FabSwingers.com forum: How many...

By *inkyKitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

People have you had sex with?

Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....

When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.

I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)

Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?

XxxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My number is below 30... some of my vanilla friends are double that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the two.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

God yes. I have hide my smirk with vanilla friends. Thinking of party nights I've attended

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

As in a lifetime or since joining the swinging world? Mine is about 12.. i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the two."

Mr , a lot , mrs a hell of a lot !!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. They've never asked me. We both had sex with loads of people before we met any way so our pre swinging number is higher than our swinging number

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By *p4u69Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Far too many, I tried listing them out once and just completely lost track

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By *inkyKitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

"God yes. I have hide my smirk with vanilla friends. Thinking of party nights I've attended

Yes this ^^^

On a few memorable nights at clubs.... it’s racked the number up lol.

I like playing innocent

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"God yes. I have hide my smirk with vanilla friends. Thinking of party nights I've attended

Yes this ^^^

On a few memorable nights at clubs.... it’s racked the number up lol.

I like playing innocent

Likewise. There have been occasions, I realise I played with more people in a night than vanilla friends in total.

Oh the shame.... Not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just searching for my A4 and a pen lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Just searching for my A4 and a pen lol

Happy to have my name added to your list...

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Only one or two until I was 30. After that I've genuinely lost count. In the last few years probably only a couple, none over the last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just searching for my A4 and a pen lol

Happy to have my name added to your list...

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get your coat youve pulled lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Just searching for my A4 and a pen lol

Happy to have my name added to your list...

get your coat youve pulled lol

Good to see my hotist works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.

And I have no idea what my number is xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m around 20 but since lockdown I’ve become a virgin again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say around the same number as my age but I'm not saying what age it was when it was that number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 guys

3 women x

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've lost count....

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Mines embarrassingly low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50+ for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 30 Women

And easily double that from guys and girls if we're counting blowjobs.

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By *uskymotoMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

I stopped counting at around 40,,,,, that was a while ago.

Sex is sex, making love is love, I've fallen in love twice.

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By *etnetWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Gosh I got a whole lot of catching up to do! ........

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

Mines only 3 figures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting at 20yo. It’s was 3 numbers..

- Eli

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Three figures here to..... Sounds so bad when you think about it but been fantastic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three figures here to..... Sounds so bad when you think about it but been fantastic fun.

Just get a guy to estimate how much he’s cum over his lifetime.. 3-5ml per time.. once a day.. enough to drown in.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Hubby around 20 wife north of 50 but less than 100 not certain exactly mostly 1 night stands and a few swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have you had sex with?

Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....

When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.

I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)

Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?

XxxX"
haha when i first met j i was not aware of her swinging life i was so vanilla she told me on the first night it was a shock but i can see why the numbers can rack up lol

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

"Three figures here to..... Sounds so bad when you think about it but been fantastic fun.

Just get a guy to estimate how much he’s cum over his lifetime.. 3-5ml per time.. once a day.. enough to drown in. "

Good point well made

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It’s not the amount of people that should be personal it’s the amount of fun you had that counts

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Hubby here - over 10 & below 30

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By *antric ecstasyMan
over a year ago

Co Durham

Some will think me a libertine, others a mere beginner. My only regret, the love of my life who got away. One day, perhaps!

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By *ristol_couple2009Couple
over a year ago

St Andrews

Neither of us have a clue any more. Would be guessing at around 1,000; but could be 500 out either side of that number. ?????

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Started losing count and memory for names and faces about 30 years ago.

As others have mentioned, clubs and parties can dramatically increase numbers.

What can be worrying is being reminded of a participation by someone from the past and not having recognised the face concerned.

Never mind millilitres of semen. How many thousand miles has my prized endowment travelled in and out over the years? Reverse strokes don't cancel out forward ones, they all ad up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a virgin here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“More than Princess Diana, less than Madonna”

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Op...i have a general idea the number...but i certainly would add one more...you are a hottie

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By *inkyKitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

It’s just so titillating!!

Wow, I can’t even begin to count... I’m probably around the 40 Mark?!

I can’t remember as far back in my late teens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe i have earned my virgin status back since covid 19 hit irosh shores sadly

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By *ngelfallsWoman
over a year ago

La La Land

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

F half 8 in one day so lost count total number but know it was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking gorgeous as ever xx

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"People have you had sex with?

Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....

When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.

I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)

Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?

XxxX"

Haha yup!!! One conversation among friends revolves around a woman that ‘omg has had sex with ten men! 10!!!!!’ Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.

And I have no idea what my number is xx"

Exactly this

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.

And I have no idea what my number is xx

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr around 20 mark. Mrs probably 75-100.

The most in one day has been 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many as I have chosen to.

Nothing too wild

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've never thought of it like this eek but yes, very true haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid-to-high twenties.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be over 100 by now

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By *ony2269Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Enough to know that I do it well.

Not so many as to find it boring. If that’s even possible.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It’s not a conversation I’d have with vanilla friends, and if they asked I wouldn’t tell them. But my number has shot up since joining Fab. In the 19 years between losing my virginity and joining Fab - 4 men; in the not quite 9 months between joining Fab and the pandemic - another 9 men and 3 women, and oral only with another 11 men and 1 woman. I don’t know what the average for a non-swinger bi woman of almost 43 would be, so I can’t say whether I’m high, low or average, but I wouldn’t want to discuss it with friends and family.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"It’s just so titillating!!

Wow, I can’t even begin to count... I’m probably around the 40 Mark?!

I can’t remember as far back in my late teens lol

I can barely remember my first time myself but I've had sex with around 60 or 70 different women

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By *inkyrobinMan
over a year ago

Close to you

Three figures here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey. Im totally low on just 15 women. But most have been long term fwbs

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By *lcaza69Woman
over a year ago

north west

Oh I know this feeling and I hate playing those games. I have to remember what I said last time as I’ve been with more guys than all my friends put together. Also I have to remember wildest sex act, strangest place, and loads of have you ever questions in case I get caught out making up answers as I can’t answer with the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have you had sex with?

Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....

When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.

I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)

Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?

XxxX"
I love that- the thing is - if you said 500+ , anybody outside this lifestyle would call you a slapper etc - if I said how many I had slept with I’d be called a bullshitter ????

I hate it when a new girlfriend says- ‘now be honest, I don’t mind, but how many people have you slept with...?

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a great point you make about vanilla friends living in a different universe. Most would only have single figures, we would have way more in one night. Also the older you get the hornier you become. We are having the time of our lives now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 40, but none in the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 40, none in the lifestyle. Some threesomes but inexperienced here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

56 and remember and I fell in love with every one of them .

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

D was into triple figures before we met in 2000. C.

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By *annah_88Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am 20ish men and women x

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Sucked 4 blokes outdoors in an hour , separately but women probably 12... Oral with men outdoors ... Dozens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my current gf had this Convo not so long ago. Both in the Early 30s, and that’s before we’ve started swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm on 10

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Perhaps it's what swingers get up to rather than the number they do it with that sets them apart from vanilla friends. Can't imagine that many vanilla friends have taken five guys at a time, been spit roasted, had two or three guys cum on them, fucked with a crowd watching etc etc!

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

Wife and I are a cuckold couple. She has been with approximately 20 men - some before we met. I actually married the first girl I asked out so my number is easy - 1!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have you had sex with?

Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....

When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.

I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)

Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?

XxxX"

Mrs nw is well into three figures,as you say, Gangbangs and club night rack up the numbers.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

very few relationships but lots of casual sex lost count years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this convo with gf. So started counting until I got to her. That's when I should have stopped.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.

And I have no idea what my number is xx"

Exactly!

If I'm having a greedy girl session I'm usually too preoccupied to count each guy (or girl!)!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Do you count couple's you've slept with individually or as one pair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100’s . Especially in my 20’s , was an 18 -30 holiday rep for 7 years . Was brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea ?. I stopped counting after 100

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Very very low . And happy with that.

I'm a man yes, desperate no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People wouldn't believe me if I told them they have no idea I'm in to the lifestyle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than 10 for me tbh and none off here

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think I know how many I had sex with but no idea how many dates i been on with different men.. too many

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By *hat_alt_coupleCouple
over a year ago

near you

We have only been with each other

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Very very low . And happy with that.

I'm a man yes, desperate no. "

Well done, have a cookie. Implying that people with higher numbers, on a swinging site of all places, are desperate is pretty rude.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Very very low . And happy with that.

I'm a man yes, desperate no.

Well done, have a cookie. Implying that people with higher numbers, on a swinging site of all places, are desperate is pretty rude."

Some i wouldn't accept a cookie from either! But there you go.

We all have choices. Your choice was to get narked about my post and look for a negative.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

A lot. Not sure I could put an exact number on it but definitely a lot.

We have after all been swinging for approx 14 years and neither of us lived like vestal virgin's before getting involved in the scene.

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