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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you fuck on a first date outside of Fab? Stories even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non fab..no as looking for a relationship not a fook.

Fab.. yes as it's a meet not a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date in the sense I'm looking for a relationship. But I'm on Tinder and other sites where I've had FBs and FWB in the past. And yes I always have sex on the first date, but I only meet people I'm attracted to and have been speaking with for a while xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Neither on Fab or away from.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Most tinder dates end with sex

Infact nearly all I’ve ever had ..

Some didn’t as the ladies didn’t look like their pictures or had been on a diet of donuts since they were taken

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Both of us used to in our dating days.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

If on a date no I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

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A lot of people think the way you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

A lot of people think the way you do. "

Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

A lot of people think the way you do.

Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me! "

Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meets I have had on here,were purely for sex,but would be happy to have a social meet first ,when allowed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Only meets I have had on here,were purely for sex,but would be happy to have a social meet first ,when allowed."

It's funny that we used tp have sex on a first date as younger people but on fab always have a social first. We're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

A lot of people think the way you do.

Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me!

Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets? "

I would say less so. When you find something “good” on here, you have to snap the chance up or it’s gone usually. Especially as a single male. However you definitely can create an amazing build up via good chat and flirting which makes the meet better...even if a one time thing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

A lot of people think the way you do.

Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me!

Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets?

I would say less so. When you find something “good” on here, you have to snap the chance up or it’s gone usually. Especially as a single male. However you definitely can create an amazing build up via good chat and flirting which makes the meet better...even if a one time thing! "

That's true. It's interesting how people differ in that we're less likely to engage in sexual activity on a first fab meet than we were when we were on the dating scene. Mind you we were last dating in the late 70s early 80s, things were very different

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If she buys me dinner then maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if I'm not attracted enough to have sex on the first date or meet there won't be a second xx

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

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Makes alot of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!

Sounds backwards doesn’t it!

Makes alot of sense "

I think so! In a roundabout kind of way

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Well, since I'm married very happily and love my hubby if I'm meeting someone it's just for sex

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By *lasgowmerchantcityMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a proper date, id like to wait for a second one before giving out lol x

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

If the mood is right. And feelings are mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked on all but 1 first dates, tend to build up a good sexual chemistry first so it's inevitable. From experience aswel women seem to want to fuck on first date if I mention its not important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucked my husband on our first date. In my parents bed while they were on holiday.

Still fucking him nearly 30 years later.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do you fuck on a first date outside of Fab? Stories even better! "

I expect to fuck first, then I'll consider the "date" bit.

Cal

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Outside the swinging scene the answer is yes. For both of us.

I reckon that in at least 50% of dates I ended up having sex after the first date. The funny thing was that if the woman was in say a less prestigious career the chances we near zero.

If the woman was a lawyer or doctor it was near 100%.

Strange but true.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have not been on a date for over 30 years. I did not fuck then on first date but think i would now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when I first got with my partner years ago.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No I didn't. Rarely had dates as I was married for 30 years pre-Fab

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

If it was a 'proper' date, then no, I wouldn't expect or even want it, hopefully seeing the person again.

As a social on here, again no I wouldn't expect it, although it has happened.

On a meet, different story. Especially after having met for a social first.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We had been speaking for months before we first met face-to-face. When we finally got to see each other we were in bed together within two hours.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never fucked on the first date.

I do remember speaking to a girl who always sucked the guy off if they made it to date number 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always let guys or TV/TS fuck me on first date, but like to enjoy the wait until 3rd or 4th date before i fuck others....x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I was on a first date I was 18 and no I didn't. The man I am with now has not and will never have sex with me so again the answer is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and if it's rubbish he won't get a call back

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

Only hold ha did on a first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice xxxx

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I don’t think I’ve ever been on a first date without fucking or doing something sexual lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like him definitely

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By *inkyRebelMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes, more times than I expected.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do you fuck on a first date outside of Fab? Stories even better!

I expect to fuck first, then I'll consider the "date" bit.

Cal"

Our relationship started with sex (in the back of a van) and I don't think we ever dated in the traditional sense.

Nita

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

No, I would like to get to know them without any expectation of sex. When we do finaly have sex, it would feel more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don’t date as such, if I meet anyone it is for sex not to make lifetime relationship, can be FWB but it’s all about the sex.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I would never expect sex on a first date, also would never initiate the first move for sex, but if the female took the first move and clearly wanted sex, who am I to say no??

If it was a (first date) under the circumstances I'm looking for a relationship im 100% a gentleman and will never overstep the mark. A good hard snog at the end of the night is always good and if I like the person im happy with that and to go home. That being said if sex is what she wants and is after im game, but for me thats the first and last date for me.

If I click with a women and we both generally get on and are both looking for serious id rather wait and get to know her and build a connection and tension before sex.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I would never expect sex on a first date, also would never initiate the first move for sex, but if the female took the first move and clearly wanted sex, who am I to say no??

If it was a (first date) under the circumstances I'm looking for a relationship im 100% a gentleman and will never overstep the mark. A good hard snog at the end of the night is always good and if I like the person im happy with that and to go home. That being said if sex is what she wants and is after im game, but for me thats the first and last date for me.

If I click with a women and we both generally get on and are both looking for serious id rather wait and get to know her and build a connection and tension before sex.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Well I don’t date as such, if I meet anyone it is for sex not to make lifetime relationship, can be FWB but it’s all about the sex."

To me a FWB is someone who I do other things with apart from just sex...

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By *awhWoman
over a year ago

here

Yeah, if he's hot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone think the three date rule is a bit old fashioned.

Maybe it's the fab user in me but I mean if you have a good time and you find each other attractive, them why wait, just because convention dictates.

I wouldn't be pushy, but I have had sex on a first date and would again, and think no less of anyone else who does

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Totally depends on the person

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Well I don’t date as such, if I meet anyone it is for sex not to make lifetime relationship, can be FWB but it’s all about the sex."
Would this not just be a fuck buddy, a fwb would be someone I enjoy spending time with, going out and doing other things such as the theatre or just talking and enjoying the benifits of having sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies folks! Interesting!

And yeah it does depend on the situation - real/vanilla dates vs fab/sex dates... I really like the ones that start out vanilla and end up filthy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of tinder dates for me have led to play/bj on first date, if not sex. But then I never go for the girls who look like their looking for the one.

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