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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decent guest list for both venues.

Which would you prefer and why??

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Would depend on who else was going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.

Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.

My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.

Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.

My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "

Sorry I know it’s a typo but “horse” parties made me double take and laugh ... thanks great start to my day

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... oh and a club I think - love them

but that’s only because we’ve not been to a house party yet x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Same as above

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I’ll skip the horse party and go for a club please

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By *picMan
over a year ago

Petworth

Prefer house parties to clubs every time, usually a better ratio and not so many people, pretty much always invite only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops"

Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I've never attended a house party, but would love to when the chance arises xxher

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A club because I could just leave with no drama. House parties people are expected to have sex but I’ll not play that game if I don’t want to.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops

Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx"

Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol she does have a horse so poss my phone or fat fingers have the predictive issue

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

We prefer clubs. We can never relax at a house party, the pressure to socialize and have sex with people is too much. In a club you can arrive and leave when you want, go off into a room and not feel your invading someone's home.

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Hmmmm got to be a club first then onto the after party oooooooooo la la ,what a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops

Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx

Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick*"

Neighhhh laddy!

Sounds like a classic pony play event to me!

I have a friend who has a full body latex pony suit, complete with realistic head, hoof boots bridle and tail butt plug!

Sounds just up his street!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I prefer house parties/private events because they are usually invite only and generally just more of a "real" party.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’ve only managed clubs so far but an actual house party is high on our list to try !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops

Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx

Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick*"

It seems the op’s lady does actually have a horse ... ooo can you imagine stronnng thighs - but I’m assured it was a typo

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer house parties/private events because they are usually invite only and generally just more of a "real" party."

Real party like drinks, music and dancing ... plus the possibilities of more because, well, swingers or more formal? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.

Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.

My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "

Never been to a horse party.Sounds very decadent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only go to mansion partys & killing kittens events.

I Cannot abide 'sex clubs' for me and my party partner we've visited many and found the atmosphere a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be the club everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not done house party ..but do love clubs

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

House party.

This country needs a decent luxury club. On my To Do list if we win the lottery.

MsD

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Xstasia or chameleons both brilliant and I live in between both clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club. For no pressure to socialise. Variety of rooms. More space. And reduced clean up requirements after (washing the bed sheets etc)

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Definitely house party more relaxed more fun no pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t mind to finally experience either when everything goes back to normal

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By *indy777Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Only clubs so far. Most of which we’ve loved.

Maybe when we’re allowed out.....

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

A club fir us purely on a safety basis.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’ve never been to a house party but did enjoy going to a club.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

House party especially if all that come are players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As always in life nothing is black and white.

I find house parties are more for getting to know each other where socialising is easier than in a club.

Where in a club there is more room for more folk but the intamact xan be lost.

As always irs not the venue that determines a good evening more the getting together of likeminded fun social people. And the main thought is simply go with the flow and dont preempt that can always lead to disapointment.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We’ve not tried a house party but really enjoyed a club, much more relaxing than we thought it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been to the clubs and private meets but we fully feel the same a party would be so much better. Any invites welcome lol x

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Never been an house party so can’t judge

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.

Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.

My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.

I’ll stick to clubs thank you.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I like both but probably prefer a house party

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Club.

They tend to have more toilets, so no meed for a massive queue when you need a poo.

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

Really enjoy the clubs. Still quite new to this and it seems there's more pressure to play at a house party.

We'll get to one eventually, we just need to be a little braver and get an invite of course

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Club.

They tend to have more toilets, so no meed for a massive queue when you need a poo."

Not something we have ever thought about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops"

Sign us up for that lol

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

house party, we have very little interest in swinger clubs, at least the ones in scotland anyway.

r&s

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"A club because I could just leave with no drama. House parties people are expected to have sex but I’ll not play that game if I don’t want to. "

We host party (when aloud) and never expected enyone to play and lots don't, its never been a problem to anyone

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer a house party. Parties are more intimate and quieter which allows you to engage in good conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been a club but think we will be giving it a try when they reopen x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Decent guest list for both venues.

Which would you prefer and why??"

House/private events by their nature, are always invite only, and speaking as a solo guy, tend to be more welcoming and friendly than the club scene

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

House parties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer a house party though never do a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer a house party though never do a club"

Done not do

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

house party

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

Been to a few of both, house parties can be fun, but clubs have a lot more people

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We prefer clubs. We can never relax at a house party, the pressure to socialize and have sex with people is too much. In a club you can arrive and leave when you want, go off into a room and not feel your invading someone's home. "

This Have also had bad experiences at people's houses when it's turned out their kids were there in bed!

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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago

worcester weekend in exmouth

I would love to go to a house party for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anyone hosting a house party is very brave. Your guests will literally go through your draws lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I think anyone hosting a house party is very brave. Your guests will literally go through your draws lol"

If they are going through your drawers then you need to look at your guest list - I am more interested in getting into peoples pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think anyone hosting a house party is very brave. Your guests will literally go through your draws lol

If they are going through your drawers then you need to look at your guest list - I am more interested in getting into peoples pants "

a-listers only then

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.

Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.

My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.

I’ll stick to clubs thank you. "

was you ever told before you went to house party that would be included?

house party you should be able to leave and do as you please within reason.

first house party wasnt expected to do anything there was no pressure if you wanted to join in or not.

joined in at what I was comfortable at doing not what I was expected to do

been to a few house partys over the years and never have I found them to be that way.

same with the club events as well that ive been too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both....both have their merits....both great fun

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

So far ... after four years pre pandemic ... 100% Clubs. Have yet to venture to house party scene ... not sure if it would be us. Prepared to be convinced, x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far never been to a club, but have been to parties at other peoples houses in past. House parties when done right dont put pressure on people to have sex, it's just relaxed and available if participants are willing. I think I would prefer a house party if I knew some of the people there, but on the flip side, meeting new strangers is still a good way to make friends, and I can appreciate clubs more for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the club scene as not sure what we want to get up to on the night.

However the party scene is great as well but have never felt underpressure to play.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.

Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.

My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.

I’ll stick to clubs thank you.

was you ever told before you went to house party that would be included?

house party you should be able to leave and do as you please within reason.

first house party wasnt expected to do anything there was no pressure if you wanted to join in or not.

joined in at what I was comfortable at doing not what I was expected to do

been to a few house partys over the years and never have I found them to be that way.

same with the club events as well that ive been too."

Nope I wasn’t told before the house party but on the night some guests mentioned it and the host confirmed it. Totally ruined the experience and I did what I wanted and didn’t stay till the end.

Much prefer a club.

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By *ouge and blueCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We've yet to do a house party. Fearful that there'll be an expectation to play even if people say there isn't. Our club experiences have been great though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hosted a house party and did not tell our neighbours (who the misuss invited) that is was a swingers party.

It was a good night and something we will be doing again when lock-down is over.

House party's are better and more intermit, as you can choose who attend, also house party's are free and end when you want, and correct me if I'm wrong but didn't swinging stat with house party's?

With clubs you still get people (mostly men) who feel they can touch any woman they want without asking and some can be very expensive and very clickly but clubs will still have there place and we have had some good times at some.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Probably house party. Can’t resist a house perv

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We hosted a house party and did not tell our neighbours (who the misuss invited) that is was a swingers party.

It was a good night and something we will be doing again when lock-down is over.

House party's are better and more intermit, as you can choose who attend, also house party's are free and end when you want, and correct me if I'm wrong but didn't swinging stat with house party's?

With clubs you still get people (mostly men) who feel they can touch any woman they want without asking and some can be very expensive and very clickly but clubs will still have there place and we have had some good times at some.

"

No men can just touch me without asking in a club. If they try that they get a piece of my mind and are reported to staff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me I think the atmosphere is better, I don’t know, something about the decor and music, lighting and bars available

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house"

You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

House party would win for me. With a well put together guest list you have sexually matched peopke so all are free to enjoy the party to the full.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house

You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave. "

See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house

You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.

See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations. "

The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Never been to either, curious to dip my toe & explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to anything like this before. Anyone point me in the right direction in Scotland? Favour will be returned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !

With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..

Some just come for a social ..others will play..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Clubs for me I think the atmosphere is better, I don’t know, something about the decor and music, lighting and bars available "

Same here. The atmosphere, music, dance floor, playrooms, banter. The whole evening!

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

After thjs covid crap

ANYTHING

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.

Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.

My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "

Horse parties !!

My my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would depend on who else was going"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Clubs for me.

I would consider a house party, as long as I knew all those attending, there were no smokers and that I wouldn't feel pressured to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer clubs. We can never relax at a house party, the pressure to socialize and have sex with people is too much. In a club you can arrive and leave when you want, go off into a room and not feel your invading someone's home. "

This

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

we used to hold many parties at our house and the clearing up after is a right pain ,, so clubs are better or other house parties where we dont have to clear up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think there is much to chose between the 2, ive hosted several house parties, mostly they are social gatherings ... occasionally people go off and play, but that is their choice. Tbf clubs nights for me are the same, social events where some go off and play. in reality its the company that makes the night, not the location, in my view

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We much prefer house parties over clubs.

We find clubs can be very hard to fit in as people have their established little circles.

House parties is completely different

Just our opinion

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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago

worcester weekend in exmouth

I’m interested in house party’s feel more relaxed

But do single males get invites to house party’s

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Hard to call, we have enjoyed both and left early at both so would say down to the guests and how the evening feels, we like to see a guest list so can perhaps chat to those attending before the night, see if there’s a connection, enjoy some lead up banter although we have enjoyed random nights of not knowing anybody until the night. What we have found though the last couple of times we attended a club 3/4 of people were outside in the smoking area and as we don’t smoke it didn’t create such a good atmosphere inside

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We find clubs work for us ... but you need to also set up some contact beforehand to have some single guys and / or a couple or two committed to turn up. House parties are something we will explore with caution. x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

House party for me.

Clubs can be an unknown quantity. With house parties, at least there has been some dialogue beforehand-just to get a vibe of the people attending. Also, the guests are verified.

I’ve witnessed some right head cases in clubs (not involved with me, just witnessing it all going off)!

There’s little vetting for club entrants.

Only my personal experience and does not reflect all clubs (albeit in my limited experience).

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

House parties can be a bit awkward.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have to say clubs purely due to the fact we've never been to a party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !

With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..

Some just come for a social ..others will play.. "

We agree, you know who's attending and how they are, If your at a house party with high expectations to play, your at the wrong house party.

We did go to one house party (the first and last with that host) where the host (male) through that as it was his house, he could touch the other women without asking.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !

With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..

Some just come for a social ..others will play..

We agree, you know who's attending and how they are, If your at a house party with high expectations to play, your at the wrong house party.

We did go to one house party (the first and last with that host) where the host (male) through that as it was his house, he could touch the other women without asking. "

Ooooh not good. Now he would have known about it if he had tried touching me without permission!!!

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By *artyLesbiansCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Ipswich

We have never been to either but it’s definitely something we want to explore when it’s safe! Does anyone ever come across any ff couples at clubs/ parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m interested in house party’s feel more relaxed

But do single males get invites to house party’s

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We usually invite a couple of single guys ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house

You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.

See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations.

The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving. "

We had it the other way where a couple turned up expected to play straight away .. not many did that evening so they left rather abruptly..

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I prefer clubs as there’s a bit more room to spread out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both I’ve been to great house parties and really busy nights at a club I like both aspects going to a club the feeling of actually going out the atmosphere when it’s busy and house parties more relaxed they’ve gone on until the sun comes back up lol both great fun

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never been to any so cant answer x

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Never been to any so cant answer x"

I’ll meet you at quest after lockdown if you fancy?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never been to any so cant answer x

I’ll meet you at quest after lockdown if you fancy?"

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take any kind of party at the moment!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house

You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.

See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations.

The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving. "

We'll put this to the test. Will be interesting to see what anyone will do when we stand our ground. It'll be at the back of our minds but we'll be prepared if a situation occurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have never been to either but it’s definitely something we want to explore when it’s safe! Does anyone ever come across any ff couples at clubs/ parties? "

there are a couple of clubs that have Bi night, but we have not seen a ff night, but there is nothing stopping you from putting on your own ff night at a club or hosting a ff house party.

Our house party's are couples and singles ladies only, for us, we feel is work better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be clubs for us, chilled out, relaxing and absolutely no pressure to play.

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By *exy_mixed_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Clubs all the way. Nice to meet friends old and new as well as enjoy the sauna and cinema at chams.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

It all depends on people who are attending as if people are ready of have fun then location is irrelevant lol

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

Clubs are best, but house parties are fun if there’s a good few couples there and a good atmosphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are great ,we have yet to go to a private party any offers in the pipeline let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way things are going house parties might take off, while awaiting clubs to open.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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In most cases at a house party you know everyone there, You know what's going to happen and get to catch up with friends talking drinking and having a laugh,

9 time out of 10 it would be a party for me but I do enjoy themed party nights or fab socials at clubs

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By *lay PairCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Definitely a good House Party for us xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The venue is secondary to the guest list. If it’s the same people at both then I care little. Xx

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