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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for gay and bi men ! Are you aware that you are unable to get pregnant???

I only ask this because I seem to get alot of messages from men asking if i would breed them!!!

While I'm flattered by the attention i do wonder why they ask yo be bred after all it is to my knowledge impossible for a man to fall pregnant.

DISCLAIMER....

I'm not homophobic and actually enjoy chatting to both men and women gay bi and straight this is simply a question I want the answer to. Ps I do understand not all gay and bi men think this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

breeding is well known amongst gay men as code for bareback sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"breeding is well known amongst gay men as code for bareback sex"
right but I'm not a gay man lol and it's not gonna breed them lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

What about me......joking obvs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about me......joking obvs "
well how would u like it lol

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By *hesweetcheeksMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

It’s a term that’s used a lot in the gay community and relates to having bareback sex

But I think a lot of the time it’s more about the fantasy..I’ve lost count the number times guys slide in my inbox with the first line “ let me breed your ass”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for gay and bi men ! Are you aware that you are unable to get pregnant???

I only ask this because I seem to get alot of messages from men asking if i would breed them!!!

While I'm flattered by the attention i do wonder why they ask yo be bred after all it is to my knowledge impossible for a man to fall pregnant.

DISCLAIMER....

I'm not homophobic and actually enjoy chatting to both men and women gay bi and straight this is simply a question I want the answer to. Ps I do understand not all gay and bi men think this way "

I mean, first off, you look hot!! Lol

Anyhoo... Your question is a bit of a Pandora’s Box, if you ask me. The answers are deeply entrenched in the difficulties that a lot of gay men experience as they try to navigate their way through a world that isn’t designed for them. For a lot of men this leaves issues of self-worth, and it can manifest in an unhealthy sexual lifestyle where self-degradation as an attempt to fit in is commonplace.

I don’t think that it is anything to do with getting pregnant and more along the lines of wanting to be dominated and used by the “real men” that society has told them they will never be. “Gay men aren’t real men”, etc.

Like I said, the answer to your question is hugely multi-faceted, and requires a lot of reading on sexual identity and gender politics. “The Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs is a good place to start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A question for gay and bi men ! Are you aware that you are unable to get pregnant???

I only ask this because I seem to get alot of messages from men asking if i would breed them!!!

While I'm flattered by the attention i do wonder why they ask yo be bred after all it is to my knowledge impossible for a man to fall pregnant.

DISCLAIMER....

I'm not homophobic and actually enjoy chatting to both men and women gay bi and straight this is simply a question I want the answer to. Ps I do understand not all gay and bi men think this way

I mean, first off, you look hot!! Lol

Anyhoo... Your question is a bit of a Pandora’s Box, if you ask me. The answers are deeply entrenched in the difficulties that a lot of gay men experience as they try to navigate their way through a world that isn’t designed for them. For a lot of men this leaves issues of self-worth, and it can manifest in an unhealthy sexual lifestyle where self-degradation as an attempt to fit in is commonplace.

I don’t think that it is anything to do with getting pregnant and more along the lines of wanting to be dominated and used by the “real men” that society has told them they will never be. “Gay men aren’t real men”, etc.

Like I said, the answer to your question is hugely multi-faceted, and requires a lot of reading on sexual identity and gender politics. “The Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs is a good place to start."
thanks for the compliment and the rather well informed answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the dad bod dad image thing you’ve got going on. When I read the post I thought you had a point who’d ask that what a weird request but then saw your pics and thought fair enough yeah breed me as well. ASAP. A lot. Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a bit negative WookieDad, just because nobody has succeeded yet. Imagine the adulation if someone actually gets a guy pregnant!

Oh wait, I've read through all the comments now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your gf/wife. Calls you daddy.. she’s not really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your gf/wife. Calls you daddy.. she’s not really.."

Depends where you live...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Border of the fens here. Hit and miss.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"When your gf/wife. Calls you daddy.. she’s not really..

Depends where you live..."

Good answer.

Give me a High six

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Breeders’ is what we used to call straight people. Back when I did the gay scene..

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