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By *ixfootinthecity OP   Man
over a year ago

South East

So we all know men can wank over the Littlewoods catalogue of left alone for long enough, but what about the ladies?

Actual porn aside, what amateur man pics ‘n’ vids turn you women on? Or even, dare I say it, are enough to masturbate over?

A muscly torso of the week? Ejaculation videos? The infamous dick pic? A colour-coordinated bookshelf? What gets you off?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

What makes you think we’ve never perved over the lingerie section? Lol

The boring answer is, very little (including actual porn) of a man I don’t already know and like turns me on. From a man I know and fancy, I love and will get turned on by all sorts of pics and videos. From someone I don’t know, I might (might, not guaranteed, don’t want anyone taking it as an invitation to send me anything) appreciate it aesthetically, but it probably won’t turn me on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Visually not much presses my buttons unless it's a real person in front of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching guys play with themselves.

Huge turn on for me.

If I had a cock I'd always be playing with myself.

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By *ixfootinthecity OP   Man
over a year ago

South East

This was my theory.

I think for guys, if they know the person they’re perving on it intensifies it, but it’s not essential. Whereas I get the impression that for women that mental/emotional connection with any image is usually pretty important to be turned on by it.

It’s probably a simple version of the generalisation about women needing an emotional connection to orgasm during sex, no?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"This was my theory.

I think for guys, if they know the person they’re perving on it intensifies it, but it’s not essential. Whereas I get the impression that for women that mental/emotional connection with any image is usually pretty important to be turned on by it.

It’s probably a simple version of the generalisation about women needing an emotional connection to orgasm during sex, no?"

It’s not about an emotional connection for me, and I don’t need that for sex either. If we couldn’t orgasm without an emotional connection with another person, masturbation would be pointless.

For me, it’s more that I get nothing out of an act I’m not involved in (in the case of videos of men masturbating); and photos of penises are generally not very interesting. What makes that kind of photo or video interesting and a turn-on is when it’s from someone I’ve either had (and enjoyed) sex with, or someone I intend to have sex with. It’s not emotions so much as just knowing the person and it not just being a disembodied dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel Cholocate hot chocolate with hot water bottle and PJs.

Sorry #LDHorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This was my theory.

I think for guys, if they know the person they’re perving on it intensifies it, but it’s not essential. Whereas I get the impression that for women that mental/emotional connection with any image is usually pretty important to be turned on by it.

It’s probably a simple version of the generalisation about women needing an emotional connection to orgasm during sex, no?"

I dont need an emotional connection to have an orgasm

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