FabSwingers.com forum: What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?

By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is wrong with being a slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being a slag, slut, promiscuous, etc. It personal choice if you enjoy fucking around, no one else's business xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s precisely what I look for in a woman. Not sure I’d use that terminology unless banter with a friend, but I’d happily be called a slag or slut lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing at all sexy. You like what you like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More slags the better then.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Nothing if that's what you want but it won't appeal to everyone. No need for any abuse though.

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Gotta love a message from a happy man on Valentine’s Day , spreading cheer and love as he wombles through fab

There’s nothing wrong with being whatever you want . There is something wrong with cock wombles attempts at insults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site, nothing wrong with it at all. If this was just a serious dating site then I guess it might be a little less acceptable.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Slag is an awful word I take it you declined his offer?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing wrong at all, if I had the opportunity I’d be a slag too

U look a beautiful slag

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Absolutely nothing wrong with it! It’s a terrible word but if you are doing what you want then enjoy it!

If it was a fella saying how many ladies he wanted to shag he’d be a hero in most people’s eyes. Double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I assume she's only a slag because she didn't want his cock in particular?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's the word that implies it's wrong not the actions of the woman being called it.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

“Oh the boys a slag, the best you ever had, the best you ever had”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I would qualify as being a ‘slag.’

The issue is when it’s used in an intentionally derogatory way. Usually because deep down they are resentful or jealous.

Fortunately, the one guy who matters most doesn’t judge me, and everyone else can fuck off if they don’t like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who get abusive to someone else is because we dont allow/agree/accept theirs wants.

You be whoever's you want to be op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you are not breaking someone's trust and are happy theres nothing wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with your choices! I wish my girlfriend was more like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all adults and entitled to screw whoever we choose be that 1, 50 or 500 it's personal choice...

Jees Louise if you're gonna call someone a slag because they like a fuck maybe a swinging site isn't the best place to be looking and he needs to be a bit more original with his outdated insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

It’s one of the age old juxtapositions that society has. If a woman enjoys sex in whatever form then she is labelled with all sorts of derogatory names. If a chap has the same interest the he is a bit of a lad with the women.

I would say there is nothing wrong with anyone having a healthy libido and pursuing their sexual desires.

It has nothing to do with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it enjoy them cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all adults and entitled to screw whoever we choose be that 1, 50 or 500 it's personal choice...

Jees Louise if you're gonna call someone a slag because they like a fuck maybe a swinging site isn't the best place to be looking and he needs to be a bit more original with his outdated insults. "

It's not unusual to find people with high numbers and enjoying multiple cocks at the same time on a swinging site is it? I would suspect most of us on here would be well above vanilla averages in these regards...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

As in the old 1970's London police films

You slaaaaaaaaag

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

It's just some prick trying to goad you into responding.

Have a great sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the word, it has negative connotations as it's often used to insult or degrade women. But there is nothing wrong with enjoying sex and wanting to enjoy it with more than one man. I'm guessing he's just annoyed he got rejected lol

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I was just thinking about this word before i came onto the site!! It was meant to be.

Slag seems to be a harder worder than slut, which, in this world, is a borderline compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with being a slag, slut, promiscuous, etc. It personal choice if you enjoy fucking around, no one else's business xx"

This...... I’ve been called it so many times now that I’ve lost count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just thinking about this word before i came onto the site!! It was meant to be.

Slag seems to be a harder worder than slut, which, in this world, is a borderline compliment!"

Both are usually aimed at women and have derogatory intentions.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"I don't like the word, it has negative connotations as it's often used to insult or degrade women. But there is nothing wrong with enjoying sex and wanting to enjoy it with more than one man. I'm guessing he's just annoyed he got rejected lol"

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Becasue some people in the world are either joulous because they can't get with you and don't like being rejected, have a very low opinion of themselves and reflect this onto other, not mature enough to understand their own sexuality or that of others, have been rejected by a partner whom looked for better, don't understand the difference between love and sex and that they are not mutualy exclussive, have paid for it and caught a case of crabs or are simpy so infused with the brainwashing that society has given them that they also believe that science is witchcraft.

Could also be a priest who misses his Sunday chior service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely nothing wrong with it! It’s a terrible word but if you are doing what you want then enjoy it!

If it was a fella saying how many ladies he wanted to shag he’d be a hero in most people’s eyes. Double standards "

This has always been the case, woman are now doing the exact same thing as men , good on them if that’s what you want.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Gotta love a message from a happy man on Valentine’s Day , spreading cheer and love as he wombles through fab

There’s nothing wrong with being whatever you want . There is something wrong with cock wombles attempts at insults

Wombles through fab, I love that ????

Can I point out the irony of him calling you a slag when he's on a site specifically used to meet other slags and have sex? Bloody brilliant

Own it girl, takes more than someone that insecure to bring you down. You've got this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love them, and are both "slags"

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I don't get it. If a lady likes to enjoy herself she is called a slag.

Yet it isn't the same for a male?

Sounds a bit like the person calling Dee names has issues with rejection.

With the amount of this type of behaviour that the ladies have to endure you would think respect costs the Earth.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I feel proud when sabr8na being called a slut, slightly or whore.

To me means I'm showing a wonderful level of sexuality.

Some people can't handle that though & try make those words sound derogatory

My wife has certainly shown more of the slut within her with me this past 12 months and I love that she has.

It certainly wouldn't upset me if others called her such names also. I'd be proud that she was showing others her sexual side once more

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing, I love being one

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing at all Dee

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

As a derogatory word, it's pretty horrible as most are.

If you want more than one cock, then that's your choice (and a good one I might add!). If someone has enough of a problem to bother messaging to insult you about it, then that's their hangup and they deserve reporting for the abuse.

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

What's in a word??

Nothing wrong with it at all

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By *bi_AstrayTV/TS
over a year ago

Plymouth

In the context it was intended, a slur brought about by the patriarchal society. The equivalent phrase for a male is never taken as a slur, and goes so far as to endorse the same behaviour positively.

In these days, it just shows immaturity and the lack of ability to take no for an answer like a balanced human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the labels and the fuckwits that use them and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting more than one cock doesn't make you a slut it just means you love attention and are greedy but it's all good the more the merrier

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"Nothing wrong with being a slag, slut, promiscuous, etc. It personal choice if you enjoy fucking around, no one else's business xx

This...... I’ve been called it so many times now that I’ve lost count

A slag would never look as good you in the black dress!

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing, I love being one"

Oh I want to be a slag with you have you any friends make me into a real slag.. pleaseeeee x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"On this site, nothing wrong with it at all. If this was just a serious dating site then I guess it might be a little less acceptable."

I think you mean to say “nothing wrong with it at all if that’s what makes you happy”. If someone finds it “unacceptable”, regardless of what site or app they may be on, then that person is the one with the problem, not the woman who knows what she likes and is confident enough to go out and get it.

OP, personally I don’t like being called things like “slag”, and I’d probably report them for it. But I don’t think there’s anything negative about what you enjoy, and I think it’s a bloody nerve to come on a swinging site and give a woman abuse for liking multiple partners!

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

My wife use to be a slag before she married me, now she wont even wear a thong

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By *appyhuntingwestmanMan
over a year ago

York

I agree.Im more than happy to be called a slag !!!!

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a slag.

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I assume she's only a slag because she didn't want his cock in particular?"

Nope it was his first and only message to us and read as follows..

Ask ur fella then ya slag, another one on here wanting more dick than what there fella can offer lol it's laughable

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Calling someone a slag because of their sexual desires seems a bit childish.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Nothing wrong with enjoying sex ..and good old double standards !! if a female goes out and sleeps around ..she's a slag/slut/whore....even worse if she actually enjoys it !! ..and if a man does exactly the same ..he's a stud/player and a hero to all his mates and the press...but as a ex always told the men ..who called her a slag/slut and of course if you don't you are classed as frigid/prick teaser etc etc ..you don't know well enough to call me a slag/slut ..

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

This is a swingers site FFS.

Tell them to mind their own business.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing wrong with it if thats what you want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine by me

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Oh my.... I can think of many a choice word that promotes your sexual outlook and enjoyment than "slag" but overall they're nothing at all wrong with it if your in a safe environment and are happy with your sexual freedom to enjoy more then 1 man at any one time.

Its a sad situation that men feel the need to degrade sexually active women over their choices of fun.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Just look at all the bad press a certain George Michael got when he admitted he loved " COCK " and he loved having " Cock" and quite liked his "Cock" it ok to act sexual ..dress up sexually ...sing about or write about sex ..even read about sex but if you admit to liking sex ...oh jesus ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a nasty piece of work that person is ..

sadly one of many that blight this site

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nothing. But there's something definitely very wrong with a person who is abusive and probably extremely misogynistic.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I hate that there are so many negative words for women who like having sex; while men are still applauded for it.

In this day and age. Really? Pretty depressing.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I love more than one too but would not liked to be called a slag for doing things i enjoy.

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Update. Fab have deleted his profile!! Thank you fab! I was beginning to think they never take any action! But on this occasion it appears they have! I guess he must have been abusing a fair few people!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Update. Fab have deleted his profile!! Thank you fab! I was beginning to think they never take any action! But on this occasion it appears they have! I guess he must have been abusing a fair few people!"

Good news.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

I think as swingers we should reclaim language that non swingers consider derogatory. In mails to prospective hook ups I often refer to myself as a slut.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

My wife has been referred to as a posh slag. We live in a rural area, reasonable standard of living, and we love the total contrast with this way of life. Julies a real flirt and show off, loves the attention and being, and dressing slutty. She is however rather selective too, so I guess shes also a choosy slag ??

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I think as swingers we should reclaim language that non swingers consider derogatory. In mails to prospective hook ups I often refer to myself as a slut. "

Men aren’t usually the target of derogatory words like slut, which are specifically intended to be derogatory towards women, so I’m not sure how far men can reclaim those words really.

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By *ntilogicallyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere between Newport and Cardiff

Slag and slut mean different things to me. I love a good slut, but I'd never use the word slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slag and slut mean different things to me. I love a good slut, but I'd never use the word slag"

What's the difference? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate that word,you do and take whatever you want it's definitely no one's business how you run your life ,

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I suspect it’s only a problem when the “slag” in question doesn’t want the cock of the person throwing the insult. Take as many cocks as you like Dee!!!

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

Men aren’t usually the target of derogatory words like slut, which are specifically intended to be derogatory towards women, so I’m not sure how far men can reclaim those words really."

Perhaps I used have said normalise the word.

If slut is the noun that describes a person who is sexually promiscuous then it can be used for a man of that persuasion. It shouldn't be considered a derogatory term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it’s time we slags take back the term and wear it as a badge of pride, thus rendering it redundant as an insult!

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Once I realised I don’t have to take the word as an insult, it changed my thinking. I just treat it as almost a role term. I don’t mind it being said to me in the middle of a fun meeting

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think as swingers we should reclaim language that non swingers consider derogatory. In mails to prospective hook ups I often refer to myself as a slut. "

Problem with that is we're not monastic. Not all swingers like the word, not all "vanillas" are offended by it.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

got to laugh at muppets sending abusive messages to folks on this website!!! FFS its a "swingers site" if they want a dating site try one of the many lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Slag is a word usually used by men for women who are getting as much sex as he wishes he was.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Perhaps it’s time we slags take back the term and wear it as a badge of pride, thus rendering it redundant as an insult!"

Same kind of nonsense spouted by some black people with regard the n word. You can pretend reclamation all you like, it will still be a derogatory term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still not sure what the difference is between a slut and slag? Xx

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"I'm still not sure what the difference is between a slut and slag? Xx"

I could only find this

Slag is a stony waste material separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ores.

A slut is someone, typically a female, who has many casual sex partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s time we slags take back the term and wear it as a badge of pride, thus rendering it redundant as an insult!

Same kind of nonsense spouted by some black people with regard the n word. You can pretend reclamation all you like, it will still be a derogatory term."

Hey, I’m not saying don’t call people out for using it, but you can choose to change it’s meaning personally. If you’d call me a slag for going on dates with different women (when we could) then I choose not to take offence. I understand and sympathise that it’s unfairly a different situation when people refer to women as slags, simply for enjoying sex (or even less perceived offences in some cases).

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm still not sure what the difference is between a slut and slag? Xx"

Semantics...synonyms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally prefer the terms 'whore' or 'slut' but there's nothing wrong with being any of those things.

To be fair, given the nature of the site,I'm quite surprised at the amount of judgey judgers lurking around here (not pointing fingers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a slut,slag,would love to be one myself.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Nothing wrong with being a slag, slut, promiscuous, etc. It personal choice if you enjoy fucking around, no one else's business xx"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still not sure what the difference is between a slut and slag? Xx

I could only find this

Slag is a stony waste material separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ores.

A slut is someone, typically a female, who has many casual sex partners.

Hmm... I probably identify more with the latter

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't call it being a slag anyway. I call it enjoying sex, and you have every right to enjoy however you like it. If it's all consensual and you are not harming yourself or anybody else, then anybody who has anything derogatory to say about it can piss off. It's none of their damn business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't call it being a slag anyway. I call it enjoying sex, and you have every right to enjoy however you like it. If it's all consensual and you are not harming yourself or anybody else, then anybody who has anything derogatory to say about it can piss off. It's none of their damn business. "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all adults and entitled to screw whoever we choose be that 1, 50 or 500 it's personal choice...

Jees Louise if you're gonna call someone a slag because they like a fuck maybe a swinging site isn't the best place to be looking and he needs to be a bit more original with his outdated insults. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like the word slag. Much prefer slut and there's nothing wrong with being either. In fact i love it when tee is a slut, slag, whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I love that you own the word. It takes away their perceived power. They can't hurt you with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lady friend likes to be slut or a slag ...in fact loves being either

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

If you enjoy the attention of more than one man nothing wrong with it whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is turning into a slut appreciation thread lol

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By *ill RyderMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We love slags, that's what fabs about!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Most probably a sad little twat sitting in his chair watching pornhub wanking his cock that nobody wants. Ignore the idiot. There is use of the word during sex which jenny loves me calling her my cumslut/slag ect. But out of sex she is my lover and best friend. Only in the bedroom do we use those words. But nobody else will ever call her that or id go nuts. Enjoy what you are doing as like my mrs you love your cock

just ignore the sad twats!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"This is turning into a slut appreciation thread lol

xx"

You should amend your age crib you know!

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

I love the fact M wants more than one. Your not a slag just exciting and free. More power to you

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By *lasgowmerchantcityMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Nothing at all it’s a really negatively used term

As opposed to something positive multiple

Cock is good

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

It's the age old double standard adage. Guys can freely stick it anywhere and be a hero, us women want to be free sexually and we're chastised for it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I quite like being called a ‘sissy’ or a ‘nancy boy’ with the right partner and sexual scenario. By several men in a group situation really gets me going and a regular fantasy of mine

However that’s with certain people that are allowed to use those derogatory statements to enhance a sexual fantasy. On here with no communication between us previously, they’re just insulting terms that would get reported and blocked.

So for me derogatory terms that include being called a slag, aren’t for strangers or people who don’t know you or your sexual appetite. I wouldn’t use any derogatory terms unless I know that person and what they do or don’t like, including if they enjoy being called a slag or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the age old double standard adage. Guys can freely stick it anywhere and be a hero, us women want to be free sexually and we're chastised for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always gonna be people who will judge! Own it and effe these people x absolutely nothing wrong with u like it

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By *assage_noirMan
over a year ago

1The Angel

Nothing wrong at all. Guess they just jealous that they probably can't get any pussy

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"Nothing if that's what you want but it won't appeal to everyone. No need for any abuse though."

Perfectly put

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"Slag is a word usually used by men for women who are getting as much sex as he wishes he was. "

true, or other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By *vasexperimentWoman
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I assume she's only a slag because she didn't want his cock in particular?"

This !

I’ve just had a message from a guy calling me a slag lol

Blocked him and he turns up on another messaging the same

Not sure why other than he’s an abusive pig

What a catch !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather call you:---

greedy girl

Horny girl

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I guess it depends on how the word is used.

But for enjoying more than one cock? It was women that enjoyed more than one that started me on the journey. Years ago reading top shelf magazines, and women who played with others with their husbands watching or joining in. Through contact magazines and then the internet I've been lucky enough to meet many that enjoy it. Not sure idy call them slags, unless talking dirty! But certainly nothing wrong with it, if that's how you like to be known!

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing at all, guys get credit for it, so why shouldn’t girls. My ex enjoyed the freedom I encouraged her to have & any future partner can enjoy the same too

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Nothing is wrong with being a slag"
definitely love slags.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

What is the difference between sluts and slags ?

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"What is the difference between sluts and slags ? "

Nothing really. I regularly call Babygirl a slut or slag and often whore.

She really is, it's why I married her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a slag should be encouraged at all times !! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nearly all men are sluts/slags!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

I would say there is nothing wrong with anyone having a healthy libido and pursuing their sexual desires.

It has nothing to do with anyone else."

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By *perfectpair5050Couple
over a year ago

marlbourgh

I married one wouldn’t her any other way she loves it lol

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Ideal girlfriend for a cuckold

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Nothing wrong with being a slag. I’m a massive one! The issue is with the prick that tried to bring you down. Fuck em. xxx

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By *awhWoman
over a year ago

here

Be proud of it, I am

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I was just thinking about this word before i came onto the site!! It was meant to be.

Slag seems to be a harder worder than slut, which, in this world, is a borderline compliment!"

This is my understanding.

Rightly or wrongly my interpretation is a slut is a woman who enjoys sex. Maybe with one man, maybe with multiple men but she does it because it's what she wants.

A slag on the other hand is someone who's troubled. Possibly doesn't have many positive relationships and craves love. Confused, they use sex to get attention. They don't necessarily even enjoy the actual sex, but the perceived connection at the time, only to find they've ultimately been used and gets discarded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gender hypocrisy at its purest...a guy fucks 5 women in a week he is lauded and congratulated for being such a stud.

A woman fucks 5 men in a week she is criticised and castigated..

....

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By *heTallGuy81Man
over a year ago

london

I wouldn’t personally use that term, but the term slut should absolutely not be a pejorative term at all.

To me a slut is simply a woman who chooses to take her sexual pleasure on her terms with whomever and with however many people - one at a time or many at a time.

In fact if us the definition of a liberated woman to me.

Also, I’m actively attracted to sluts. I positively encourage any woman I’m seeing to get as much dick up her as possible. I’m more turned on by that type of girl than any other.

I want my woman to constantly fuck other men. I’ve actually set up a scenario for an ex in the past where we booked a hotel room and lined up a number of friends to arrive and fuck her throughout the day.

I think we got six in total and it was an amazing turn on for me at work knowing my girl was on her back getting railed by different guys all day. She was texting me a running commentary too, as did a couple of the guys when they had finished.

I got to her about an hour after the last guy had fucked her. I specifically asked her not to shower so I could smell the sex on her and her pussy was throbbing. I don’t think I ever fucked her harder.

I want a slut girlfriend all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Slag or slut

Theres a huge difference

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Slag or slut

Theres a huge difference

"
If you love cock your a lovely lady Absolutely gorgeous absolutely think outside the box very lucky men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I would qualify as being a ‘slag.’

The issue is when it’s used in an intentionally derogatory way. Usually because deep down they are resentful or jealous.

Fortunately, the one guy who matters most doesn’t judge me, and everyone else can fuck off if they don’t like it xx"

Love this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Only thing wrong in being a slag is because you are getting more cock and fun than them.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Least you got slag, I got fuckpig before! Delightful!

More annoyingly the wimp blocked me before I could reply thanking him for bestowing his 'amorous' attentions on me

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Surely they're on the wrong site, mustve been a young, we applaud owning your sexuality and being honest. We're grown

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By *uper friendly aviatorMan
over a year ago

Dereham

Sorry to hear you’ve had to put up with abuse like that from one of the sites many troglodytes. Just remember they’re just sad little people that don’t get laid at all and so feel the need to act out when they see others enjoying multiple sexual partners.

Keep doing what makes you happy!

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Nothing if that's what you want but it won't appeal to everyone. No need for any abuse though."

Agreed. People should just move along, and not send abuse if they see/ read something that isn't for them (well unless it's something illegal)

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Surely they're on the wrong site, mustve been a young, we applaud owning your sexuality and being honest. We're grown"

Not sure what they expected to see on a swingers site? I bet he wouldn't have turned down an MFF though!

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Least you got slag, I got fuckpig before! Delightful!

More annoyingly the wimp blocked me before I could reply thanking him for bestowing his 'amorous' attentions on me

Oh wow... What a knob. This guy did the same thing and blocked before we could respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be proud of it, I am

Me too xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It's actually funny that he used it and, thought it would upset you...what a knob

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By *ohn H321Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nothing wrong with it if you enjoy being a slag. It’s his problem not yours.

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Is being a slag worse than the sender of the message who is obviously the following

Sad

Envious

Jealous

Pratt

Stupid

Narrow minded

Confused

Sexless

Burdened

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing , people enjoy what they enjoy. Why even remotely worry or concern what a random stranger thinks on you.

Irony though the person is on a sex / hookup / social site for adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Nothing at all, i love em lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Someone on here refused to meet me when he found out i went to swingers clubs. Shock, horror how dare a swinger do things like that.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

100% right I love more than 1 guy fucking me love being called a slag lol

Guys turn on you soon as you say no but before that they beg you lol.

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Personally I prefer women who love lots of different cocks.

I love slags.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Is being a slag worse than the sender of the message who is obviously the following

Sad

Envious

Jealous

Pratt

Stupid

Narrow minded

Confused

Sexless

Burdened

Etc etc "

Blimey that way too much thought towards a thoughtless person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it is the old 'guys bedding lots of women = STUD' 'Women bedding lots of men = Slag

Women are allowed to be just as sexually busy as men. I say crack on and be equally selfish in satisfying your own desires..

Men have done it for centuries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Promiscuity is a massive turn on......whatever we call it!

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I love sex and I love cock.

Men who don't like the idea of women who do, and resort to childish name calling are not for me.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Absolutely nothing.

Says more about those who use it as a term of abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slags are real fun they know what they want and how to get it...

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Nothing I am one

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Whoever sent message is obviously on the wrong site.

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By *ordo320Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

I’ve always had the desire to be a man slag, unless there is a specific term for that!

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

Man slag a Slug ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always had the desire to be a man slag, unless there is a specific term for that! "

It's very hard for a man robe a slag because it's not as easy to get sex if a women wants sex it's easy but not for a man we have work and gaft hard for it good luck though

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Think they might be on the wrong site if they're getting bent out of shape about a lady enjoying two cocks.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Someone on here refused to meet me when he found out i went to swingers clubs. Shock, horror how dare a swinger do things like that.x"

Hahaha I have heard this before out of others and know of some ladies on here who apparently won't meet people I have, as I host swinging parties in clubs!?

Assume they think I fuck all the customers or something - funny thing is I am the one who rarely ever bloody plays as too busy hosting and making sure my customers have a ball!!

Laughable really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My GF enjoys being called a slag turns her In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Not a TOTAL SLAG !

If you arent a TOTAL SLAG

Its not worth being any kind of slag !!!

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Not a TOTAL SLAG !

If you arent a TOTAL SLAG

Its not worth being any kind of slag !!!

Haha love it!

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By *onochrome2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Someone on here refused to meet me when he found out i went to swingers clubs. Shock, horror how dare a swinger do things like that.x

Hahaha I have heard this before out of others and know of some ladies on here who apparently won't meet people I have, as I host swinging parties in clubs!?

Assume they think I fuck all the customers or something - funny thing is I am the one who rarely ever bloody plays as too busy hosting and making sure my customers have a ball!!

Laughable really!

That is hilarious! Some people don't have a clue!

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I can’t deny that I enjoy more than one cock but I do find the terms slag, slut, whore to be degrading and insulting

Jxx

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Liking more than one cock does not mean you're slag in my opinion. It means you are a liberated highly sexed lady.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Gotta love a message from a happy man on Valentine’s Day , spreading cheer and love as he wombles through fab

There’s nothing wrong with being whatever you want . There is something wrong with cock wombles attempts at insults

It’s why I’m now only here for the forums. Having to deal with utter dicks like this makes my blood boil....

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"Haha so we just got an abusive message about me (Dee) being a slag because I’d like to have more than one cock...

What’s wrong with being a ‘slag’?!

Gotta love a message from a happy man on Valentine’s Day , spreading cheer and love as he wombles through fab

There’s nothing wrong with being whatever you want . There is something wrong with cock wombles attempts at insults

It’s why I’m now only here for the forums. Having to deal with utter dicks like this makes my blood boil...."

Are these guys just dumb, not realising a sex site is the place to be slutty? Or are they just nasty? I guess either is a block! But why they are here I can't imagine? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t deny that I enjoy more than one cock but I do find the terms slag, slut, whore to be degrading and insulting

Jxx"

Being called names by complete strangers seems rude. I don't mind being called a slut by people I know or talking to because it's true. Slag and whore I find degrading, I'm don't mind people thinking of me as one, but I don't like being called it xx

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I can’t deny that I enjoy more than one cock but I do find the terms slag, slut, whore to be degrading and insulting

Jxx

I agree. Hubby calls me his little slut and I’ve been called a slut during play but I don’t like the other words at all xx

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Constantly get called a slag soon as I say no to someone

Doesn’t bother me, we’re on a sex site. The small minded will always get abusive or slate it.

If I’d have said yes though they wouldn’t have minded! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Constantly get called a slag soon as I say no to someone

Doesn’t bother me, we’re on a sex site. The small minded will always get abusive or slate it.

If I’d have said yes though they wouldn’t have minded! Haha "

Ironically saying no makes you less of a slag lol!

Sluts can be selective and have standards and preferences too, just because we have sex with a lot of people doesn't mean we're some sort of free public sex toy! Promiscuous doesn't mean "will shag anyone". A distinction too many men fail to make Xx

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Constantly get called a slag soon as I say no to someone

Doesn’t bother me, we’re on a sex site. The small minded will always get abusive or slate it.

If I’d have said yes though they wouldn’t have minded! Haha

Ironically saying no makes you less of a slag lol!

I know right haha!

My fake profile name has slutty in it too which means I’m not allowed any standards or choice too

haha!

Thankfully the very high majority are lovely on here! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure that everyone is acutely aware of the double standards of a promiscuous man as a “Lad” enjoying the status and acceptance of his contemporaries, whilst a woman is a “slag”, enduring all of the negative connotations that come with it.

Both words are archaic, used only by the people who aren’t aware of the sexual liberation that we all enjoy, these days. Whatever you enjoy doing, sexually, should never be judged, as long as you do it responsibly.

Keep enjoying your sexual freedom, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be what you wanna be as long as you are comfortable with it - let haters pass by without a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its everyone's choice to be who or what they choose. And to behave however they choose and not be judged

I think and this is just my personal thought. Its the feeling of entitlement from some, not all but some men. I think it's just jealousy that they can't have what they think everyone else is having and they can't take rejection.

It's like being back at school and the everyone gets a prize day. I'm sorry the real world doesn't work like that

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