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Cuckold v Stag and Vixen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having read lots of profiles as one does I often see the disclaimer that a couple are not cuckold more in the stag and Vixen category.

Is there a difference in the meaning or intentions or is it just a semantic play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These terms do get conflated, but cuckold can be seen by some to mean there's a degree of humiliation for the hubby. Stag & vixen on the other hand means no humiliation, and hubby is more likely to be an alpha male type. That's how I see it, and s&v is more our style.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These terms do get conflated, but cuckold can be seen by some to mean there's a degree of humiliation for the hubby. Stag & vixen on the other hand means no humiliation, and hubby is more likely to be an alpha male type. That's how I see it, and s&v is more our style."

Perhaps there should be an extra interest added to the check list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps there should be an extra interest added to the check list?"

That would be good, but to be honest I'm not sure it would make much difference. Most ignore interests anyway and just plough ahead contacting anyone and everyone.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"These terms do get conflated, but cuckold can be seen by some to mean there's a degree of humiliation for the hubby. Stag & vixen on the other hand means no humiliation, and hubby is more likely to be an alpha male type. That's how I see it, and s&v is more our style."

We'd agree with that. In some cases, ours for instance, I arrange all our play. If Debs particularly fancies someone she might point them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold usually has an humiliation aspect that doesn't apply to all couples with playful female half's. This can be in the form of "consentual cheating" where she has sex with other men without his knowledge and tells him after, she might deny him sex while she gains statisfation elsewhere, make him feel inadequate, make him watch and offer him emotional abuse (consentually), make him clean her up have other men cum inside her, etc.

Stag and vixen seems to have two interpretations, one where the female plays but with no humiliation to the male, and he might watch her, or join in too. The other is where the male chooses the females sexual partners (with her agreement, different to being a slave), and again might watch and join in.

Hotwives can be in cuck or non cuck relationships, many wrongly assume their partner is always a cuck.

There are also two way open relationships, couples that only meet together, hot husband's, owners, slaves, and so on. The terminology can be a minefield. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps there should be an extra interest added to the check list?

That would be good, but to be honest I'm not sure it would make much difference. Most ignore interests anyway and just plough ahead contacting anyone and everyone. "

Goodness me I always read the interests as if the respondent are into things I am not then why engage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These terms do get conflated, but cuckold can be seen by some to mean there's a degree of humiliation for the hubby. Stag & vixen on the other hand means no humiliation, and hubby is more likely to be an alpha male type. That's how I see it, and s&v is more our style."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're trying to learn about this as we are still new to the scene but its a bit of a minefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuckold is like everything else a wide spectrum ... not all cuckold couples are into humiliation but are still deffo cuckold ... cuckold is a very basic thing really all it means is your wife is fucking someone else so in swinging terms most swingers have a bit of cuckold in there lifestyle ..

stag and vixen comes under the cuckold umbrella

rather than try and work it out why not just go with what you want to do and enjoy plus there are loads of interesting readings on google when you look for them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up on terms again. Too many misinterpretations and false assumptions. I've just said I'm married but playing alone. My relationships are my business xx

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