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Do women Actually enjoy a finger been slipped up their arse when being fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or men?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


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No but you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometime. Only by a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say ask the person you are with, or be prepared for a slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Or men? "

That’s how I got my own back on a guy who decided he would.

If you mean slip it in and see what happens.. remember.. consent.

Otherwise. Ask? Everyone is different

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Another exciting mystery solved....

Some people like a finger in the butt, who knew?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always ask, we both need to enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it just slipped, honest.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


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How do you do that men cant multitask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I'm identifying as a bowling ball.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Definately not it's the fastest way to stop you thinking about the sex u maybe having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do xx

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

A lovely lady that I was with once asked if she could put her finger in my bum hole (yes, two words). I laughed so much I said yes.

Didn’t like it though..... but, you know, I bit the pillow and suffered in silence haha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girlfriend was partial to a bit of bum play.

One time, when she was on top I slipped a finger in and the result was an immediate and exceptionally intense orgasm, which we both loved, for my part not least because of the extra gushing as she came...

Lets just say it became a regular feature of our sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes !

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By *-aint-a-crowdCouple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

Absolute yes from me! X

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Another exciting mystery solved....

Some people like a finger in the butt, who knew?"

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We knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brando got in bother for just slipping It in, took method acting too far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently there is a male G spot in the bum there somewhere, not found it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so intense

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Oh yes please (both)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometime. Only by a woman"

So when you’re having sex with a man just his cock is enough then?

Fair

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"Id say ask the person you are with, or be prepared for a slap "

Always give it a lill tickle first to test the waters! Asking takes the surprise away lol

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I quite like receiving it but my husband would never let me try it on him to see if he likes it.

Lou x

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury


"Apparently there is a male G spot in the bum there somewhere, not found it!"

There certainly is.

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By *atielpoolTV/TS
over a year ago

liverpool

Absolutely yes from me

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By *ice and PeasCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for me

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Absolutely not

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By *yorkshire-guy69Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Love it

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

That's a no from me

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I have to be in the mood but sometimes it's quite enjoyable... but without telling me or asking me then the person is likely to get a throat punch and there sensitive parts ripped clean off Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if theyre turtling.

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

Had an ex that just loved it. Very early on in our relationship she made that obvious. If we were doing it missionary she would lift one arse cheek up to give me access. I’m sure she preferred a finger in her arse more than her pussy.

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By *ownhamguyMan
over a year ago

Battle

Many years ago a girl I was seeing loved going on top. She had a very sexy arse. She's on top of me one night and as I was fucking her I slipped a finger into her arse. She looked me in the eye and said "your finger is right up my arse" carried on fucking then pulled out and got her on all fours. So I thought I chance my luck and pushed my cock against her arsehole. Didn't go in but sort of bent and went straight into her pussy so carried on fucking her like that until she uttered the immortal words "wrong hole" pulled out tried again, went straight in, fucked her arse until I shot a massive load into her arse. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do xx"

She's a naughty one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I alone in that I would rather have full anal sex that have a finger up there ?

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything!

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Bergerac

On one of our first full swaps with another couple I mentioned that Becky liked a finger tip inserted in her bum, whilst we were having sex with the opposite partner.

Becky was sat on top of the other guy and he duly moved his hand onto her bottom to heighten the already intense experience for both of them.

Imagine my surprise when his wife ( who was sat on top of me ) brushed his hand away and popped her finger into Becky's bum.

I almost came to an early conclusion....!

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By *nt1Man
over a year ago

Allington

My ex did. It was like the button that made her cum.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I prefer a thumb if I'm being fucked from behind.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I prefer a thumb if I'm being fucked from behind."

Noted

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

This one certainly doesn’t......

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I prefer a thumb if I'm being fucked from behind.

Noted"

I like a cock after too.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London


"Id say ask the person you are with, or be prepared for a slap "

I'd pack up and go home!

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By *attyBevCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Only if you ask first

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I prefer a thumb if I'm being fucked from behind.

Noted

I like a cock after too."

That can be arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love one or 2 up mine makes me cum harder

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge "

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything! "

Does everything need consent? Is this in advance or questions at the time?

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I prefer a thumb if I'm being fucked from behind.

Noted

I like a cock after too."

Ohhh naughty but nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a cock but a finger is good.

As for a finger up a man's bum I am not very good at stoping at just the one hehe

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I much prefer a cock but a finger is good.

As for a finger up a man's bum I am not very good at stoping at just the one hehe "

I’ve seen the pics

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes.

Thank you "

I just wish I was young enough to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes.

Thank you

I just wish I was young enough to message you. "

The issue isn't your age, its your sex! You missed my open settings today to show me scars

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes.

Thank you

I just wish I was young enough to message you.

The issue isn't your age, its your sex! You missed my open settings today to show me scars "

Damm, that's a shame. We shall just have to converse in the forums. Until next time.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam


"Id say ask the person you are with, or be prepared for a slap

Always give it a lill tickle first to test the waters! Asking takes the surprise away lol"

Xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

By my husband, hell yes.

By a random meet, no, it's too intimate and we like to reserve anal play just for us.

Mrs

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Love it.

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By *iseekingbiCouple
over a year ago

N ireland and West Midlands

These sort of questions seem to be asked by frustrated teenagers.

Do women like salt and vinegar crisps?

Do women like rock climbing ?

The answer is the same......some do, some don't

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Yes, I do. Its something that will quickly tip me over the edge

Can I just say you have the most amazing eyes.

Thank you "

Definitely second that. Those eyes will drive any man crazy.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything!

Does everything need consent? Is this in advance or questions at the time? "

yes, it does (male & female) or its classed as r**e/sexual assault!! it is as simple as that.

preferably likes & utter no no's discussed before hand. if they haven't been then yes still ask....I wasn't joking bout sending someone flying for an act like that.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

It's a nope from me 1 way traffic only

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By *orny boy1Man
over a year ago

durham

Oh as you can see by my profile picture i do like things in my bum hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it to be teased first ,it at leased lets me know you might slide a finger in.. x

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By *oxyred41Woman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's a yes from me

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

By Mr definitely, its usually what pushes me right over the edge. And consent is always a must whether it's agreed before play or during. xT

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Lick your thumb and tease around her hole first, don't just go straight in. But yeah if in doubt, ask!

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

No

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Mindy loves it

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything!

Does everything need consent? Is this in advance or questions at the time?

yes, it does (male & female) or its classed as r**e/sexual assault!! it is as simple as that.

preferably likes & utter no no's discussed before hand. if they haven't been then yes still ask....I wasn't joking bout sending someone flying for an act like that. "

I think it’s far less simple than that. In previous sexual relationships I don’t think I have ever asked the question.... though I may reach there and start by laying a gentle finger, followed by a little rubbing, all well received more pressure to fingering. Have I assaulted her? Am I a rapist? I haven’t asked a question and received an answer?

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Another upvote for her reciprocating on me. Dead sexy.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything!

Does everything need consent? Is this in advance or questions at the time?

yes, it does (male & female) or its classed as r**e/sexual assault!! it is as simple as that.

preferably likes & utter no no's discussed before hand. if they haven't been then yes still ask....I wasn't joking bout sending someone flying for an act like that.

I think it’s far less simple than that. In previous sexual relationships I don’t think I have ever asked the question.... though I may reach there and start by laying a gentle finger, followed by a little rubbing, all well received more pressure to fingering. Have I assaulted her? Am I a rapist? I haven’t asked a question and received an answer?

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and that is the just one of the issues when it comes to prosecuting genuine r**e cases...just ask takes a few words ffs

other than that i know it can be a mucky area, simple solution....put it this way if you'd done that to me you'd be next touching my fist or my foot & not in a nice way....that could have been you because you didn't ask.

its simple words & not hard to do plus keeps everyone on the same page

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Absolutely not without being asked, you'd quickly find your self flying through the air....

Consent is everything!

Does everything need consent? Is this in advance or questions at the time?

yes, it does (male & female) or its classed as r**e/sexual assault!! it is as simple as that.

preferably likes & utter no no's discussed before hand. if they haven't been then yes still ask....I wasn't joking bout sending someone flying for an act like that.

I think it’s far less simple than that. In previous sexual relationships I don’t think I have ever asked the question.... though I may reach there and start by laying a gentle finger, followed by a little rubbing, all well received more pressure to fingering. Have I assaulted her? Am I a rapist? I haven’t asked a question and received an answer?

and that is the just one of the issues when it comes to prosecuting genuine r**e cases...just ask takes a few words ffs

other than that i know it can be a mucky area, simple solution....put it this way if you'd done that to me you'd be next touching my fist or my foot & not in a nice way....that could have been you because you didn't ask.

its simple words & not hard to do plus keeps everyone on the same page"

So what acts don’t need verbal consent..... can I put my hand on your leg, can I kiss you can I touch your hip, your thigh, your tits, the small of your back, can I kiss your shoulder, can I duck your nipple, your ear, kiss your neck, can I lick your pussy, can I put my hands on your arse cheeks, can I rim you, can I put a finger in your pussy, two, three, can I touch you with my cock, can I put my cock near your pussy, can I put it inside you, .... I’m not so sure this happens! I’m not sure that without the above that someone should feel justified in assault.

Moving toward each other with mouths parting would suggest we’re going to kiss, then move on to neck kissing as you go, shoulder, then chest, tits , lick and suck a nipple, carry on down , stomach, hips, pubis, ..... at any point a partner could and likely would either verbally or through body language express one way or another their feelings, whether this should be stopped, continued, quicker, harder, more, etc. If any of this is not on the pre agreed list of activities or they haven’t asked the questions as above you would feel justified in punching or kicking someone? It feels to me you are far more comfortable with assault than I! I wouldn’t expect, if you had my cock in your hand and you didn’t ask but moved your open mouth toward it, that you to ask to suck it, nor if you licked down to my balls, my perineum then rimmed me that you should ask at each stage.... no one ever has! When this has occurred have I been being assaulted? Would I be justified in blacking an eye or two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting thread. I personally enjoy anal, but I don't much care for a finger in my bum during sex.

However, if a guy did it without asking, I wouldn't feel assaulted anymore than if he touched my tits without asking, I'd just say "oh no thanks, not my thing". Obviously if he then carried in, that wouldn't be ok at all. But a lot of consent is given non verbally, and it's done in the build up, through eye contact and smiles of encouragement. However, I'd also always discuss anal before play started as I know for some people it's a definite no no.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

until it happens otherwise, then its whole other thing ain't it.

and these days yes there are men being taken to court for sexual assault for touching legs, bums and boobs without permission....would you like to join them cos you've no idea how the other party feels about it if you don't ask & communicate and by that point it's too late...deeds done & the damage with it.

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By *r and Mrs300Couple
over a year ago

London sw3

yes

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Some do, some don't. Next question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

Not for me Mrs

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We both do, if mood takes us but not from any old swinger lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather stick my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it x

Debs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in that I would rather have full anal sex that have a finger up there ? "

You aren't alone!!

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By *urvaceous1Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Ahhhh yeah!

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