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Has your swinging dynamic changed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Out of curiosity, have you always played a certain way or has it changed through trial and error.

For example, do you hotwife couples ever play with other couples or does the male half ever play with other women?

I know for some of you are open to all sorts, but some profiles are very specific and I'm curious as to whether they've been quite single minded about it from the start or whether they've had a bit of a journey to find what works for them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, it's changed quite a lot. We used to be full swap or threesome with a guy. Now we're sort swap only and like to involve a little kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our dynamic has changes very rapidly. We started as full swap with couples only and quickly progressed to 1-2-1 meets now we are pretty much up for anything or any dynamic. Having few limits for us is all part of the fun and excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started off saying soft play only but our first meet ended up going straight into a full swap, was a great night tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most people I suspect, I was more cautious and less confident at the beginning. I used to text potential meets a lot and cam with them for a while before meeting. And even 1 on 1s made me very nervous. Now I'm more comfortable just texting a bit then meeting up and jumping into bed so to speak. Threesomes I'm very comfortable with. Covid hit before I could really get into gangbangs and the club scene, but I plan to get into those a lot once able, as well as lots of 121 meets to make up for lost time. Lockdown has been very frustrating! I'm certainly more interested in group play now. I'm also now fully bi, I was only bi curious when I started as I had little experience with other women. I know more who and what turns me on too. Xx

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We liked to be open minded ...but now seem to go down the girl girl route with the guys joining in later on ....works for us LOL

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We first joined looking for a lady to join us so I could explore the possibility of me being bi, her and my husband did everything but fuck and she watched us and played with me (she was more into women). We’re now looking to include straight men so we’re looking for couples, maybe soft swap, probably full swap, hopefully a bit kinky. And we’re not necessarily looking for a bi woman as I’ve scratched that itch and have realised I’m more bi-playful than bi. I think we’ve just learnt to go with the flow a bit more and not to rule anything out.

Lou x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

i just go with flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of my boundaries are rigidly in place but there are certainly things that I'm considering now that I wouldn't have a few years back. Nor through trial and error, but just an inquisitive mind.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never thought I'd entertain going to a club but just maybe when/if they reopen then who knows.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I never thought I'd entertain going to a club but just maybe when/if they reopen then who knows."

Pandora and Quest are lovely , we shod go together when they reopen , starting for Pandora.

Never been to HU9 would you come with me ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I never thought I'd entertain going to a club but just maybe when/if they reopen then who knows.

Pandora and Quest are lovely , we shod go together when they reopen , starting for Pandora.

Never been to HU9 would you come with me ? "

Yeah I'd go with you. Could never imagine walking into one on my own

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