asking, don't want her to freak out and run away lol. Any suggestions?? "

cuckold is a married couples / living together game if your single then you are just a sub guy

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

cuckold is a married couples / living together game if your single then you are just a sub guy "

You don't have to be sub to be a cuckold, you also don't have to be married or living together , we we're in a relationship (but not living together)for 8 years, before we moved in together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply adore knowing that Mrs Sussex is getting all the pleasure she needs and deserves. It gives me that warm feeling inside to know that she is enjoying the encounters and living life to the full exploring all her desires and playing our fantasties.

Sometimes I watch, sometimes not, she's even been on holiday with a regular bull where I dropped them off at the airport before now.

Mrs Sussex has a very high sex drive where as over the years mine has declined, I don't want her to miss out on biological urges so we enjoy our life together as we all win from it.

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By *reakfastCouple
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"These fascinate me because I dont really understand them. "

Same here, it's something I just do not understand but read every thread about it.

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

I've been the 3rd party to a few couples who enjoy this and from my experience it varies from couple to couple what they like. One couple it was simply he liked watching me with his wife whereas another couple it was much more involved with nights away, sending pics and vids etc . it had a more humiliation side to it but they both loved it. Important thing is talking first to establish what everyone wants

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"just because some dont like the humiliation side of cuckolding does not make it wrong ... humiliation is a major part of our play"

I have been a cuck for 40+ years in several relationships and have to say that a certain amount of humiliation enhances the whole experience for me!

Mike

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By *ounghungandfullMan
over a year ago

north lincolnshire

The thought of watching someone get fucked in front of me and then me going next turns me on so much

does that make me a cuck?

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"The thought of watching someone get fucked in front of me and then me going next turns me on so much

does that make me a cuck? "

Only if its your partner who is getting fucked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been toying with this for a while. I have been the bull with a couple but have recently been cucked accidentally. It's the jealousy and humiliation that made it a turn on for me. I cant explain why but I loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The humiliation is a massive turn on for some, and it certainly works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch billie take a big cock. My little cuck dick drips with pre cum

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By *omadic1Man
over a year ago

North Lincs

"To me, it’s like any kink, if you don’t like it, don’t do it.

Some would say flogging an exposed clit hurtful.

If done right, like most kink, it can have a stunning effect.

It’s when thing are not agreed things are not good."

Absolutely!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not sure if cuckold really defines us although I love nothing more than seeing the Mrs enjoy herself and then reclaim her afterwards I'm definitely not up for any humiliation or degradation just want to see the wife get pleasured "

It would be an honour and privilege to pleasure such a hot wife

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i love cuck couples.. the cuck always there to please and serve and the hotwife.. well they are always so lovely. stay safe all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big difference between Stag & Vixen and cuckold.

i like to join a couple on the basis that i'm there to enhance their fun. It's what they want and meeting their needs that i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't tried it yet but might in the future if tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly alot of the time its the males idea. Can’t say ive been in many situations where he feels uncomfortable.

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By *ros and PsycheCouple
over a year ago

London

As an earlier post says -“ Vulnerability creates a bond like no other »

There’s a lot of truth in that. I think if there is trust with each other you can explore all kinds of complicated feelings through sex. But without trust sex can be a dangerous playground...

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It's the both of us that love this. He loves to be caged humiliated and watch me have sex with well hung men.

Who am I to deny him his pleasure lol.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We the same just wish we old get cage to fit properly

"It's the both of us that love this. He loves to be caged humiliated and watch me have sex with well hung men.

Who am I to deny him his pleasure lol."

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"We the same just wish we old get cage to fit properly "

What are you struggling with

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

"We the same just wish we old get cage to fit properly

It's the both of us that love this. He loves to be caged humiliated and watch me have sex with well hung men.

Who am I to deny him his pleasure lol."

Ah the cage. I’ve not worn one in a while. It’s more the frustration that gets to me rather than the humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an earlier post says -“ Vulnerability creates a bond like no other »

There’s a lot of truth in that. I think if there is trust with each other you can explore all kinds of complicated feelings through sex. But without trust sex can be a dangerous playground..."

That's very true. I totally agree with that.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

As a single male and a sissy crossdresser I love cuckolding and all things to do with it.

If I had a girlfriend I would always allow her the freedom to have other guys any time she liked either with me there or not.

Being a sissy I tend to cum too quickly to satisfy a lady and understand that sometimes they need a real man to give it to them just the way they need it.

Im also happy to be 100% loyal to the lady and by wearing lingerie always under boy clothes keeps me in a good state of submission.

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