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Couples that play separate and single females

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By *rFunLuva OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hello everyone we are a couple who play separate and we always wondered why the male half finds it much more difficult to chat with single woman or other couples who play separate..

We both have separate accounts but when myself spend time messaging woman they still don't reply.. is it my profile??? Is it my pictures??? Yes I don't have face pic on there but I'm willing to provide it after message..

I also understand we are in lockdown this is just chat until lockdown restrictions finish

Please genuine replies only....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Reasons

*every single guy struggles due to sheer volume.

*there are plenty of liars who say they have permission when they don't so a lot of women won't take the chance just in case.

My advice would be to go to clubs and organised socials once they're back up and running.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Getting the Popcorn on this one

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Oh, and with it being lockdown people are far more distracted than usual. Emotions are all over the place and making new connections even just via chat just aint high on the priority list.

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By *rFunLuva OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Thanks for information we have been going clubs for 7 years now so we know the score. I just wondering why on fab is it so hard..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for information we have been going clubs for 7 years now so we know the score. I just wondering why on fab is it so hard..

"

Pretty much as per Princess’ first post, in my experience. We’re one drop in an ocean and generally considered guilty until proven innocent.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Thanks for information we have been going clubs for 7 years now so we know the score. I just wondering why on fab is it so hard..

"

The site works better as a tool to keep in touch with friends you've already made rather than making new ones, especially under current circumstances and to keep an eye on upcoming events.

The forums are a good place to get yourself known too.

Your partner gets lots of attention and a ton of messages right? So do most other women. Unfortunately for you if you're sending out messages you're the equivalent to just one of those messages in her inbox in regard to the inboxes of the women you're sending them to.

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By *rFunLuva OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Thanks for information we have been going clubs for 7 years now so we know the score. I just wondering why on fab is it so hard..

The site works better as a tool to keep in touch with friends you've already made rather than making new ones, especially under current circumstances and to keep an eye on upcoming events.

The forums are a good place to get yourself known too.

Your partner gets lots of attention and a ton of messages right? So do most other women. Unfortunately for you if you're sending out messages you're the equivalent to just one of those messages in her inbox in regard to the inboxes of the women you're sending them to."

Thanks for information...

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Plenty of visible feedbacks on both your couple and your Mrs's profiles so you're obviously genuine.

I think it's just the huge numbers of men I think and it's hard to stand out .

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By *rFunLuva OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Plenty of visible feedbacks on both your couple and your Mrs's profiles so you're obviously genuine.

I think it's just the huge numbers of men I think and it's hard to stand out ."

Yeah I did think that would be a factor woman would consider when they receive a message from myself they can see that we are genuine.. but yeah I guess your correct maybe the volume of messages the ladies receive and mine may just get lost in the post lol...

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hubby found the same when he set up a single account for a small time. He gave up and deleted the account as find it a waste of time. Just the way it is in here that the females get most of the attention it seems.

Kx

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By *rFunLuva OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hubby found the same when he set up a single account for a small time. He gave up and deleted the account as find it a waste of time. Just the way it is in here that the females get most of the attention it seems.

Kx"

Thanks Hun for your feedback... X

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