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Getting my wife to chat/cam/play with others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning fabbers,

My wife used to be very shy and over the last few years she has become more adventurous and I think she has more to give.

I would like her to chat, cam and or play with others.

I'm looking for advice on how to go about this, how do i get the ball rolling?

Thanks.

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest she sets up her own account and explore the site at her own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suggest she sets up her own account and explore the site at her own pace."

Good idea but maybe a little to much of a step

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Chat to her and see if it's something she'd be into, discuss her fantasies.

Only she can tell you yes or no

If it's a no, then you have to then accept that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You feel she has more to give? What does that mean?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Ask her if she wants to?

It really amazes me how many couples can't communicate openly about these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm it’s tough... on here isnt perhaps the right place to start her. This place overwhelmed me and I am warmed up to talking to others. My partner in crime got me to open up via a profile on Xhamster. Went on as a couple but I could do as much or as little as I liked. I built up the courage to share my pictures and videos. I talked to couples. I learnt how to deal with the players. It was together with open interactions. Let her lead and let others fill her with confidence. Never push. If she likes it she’ll seek it out herself. You’ll watch her blossom. Or not... it’s not for everyone. Just support her... she may be at her limit only she knows that. Careful how you open this can of worms. It can all too easily backfire and put her off completely.

Talk all the time. Be open and supportive.

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